Cheat anyone?
 

Hello my fellow GCers. Ok Have any of ya'll ever cheated on your significant other? How did you feel about it afterward? Did you tell your sig. other what you did? Did ya'll break up as a result of it?

i am proud to say that i am very committed to my relationship. i would never cheat on him for anyone. the time that i actually 'cheated' was on my last bf. he was very abusive and just horrible. two weeks before i broke with him, i started seeing my current bf. and i am not ashamed of it. that is minimal compared to what he really deserved.:mad:

I've never cheated on anyone, nor will I ever. I think it is stupid, lame, and extremely immature, IMO.

I've never cheated and never will.

OK, guess I'll be the first devil to admit to it...I've done it to one boyfriend. It was a kiss and not sex, but I still felt like a total weasel for months afterwards until I couldn't take it anymore so I confessed. (I know it was just a kiss, but the boyfriend in question was so paranoid about me cheating anyway since we were at different schools that it just killed me.) We didn't break up, which I was glad of at the time but now I sort of wonder...was he really that forgiving or was he guilty of the same and just didn't admit to it? :p

Never cheated...

I've never cheated, and never, ever will.

I've never cheated, but I helped someone else cheat, and I've been cheated on. It's true what they say about karma. ;)

Re: Cheat anyone?
 

My ex-

1. All the time
2. Schit didn't phaze me
3. Told her about every time
4. It was after we broke up



( I havent cheated in over a yr.)

I used to be a "cheater" but I don't believe that old adage, "Once a cheater, always a cheater." I finally realized that what I was doing was really hurting people that I loved, and I really regret what I've done in the past. I can't erase what I've already done, but I CAN promise myself that I'll never, ever, ever cheat again. It's just not worth it!

My last boyfriend cheated on me so I would never cheat. Cheating hurts worse than anything. If you don't want just one person then tell them or just break it off

Me too.

i agree.

i've never cheated and never will no matter what the temptation

EXACTLY!!!!!!!!!! I've been saying that for years and people look at me like "well you dont know how it is..." What a lameass line........I've just never understood the concept of cheating.......

Once a cheater always a cheater probably is true.

It means you are a situational cheater. You won't cheat unless . . . you get bored or things go wrong or its a similar situation that inspired you to cheat before especially if you didn't get caught.

And this is why I don't like committed relationships lol:)

Never have, never will.

Nope, never cheated...had the opportunity to but never did. It broke my heart when my ex cheated and didn't have the balls to tell me!

My husband's ex wife cheated on him for years before he dumped his azz!

So we are SO not into cheating

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Yeah, I've cheated in the past. Nothing that I've ever actually sought out and persued....it just sort of happened.

Have I cheated?
All the time.
:cool:

and AlphaPhiBubbles took those words out of my mouth

I have never cheated on any of my boyfriends.

What she said.

I don't regret it at all because it ended up not working out anyway. After a while, I stopped caring when the relationship became stagnant. Come to find out the asshole slept with 5 other chicks even before I cheated on him.

It's not as if I planned to cheat. I was once one of those "never cheated...never will". Unless you have psychic abilities, you won't ever know if you will actually "never cheat".

I don't think I'm a bad person because of it, and I don't think others should judge me because of it as well.

That being said, and taking into consideration all the FUN I've been having these past few years, I have a feeling it'll be a long time before I find myself in a committed relationship again.

Never cheated, but I have been cheated on.

With my last boyfriend, he cheated on me NUMEROUS times...I still wish I would have cheated on him when I had the chance once he "came back" and was good for a week. Heh.

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No I've never cheated. I Never will. I've been cheated on though. I was with this girl from Cincinatti, OH. and everything seemed cool at school, but when I went back to Minnesota for the summer, things started to change. I hadn't heard from her all summer, so I dumped her when I got back to school. Eventually, she called her mom, and her mom came up to the school to try to get me to go back with her daughter, but I suspected something, so I said no. Well later on, her best friend told me everything that she had been doing while we were togehter. I wasn't surprised because my fraternity brothers kept telling me she wasn't any good. I was glad to be out of that one. Like they always say, Ya can't trust a big butt and a smile.:p

I still wouldn't cheat if I was in a committed relationship though.

Never have.
And I have twice been in situations that I could have very easily caused a person to cheat (one on her boyfriend, the other one on her husband)

The good angle on my shoulder stopped me.
However, to this day, the devil on my other shoulder does ask me why?:o :confused: :eek: :)

I have never cheated and I never will, but I did once date someone who was cheating.

I'm also of the opinion that the old adage "Once a cheater, always a cheater" is not true.

I cheated in a previous relationship...and vowed to never do it again. I still feel guilty over it. Recently I was on the other end of the relationship and was cheated on...again, I know that never again will I do that to someone.

My feeling is that if you don't care/love someone enough to stay committed/faithful then it's not even worth being in a relationship with that person. Ending it will be better for both of you.

I also have no respect for anyone that knowingly is with someone that is in a relationship. Especially the people that actively pursue someone that they know is in a relationship. Karma is a bitch and it will come back.

This past November the boyfriend I had previous to this one decided he was going to go visit his ex in Colorado, who he had described as psycho, unbalanced, etc. What I found out was that they were actually engaged, and he was cheating on her with me.
She and I figured out what was going on, he was confronted, everything came out in the open, and they got married this past Sunday.
I'm glad she's stuck with him and not me.

I've never cheated - forgetting any moral judgement/relationship issues, I simply wouldn't be able to keep names straight. I don't have the energy.

I think the "Once a cheater..." adage is dependent on the circumstances. I do think one can learn from their mistakes. I haven't cheated but I was, unknowingly, "the other woman". In fact, it turned out the psycho ex he always complained about was actually his current fiance. After I found out I didn't see him in that way anymore, but we remained friends, which is when I learned that he had 15 or 16 "other women" throughout his relationship with Debbie and was a total slime bucket. At that point, I stopped all communication, even as friends. That kind of guy will never stop cheating...

No, I would never do that. Even if my SO did it to me(it has happened before), I just can't picture myself being unfaithful. It's just not in me. I don't understand why people do it anyway. What's the point? A lot of people I know think its cute, and quite frankly, its just asinine. If you don't want to be with that person, just say so. I mean,damn.

How can anyone think it is cute to cheat?

Were they molested as children or something...

Yeah, I'd like to actually hear someone say "oh cheating is adorable, I do it all the time." I don't know of anyone who thinks cheating is cute.

Cheating is for immature jerks. Be up front about your non-monogamy and give people the option of putting up with it or walking away.

"...tempted by the fruit of anooother...tempted but the truth is discoooovered..."