To kiss or not to kiss?
 

In conventional dating, not after party shacking or random bar hook-ups, the boy takes the girl someplace and its called . . .

Drum Roll please: A First Date. *The crowd gasps*

What myself and other guys want to know is . . . what are the kissing rules for first date experiences?

Like should you try and initiate heavy petting before the entree?

Should you definitely try to kiss her before she closes the door to her home?

Should the kiss be passionate?

What are the girls thinking all night before the first date?

What are the physiological clues guys should be looking for?

And Finally: What are your unusual First Date First kiss stories?

Kissing on the first date, for me, is generally limited to the cheek. You would really have to knock my socks off to get anything more. And if you want heavy petting before the entree, spend some quality time with Rover before we meet up.

Unusual first date stories, I have none because I try to keep things respectable.

I like kissing on the first date...if the click is there. Sometimes it's hard to tell though, so a nice kiss on the cheek is a good test, not too invasive and you can check out the other person's reaction.

Is that all you want just a kiss?

Skipping straight to sex won't get you many complaints from men lol.

well, hell cheap sex, how can I refuse?

You're wearing a denim jacket. James.

I think a kiss on the first date is cute. It has to be soft and sensual though- NO heavy petting :)

Ive always had bad luck in a relationship if I kiss on the first date...

Always kissed on the first date.

First kiss story is way to long to tell.

If a girl doesn't sleep with me on the first date, I won't go out with her again. If she does sleep with me on the first date I definitely wont go out with her again.

Usually, it's best to kiss BEFORE the first date.

Damn.

-Rudey
--Clever

Don't kiss on the first date. Save it for the second date. She will wonder what's going on. She'll feel confused and intrigued. You will leave an impression like no other man before you. ;)

I kiss on the first date if I like him and had a good time . . . if I didn't then I won't.

Nothing beyond kissing though.

Wow...What A Player You are!!! I just had to laugh at that..even though You are very true :eek:

I say...Do whatever feels right!! If the sparks are flying then why not..but if it's kinda a awkward date..then Maybe you Better..wait till the second one.. it all depends! Make sure you pay attention to the other person as well..on how there acting..Usually if everythings going right, you'll be able to tell..and chances are they'll want to kiss you just as much as you want to kiss them1:D

Hee heee. I am a player! :p :D lol!

Kisses on the first date are great! Most of the time.

Here's a lovely story...
I went out with this guy and another couple. When we were watching a movie, he started surreptitiously picking a scab on his leg. He caught me watching him. Then, he had to get rid of it. So he shoved it in his shoe. Then he went in for the kiss. Needless to say, that kind of scarred me. I didn't kiss him, never went out with him again, and had to tell this story to all of my friends. :p

Always preceed the first kiss with that "I want to kiss you" hand rub! ;)

What is a before first kiss hand job?

Hey now, I didn't say "hand job," I said "rub"!!!
You know, that sexy little hand massage...if done right, it makes you all tingly! :D

RUB

You have a dirty mind. :eek:

LOL, sorry that DOESN'T change the mental image lol . . .

Dirty, dirty James!!! :o

Q!!!!
 

JAMES, You are A Prevert! Dont deny it Man!!:p


SICK, SICK, Sickoid!!!!!!:eek:

I rather be a dirty old man, HEHEEHE!!!:p

But got to think you are a "nice guy"!

Oh, I always went for the kiss on the first date!!!

No tounghy, just a peck on the cheek!:( Well when I could get it and wasnt scared sh**less!:o

hug and a kiss on the cheek on the first date....unless you've kissed him/her before. then a little kiss is ok.

i say wait for the second date. first date kisses are always awkward, plus, if you are really into the other person, you will think that means they are also into you....and they might not be. so it is best to wait for a second date.

hmmmm
 

I have always kind of thought it sweet when a guy asks "So, can I kiss you?" I just thought it was gentlemenly and really cute.

If you aren't sure, give her a hug and a kiss on the cheek. But what ever you do, do NOT say, "I'll call you" if you have no intentions of calling. That is so bastardly. If you know you aren't gonna call her again just say "I had fun. Good night".

:confused:

Kiss when it feels comfortable... different every time depending on the situation. But, don't be too passionate unless she reciprocates!

Ok, is there really anyone who took this seriously??? I suppose I should spesify for all of you people out there who missed it....

:::said sarcasticly::: well, hell cheap sex, how can I refuse :::end sarcasm:::

I now return you to your regularly scheduled post.

If you don't get it PM me and I'll clarify...

You tell them lol . . .

ttt

I would wait until the second date. By then, I would figure out if the guy can respect me or not. He has to earn a kiss from me.

If the date went well, go for it.

Y'all are puritans, LOL.

If someone doesn't kiss well, I want to know right away so I don't waste my time on a second date with a drooly little Hoover.

If you dig the guy after the date, you're going to have to do something to let him know - we're not that bright, so obvious things (like kissing or oral sex) are the best.

Hell yeah! If I DONT kiss on a first date....it means there DEFINITELY wont be a second date.

Absolutely - there is no subsitute for physical contact as a sign of whether there will be a second date or not.

To go with the along with the other Kappa Sigs . . . in today's world where guys and girls can be "just friends" the kiss tells the guy that it was a date.

Then we know we are on the same page. Otherwise, its a bit of a mixed signal and we might think you view us as just a friend.