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darling1 03-03-2004 07:02 PM

Ok Ideal..teehee This Is For You...
 
TO MY GC FAMILY:

Most of you guys know or should know that I was pregnant.

As of 2/28/04 I delivered my daughter at 3:52pm.:D . For the full details, please go to the PRAYER REQUEST THREAD..TEEHEE.

Thanks Nikki for your PM ;).

In case some of you didn't see the HC thread, she is doing better and getting stronger everyday!

:p @IDEAL for tryin' to call a sista out. Love ya girl!!!

Ideal08 03-03-2004 11:34 PM

Re: Ok Ideal..teehee This Is For You...
 
Quote:

Originally posted by darling1
:p @IDEAL for tryin' to call a sista out. Love ya girl!!!
THANK YOU!! This deserves it's own thread!!! That's all I'm sayin'! :p

Again, Congratulations!!!!! :D I can't wait to meet Ava! :)

abaici 03-04-2004 02:43 AM

CONGRATS!!

AKA2D '91 03-04-2004 09:02 AM

Congratulations!

darling1 03-04-2004 09:11 AM

THANK YOU
 
thanks so much!!!

i am so blessed and in awe!

quick update...she is still holding her own. she is able to be bottle fed but she taking her time with it. she was gung-ho at first but then decided to slow it down an bit, so the nursing are combining her feedings between bottle and tube. i am very proud!!


continue to keep us in prayer!!!

toocute 03-04-2004 10:09 AM

Re: Re: Ok Ideal..teehee This Is For You...
 
Quote:

Originally posted by Ideal08
THANK YOU!! This deserves it's own thread!!! That's all I'm sayin'! :p


Of course this needs it's own thread. Shoot....CJ has a thread.
Congrats new mommy!

pointNclick 03-04-2004 12:18 PM

My dahling, darling 1...

Thanks for the constant updates sweets. You know I am going to make my way to you.

Ya'll STAY in my prayers and I know everything will work out.

pNc

evaclear04 03-04-2004 02:04 PM

Congrats!!!!! My prayers are defintely with you!

darling1 03-04-2004 02:07 PM

i've been meaning to pm you...
 
Quote:

Originally posted by evaclear04
Congrats!!!!! My prayers are defintely with you!
girl, i definitely understand what you had been going thru!!


to all: they are transferring my darling ava to a step down unit which is a god thing. she is one step closer to coming home:D .

darling1 03-04-2004 02:09 PM

i love you too girl!!!
 
Quote:

Originally posted by pointNclick
My dahling, darling 1...

Thanks for the constant updates sweets. You know I am going to make my way to you.

Ya'll STAY in my prayers and I know everything will work out.

pNc


thanks girl, you know I UNDERSTAND and i can't wait for you to see her!!

do yo' thang girl and make sure you tell the 'pimp' the news if you haven't sone so already :).

CountryGurl 03-04-2004 02:32 PM

Congratulations! I can't wait to see babydarling1's pics.

Jill1228 03-04-2004 03:58 PM

Congrats to you and the husband! I love the name Ava! I am sending good vibes to y'all!

MaMaBuddha 03-04-2004 10:50 PM

congrats....

do you want an extra one????

it's so hard pottie training!!!!

FeeFee 03-05-2004 10:20 AM

Congrats on the arrival of Little Miss Ava. I really like that name. :D :D

Sister Havana 03-07-2004 11:05 PM

Congrats! Ava is a beautiful name! :)

ykimber 03-07-2004 11:45 PM

Congrats on the new baby!!! You will cherish every moment you spend with her, take it from a new (well kinda) mom. We are less then two months from my daughter turning one and I am still in aw of her.

Sugar_N_Spice 03-10-2004 01:05 AM

Congrats Darling1 on the the birth of your daughter! Love the name!

darling1 03-10-2004 08:45 AM

she's making progress
 
hey all:

i just want to let you know that ava is continuing to improve and has increased her intake of milk. she is still trying to wean off the feeding tube but the doctors are encouraged.

keep her in your prayers and keep hubby and i in your prayers also. this is hard for us because we want her home. some days i find myself getting pretty sad because of it. any encouraging words will be greatly appreciated.

thanks for letting me share......

96sweet 03-10-2004 10:02 AM

It is wonderful that your little one is doing so well!

Congratulations... LOVE the name! Sounds like a supermodel in the making!

evaclear04 03-10-2004 12:47 PM

This helped me....
 
Always remember when God made you He did so with a purpose and a plan. He saw all your days before you lived one of them and placed over you the covering of his protective love. He has allowed nothing to come into your life that hasn't first been screened through that love. His hand has remained upon you to this very day. He calls you by name. You are His beloved child...the apple of His eye... the delight of his heart. Today you are in the exact place He wants you to be , and tomorrow He will be with you as He has always been- in goodness, in kindness, in faithfulness.
He will never give you more than you can handle.
My prayers are with you.

Queencece 03-10-2004 07:08 PM

I know its late, but.....
 
Congrats on the little one! I like the name Ava also. I will keep you and yours in prayer.

Q

darling1 03-16-2004 12:21 PM

update
 
just wanted to let you know that ava is improving. yesterday she went 3 straight feedings by nipple/bottle. this is an improvement from last week when she was getting fed by feeding tube for all but 1-2 feedings in a day.

she has gained weight and if she is able to decrease her feedings by tube and continue to gain weight she can come home. she has passed her other tests and gotten her necessaru shots. she has also droped her umbilical cord and has a cute little innie :).

i am doing better this week. last week was rough because i knew they were pushing my baby and i hated to see her regress. it was difficult for me to effectively articulate my concerns. those of you who know me, know i don't mince words. those of you WHO REALLY KNOW ME know i have a sailor mouth and can get raunchy real quick. i was so upset and confused that i was susceptible to get raunchy and i felt that in the best interest of my girl it would not have been helpful. some people have told me that sometimes you have to get 'loud' to get your point across. i felt at that moment that my child would have been best served with a 'sweeter' tone because these are the same nurses who will care for my child when i am not there. people will be people and acn be prone to be 'less attentive' and i didn't want to risk that.

since last week, i have spoken to the head nurse and the chief of neonatology. in addition, i have befriended 2 nurses who have spent a great deal of time with my daughter and have helped me to gauge ava's growth and keep her on a consistent feeding schedule, watching for different changes. they have also helped me to cope with the pain i feel each day when i leave my daughter. they have been overworked having to deal with an onslaught of babies in the unit. but these women always have a smile on their faces and take extra time to talk with me. for that i am so greatful.

well that is about all for now. i hope that my stories help some of you understand what a first time mom goes thru and a nicu mom goes through as well. i am encouraged daily by your messages past and present especially the ones that talk about their preemie experiences.

i am blessed that my girl has so many cyber aunts and i can't wait for you to see her.

please continue to keep ava and her parents in your prayers. it has been tough for me and hubby but we love each other more and more in spite of the arguments we sometimes have or the endless hours of crying. know that it has been our committment to each other as friends and spouses that helps us to endure this time. also, you can't help but melt when looking at ava's pretty eyes as she explores everything around her.

it is truly awesome, GOD is AWESOME!!

thanks for letting me share. ;)

nikki1920 03-16-2004 12:53 PM

Go on, little Miss Ava!! :)

Thank you for the update, Mommy_of _Ava!! :)

Prayers still going out to you and Daddy_of_Ava and your family. :)

darling1 03-20-2004 04:14 PM

UPDATE
 
MY BABY IS HOME!!!!!

RIGHT NOW SHE IS ON MY SHOULDER.

WILL HAVE PICS UP SOON.

abaici 03-20-2004 04:33 PM

Re: UPDATE
 
Quote:

Originally posted by darling1
MY BABY IS HOME!!!!!

RIGHT NOW SHE IS ON MY SHOULDER.

WILL HAVE PICS UP SOON.


How WONDERFUL!!!!!!!!

pointNclick 03-20-2004 10:26 PM

Re: UPDATE
 
How wonderful! Now I can actually come to visit you at home and see you both.

Way to go girl... what a wonderful mama you are going to be :D


Quote:

Originally posted by darling1
MY BABY IS HOME!!!!!

RIGHT NOW SHE IS ON MY SHOULDER.

WILL HAVE PICS UP SOON.


toocute 03-20-2004 10:50 PM

Re: UPDATE
 
Quote:

Originally posted by darling1
MY BABY IS HOME!!!!!

RIGHT NOW SHE IS ON MY SHOULDER.

WILL HAVE PICS UP SOON.


Oh what a wonderful feeling that must be!!!!!!
YAY AVA!!!!!!

God Bless

Sugar_N_Spice 03-20-2004 11:13 PM

YAY!!!!!!!!!!

I'm SO happy for you!!!! I pray that her health continues to improve...

*P.S. We do wanna see those pics*

Steeltrap 03-21-2004 12:23 PM

Re: UPDATE
 
Quote:

Originally posted by darling1
MY BABY IS HOME!!!!!

RIGHT NOW SHE IS ON MY SHOULDER.

WILL HAVE PICS UP SOON.

That's great news, darling1. :)
And Babyperson darling1, welcome to your home.

Queencece 03-21-2004 03:49 PM

Congrats on the progress. I know you are overjoyed to have the little one home now.

Q

Eastcoast Sunshine 03-21-2004 07:05 PM

Congratulations darling1 !!!!!! Many blessings to you and little Ava:D :D :D

darling1 03-24-2004 07:46 PM

THANKS CT4
 
Here she is!!!!!!


http://pic11.picturetrail.com/VOL368...6/49206545.jpg

Steeltrap 03-24-2004 07:50 PM

Re: THANKS CT4
 
Quote:

Originally posted by darling1
Here she is!!!!!!


http://pic11.picturetrail.com/VOL368...6/49206545.jpg

Babyperson Ava, you're beautiful.
:) :cool:

ykimber 03-24-2004 08:00 PM

She is so cute!!!!!!!!!! Tell Ava baby Kendell says "hey girl"!

darling1 03-24-2004 08:11 PM

Re: Re: THANKS CT4
 
Quote:

Originally posted by Steeltrap
Babyperson Ava, you're beautiful.
:) :cool:


thank you so much!!

darling1 03-24-2004 08:11 PM

teehee
 
Quote:

Originally posted by ykimber
She is so cute!!!!!!!!!! Tell Ava baby Kendell says "hey girl"!
i will!!!!:cool:

1savvydiva 03-24-2004 09:38 PM

She is GOR.GEO.US.!!!!!! :D

abaici 03-25-2004 03:22 AM

Awwww, what a cutie!!!

9dstpm 03-27-2004 04:34 AM

She's so cute!! *throwing a tantrum* I wanna baby, too!!! :p

nikki1920 03-29-2004 05:13 PM

awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww

stop making me want to have another one......

May the Lord watch over her and her parents.... :)

she is a. door. a. ble..


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