Unhappy birthday to me
 

I usually wouldn't start my own happy birthday thread, but I'm having a horrible day all ready and I need sympathy... who better to get it from than my GC friends, people I hardly even know, if at all.

Can I complain for a moment, please? I was having such a great week- got a job as a bartender, got yet another friendship that had gone bad back to better-than-normal, got a job teaching part-time at the bartending school, had a friend that has major issues realize what a jerk he's being, etc. So things were going really well...

The two things I wanted for my birthday:
1) for a friend that I have a huge thing for to come down to Riverside and hang out for the weekend. He has tons of places he's been offered to stay and he told me he'd definitely come to visit. Well, that was Wednesday... no one can get in touch with this guy; I've called him, his bros have called him, our friends have called him... no answer. Part of me wants to be really (stupid and) optimistic and hope that he's going to surprise me, but in reality, I don't think that's going to be happen.
2) for all my other friends to take time from their not busy lives to hang out with me tonight. I didn't want them to go to dinner, I don't want any presents- I just want to sit around someone's living room or backyard, BS with my friends, and maybe drink a little. That's all I wanted. I can't even get that- some chick that most of my friends barely know (and I personally don't like, but I'm nice to her anyways) has yet another volleyball game tonight and they want to go to that, then celebrate with her if they win. I went with them for her birthday dinner (I even pitched in), but they can't even combine the two events...

To top it all off, I have to take this horrendous test today so that I can apply to a credential program... not looking forward to that...

I feel horribly unloved and uncared for right now... I don't even have my family to lean on- dad went to Santa Barbara for the weekend, mom went shopping with friends, brother lives in San Francisco, and my best friend (she's family to me) also lives there... I haven't had a birthday this bad in years and I'm so depressed right now.

Can I get some sympathy from my GC friends? :(

Happy Birthday

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Awwwww....... :( :( :(


I feel so sad for you that I'm sending you the good birthday vibes all the way from Poland on my limited internet time! I hope you're feeling happy happy happy very soon!

In Poland we wish people a happy birthday by saying "Sto Lat!" which is meant to wish you 100 years. :)


.....Kelly :)

Awww--Happy Birthday to You!!!! I hope it gets better!!!!!


wendi

***Happy Birthday Hugs***

May you never have another birthday that starts out like this one, and may this one still prove to be pretty good!

http://www.spacespider.net/emo/beer1.gif Here's to a happy birthday! hope theday gets better

HAPPY BIRTHDAY

I hope that your day turns out better. I know that this is something that you probably don't want to hear. But you might want to step out of your circle and meet new people to hang out with. People who are really interested in hanging out with you.

I would still go out and have a great time. It might not be what you expected but you will still have a great time.

Here's to a Happy Birthday and I hope that you do get your wishes!!! Mwahs!
-Masha:)

Carol,

I hope that you have a good birthday (because you deserve it!!! :) and that you get to do things that you enjoy.


EagleChick19

Hope your day gets better.

Happy Birthday! Hope you're day gets better. Eat a piece of cake for me!!!

Hey Ya, Happy Birthday!:D

"In every life a lot of rain falls, but damn, you would think that once in a while there would be a silver lining on the shit house wall!":confused:

When you reach a certain age and the only one who calls you is your Dad and says HB, you know your --old? Yes Dad, I know! "well I do to, I was there when you were born!":(

Yearly ritual!:rolleyes:

I'm sorry to hear about all of that-- Happy Birthday!!!

Aw, man. I feel about like you do right now, only it isn't my birthday...so I really, really feel for you. I'm so sorry your day is turning out like this. Birthdays are supposed to be fun.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!

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Hope this cheers you up hon!!

Your friends are being jerks. Next time they ask you to do anything nice for them, remind them how shabbily they treated you on your special day.

On a positive note, Birthday Wishes and hopefully you'll have a little bit of good cheer. :)

Hey girl--
Dont' fret- I started a "Happy shitty birthday" to me thread, and sounded way more pathetic than you.

You sound like a kick ass person, honestly, and I know this isn't worth much to you now, but unless its your 21st its not that big of a loss.....you have a lifetime of birthdays and something tells me that tomorrow will be a better day.

Have an awesome night, I hope it gets better :)

Happy birthday!! Only shooting stars break the mold. Get your game on. That was the gift of song.

Awww, I am sorry to hear that you aren't having a happy birthday.

I wish you a very happy enjoyable birthday and hope your day gets a lot better!!!

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Thank you guys, you're the best. I really appreciated all of that and I'm sorry if I was a downer for everyone's day. Mine is getting a little better, and will be MUCH better after I get a a bottle of Malibu... jk


As for everyone sucking really bad- the boy actually called me and told me he had to visit his homesick little sister in Santa Barbara (she just moved there and I know they're really close), and my other friends have been getting a huge guilt trip, so I'll most likely see them later.

Thanks again for all the good karma!

Carol

Happy Birthday! :) :D

Happy Birthday and glad the day is starting to pick up for you.

Carolyn

Happy birthday! Glad to hear its getting better.

At least no one ate your birthday cake without you. (My fiance's mother has eaten his birthday cake before he's gotten any for the last TWO years! The rule is, if you're name is on the cake, you get first dibs at it!)

Happy Birthday....glad things made a turn around :)

awww....hopefully things keep getting better.
happy happy birthday

Glad things are looking up ...

What you need next is a "Happy Unbirthday," the day when everthing goes great. Happy Unbirthday is a lot better than an unhappy birthday.

I didn't even get a birthday cake! We were going to pick up an ice cream cake last night, but by the time we left from dinner both Baskin Robbins and Cold Stone were closed! Eh, I don't need the cake anyways...

But yes, things did look up a lot last night, esp. during and after dinner with a couple of my friends. One of my boys knew the waiters at the restaurant we went to and one got us a table without having to wait the hour long wait. He was hot, he hung out with us after he got off work, and now this cute boy and I have plans to go out this week... so that made it all better. My boy Chris definitely had the best birthday gift for me... hot waiter. :)

Sounds like the hot waiter was worth waiting for (really poor joke)

Glad your birthday turned out better than expected.