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absolutuscchick 11-29-2003 03:08 PM

What are your turn-OFFs?
 
(1) rude
(2)MATERIALISTIC
(3) ignorant
(4) excess body hair

Buttonz 11-29-2003 04:19 PM

A guy who is shorter then me
Bad hair
Materialistic
Just looking to get into my pants
Show off in front of his friends and treats me diffrently in front of them

Edited to add:
Smoking....ugh! I can't stand it! If a guy smokes he better be carrying around gum/breathmints etc if he thinks he is gonna be kissing me!!

*Is it that bad that the guy I am hooking up with right now has two of these things that I mentioned?*

ThetaPrincess24 11-29-2003 05:52 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Buttonz
A guy who is shorter then me
Bad hair
Materialistic
Just looking to get into my pants
Show off in front of his friends and treats me diffrently in front of them


All of those thigns are turn offs for me too along with :

Smoking
The need to drink each and everytime we go out
Hairy backs
Hairy Asses
Hairy necks
Unshaved/unclipped genital area
General Rudeness/Shitty attitude
Living with parents (in addition to not paying rent, and having momma do their laundry)
Inability to keep it up
Inadequate penis size (I cant deny it but it's true!)

33girl 11-29-2003 07:20 PM

Stupidity
Bad spelling/language skills in general
Rude or mean
Lectures me about my smoking/drinking/general vice

MeLikey 11-29-2003 09:38 PM

acne
being close-minded
poor grammar and spelling
smoking
being inconsiderate
being unintelligent
being mean-spirited
being materialistic

Rio_Kohitsuji 11-29-2003 09:56 PM

1. Ignorant
2. If they are more hairless than I am :p
3. Puny-teeny-tiny guys *ick*
4. Dr. Jeckel/Mr.Hyde personality

Munchkin03 11-29-2003 10:00 PM

1. Misogyny
2. Materialism
3. Cockiness
4. Being large when you're not an athlete.
5. Short stature. There's only room for one shorty in this house!
6. Bigotry
7. Immaturity. I'm your lover, not your mama.
8. Not into art or music.
9. Big noses.

ZTAngel 11-29-2003 10:07 PM

BAD BREATH

I don't think there's one thing that is a bigger turn-off than this for me.

Dionysus 11-29-2003 10:09 PM

Pretty much what has been already mentioned.

Plus:
Any guy who is inspired to become an entertainer, ball player, or a small business owner instead of trying to get a "normal" job. In other words financial stability is pretty important to me. Chances are small that they'll make it.

Cluey 11-29-2003 11:34 PM

I agree with everything already mentioned, but I have another...

I don't like it when a guy smells like he sprayed half of his bottle of cologne on before he left the house. There's no reason that the people 20 feet away from you should have to smell you.

Igh.

FAB*SpiceySpice 11-30-2003 12:33 AM

I agree with everything yall have already posted!!!

Also:

-Bad teeth (yellowish, crooked, etc)
-Stuck up
-Unmotivated
-Egotistical
-No sense of humor
-Long nose hair...wtf dudes, seriously isn't it common knowledge that hair should not be protruding from one's nose?! :confused: :rolleyes: I just don't get how this happens, clip the nose hair guys!!!!! :mad:

xok85xo 11-30-2003 02:53 AM

poor table manners

ThetaPrincess24 11-30-2003 03:12 AM

Yes! I dont like it when guys sit down at the table with their hats on.........or put their cell phones on the table and answer it while eating(though i've seen women do this too so i have to be fair here) that's just rude!

tunatartare 11-30-2003 03:20 AM

* smoking
* arrogance
* ignorance
* narrow- mindedness
* poor spelling/grammar
* chest hair (excess hair in general is gross but chest hair especially)

PM_Mama00 11-30-2003 12:17 PM

Bad teeth--- A guy can be gorgeous but if he has bad teeth.. pass

Large Crooked nose--- I understand you may have broken it, but there's surgery for that

Dirty ears--- yes we can see the crap in there

Bad breath-- no explanation needed

Smelly Junk--- find Lifesaver's thread on junk smelling

Bad hair--- if ur gona keep it long, shampoo and condition... and most of all BRUSH

Super anorexic crackhead skinny--- my ex was... but he was also a crackhead literally

APhiRattlerGal 11-30-2003 04:10 PM

1. No sense of humor
2. I hate to say it but i'm sure every girl will agree....Small package. Does that make me a bad person to think that? Eeek...i hope not

PhiPsiRuss 11-30-2003 04:21 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by APhiRattlerGal
1. No sense of humor
2. I hate to say it but i'm sure every girl will agree....Small package. Does that make me a bad person to think that? Eeek...i hope not

Define "small package", and does the differential between "cold water" size and "excited" size matter?

librasoul22 11-30-2003 05:16 PM

- Unjustified arrogance...if the guy is really hot, arrogance is okay with me. If he is not, then that is a travesty.

- Body hair.

- Bad breath/body odor.

- Lack of ambition.

- No interest in music or arts.

- No source of income. And I don't mean the guy has to be rich by any means, but at least have money coming in from somewhere

cashmoney 11-30-2003 07:37 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by ZTAngel
BAD BREATH

I don't think there's one thing that is a bigger turn-off than this for me.


I feel you on that one, I'm that guy that'll tell a girl when her breath stinks and offer a piece of gum.:D

OUlioness01 11-30-2003 11:42 PM

body hair
smoking
no sense of humor
self-absorbed
clingy
just wanting to get some
being convinced he's always right

just for the record, i have actually dumped guys for a lot of these..particularly the clingy one

APhiRattlerGal 12-01-2003 03:26 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by russellwarshay
Define "small package", and does the differential between "cold water" size and "excited" size matter?

"Small Package" was referred to as smaller than average. And I meant it at "excited" size. :)

DZHBrown 12-01-2003 01:56 PM

Someone who is shallow/superficial
Egotistical guys
Bad teeth
Bad hygiene
Ignorance
Bad temper

Hootie 12-02-2003 12:53 PM

Guys who are cocky, rude, crude, and mean (there is a difference in joking around and actually BEING the above things).

Guys who don't get along with their family - especially their mothers.

Guys who expect me to do everything for them (I'm sorry, but I'm not your mother and nor do you want me to become one). ;)

Guys who don't listen to my needs and wants, or pretend to and blow them off.

Guys who play mind games - being straight forward is best.

Guys who are not motivated in life - don't bum off of me; I've learned my lesson before!

Guys who treat their girlfriends differently when they're around their friends.

Rudey 12-02-2003 02:16 PM

Girls who are ugly, have no money/solid job prospects/future, went to bad schools/are dumb, have no personality, and dress in ugly clothing (cheap jeans).

-Rudey

AXJules 12-02-2003 03:00 PM

1. undeserved cockiness (um you're 5'6, kinda chubby and B-O-R-I-N-G...don't tell me you "know you're a good looking guy")
2. drinks enormous amounts all the time
3. is unfriendly to my friends for no reason

MareImbrium 12-03-2003 03:02 AM

1. arrogance/cockiness
2. bad manners
3. unmotivated and lacks ambition/laziness
4. being pessimistic ALL THE TIME
5. boring/lacks personality
6. telling me that I need to actually be a girl (wearing makeup, jewelry, dresses) - I hardly do any of those things...well just once in a while but it wasn't enough

7. someone who is only going out with me for my looks wanting to show me off as if I were some doll

8. trying to change me into someone I'm not, unless it were to better myself into becoming a better person and enhancing the talents & qualities I might possess

9. not appreciating whatever time we might have together

And whoever mentioned the fact that you're actually dating someone who possess a few of the qualities that are a turn off, it's ok. It just means you have a good heart and hope for the person and are willing to put up with it. That's my thought anyway.

FAB*SpiceySpice 12-03-2003 07:59 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by AXJules
1. undeserved cockiness (um you're 5'6, kinda chubby and B-O-R-I-N-G...don't tell me you "know you're a good looking guy")
2. drinks enormous amounts all the time
3. is unfriendly to my friends for no reason

Man...sadly that sounds like the majority of the male population here in Columbia. :(

AXJules 12-03-2003 10:52 PM

No joke....I am not impressed :rolleyes:

GeekyPenguin 12-03-2003 11:14 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Rudey
Girls who are ugly, have no money/solid job prospects/future, went to bad schools/are dumb, have no personality, and dress in ugly clothing (cheap jeans).

-Rudey

Replace this with boys.

Also:

-Body hair
-An improperly wrapped package ;)
-Bad teeth
-Smoking
-Republicans

PhiPsiRuss 12-03-2003 11:19 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by GeekyPenguin
Replace this with boys.

Also:

-Body hair
-An improperly wrapped package ;)
-Bad teeth
-Smoking
-Republicans

what the hell is an improperly wrapped package?

GeekyPenguin 12-03-2003 11:48 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by russellwarshay
what the hell is an improperly wrapped package?
A package that is not well groomed. ;)

ThetaPrincess24 12-10-2003 01:28 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Hootie
SUPID BOYS who mess with your mind and then tell you they're back together with their ex-girlfriends (and want to use your discount for an engagement ring). POS!

Whut?!?!?!?!?!? That's just INSANE!!!!!!!!! Hope you kicked his ass out of the store with a lifetime ban (atleast for a long as you work there!) :)

absolutuscchick 12-10-2003 01:30 PM

I know I said it before, but lets repeat...ANY body hair!!

ThetaPrincess24 12-10-2003 01:33 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by absolutuscchick
I know I said it before, but lets repeat...ANY body hair!!

Back hair, ass hair, excessive chest hair, and an untrimmed genital area is just nasty.......I cant ever deny that one......

ThetaPrincess24 12-10-2003 04:51 PM

I think I'll add drooling while sleeping to my list........

HotDamnImAPhiMu 12-10-2003 07:35 PM

begins/ends statements with "My exgirlfriend....."

decadence 12-10-2003 07:52 PM

It's highly possible I don't, guess I'll never know unless I ask someone
 
Quote:

Originally posted by ThetaPrincess24: I think I'll add drooling while sleeping to my list........
http://www.sincitysaintrescue.org/sgdrtowl.jpg

:D Heh heh.

absolutuscchick 12-11-2003 12:52 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by ThetaPrincess24
Back hair, ass hair, excessive chest hair, and an untrimmed genital area is just nasty.......I cant ever deny that one......
just shave it all!!!!!!

absolutuscchick 12-11-2003 02:43 PM

huh? hair is just plain gross.

GeekyPenguin 12-11-2003 03:07 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by decadence
Trying to get head round this:
Okay wouldn't you just think when you were confronted by a non au-naturel pubic region that you felt repelled by his narcissism and freakazoid-ness?!! :eek:

This is sort of like a Logic Game from the LSAT!

Are you asking if I would think he's cocky and a freak if he did shave?

That answer is no. I'd just think he got around enough to know. :p


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