How to Make a Girl Happy
 

- Bring her cut flowers as a surprise as well as on special occasions.
- Plan a date several days in advance, rather than waiting for Friday
night and asking her what she wants to do.
- Compliment her on how she looks.
- When you are going to be late, call her and let her know.
- Whenever you need to pull away, let her know you will be back or that
you need some time to think about things.
- When you've cooled off and you come back, talk about what was
bothering you in a respectful, nonblaming way, so she doesn't imagine the
worst.
- Give her four hugs/kisses a day.
- Call her from work to ask how she is or to share something exciting or
to tell her "I love you."
- When you are out of town, call to leave a telephone number where you
can be reached and to let her know you arrived safely.
- Offer to give her a back or neck or foot massage (or all three).
- Make a point of cuddling or being affectionate sometimes without being
sexual.
- Display affection in public.
- When holding hands don't let your hand go limp.
- Create occasions when you both can dress up.
- Let her see that you carry a picture of her in your wallet and update
it from time to time.
- Write a note or make a sign on special occasions such as anniversaries
and birthdays.
- Notice how she is feeling and comment on it-"You look happy today" or
"You look tired"-and then ask a question like "How was your day?"
- Take her dancing or take dancing lessons together.
- Surprise her with a love note or poem.
- Treat her in ways you did at the beginning of the relationship.
- Open the door for her.
- Touch her with your hand sometimes when you talk to her.
- Show interest in what she does during the day, in the books she reads
and the people she relates to.
- Ask her how she is feeling.
- Give her a kiss and say good-bye when you leave.
- Laugh at her jokes and humor.
- Create special time to be alone together.
- Organize and prepare a picnic. (Remember to bring a picnic cloth)
- Let her know that you missed her when you went away or she went away.
- Tell her "I love you" often.

Good suggestions - I've done all of them...

However, for some reason, this reminds me of the joke being told by Ron White, stand up comedian....regarding women's favorite item: diamonds.

"DeBeers had a slogan - take her breath away. Their new slogan is 'Diamonds - render her speechless!'. Why don't they just go ahead and say it: 'Diamonds: that'll shut her up!'" :p

Don't know why, but reading that list, it just popped in there....

Just a reminder - I'm just passing it along, these aren't MY words.

Flame suit donned and ready ;)

note to self: forward to boyfriend.

Note to self: forward to EX boyfriend!! LOL ;)

LMAO!!

LOL, that sounds like my dad. My mom whines for a new piece of jewelry, and after a few months, here's another flashy emerald. The best was when she wanted a new car: she wanted the Mazda Tribute as soon as she saw the commericals, and would run around the house singing "Zoom zoom zoom..." and turn up the TV when commericals came on. She got one like a month after they came out. :D

Before I scrolled down to read your post...I just sent him the link. :D

awww....those are all sweeeeet.

note to self: find boy who does all this without having to forward it.... :p

**edited to add....well, all are sweet except that tell her "you look tired" bit....if she's tired, and you tell her she looks tired, we all know that will prob get translated into "you look like crap...what the hell is wrong with you?!" ;)

note to self: find man who does all that without needing to be told...

Those are all sweet though. Can't remember when the last time was I got any of them though....:p

Nice list

Just a note: Any self-respecting man should follow these rules - I know I alway's have and will ;)...

Note to docet, to impress the ladies don't try so hard to be a pimp. Your making it to obvious .lol :cool:

Really, there's no need to make such an extensive list...only two items would suffice...

a) Do what she says
b) Give her what she wants

;)

Must find guy who does all of this...must find guy who does all of this...

In reference to the DeBeers commercial -- at Christmas time, Kay Jewelers ran an ad for their 3-diamond drop necklace... anyone see it?

It was a man and you just see him and he says something like "I'll show you what I got mommy if you promise to keep it a secret" and then you see the necklace and he is holding it over a crib and the baby is looking at it. Then the announcer says:

"What do you give the woman who brought you from being a boy to being a daddy?"

I was like IN TEARS all over the place -- Mr. AXO Alum was rolling his eyes saying "thank you VERY much Kay Jewelers for making me look like an a$$ when I don't show up with one of those on Christmas" -- it was funny!

But totally sweet commercial :D And sweet list too!

Question to ZEKE, does N know about this?

Think I will call and ask her!!:)

Damn Dude are you that good? Hell dump N and move in with me!!!!:D

Tombstone!!!!!:cool:

Nice list, but an addition!

When she is working, leave a note, flowers, or balloons on her car! My boy does this from time to time and allllllll the employees tell me a dozen times before I even get outside it's so cute

Note to women:

Feed us, sleep with us, and let us watch t.v., then men will do those things. (IOW - make men happy ~ make women happy)

Serious Note: half those things guys should already know how to do, pretty lame if you don't know how to be a gentlemen. Oh yea, compliment the shoes, for some reason they are a big deal to women... and they like to know you're staring at something else once in a while :)


RUgreek

RUGreek...where the hell have you been?!

the only thing i don't agree with on this whole list is the PDA thing...PDA makes me seriously uncomfortable...i think a realtionship is at its best when you can sit in a room with a group of people and not have to sit next to eachother.

Law school is a bitch, sorry hun, i'll try to show myself around here more.

i love rutgers soooooo much i wanna go there for grad school...if i go, sorry had to add that, i fell in love with the campus a few months ago!

law school, huh? i knew i was onto somethin when i posted you as a crush back in the day! ;)

Rutgers was a great time, too bad our greek system sucks donkey _ _ _ _ _. The campus is really growing fast, good luck for grad school!

Sorry for diverting off topic, return to the "bring joy to ladies" thread....


RUgreek

Hmm, wasn't I crush #32? Need to bump me up on that list ;)

greek life kinda blows at west chester too, the school greatly restricts our activities, we not even allowed to have "mixers"

lol....crush #32??? whatever are you talking about? :p

oh i love to hijack! obviously been chattin with docet, i guess..... ;)

LOL!!!!! That's freakin awesome. Must find guy who at least does some of this...

Please girls are not that simple.:p

Sure they are...anything else can pretty much fall under those two categories.

I give you that, but usually those categories can get pretty elaborate. ;) :p

bump

If you are a self absorbed deceitful pig, don’t waste her time. Pass her by, she’ll get over the loss.

yah, thats what we call hit and quit it.

I MUST find a man who will do these things! I'd take a man who even does half of them! Okay, okay, I'll settle for 2 off the list.

dang, this thread was so funny.

and I add my self to the list "must find boy to do this"

Chris

I second that.

I like this thread ;)

I would agree Amy. One would assume it would be a second thought. Why do them only because you think you have to. The girl can tell the difference.

where is quality man *sigh*