Guys help!!
 

Calm down hunny. Close your eyes. Count to ten. Get a drink of water. Take a long breath. It's going to be alright.

And say what? I think that's a bad idea, if anything, it might only freak him out more. I think you need to talk to your sisters to let them know how you feel and that you appreciate their concern but they need to take a step back.

Ok well in that case hunny, I'm sorry to say but he most likely finds it annoying because I'm a nice girl and not a guy and if I were hooking up with someone and had to deal with his fraternity brothers "warning me" I wouldn't be the happiest camper out there.

It's concern. At least for me, if I keep hooking up with the same person, as much as I might not want it to, I begin to feel attatched. Then crushed when they don't want to do anything with me but hook up. So I would say watch out, because just a hook-up to him won't mean anything, but for you, I highly suspect that it will. Be thankful that your sisters are there for you so you don't get hurt!!

If the both of you are just looking for sex and you know where ach other stands, and you're 100% cool with the situation you need to tell your sisters that you appreciate your concern, but there's nothing going on between us and we're just having a good time. Hopefully they will back off.
But it seems to me that you don't know where he stands and you're not 100% cool with this situation and your sisters realize this and are just looking out for you. They don't want to see you get hurt.
I definitly think you should talk to him, find out what he's looking for. If it's not something you want or are uncomfortable with. GET OUT!! I can't stress that enough. You're only going to wind up hurt.

I would think it was more than a hook-up to you and I would not be a totally happy camper that you are discussing my sex life with your sisters.

WHY ARE YOU FOOLING AROUND WITH THIS DIRTY BASTARD!!!

He may be a dirty bastard but hey, at least he's her dirty bastard. LOL, sorry Caryn, couldn't resist.

Sweetie, be careful you don't get an STD from him...hes probably swarmy with them!!

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Rachel,
I strongly suggest you don't talk about people you don't know. He is far from dirty, and doesn't have any STD's.
DO NOT TALK ABOUT PEOPLE IF YOU DON'T KNOW THEM!




Daisy, he isn't mine! *Even though some of the sisters don't understand that one!*

If he is an Ol' Dirty Bastard just make sure to keep the relationship alive by visiting him in jail...

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sorry if I offended you!! I just couldn't believe someone would have sex in front of someone else!!!

***Ok this is kind of long, I'm sorry***

Ok well I went through this same kind of situation this semester. I began hooking up with a guy I had liked since the very first semester here at school, so that's two looooooong years.

We hooked up for months, and my sisters HATED him, they'd talk to him at bars and stuff and he was just always a complete ass to them, and he was to me too. So I guess in that respect our situations are different. The thing is, I thought I was ok with whatever happening as long as I knew that at the end of the night, I was the girl in his bed. I know that sounds AWFUL, but I really thought it was ok and it could work out that way. Boy was I WRONG!!! He told me he didn't want a relationship w/me and basically told me he was just using me, and I didn't really understand that b/c it's not like we ever had sex or anything, but whatever! He took up so much of my time though and just drained my emotions. There are few feelings in the worls that are worse than caring about someone SOOOO much and not having them care about you. It SUCKS. :(

Lucky for me my ex boyfriend came back into the picture, and I still cared about him a WHOLE lot. We worked stuff out and now we are back together so that gave me an excuse to stop seeing this guy and ultimately realize that he didn't treat me with respect or anything and I wasted a lot of my time on him.

Now that I have a boyfriend though this guy has gone completely psycho and calls me/text messages me at LEAST 4 times a day, every day. So yea, it seems like guys like this don't necessarily want you but they don't want anyone else to have you either.

If I were you, if even just one teeny tiny part of your heart is having doubts about this, PLEASE get out of the situation before it's too late. This semester has been a living hell for me and I wouldn't want anyone to have to go though that if it could be avoided. Good luck, let us know what happens. :)

I just want to echo FAB's advice!! I've definitely been there done that as well, I'd hook up with him all the time, he would make promises to me that we were going to go out and stand me up, make more plans then not answer his phone when I called. It became a huge game with him. He'd say how cute we were together, how much he cared about me, do sweet things for me, then he would ignore me. Even after I moved back to az, the games continued, I'd go out to LA, he'd be sweet, buy me dinner, I'd hook up with him, then he wouldn't answer his phone. But he'd call me drunk a week later. All I have to say is really, really be careful. Hooking up with someone repeatedly who doesnt really truly care all about you (even though he may act like it sometimes) can really hurt because even as much as you don't want to, you develop a bond together, get used to being able to hook up with him, and it feels normal. And I really start to care about him because of ALL THE TIME we've spent together. I know you don't think it's going to happen to you, but BE CAREFUL!!!! Even when you don't think you care, you often, subconciouslly, do care. If you have any doubts, do yourself a huge favor and STOP!! My head is still spinning from all the deceit and confusion, and although I know it's going to hurt me soooo much, next time I go back to cali, there's a definite chance that I'm going to be hooking up with him again (hopefully my friends won't let me!)