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AchtungBaby80 02-22-2004 12:37 AM

I broke up with my boyfriend and...
 
...I feel really terrible about it, even though I know it probably would've happened eventually anyway. He's a bossy person by nature, and I just couldn't take it. It's bad...from the outside, he seems like such a great guy, but...well, I guess Communism looked good on paper, too. :( I'm just sad...I hate breakups.

KillarneyRose 02-22-2004 02:58 AM

I'm sorry, Dana :( It's never easy to decide to end a relationship, but I'm sure you did the right thing for you.

Now would be a great time for you to meet up with every Delta Zeta's favorite men: Ben and Jerry! I'm sure they'd help cheer you up :)

chideltjen 02-22-2004 03:24 AM

Sorry to hear it. :( I was in a relationship with a "bossy" person too. He had his idea of the perfect gf and tried to mold me into it. When I didn't conform, it got messy. He had other issues too.

But bottom line, it's probably better that it's over.
As much as B and J sound tempting, it will all go straight to your thighs. ;) Try buying a new outfit instead. :D

James 02-22-2004 03:44 AM

Bossy lol?

Its always the other person's fault isn't it ;) ?

G8Ralphaxi 02-22-2004 05:24 AM

Re: I broke up with my boyfriend and...
 
Quote:

Originally posted by AchtungBaby80
...well, I guess Communism looked good on paper, too.
Great quote! I'm totally going to steal that one to use in reference to a certain unnamed [not so gentle!] gentleman!

As my best friend always says, as long as you've still got your sense of humor, everything will work out ok.

Best wishes to you. And screw Ben and Jerry's - it's Girl Scout Cookie time! Get yourself a box of Thin Mints, pop 'em in the freezer for a couple hours, and enjoy the SATC finale tomorrow. A little bit of an estrogen superdose, but good therapy.

rainbowbrightCS 02-22-2004 10:03 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by James
Bossy lol?

Its always the other person's fault isn't it ;) ?


Yes it is the other person fault, she broke up with him. Why would she break up with hom if it was her fault????

alikat2 02-22-2004 11:08 AM

I think it's time for some retail therapy. :)

aephi alum 02-22-2004 11:45 AM

Sorry to hear it. :(

Ben and Jerry are your friends. ;)

Take care.

AchtungBaby80 02-23-2004 07:09 PM

Thanks, guys. :) Y'all made me feel a lot better, even though I still feel bad. He wants to get back together and suggested that we take until the end of the week apart, with no contact, to "think things over"...but I know it'd still be the same old fights, and we fought a lot. I hated seeing him hurt, but I'm also relieved...now I can relax instead of being on the road most of the time. :p

AXJules 02-23-2004 07:26 PM

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Originally posted by AchtungBaby80
Thanks, guys. :) Y'all made me feel a lot better, even though I still feel bad. He wants to get back together and suggested that we take until the end of the week apart, with no contact, to "think things over"...but I know it'd still be the same old fights, and we fought a lot. I hated seeing him hurt, but I'm also relieved...now I can relax instead of being on the road most of the time. :p
Just wanted you to know I'll be thinking about you! If it makes you feel any better, your breakup was a lot faster than mine has been (um, 4+ months, anyone??) At least you did it properly....

damasa 02-23-2004 07:38 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by AXJules
Just wanted you to know I'll be thinking about you! If it makes you feel any better, your breakup was a lot faster than mine has been (um, 4+ months, anyone??) At least you did it properly....
You're still hitting it, don't lie.


Go shorty, it's not your birthday but you're gonna hump him like it's your birthday.


=10 points.

Rudey 02-23-2004 07:40 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by damasa
You're still hitting it, don't lie.


Go shorty, it's not your birthday but you're gonna hump him like it's your birthday.


=10 points.

I object because only guys are allowed to hit, bang, or screw.

-Rudey
--Motion granted

AXJules 02-23-2004 07:55 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by damasa
You're still hitting it, don't lie.


Go shorty, it's not your birthday but you're gonna hump him like it's your birthday.


=10 points.

Hey! Make up more shit about me! I keep the 10 points!
/end hijack!

damasa 02-23-2004 07:57 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by AXJules
Hey! Make up more shit about me! I keep the 10 points!
/end hijack!

That's hot.

We should hump (again).

AXJules 02-23-2004 07:58 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by damasa
That's hot.

We should hump (again).

Sicko.
Sorry AchtungBaby!

damasa 02-23-2004 08:01 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by AXJules
Sicko.

You didn't say that when you were trying to send me Naked pictures of yourself over IM.


Anyway, sorry about your break up Achtung but you probably didn't need him anyway. I'm sure you'll find another one in good time.

Rio_Kohitsuji 02-24-2004 11:53 PM

Dana, I'm so sorry hun!! But hey...now I can force you into trying out my boy Josh up here :D C'mon...he's hott...Army Ranger (so ya know he's tight *rorw*), ya know ya wanna..... ;)

AchtungBaby80 02-24-2004 11:57 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by TKE209Sweethrt
Dana, I'm so sorry hun!! But hey...now I can force you into trying out my boy Josh up here :D C'mon...he's hott...Army Ranger (so ya know he's tight *rorw*), ya know ya wanna..... ;)
OK, so he's hott (with 2 T's)...but is he nice? ;)

Rio_Kohitsuji 02-25-2004 11:11 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by AchtungBaby80
OK, so he's hott (with 2 T's)...but is he nice? ;)
Oh, he is one of the sweetest guys ever!! Remember that one situation I was telling you about (via PM)? I came out of a meeting balling my eyes out, he seen that I hid my face from him, he ran to me and talked to me for 45 minutes comforting me! He is such a sweetie and a gentleman!

..and yes, to be truly hott, ya gotta have 2 t's :p

UKDaisy 02-27-2004 03:44 AM

Dana I am so sorry! I hate break ups too! I just got done talking to my ex, b/c he keeps wanting to talk to me again - which is bad b/c I want him back he doesn't want me back. So anytime you feel like eating fatty foods, working out extra hard, or spending money like no tomorrow I'm not too far away!!! Plus, there are always days at the spa - calling Posh salon is a good thing! ;) Take care hun... I'm around if you need someone!!!

AchtungBaby80 03-08-2004 10:14 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by UKDaisy
So anytime you feel like eating fatty foods, working out extra hard, or spending money like no tomorrow I'm not too far away!!! Plus, there are always days at the spa - calling Posh salon is a good thing!
I have been thinking of doing all of the above! :p We've finally quit talking now...we're not going to be friends, so there's really no point. Hey, I think I still have a gift certificate to either Posh or maybe that Rain Spa place laying around...that could come in handy.

Breakups suck no matter how you cut it, don't they? I hope you're doing all right. :)


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