Skinny Guys and Not-so-skinny girls
 

OK seriously, I'm not making any comments on this lately but what's up with it? When it's skinny girls and fat guys we all know it's about the loot. But what is up with this?

-Rudey
--Anyone else notice these bizarre creatures together?

maybe some guys just like chunkier girls? more cushion for the pushin and whatnot..

I dunno, I know some girls who like skinny guys. Some girls like to overpower their men...I know I definately could not date a guy skinnier than me!

Oh, yeah...no skinny guys for me. :)

Oh yeah, I so agree. I want to go into the big & tall men's store and ask them where they keep their samples.;)

When Ava Gardner and Frank Sinarta were married, a reporter once asked Ms. Gardner what a beautiful woman like herself saw in a skinny little guy like Sinatra. She answered that Sinatra "is 120 pounds, and 100 pounds of it is c**k"

Ive dated some skinny guys but of course, Im really little too so it was ok. It's funny cause almost all the guys I date are over a foot taller than me or just about. being that Im only 5'2 yeah its funny cause the tallest guy I dated was like 6'5 or so and it was crazy!

Nichole

For a little while I had this crush on a wrestler who was 125 lbs... when I first met him and he told me he wrestled on the team, and I asked at what weight, he was a little shy about telling me. I ended up hooking up with him later on in the year, but it was kinda weird because I'm used to larger guys and I'm very petite myself.

I don't know the reason-- maybe they're more drawn to each other's personalities than body types? Who knows, but yeah, I see it sometimes.

i just couldn't do it - date a guy that was skinnier than me. the same thing with guys shorter than me (by a significant amount - like 4 inches or more)

I'm really skinny, and I love skinny boys - too scrawny is bad (if I can't sit on your lap without thinking I'm gonna hurt you, it's bad!), but I don't like big muscles either. There's something about skinny boys and the way you can wrap your arms all the way around them... mmmm.

ANy guy thats skinnier than me is NOT attractive to me. I want to be weighing less than him so he can PROTECT me!!

I am the same exact way!!! I am pretty little but I like the guys to be a lot taller than me and definately not skinnier than me. I just like the feeling of being wrapped in their arms and knowing that I'm not going to like break him or something. :D I am weird though and I love it if the guy is like an entire foot taller than me with broad shoulders....that's the best!!! :D

If the girl isn't interesting and have a great personality then I have no interest in dating them. I have had the chance to date some attractive girls but the spark just wasn't there and due to that I had no interest. I get bored easy I need a girl who will challenge me!

This may be TMI. But over the years I have dated all shapes and sizes. The most impressive "packages" have belonged to the skinny tall guys. :o ;)

LOL- I was kind of thinking the same thing-
Husky men don't seem to be... uhm, well... you know!

There is a difference between being skinny and being normal. If I can punch a hole through your paper thing chest, you're not normal. I'm not talking about fatter or husky guys. And you don't have to be built like a truck.

As for the height thing...you can't control G-d's/nature's doing. You can definitely control how much you eat, how often you you're in the gym doing presses.

Your girl should always be smaller than you unless you have a fetish like southerners do from what I hear.

-Rudey
--And the "biggest" guy ever I've seen was 5'3'', Turkish, and hairy like a mother.

I like the skinny guys. But they have to be tall.
Like military skinny....mmm marines!


Christia

At over 6'4, I weigh 242 lbs:D :cool: Too skinny for ya?;)

Chubbier girls and thin guys, you'd think thats the norm. Usually you see big, buff guys with little women on their arms. What then is left over? The chubbier girls and thin guys. It's perfectly normal.

Hypocrites
 

It is pretty funny that on an earlier thread about obesity, a guy got flamed for saying he didn't like fat girls. Suddenly it is okay to dissect the way a guy has to look? What if I said I thought all girls who were over a size 4 were disgusting slobs? Would that offend any of y'all?

That isn't how I feel, but what if some other guy was to come on and say that?

Re: Hypocrites
 

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I think I'm a good size 6'1.5 and 185lbs. (muscle) :p ;)

ok so i'm weird. i LIKE shorter guys (5'7"-5-11") and I like skinnier guys. But if they look on the skinny side they better be toned. (ie runner's bodies)

oh that reminds me. Anyone want my little brother?;) He;s a frosh in college. He's 5'3", 115lbs and ran varsity cross country track & wrestling. tee hee...

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ME, ME!!! Just kidding. Though, I have noticed that most of the guys I've dated and hooked up with have been wrestlers in high school or college. And I ran varsity track and cross country in high school too.

With the exception of the swimmer, I like lazy boys. They shouldn't be obese, but they should not be small either.

haha...my brother is small enough i could probably mail him...i'd just have to talk him into it...

I am very petite at so I could never date a guy that weighs less than me. If he did weigh less than me, then he'd have to be like 5 feet tall! But, I only like guys who are 6 feet tall and over. :)

Re: Skinny Guys and Not-so-skinny girls
 

not always rude....i remember this hottie staying in my hotel with some ugly, fat MF - he also had a shiit car, I couldn't believe what the hell was happening.

Re: Re: Skinny Guys and Not-so-skinny girls
 

Did you bang on the door and take what was rightfully yours?

-Rudey
--The car comment really got me. He deserves nothing.

Naw, i figured she was a total sleuth, and i can easily get them the friday nights when i get tanked....

- have better geusts to pick from that bitches who settle for anything.

According to his longtime valet, George Jacobs, Sinatra did have a huge 'talleywhacker' and had specially-tailored underwear to make it a little less noticeable. ;)

More about Sinatra's private life in Mr. S : My Life with Frank Sinatra : http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/AS...952519-1948935

I "dated" (I use that term very loosely) a guy last summer who is very obviously attracted to "not so skinny" girls. All of the girls he dated were all larger (for a more PC term, think of one, then pat yourself on the back, it's too early for this intellectual talk, lol) than him. His nickname from me was Mr. "I'm 117 pounds soaking wet." His girlfriends were all larger than that (me, much!). But he liked them, us, nonetheless. Some guys just like it that way (have you seen the "larger than life" porn sites {I swear, that's what one of the sites is called!!}? There's a big market for guys who like "larger" women). Personally, I'm all about the inside beauty, but I do find it hard to date a very skinny guy like that...afraid to snap them in two like a twig! And who wants to cuddle with skin and bones? Gimme a guy with some meat on his bones, man! :)

I once dated a guy that was about 50 lbs lighter than me but thankfully he was taller. That's one relationship that I felt really odd about him putting his arms around me! Sweet guy, runners body, but damn, I like 'em w/meat!
I am no way a very small girl, I have the "athletic" body..I weigh more because of muscle mass..so I prefer my men to be a bit bulky also. I mean, they're better in bed to cuddle with anyway..more warmth ;)

That word is one that has come up over and over again in my circle of friends. I don't know why, for some reason it doesn't sound good, but all of us are starting to settle down. When we think and look for the chicks we want in our lives, all of us think about girls in the sense of breeding purposes. Seriously. None of us are involved with a girl under 6 foot. The majority of my close friends are atheletes either on the professional or collegiate level. Every time we go out together and we see girls, we either label them as breeders or non-breeders. All of us are thinking in terms of NFL players one day, even with the atheletic ability of a few of my friends all of us should pop out a few future MVPs, given our genes. I'm just wondering if anyone else thinks like this or if my friends and I are just demented in some way. Within the past 6 months it's become bad, I won't even have sex with a girl anymore unless she's at least 5'10. When I did try to have sex with girls that are little, I could never get off. It got really bad with one girl. We had sex 5 times, all 5 times she got off....I never did. She was about 5'3 and was in love with my penis. I think she started getting upset that I was never getting off, I think she started thinking it was her. And I think I tried to explain it all to her one night when we were really trashed in a super fugged up way. Since then she's never talked to me again. I see her out and she gives me mean looks. And it wasn't just her, I tried testing it out with other girls. Same thing happened. I never got off. This situation has lead me to think many things are going on inside of me. Either I just don't have the gas anymore to be the pimp I am or there's a change that takes place in men when they hit their mid 20's. And I think it's not about banging as many girls as you can, like it once was, but rather banging the right chick these days. There are two girls in this world I would have my children with, neither of them live anywhere close to me at the moment. One lives about 13 hours away now and the other, she lives an ocean and a sea away from me. I told myself after my last GF, no more relationships until I get my sh!t together and get ready to settle down. The problem is, I don't want any other chick than either of them. And at the moment, until the last week of December and 1st week of january....I can't be with either. Now that leads into my next issue, the sex.


I don't know about myself these days. It seems like the older I get the less interested I am in intercourse and I often find myself craving head over the other. I remember being 12 yrs old and telling myself I'm never gonna get tired of fuggin. I said I was not going to be that guy that quit having sex with his wife one day when he hits the mid-life ordeal. But with each passing week, I find myself less and less interested in banging chicks constantly. There have been times where I didn't even want to really have sex with the girl, but I did it just to prove something to myself....though I don't know what it was I was trying to prove. It sounds gay, but I actually don't want to have sex anymore with a girl unless it's somebody I really like and care for or I could see myself having kids with. That makes things complicated when I go out with my friends. We all go out with the intention of picking up girls, still the college mentality, and bringing them back to one of our apartments for a party later on. But these days I find myself wanting to just get tanked with my friends than searchin for chicks. There have been a few occasions where we would meet a group of ladies and everything was going well between everyone. There's a good vibe everywhere. Next thing I know, I'm purposely getting really tanked inorder to drive this chick away from me. Either I scare them from being so loud after I hit a certain number of drinks, or I say something really fugged up to them like "You're not a breeder". I guess by doing stuff like that I am just trying to prevent an even stickier situation arising later on should she come home with me. We're all human, give any of us enough alcohol and we'll bring somebody back to the crib. I just feel really wierd and unmotivated when my boys call me up 3 nights a week wanting to go out and pick up some a$$, not including the weekends. They all know I'm in love with these two chicks....but for some reason i think I'm starting to understand that if you really are in love with someone, you don't bang other girls on the side. On the other hand, at the moment, both of the girls i'm in love with live a good distance between us. One would think that would lead me to not having sex, but it doesn't. Sometimes I just have sex with girls inorder for my friends not to think I'm gay for only wanting to be with either of those girls. It sounds shady, but none of you understand what kind of crowd we are. Literally, we're a bunch of bad asses. Guys in the club or the bar see us and step out of our way. And none of us are scared to knock somebody out. We've all been to jail, some of us more than once.

I guess I'm wanting to know if this is normal for men at my age. Are there any older men on this board that can relate to what I'm going through? I guess you'd have to be over 25 inorder to relate. Help? Any women out there around the same age have boyfriends/husbands that are going through the same thing or have went thorugh it? I feel like I can't talk to my dad about this type of stuff. I feel like we have a really formal relationship at times, I just can't see the two of us talking about something like this. I could see my mom and I, but she's not a man. She doesn't know what I'm going through. The guy who is my Big is 28, but he's definitely not someone I should be taking advice from.

Feel free to PM me if any of you want.:(

( maybe I should make a new thread for this, ya think?)

Oh. My. Jaysis.
This is funny.:D

But to the question, I'm on the "thick" side and I like "diesel" guys who are tall. Then again, in my advanced age, I won't sleep on a thin guy if he's a good guy, has a big brain and has his life together.:p

Ahhh...so am I gonna be the first to call UF Pike on cashmoney?

High five on that one. Except I'm not sure. Whoever it is can't decide whether they're a guy or a girl.

-Rudey
--High five king!

Why not, I've been called everyone else.


Only John knows for sure.

I have to agree here. People are attracted to different kinds of people. I'm sure we've all done that double take when we've seen an "odd" couple. The important things here is that they're happy. And they're not hurting anyone, so why make a big deal about it?

Because it's a lie. That whole inner beauty thing can't possibly work for guys. Like how do you get the "machine started" if you're with someone you're not attracted to.

-Rudey