I made a girl cry....
 

Oh man..I made some freshman girl cry thursday night. But, I feel really good about it. Any of you have this kind of moment before?

..and yes..I'll post the reason I did it if you really want to know, heh :)

-Kayla

just %(&*#$ tell us!

The Reason's:

1. She left her nasty nasty nasty thong in my boyfriend's apartment's bathroom after banging 2 guys at a party.

2. The same night my best bud's boyfriend was DD and taking a lot of people back to campus, she was one of them. She was then telling people that she also had sex with him. *growl*:mad:

3. She was trying to give another one of my boy's head at the same party, thankfully he wasn't that drunk to let her. :p

Mainly, she made my best friend cry w/the rumors going around, that is what really sparked it for me.

Oh man..it was hilarious...I called her out and had a "chat" with her, she's a lot bigger than me but she started balling...muhahahaha...oh I love my evil side...

Lol she won't last long hanging out. She must be tring a little hard to become a sweetheart or she is just a complete nympho. If she is tring to be a sweetheart I never saw a girl get there by sleeping her way there. They usually get so uncomfy they move to the next fraternity house.

Ack Brandon! Don't use the Sweetheart title w/a slut! :p *shudders* She's now an official frisbee...so now since this episode she'll move on to the Sig's..but more than likely the Archons..heh.

Oh man..the worst part about it that I feel a little bad about it is I was wearing letters at the time. Heh. Oh well.. :)

Another funny thing..I didn't even get to tell Dusty what I did...basically all the guys found out that night from #3 boy. I received a lot of hugs and "thank you's" that next day...hehe

Guuuurl, I woulda done the same thing, except I woulda ripped her a new asshole in the process [without the letters on, haha]. Sucks that she's already establishing herself a fine reputation and she's just a freshman. Goood stuff.

Huh? Maybe I'm lost.

We all know girls like that. It's been my experience to let the guys--or the people who are directly involved--handle it. But maybe I'm too "live and let live."

Geez I pity the girls that need attention by being sluts.

You know not to sound like the old b*tch of the bunch here, but aren't we all being a little judgemental? It sounds like what that girl really needs is a friend to help her out not someone to tear her down and treat her like crap. Her self esteem is probably low enough considering what she did at the party.

I feel bad for the girl. Some may say she should know better, but maybe she needs a push in the right direction instead of a punch in the gut.:(

And taking joy in making someone feel bad? I don't know... just sounds kind of mean spirited.

WoW! What's worse: Physical or Verbal violence?!?! I guess the verbal won this one!

i am apart of the 2%

reckon

I feel you, I guess I'm the young b*tch of the bunch. ;) I feel like simply ignoring it would be better than cattiness. She'll grow out of this (as do most of the girls who come to college like that), and the last thing she needs is that. If the guys had a problem, they would tell her, right? But what do I know?

I have made people cry before, and you know what? I got my point across, but I felt terrible afterwards. Live and learn, I guess.

Obviously, the guys were innocent bystanders in all of this.

Hahaha, that's what I was thinking.

The sexual double standard will exist as long as there are girls around to condemn other girls for doing exactly what they condone in their guys.

I agree with you 100%. I've never actually made someone cry but people have been mean enough to me before to make me cry and you know what, IT SUCKS! And I'd never ever take pleasure in making someone feel that way, whether or not they "deserved" it. :rolleyes:

Ever notice that women are a lot harder on other women than men are in almost any social situation? Why is that?

girls are evil thats why lol j/k although we can be at times. Dont ever get on a girls bad side ;) but about this I dont agree fully with what you did only b/c it seems like this girl is crying out for some help, most people that act that way are. I definitly would have talked to her but not been too mean about it not try to make her cry cause thats not going to change her actions at all.

I think that it is better to handle girls like this with a little more class. What the girl needs to know is that she can get attention without throwing herself at guys. Although your feelings of revulsion and disgust with her are completely justified, I think maybe you were a little meaner than necessary. Dealing with someone gossipping and acting like she was is one thing, but I agree that this girl's self esteem can't be very high and something like this could completely tear it down.

I think women are a lot harder on other women in general, which really sucks. :( One of the things I've tried hard to do is to be positive to all women, and it's sad that it's something that has to be learned, instead of something that comes naturally. There is a book that specifically deals with that---it's called Slut: Growing Up Female with a Bad Reputation . It's a biographical sketch of several different women, ranging from 13 to 70, whom at one point have been given bad reputations based on their (actual or perceived) sexual activity. The biggest perpetrators of the "slut," "whore," or other epithets are--you guessed it, other women.

So, did the guys get a piece of your mind for sleeping with the same girl in the same night? That isn't too cute, either.

Did anyone really find out if "This Girls" statements were true about all of the sex she supposedly had?:confused: :(

It seems that question was not asked nor answered.

They would have gotten an Ovation. Depending on what she looked like.

Sorry edited to say that their chapter brothers would have given them an Ovation.

James is right. As disgusting as this truth is, it IS the truth. So girls, why are we so hard on each other in social situations? Are we that insecure, or just that judgemental? Why is it that we can't genuinely care enough to help someone with their faults? Do we just enjoy seeing them screw up even more?

I think there are an overabundance of reasons, a true 31 flavors, including, being judgmental, jealous, insecure, being a bitc#, self righteous, etc...

mmmm all these reasons is why im gay :(

LOL! I hope those aren't the only reasons...

Is this the same poster who is owned by TKEs or something? :confused:

Ouch, that seems a little too harsh.

WHOA!!! Back up...I am not owned by any Teke, we'll get that straight right here. I am pinned by a member, basically a fraternity engagement.


Heh..ya know I actually just posted this thread to see how many of you would react. Yes, the actions were true of what happened. Yet, some of you failed to read my second post of the "reasons" of why I did what I did. Mainly I approached her because it involved 2 of my best friends, and my girl was not in the emotional state to handle having a chat with the girl.

Oh Tom, the accusations were true of the girl. I made sure. :)

And another thing...I really wasn't that mean when talking with her, I said some few choice words, but nothing really bad, I'm thinking the only reason she really got upset is because she got caught up in a lie.

"Oh man..it was hilarious...I called her out and had a "chat" with her, she's a lot bigger than me but she started balling...muhahahaha...oh I love my evil side..."

It is admirable that you care enough about your friends to try and settle things for them, but your previous post made it sound as though you enjoyed making her cry. That' in most of our books, qualifies as mean.

True, true, and I apologize for that. But, I will admit I did giggle a bit afterwards, mostly because I didn't mean for my talk to be mean-spirited but she took it harsher than what it was meant to be. *shrugs*

maybe you should be mad at your best friends man for having sex with this chick, instead of going after her. maybe she didnt know he had a girl?

first time I've EVER agreed with Imthachamp.:eek:

"Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned"

Champ & MTSU:

SHE DID NOT HAVE SEX WITH HIM, BUT SHE IS SAYING THAT SHE DID!!

*whew* Alrighty then. :p

Please people, read the first page to get all the info :)


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I want to find a freshman girl and save her from being a slut. Cuz not a slut if is just with me.

Sounds like she's a slut, the guys are sluts and I wouldn't respect any of them involved.
But I wouldn't necessarily brag about making her cry, either.

how are you so sure?

did the guy deny it? lol.

I don't think we're the ones you should apologize to. You know you were wrong, you should apologize to her. Freshman are 17-18 and generally fairly stupid to the ways of the world. I'm not saying she should always get a pass, but she's been at college for what, two weeks? Even I think that is way harsh, ESPECIALLY when the issue is none of your business to begin with, aside from her talking to/about your friends.

You acted like a biatch and you know it (hell you acknowledge it in all your posts).