"What A Phi A Can't Get Enough Of...."
 

I remember way back in college (I graduated in '97), we used to have this chant that went like this...
An AKA is.... blah blah
...."what the Q's like, what the Kappa's love, what A Phi A can't get enough of..."

So my question is.... WHICH GREEKS DID YOU DATE IN COLLEGE, AND WHAT WAS YOUR EXPERIENCE?

Me, I was an Equal Opportunity Dater. I dated an Alpha, a Q, a Sigma, and a Kappa. To characterize each:
The Q: OK, I needed therapy after him.
The Sigma: we were friends first and friends afterwards.... a real gentleman.
The Kappa: I dated him in grad school and he treated me better than any man, before or since.
The Alpha: He had it GOIN ON!!!! (You know what I mean!)

(I know you all are thinkin' "what a freak!" Really, I'm not!)

[QUOTE]Originally posted by Convinced:

The Kappa: I dated him in grad school and he treated me better than any man, before or since.

Convinced,

I am glad to read this. I was just called all kinds of names by this sita last week when she found out that I was a Kappa. She was like they messed me up for life. I was like dang, thier greek affiliation had nothing to do with that. They were just f-up brothers. That could go for any Omega, Sigma, or Alpha.

Object of the story, never judge a book by it's cover, no matter how pretty the cover.

MN

P.S. You should have kept the Nupe, and had him work on his skills.

Soror, you are making me think of memories I would rather forget! **AKAtude giggles** I dated an Alpha, a Sigma, and an Omega.

The Alpha Man: He was the silliest; always had jokes. He is the only ex-boyfriend that I still consider a friend, and has never crossed the line. http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/smile.gif

The Sigma "Boy": NO COMMENT! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/rolleyes.gif

The Que "Dog": NO COMMENT! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/mad.gif

The Kappa Gentlemen: Even though I never dated a Kappa, they always treated me like a little sister. http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/smile.gif

I've been in a relationship with an Alpha for 5 years (Beginning of my college career to the end) and we've managed to stay together through all these years. I must say he's truly a gentleman. Of course we have our ups and downs but I Love him.

MsDetroit1920

Kinda having issues with the Que there http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/eek.gif

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Finally the sphinxpoet has come BACK to Greek Chat!

Memories, light the corners of my mind....


Okay,

I dated this Kappa once, and he was good for/at some things, and not so good for/at others. But I will say this, one time I needed him to be down for me, I mean really needed him to be down for me, and he was there. He read the signs and he backed me up all the way. He was basically a good guy and typically showed me the utmost respect. And while I hate to be stereotypical, he did have a bit of an ego problem, though.

I dated this Alpha once. He treated me with the utmost respect, was good to me and looked out for me. He even tried to understand me, and at that time in my life, I didn't even understand why I was doing half of the things I was doing. It's been about 12 years since we've dated, and I've never had one bad thing to say about him, except that maybe he thought he knew everything, but what man doesn't. The Kappa for damn sure thought he knew everything. But I digress, what was the topic again......oh yeah.

My husband is a Mason, and I have to say that he is the best thing that ever happened to me.

Miss. Mocha

I have never dated a man of Omega Psi Phi , BUT------I have dated a Q-DOG
(there's a differnce) and I wish I could have a "do-over". Currently I am dating a Kappa and he treats me very good. But sometimes we have Fights over who is the prettiest(Ha, HA, HA)
Since I'm still in College I have time to view all the Greek Men..

*I Got My Pearls*

[This message has been edited by Ivy leaf_12 (edited April 23, 2001).]

[quote]Originally posted by ManndingoNUPE:

Quote:

Originally posted by Convinced: The Kappa: I dated him in grad school and he treated me better than any man, before or since. Convinced, I am glad to read this. I was just called all kinds of names by this sita last week when she found out that I was a Kappa. She was like they messed me up for life. I was like dang, thier greek affiliation had nothing to do with that. They were just f-up brothers. That could go for any Omega, Sigma, or Alpha. Object of the story, never judge a book by it's cover, no matter how pretty the cover. MN P.S. You should have kept the Nupe, and had him work on his skills.

Oh, his skills were TOP NOTCH. He left for the military and we didn't want a LD relationship.

I agree, Soror!

Alpha- NEVER (no offense) meaning never have...
Sigma- NEVER (no offense) meaning never have...
Kappa- 2 years of "Great Relations" http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/biggrin.gif LOL

[This message has been edited by AKA2D '91 (edited April 23, 2001).]

Ok...what's the difference again? http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/mad.gif

***This is a joke. Please do not attmept to answer this question. AKAtude does know the difference***

I dated an Alpha Man..he treated me like Ms. AmerAKA then and (as my husband) still treats me like Mrs. AmerAKA ...Gotta love him!!!!

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Gamma Nu Omega
Spr2K

What a surprise, I thought that chapter looked familiar...I am from Columbia as well...small world!!!

lolol..soror..i definetely feel u on that there is a difference between a man of Omega and a Q-dog......lol.lol boy does this post bring back some memories....one requires a female to have a bottle of ADVIL MIGRAINE handy...guess which one (the omega or the q-dog)

There is just SOMETHIN' about those NUPES!!

Truly, it takes a very special female to embrace the very essence of MANHOOD and the absolute STRENGTH of PERSEVERANCE I know lies within a MAN of Que Psi Phi!

Why or why do we have to go there with the q-dog epithets...

It takes a STRONG man to embrace true MANHOOD, and the "dog" I knew had a lot of maturing left to do.

I dated a Kappa for about 6 years. He was a dog in high school, a dog before he plegded and a b***ard after he pledged, http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/eek.gif http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/eek.gif but I guess I knew that going in. My bad... http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/redface.gif

However, I met an omega man, that has treated me like the queen that I am from the moment he saw me. We will be getting married soon. http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/biggrin.gif

It is deffinately a plus that you know the difference between the Q-dog and the Omega man.

Congratulations! You found the needle in the haystack!

A little rough on the Omegas AKAtude. Unfortunatly thruth be told all of the Frats have people who are unfaithful and no good.

Sphinxpoet
*Handing SOROR Akatude 20 pink roses with a pearl in the center of each one*

AKATUDE:
Girl, I can tell that you had some issues with a Q DOG and I most definitely know where you are coming from. Imagine the most foul, vulgar man in the world, and you have what I experienced. Rude, nasty, and abusive. And I went through that crap AS A FRESHMAN!!! He used to tell me that if I left him, he was going to call my mother and tell her that I wasn't a virgin anymore. Talk about mindgames!

But, I can't lump him with all Omegas....but he was a true Q DOG!!!!!

Aaaaaahhhhhhh...Thanks, Sphinxpoet. You are soooo sweet. http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/smile.gif

On a serious note, I'm not rough on Omega men, but the Que dogs. One of my future brothers-in-law is a Kappa and he is just as sweet and considerate as can be. The other future-brother-in law is a Que Dog to the core!!!!!

STOP IT!!!!! WTF!!! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/eek.gif



[This message has been edited by Ideal08 (edited April 24, 2001).]

I'm sorry to hear about your experience. Actually, mine wasn't really that bad. We just tried the long distance thing and it just didn't work. He expected me to be at his every beck and call. NOT!!! The interstate goes both ways, and he couldn't grasp that concept, among other things.

By the way, Soror Convinced I'm sending you an e-mail.

[This message has been edited by AKAtude (edited April 24, 2001).]

My 1st semester in college I dated an Alpha (i was 18 he was 24)
I thought he could walk on water... Until I had the flu
He was stepping at some function and wanted me there. I explained that i was sick and he made it clear if i didn't show there would be no us ( remember I was young). So i got there and he took one look at me and told me "you look like hell, i cannot be seen with you" I was devated and then to top it off he told me that he had a long term g-friend that he proposed to..
I was devasted..
But there was this one Que that took me out wined and dined me and loved me to death
Last year when he found out I was married he looked so sad ( he could always make me feel good)

Then there are those NUPES they always were such players but I loved hear the lines they came up with..

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IVY in my HAND-- AKA in my HEART

[This message has been edited by loviest95 (edited April 24, 2001).]

I'm an equal opportunity dater...

Because of my heritage, Alpha men are the ones to care for me... http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/cool.gif

Kappas have always been gentlemen, but do love to play... http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/tongue.gif

Ques can be rough, but always keep it bumpin'... "Ain't nuthin' wrong, wit a lil bump and grind..." http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/eek.gif

Sigmas are large in many ways... http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/wink.gif

Although I have never dated an Iota, I've heard they are rather "FRISKY"??? http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/biggrin.gif

So, all my men are wonderful--'mos definitely the deep dark chocolate ones... I cain't hep myself...

Girl, the two of us could have KICKED IT in college... we think alike!
P.S. I am much more tame now in my old age of 26!

ALPHA-know how to treat you, but sneaky!!

KAPPA-Clean-cut, gentle, great....but,too pretty!

QUE-????....Dogs, but smart and ambitious

SIGMA...Well, a very diverse group of men!!! You probably can land one good one!! They have too many kids!!

Greek letters or not as long as he is tall, dark, hadsome, spiritual and smart!! Not in that order, neccessarily.....

I just want to say, the Ques are not bad guys. We are just entusiastic and real. The type of woman a Que is a woman that is real to herself first of all, real and a leader when with her peers, real in society, etc... We just look for real women. Most women think they are real but I beg to differ. I've been with my girl for 3 years and I love her very much. We have great times as well as bad but we keep it real. She's my friend. See one thing these other guys be on and I can only speak for myself. If you are diggin' someone don't start off with that smoovie doovie bull most of these b*****d be on. Be yourself. That is what these others do then the groove of you and he get messed up cause you weren't real. See the....( you are going to have to excuse me this fat white lady couldn't say excuse me and put here fat ass on my shoulder: I'm had to talk funky to her ass... but I'm back)> Like I was saying, see the problem is not the Ques its the way you perceive things. Most people want to play the role of GOD and say I want you to be this way or that way, it ain't going to happen. What happen to the unconditional love? One thing I can agree with is that we are men before we pledge and after. I you were a weak sensitive b*****d before you joined an organization, you are going to be that same b*****d. Most women like men they can control, push their button and say move robot. Most men are so happy to be getting some for the first that they don't know what they are suppose to do. I heard a saying " That women like to want a man to want them", I heard this on TV from a therapists-meaning if the man don't think intuitively that he is sucka butt jones. The women is going to point out his down falls in society- not bad ones but the ones men forget and the ones women pay attention to. But on e thing I got to say " Is what in the hell is A phi A doing making a topic like this. You all are some funny Muthas. Get your thumb out your butt man, You are not going to change your ways overnight man. Serenity_24 keep on loving that Que cause I know he loves you very much cause I love my girl.

Uuuuuhhhhh...my Soror Convinced began this thread.

Also, are you referring to the same girl that lives 250 miles away from you? Well, I'm glad you understand that the interstate goes both ways (please refer to one of my earlier posts to understand that one.

So, does this mean you are still with your girlfriend that lives 250 miles away, or have you moved on that quickly? I thought you said she kicked you to the curb or have y'all gotten the relationship back on track? We know you are a sentimental kind of guy and all. http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/rolleyes.gif

only one, It was me. But a little flattery is not bad. Thanks

Uuuuhhhmmmm...just for the record, I referred
my ex-boyfriend that is a member of Omega Psi Phi as a "dog" because he was at the time. He just happened to be a member of that particular frat.

OK everyone.....let us keep perspective. I once again will state I know in all Frats there are "Dogs". A lot of Omega Men are offended by the Dog Comment for like Soror Akatude said when referring to a "Dog" please refer to a speific person or incident if ther person you were dating was a Brother of Omega Psi Phi and he had "Doggish" behavior during the relationship then refer to him as a "dog". If he was a Brother of Alpha Phi Alpha refer to him as a "Funky Moneky" http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/smile.gif But most importantly let us not make this discussion personal(not saying that it has) let us keep our good behavior in Greekdom because we are showing how petty we can be to non Greeks when they see stuff like this.

Getting of the Soapbox and Putting his Black and Olde Gold on
The Sphinxpoet

First, before you respond to a thread, you need to make sure that you understand it. Why would you inquire as to why an A Phi A posted this thread when I clearly went through and listed all the male Greeks that I had dated?
Then, you have the nerve to try and get an attitude with my soror for expressing an opinion about ONE Omega she dated that SHE regarded as a dog. The one I dated was a
dog, too. The thread did not ask "what is your personal definition of the following Greeks..." It said "which Greeks have you dated, and what was your experience." If you just want to post and see your name in print, read the thread and the responses before you start rambling.

I don't believe I made a direct reference to you; however comments like

"Congratulations! You found the needle in the haystack!"

only negate the statement that you're referencing the experience with only one person. It comes across as though there are only a few good men of Omega Psi Phi. Sorry, I disagree.

My intentions were not to make this personal. My observations within this forum and others have been a collective negative stereotyping of the men of Omega Psi Phi.

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"Unless you know the road you've come down, you cannot know where you are going"
~Temme proverb, Sierre Leone~

[This message has been edited by jazbri (edited April 25, 2001).]

Jazbri,

Obviously you don't get my sarcasm. http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/rolleyes.gif The question was in reference to people we have dated. I answered that question reflecting my own personal experience. Sorry you were offended. http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/rolleyes.gif I'll know better next time.

Anyway, back to the original topic of discussion, please. We can't make too many jokes around here for fear of offending the sensitive folks!

Thank you Sphinxpoet for understanding my comments! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/smile.gif

[This message has been edited by AKAtude (edited April 25, 2001).]

I'm going to say this and really leave it alone out of respect for your forum. I know how completely and wholeheartedly you take your sorority to heart. You definitely should. I simply think that others feel the same way.

If men were to make the same comments about your organization as a whole, you would feel obligated to comment.

I'm not overly sensitive, I just think that you would pull up anyone who made negative derogatory (?sp) COLLECTIVE comments about your sorority. I'm simply returning the favor.

By all means, the ORIGINAL topic at hand was your experience with individual members of a frat. I think the jokes and the sarcasm is what takes it beyond the original plane.

Now, in sisterly love, my intention is not to put nobody's panties in a bunch, so I'll leave this topic alone.

Usually, I don't say nothing but today I felt the urge. http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/biggrin.gif

http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/rolleyes.gif

On a Side note today my line "Five Sons of the Great Pharaohs" came into the light of Alpha Phi Alpha Fraternity INCCCCCCCCCORRRPORATED!!!!!!!!!!!!! on April 25th 1998! I am 3 years old! Shouts to my LB's II the Extreme, Showtime, Speedy and Laissez-Faire!

The Sphinxpoet
And the Millions and Millions of his fans!

Happy Alphaversary!!!!!! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/biggrin.gif