The most attractive thing about a man is.....
 

his mind! However... because his mind is not the first thing you notice across, let's say, a crowded room http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/biggrin.gif...I'll say his eyes.

Ok...I'll say the mind thing too http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/wink.gif...Now...I really have a thing for ears. Big ears, like Will Smith, are soooo attractive! Nice, sexy lips come next!

Pretty white teeth...wooo hoooo http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/biggrin.gif

Big strong hands. Need I say more.

girl i definately feel you on those hand, um. lol-but the eyes are what catches my attention after noticing how sexy he is in appearance.

I have to agree with nice, beautiful, straight white teeth, with no signs of coffee stains...lol...and other discolorations...lol.

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I agree with you Total Elegance!! Nothing is more attractive than a man with bright, STRAIGHT, white teeth....I LOVE TEETH!!

His smile
It has to be open and loving.....a smile that just makes you smile.

big ears
brite white smile
beautiful teeth
sexy lips
big brown eyes
strong arms
but it all comes down to personlity. I love a man who can make me laugh
oh yeah the mind thing too (if I talk to him that is)

His back, his back, his back! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/smile.gif Of course, I'm talking about what you see first! Of course, personality is great, but I have to make sure he has BROAD shoulders first. I LOVE a man's back!

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Well, I am going to have to test this out first off ... I am with a man and so when I am out and about I am really not looking but now I am going to have to see what I am attracted to ... and yes this is gonna be superficial ... I love the mind, soul, and the internal makeup of a man but as Sexy Mocha stated you can't really see his soul from across a crowded room :-0)

I will be back .... http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/wink.gif

Little32, girl, you know you don't have to say more!! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/biggrin.gif

Personality and intelligence are the most attractive things. But, when I first see a guy I am attracted to his:
sexy eyes
smile (Cream Puff, I'm feeling you on the sexy lips!! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/biggrin.gif
nice skin
height (I like tall men)
overall grooming and appearance. (Does his clothes match...do they fit well...etc?...)

Now that I'm reading over these posts....I have to agree, ain't nothing like some sexy lips! Yum! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/wink.gif

Besides all the really important stuff, I like that area where a man's hips are. How can explain it? http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/confused.gif You know in the D'Angelo video where he is naked? Well, right where they cut off so you couldn't see his "stuff". That lower stomach area. Man, do I love that area. (Not THAT area...get you mind out of the gutter!) Sheesh! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/biggrin.gif I hope you know what I'm talking about.

Good teeth are always a plus. And nice sexy eyes with nice lashes. And lips, nice juicy lips. Not chapped! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/eek.gif That's a real turn off. Whew....let me go jump in the shower! LOL! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/biggrin.gif

How could we have forgotten the eye lashes?!? Why is it that men always seem to have those long, thick lashes and we have to go out and buy the Thick N' Thirsty mascara (or what ever it's called)?
Serenity, I know that spot but I don't know what it's called...could it be the pelvis? http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/confused.gif

Sexy Mocha, I hope not. That sounds soooooo....not good. "Wow.....great pelvis!" Maybe I need to put that in the thread about worse pick-up lines! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/biggrin.gif

everything you all have said PLUS...

having a sense of self...knowing who he is...what he wants...where he wants to go...where he has been...is very Sexy to me!

AKA2D'91, that is so true. When the excitement of the looks wear off and you discover the man's a total loser...it's the worst thing in the world.

I love a man with smooth chocolate skin, nice muscles (not too big), strong, straight white teeth, nice lips, and good bone structure. Oh yeah, a rippled stomach ain't bad either! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/wink.gif

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Ladies what about 'HAIR'?? Women are not the only ones to go to great lengths for the perfect hairdo. I can't stand naps, it's okay to be 'oh natural' but not nappy, especially when you are out trying to impress.
Anyway, I personally am still not sure what attracts me most .... but I always notice TOTAL appearance!! Like Soror PinkCashmere stated 'DOES HE MATCH'??

I would definately have to say his smile, arms, chest, and thighs. I love a man with some sexy legs. Oh yeah, he has to have nice teeth. Gold teeth don't count! Of coarse personality is the most important thing, but lets be honest...you can't sport "personality" at the mall on a Saturday.

I would definately have to say his smile, arms, chest, and thighs. I love a man with some sexy legs. Oh yeah, he has to have nice teeth. Gold teeth don't count! Of coarse personality is the most important thing, but lets be honest...you can't sport "personality" at the mall on a Saturday.

I LOVE PRETTY WHITE teeth, too. But, I'll have to say the first thing I notice is confidence. Not conceit, but when you can tell a man is comfortable with himself - it shows.

Smile is the most attractive (physically) with eyes coming in as a close second. I love the mind and soul the best though.

Sum it up, I just love men!!! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/biggrin.gif
How can I possibly narrow down the list...but I cannot believe only one of my sisterfriends said broad back/shoulders...OH MY GOSH http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/eek.gif, that kills me!!

--At least 6' tall
--Pearly Whites
--Clean cut hair, whether it be braids, locs, or etc...it must be well kept (Think Busta Rhymes' sideburns!!! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/biggrin.gif )
--Beautiful skin
--Clean Nails
--Beautiful Smile
--DREAMY EYES ('dreamy'sounds like I ought to have on a poodle skirt,

Now things I CANNOT stand....
--nappy chest hair!!! URGHHH!!!
--dirty nails
--tart breath
--nappy hair, unkempt hair
--wrinkled clothes
--ashiness
--nasty teeth
--dirty shoes
--nasty socks
and the list goes on...let me give someone else a shot!

Ok ladies....the first thing I notice about a man is his physique. That's what I find most attractive physically. I'm talking over 6' tall and at least 235 lbs. <think football player build>. In a tie for second would be biceps and dimples! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/smile.gif I love a big man with dimples....my thing with biceps....I don't know where that came from. I just love big arms!

Take Care,
Cookee

His STRONG Ambition and a nice pair of thighs to go with it. YEAH BABY!!!!

I am soooo feeling this topic! There are so many things that will attract me to a man. But I first notice the lips, nice and big lips(like Silk tha Shocka). I also love deep, dark bedroom eyes, send chills up my spine.I do look at there hands, I can't stand long fingernails. http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/frown.gif YUCK!
Besides the outside apperance, I love a man that can make me laugh. http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/smile.gif

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the most attractive thing about a man to me is HEIGHT and muscular build especially arms and CHEST....yumm
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carib

[QUOTE]Originally posted by Caramelattsu:
[B]I can't stand long fingernails. http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/frown.gif YUCK!

Uggh! I hate long fingernails too! What is the purpose of them anyway?!?

Brains, not necessarily buff
 

If we're talking mental things, intelligence is the most attractive thing to me. He must have a brain and use it constructively.

On physical stuff, I'd say the mouth. Good teeth and absolutely no bad breath. I'm extraordinarily sensitive to smell.
:D

Physical Parts:
1. His smile/teeth
2. Head -- smooth and round, not oddly shaped
3. I like a man who has a build not necessarily BUILT but is not flabby

NON- Physical
1. HONEST ------- THIS IS CRITICAL
2. INTELLIGENT
3. COMMITTED to doing what he says he will do
4. INTEGRITY
5. ABOUT BUSINESS, no game players, that's what Monopoly is for :D

Thatgirl, I am with you on that one!!!!!! The Back is such a wonderful sight....broad shoulders.......no hair........smooth skin...and when he moves you can see those wonderful shoulder blades...........................

Definitely all of the physical things that have been described -- especially a man with a strong back... The better to crank with right?? (where's Convinced??? :p )

Other than that the most attractive thing about a man to me is being able to look into his eyes and see all of the endless possibilities between the two of us... Just because he is so honest. Even if it's just for that moment, I love to hear a man speaking and look into his eyes and be able to see that what he's saying is full of honesty, life, and love. Even when it's not directed at me. I love for a man to tell me the truth, even when it will hurt. I want to continue to respect him...

and then...

his... ummm
dang y'all... I can't pick one thing. I do love me some chocklit, medium to dark brown!!! Like Q from 112 with a mix of Morris Chestnut, that'd be my perfect man.

I dunno, I just like it if I am in the least bit physically attracted to a man with those honest loving eyes... It's OOOOOOONNNNNN!

Another thing that's a big deal for me... I have to admire him. I need to be impressed with his ingenuity, morals, intelligence, aspirations, all of that... I just need to know that he is a MAN and is handling his bidness!

Okay, I will agree w/ everyone! :D BUT, after I decide if he's a prospect, I gotta check out his shoes...now, most men I know take very good care of their shoes because they cost so much money...so, if his shoes are in good condition it says a lot about his character and how he takes care of himself and his belongings...well, most times it's true, but hey you can't win 'em all!!!!

my my my
 

The first thing I notice about a guy is his facial hair. I love well-kept mustaches and goatees.

The second thing I notice is the mouth area....teeth, sexy lips, etc.

And the third would be his hairline. If I can't tell where the forehead ends and the hairline begins, he's outta there!


**Also, the best part of a man's body to me is the small of his back. You know, where it goes in, right before his butt crack. lol. Maybe that's TMI.

For me, it's the lips and teeth...there is nothing better than straight white teeth, beautiful smile and full lips...they also must have FRESH BREATH to go along with all that...nothing worse than having all those good things and you go screw it up with "halatosis (sp) to the mostest!" :D

I also like a man with a good sense of humor.

I can't choose just one...
 

The first thing I notice about a man are his eyes, his smile, and his shoes. I feel you, dst3800, my mother told me to ALWAYS look at a man's shoes!

Beyond that, the most important thing is that he has to be a good conversationalist, so he has to be intelligent. A sista LOVES to talk, and I don't like to talk to myself, so he needs to be able to hang, knowahuhmean? :)