Confession
 

I have a confession to make. . . :(
I have been a member of Greek Chat for close to a year and although it's been fun posting. I need to come clean... Though many of you may be in shock to hear this.... Mostly everything that I have ever posted have all been lies. The things I have posted about either happened to someone I know or were just made up. Yeah...I WAS a college student but after not being accepted by Delta or AKA I dropped out. I was rejected by AKA my freshman year, so I switched to Delta, then I tried Delta again this past semester only to not make line again (because AKA couldn't have a line.) So I have come to the conclusion that maybe I wasn't meant to be greek. I posted on GC hoping to get information that would for once help me make line...but yall are so tight lipped about YOUR "precious" sororities that you made it hard for me.I have never dated a guy in a frat so that story about me being "abused" was made up, I've never won a scholarship, or any scholarship for that matter, especially not from AKA. I made it all up!!! Deltas...the reason I asked those transfer questions was because I contemplated going to another school to pledge. It hurts when your friends pledge and make it and you don't...you're left out in the cold. Hopefully, if i go back to school i can join a grad chapter. It's been fun. Anyway, this is my last post on GC.

And Here is My Reply From the DST Forum, Again.....
 

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From one sisterfriend to another, you got off on the wrong foot. You cannot go into ANYTHING with lies and deceit and expect a favorable outcome. However, if your heart is really in it, with all the lies and deception aside, there can still be some hope.

I can only speak for myself and say that as an UG, I would join forums and visit websites and hope that the magical list of surefire ways to be accepted would be handed to me on a silver platter. Of course, it wasn't. So after I was REJECTED (yes, some of us sisterfriends have been rejected before and are not ashamed to admit it) and I graduated, I figured that I could visit forums and meet memberfriends from my city and they would immediately invite me to join their chapters. Of course, that didn't happen. Sure, I have corresponded with memberfriends from my city, but I haven't hounded them. You have to earn some things.

However, during this process, I have found a home here at GC. At first, it was all about gaining information. Now, I have discovered that there are WONDERFUL memberfriends here, as well as AMAZING sisterfriends. We have great discussions on topics ranging from How Come? to discussions on Making the Band II all the way to the occasional Sisterfriend Only Question (which our mods haven't hooked us up with lately ;) ). There are also other D9 sorority members here that are WONDERFUL also, who also have welcomed us to their forums. Those discussions have fostered a sense of sisterhood around here. Through these discussions, tidbits of information is revealed. You just have to read between the lines. Old threads reveal lots of things.

I am glad that THEY don't reveal so much information about their "precious" sororities. It makes it more fun to find out on my own. Everything that I learn here and through the research that I have already done is all that I WANT to know right now. I know that God has a plan for me. He knows how much I want this. He knows what's in my heart. He knows what I want and He knows what will be provided for me. If it doesn't coincide with what I want, then I just won't get it. But I know that as long as there is breath of life in my body, I will try. And as long as GC is here, I can vicariously live out my dream.

I don't believe that anyone "isn't meant to be greek." I do believe that anyone can be greek, but you may not be meant to be a "particular" greek. Everyone can't be an AKA. Everyone can't be a Delta. But when you go in with LIES and DECEPTION, you DEFINITELY won't get a desired outcome ANYWHERE. Get yourself together. Start off with truth and GENUINE interest and try again. If not, life goes on.... One monkey don't stop the show.

Like a friend used to tell me, "You ain't gotta lie to kick it!" ;) :D

Well said sisterfriend :)

And to the original poster, you can do all things through Christ who strengthens you. Remember that, and know that before you can identify with another group of young ladies based on ideas and values that you may have in common, you must first find yourself and identify your own ideas and values. Only then can you figure out what, if any, organization is right for you.

I thought the point of going to college was to get a DEGREE, not some letters?:confused: Did I miss something?

What was the point of lying? What did you gain from it? Do you really expect AKA or DST or SGRho or my Zetat to accept you now?

I applaud you for telling the truth, but you still seem hostile that neither org would reveal that information to you. Why should they? You just dont walk up to an XYZ and say "I wanna be down, now what does this mean?":rolleyes: It doesn't work that way.

Excuse me if I sound harsh, but I just dont understand why some people feel that membership is something that should just be handed over to them.

I hope you find a school where you can feel comfortable..I wish you the best.

DITTO!!!

Co-sign!

As a sisterfriend and prospective, I still don't understand why women feel that have to lie. Do you really feel that you need to be in that organization that bad! Do you really need acceptance in your life? Cause first, you need to accept yourself for you who are and what you can give to the world, not just the greek world.

Ok, I still had to read this post one more time, and I'm still going WTH!!!!!!:eek: :eek: :eek: :eek:

And your username is what?
 

DAMN!

:eek:

Innocence22
IMHO :o, please take some time this summer to go off alone and spend some time with YOURSELF (Read the book of Galatians). As my other sisterfriends have stated, you've got to know who YOU are first. What makes yo tick? What are you strengths, weaknesses, likes, dislikes, habits, preferences, etc? (You get the picture). Without really knowing INNOCENCE22 first, how do you expect to be able to find a sorority that reflects/complements you?

There are NPHC, NPC, multicultural, etc. sororities out there. In total, we're talking A LOT. Are you just going to keep applying to them all until one finally accepts you? Or are you going to stop what you are doing, find out who you are in Christ, and ask God (who has already ACCEPTED you) for the wisdom to lead you to the sorority that He has selected for you?

Re: Confession
 

Pathetic. Pathetic. Pathetic.
Get this message straight: NO NPHC SORORITY NEEDS PEOPLE LIKE YOU! We don't need pathological liars.

ETA: I'm in a grad chapter. And I pray that you do not try to come through my region. :mad:

I'm glad you mentioned this...You would be surprised at the people who come to us (multicultural) talking about they were rejected by XYZ. You know they just want some letters and believe me when I say they are not accepted. Its funny because our Org. is service oriented...

On another note, I am glad that she decided to come clean and tell the truth. It is easier to tell the truth than to live a lie.

Wow! :eek:

Does she think that by fessin' up, people are going to take pity on her and accept her when she applies for membership again?

I ABSOLUTELY cannot believe she was going to transfer schools so she can seek membership!?! That is crazy! What happened to going to school to get your degree??? There are definitely some priorities that need rearranging here!

This whole thing just blows my mind! I hope she realizes that the greek community as a whole is very small...you never know who could be reading these posts.

I think that is the most intelligent, thought out, response to this sort of situation I have read on this board to date. Very well put.

Obviously, you haven't been around (the greek world) THAT long. This type of shit has and does happen. :rolleyes: :mad:


I apologize for the profanity. In other instances, I would change the spelling, but for mess like this....I have to use the correct spelling. That's just how pissed I am!

I guess she deserves cool pernts for 'fessing up? :rolleyes: Whatever mannnnn!

I am with you!!

Hold up
 

I forgot that once people come clean everyone is supposed to hold hand and sing Kumbayah (sp?) and forgive and forget.

:mad: AND WHY THE HAYLE WOULD YOU LIE ABOUT BEING ABUSED!!!!!!!!!!

Just about any organization ( especially mine) is looking for individuals with Integrity. Lying doesn't equal integrity. They are looking for morals and values. Lying doesn't equal those. They are looking for trustworthiness.Lying doesn't equal that.
Please get it together. Quick, fast, and in hurry!

Clap, clap, clap!!! I agree with you 200% @ AKA2D, and im not even greek!

First off I-22, why, why, oh whyyyyyyyyy would you quit college or drop out as you say over not becoming an AKA or DST???

Two WHERE is your heart? I mean, why are you BGLO hopping???

My heart would be with one and I didn't get in so be it. Yes, I would be upset, but then you move on!

So now what?? You quit GC now, and then come back as someone else.......and tell more lies??? If all you are bringing to the table of BGLO's are lies, (and don't think these women won't find out about the sorority hopping) why would anyone accept you as a part of their sisterhood.

Chal as HoneyKiss said, try getting into you and learning more about yourself. Lawd I sure hope this post isn't a lie.......

Re: Confession
 

I don't understand how or why you tried to pledge your freshman year. It seems to me that this coming up fall should be your 2nd/sophomore year (someone correct me if I'm wrong). At my school freshmen are not allowed to pledge no matter what credentials they have. Getting to the dropping out part: WHY? College is about finding yourself as well as trying to get an education to better your life. Yes, being greek does liven up the college experience for some, but making line should not be the main focus of your undergraduate years.

Re: Re: Confession
 

Well, to clear up the first point, you are allowed to apply for membership after completing one semester (12+ hrs.) and attaining a C+ average or better. Therefore, she would be allowed to submit during the Spring semester (considering there was intake for that semester). I have heard that some schools do not allow freshmen to join activities, but not all colleges and universities have that policy.

Secondly, she stated that most of the things that she said were lies, therefore she was probably lying about being a freshman. From her original posts, she stated that she was going to be an entering freshman for Fall '03. That would mean that she wouldn't have been able to submit to AKA until Spring '03. As we all know, there was a moratorium.

Don't bother trying to make sense of her story. The girl is a scam, fraud, fake, phony, misrepresentation, counterfeit, hoax.... and a DOWN RIGHT LIAR!!! :mad: :mad: :mad:

I don't know how many times I've read this thread, but I just can't find the words to do my thoughts any justice...
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Gyrl, I was thinking the same thing...

It probably is a lie, too. Why the sudden hit of conscience when she (could even be a male trying to be funny) is basically annonymous on here anyway. He or she could have just stopped posting or re-registered under a different name. Funny that he or she went back on May 30 and 31 and edited many of her or his posts from last year.

Re: Confession
 

**pointing, using my best laugh of the little boy from The Simpsons** HA! Ha! No, really, I do need a subject for my graduate school abnormal psychology experiment if you are willing to particpate, please pm me.

:eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm now see, that is just ridamndiculous.

But LadyGreek is right. Stop posting as user #1. But you know, maybe she already has come back. LOL

I'm in heeearh now!!!
 

Don't y'all "trippin'" SF's KNOW that we sistah sorority members compare notes--OFTEN??? :confused:

We KNOW what candidate showed up into each other's rushes that night!!! Dayum...we got connections like dat!!! And the chit you submit to us, YES, it gets held for the legal statute of limitations--unless you piss us all off... And phone calls, emails are HAPPILY made to all sororities' Headquarters...

So aside what you tell your priest or therapist, you ain't neva, neva, neva, neva--evar gittin' in a NPHC sorority since you posted that chit... We've got directorate, executive board members and regional directors roaming these posts and they stay silent--just read crap all night long if they wanna...

I'da be skurred if I were you... And we can go thru your profile and put 2 and 2 together and figure out who you are exactly... And I know several of my sorors in law enforcement and the CIA that can figure you out in a jiffy...

Guess that means we ask for credit history and DNA test too!!!

Oh my...
 

I cannot put what I have to say to/about Innocence into words.

:( :o ;) :mad: :rolleyes: :cool: :eek: :confused:

They ALL apply.

Re: I'm in heeearh now!!!
 

Not just her profile...her posts too. I believe she posted last year about going to some AKA, A PHI A, cook out in the Bronx. There are quite a few NYC greeks on this board who were probably at that cookout and may have met her....if that wasn't a lie also:rolleyes: :rolleyes:

:eek: Sorry, sorors, for bringing dirt to the foreground, but this thread is wild. :confused:

Soror are you bored? :rolleyes: ;) :D

I would certainly have to be, ... wouldn't I? :D:p