Who enjoys it more?
 

SEX, that is...guys or girls?

I say girls...I will explain later.

I'm honestly surprised James wasn't the first to reply to this thread.

I would have to say that guys front like they enjoy it more, but that females actually enjoy it more.

I really think it depends on the individual person, not their gender.

I also think it depends on the partner too. I'm sure there are times that sex was just great and there were times that the sex was, well...just bad.

I don't think one gender enjoys it more than the other, but I do think women have a harder time expressing the fact they thye enjoy sex.

My boyfriend says it seems like women enjoy sex more, but I think that men enjoy sex just as much. I also think that the person, mood, and the feelings also make sex much better.

Hmm.. Yeah it's def person AND partner dependent. But i have to say, sex is one of my favorite things (it's a wonder it didn't make the song).
-M

I think guys because we think about it so much, and you never hear of a guy with holding it from a girl.

If girls enjoy it so much, it would be easier to get some...

As for the actual deed, it's a person thing (sometimes even a time thing) as I've had sex that wasn't so great and some that was (even from the same person).

If we are talking a good experience with a decent partner, women enjoy sex more.

I think men enjoy it more in general.

sheeeiiiitt, women by far enjoy sex a whole lot more. at least in my experience, anyway. i'm cool with it, but i'm one of them cats who take pride in pleasing a woman.

I think women enjoy it more, we're just not conditioned to talk about enjoying sex that much, whereas for men it's more accepted. By "enjoy", I mean enjoy the feelings, both emotionally and physically that are invoked and not necessarily having an orgasm. But, if you want to take it in that way, women are more likely than men to be multiorgasmic, so I guess we would enjoy it more in that way, too...;)

I agree. I think women have the potential to enjoy it more, but in general men enjoy it more. Women's experiences are more likely to be anywhere on the scale from terrible to mind-blowingly wonderful, whereas men tend to have generally positive experiences more often.

I definitely thing girls enjoy it more, but many guys don't know how to "get her" to enjoy it. So many guys just don't know. When a girl finds a partner who can "allow" her to enjoy it, she's got it in the bag. :D But when thinking of numbers, guys enjoy it more, of course.

You beat me to the punch! I was going to say that women enjoy sex a lot more, for the fact that most men DO get off on making a womam...hmm....shudder.;) Most men will walk around like King Rooster if they know they 'got you there'! I think that women enjoy the experience more because it is all inclusive, we enjoy it on so many different levels. While men are very visual, women take in the whole experience...or that's what I've heard ;)

Depends on the guy
Minute man- he does
After five minutes, Girl does.

shudder isn't the half of it. i'm trying make her toes curl, her back twist, and her eyes roll into the back of her head:p :p :p . that's why i try to be good in ALL facets of it. but some fellas are just trying to get theirs and call it a day.

I think what Librasoul might be asking, and she will no doubt correct me if I am wrong lol, is who has the physical capacity to enjoy sex more.

Men or women based on physiology. Assuming that both partners are with someone they are totally into, really compatible with, pretty skilled, and are relaxed.

Also assuming that neither has any sexual hang-ups and both see it as their mission to get themselves and their partners off as intensely as possible.

Would the man or the woman have the capacity for a greater more intense orgasm and general experience?

Ohhh weee...............I got a visual!!!!!http://www.click-smilies.de/sammlung...smiley-062.gif

i specialize in more than just visuals :D :D :D :D

I think they enjoy it equally.

And I also think they think about it equally too.

It takes a lot longer than five minutes for me to enjoy it more! Hell, sex is the only thing I've found that is a good cure for my short attention span...:D

I think that it changes based on each experience and can't be generalized to one gender.

I definitely enjoy myself but I like to make sure that it's a mutual thing.

Thanks James! Yeah, I had to start the topic since *someone* was scared to. ;)

starang.....so, are u busy later tonight?

Good sex is the only thing I've found that is a good cure for my short attention span!!;)

:eek:

D*mn, how long does it take then? (never been there)

I heard stories of women taking as long as 30 minutes to....I hope that's not the norm.

:o Tease!!

Being dorks we used to say...

Well, which feels better the Q-Tip or your ear?

Honestly, I think men enjoy the act of sex more...the physical part, the physical pleasure of it.

Women tend to enjoy the more emotional part of sex, the closeness and intimacy that it brings with your partner. Sometimes, if they don't have this part in their sex life.....they don't enjoy it. Unless you have a guy who can make "her toes curl, her back twist, and her eyes roll into the back of her head" But, as we gals know.....most don't.


Maybe, I'm dating the wrong kind of dudes....

I can't believe I've crossed into one of these threads...lol. But I'll agree with whoever said that both enjoy it equally...especially when you are in close, committed relationship. It's much more enjoyable to me when I know that my partner is having an amazing time too :)

Let's forget love, emotional capacity of men vs women,

Physically speaking, I think that women have more of a capacity to enjoy sex more. The fact that we can achieve orgasm in more ways than one, and have the ability to have multiple orgasms (ohh, the lucky ones!) I also think that we seem to have hightened sensitivity to our erongenous zones.

;)

30 minutes? No, and HELL NO. Way too long.

As for who enjoys it more, I just think that we can never know. We probably ALL enjoy it very much, and that's why we all think about it all the time.

of course not, lemme just run to the young store to get some of the scented candles.

30 minutes for the dude or for the girl? i've heard of dudes only going for a few minutes, but is that for real? that's doesn't seem possible to me.

I know what you mean.....


I broke a girl down one time to the point where she fell on top of me, couldn't move and then passed out. The same b!tch broke me down a few days later with a blow job that still holds the record with me. I've never had head as good as that in my life. It's kinda scary once I sit and think about it.......You don't get that good by giving few blow jobs.

Leave it to UF_Pike to take it to another level! :p

This is going to sound really funny, I think I enjoy going down on a guy more than he does... I swear it!

I'll swear with you on this one!

Me three! :D

i'll agree to that!!:D

Actually I've met a lot of dudes who actually LIKE going downtown. Mostly are my good guy friends. They always talk about it like it's the best thing on earth. I dunno, maybe they're just freaks. Which is a good thing:p :p :p :p

Have any of you girls tried going down on two guys? (If it's even possible-this was a popular debate in detention while in high school)