what qualities attracts u ?
 

what qualities actually actracts the opposit sex... ? charisma, charm, looks, feeling...? what do u like in a girl.. innocence?

Intelligence
Sense of Humor
Looks
Morals/Values
Attitude/Ambition/Outlook

Basically, I want it all!

Personality:
twisted humor
shy
sensitive but not to sensitive
has to be manly
caring
intelligent
patient

Physical:
dark hair/dark eyes
nice broad shoulders *drools*
husky

Intelligence
Goals, Drive, and Determination
A guy who's good to his mother and sisters, and close with the rest of his family
Physical Attractiveness-eyes and hands
How he dances
Sense of humor
Adventureous and Daring
Social Ability
Sensitivity and caring....

damn, that's a lot....maybe that has something to do with why I'm still single!

Nothing attracts me more than someone with intelligence. Of course, when I first met my current boyfriend, his looks attracted me but it wasn't until one of my sisters said to, "He's majoring in Chemistry and he's pre-med" that I became head over heals. :D

She must have:
Intelligence
Fun to be around
Gets along with my friends
Attractive
Goals & morals

Added bonus points:
Likes to travel
Close with her family
Likes kids

1. Conventionally attractive (my peers would thing she was attractive)

The rest in no particular order:

Intellegent
Clever (they are two different things)
Her own person
Slightly Obsessive
Physically affectionate
Warm
Has special interests

I like guys with warm hands, light eyes, and a strange sense of humor. And the amazing thing is, I actually found one! :D

I never really settled on a list of things.

I decide I like one thing and change my mind meeting someone else.

So best way to know is when I see attractive I know.

LOL good for you, that may be a healthier list than any of ours :).

Allow me to add:

Confidence.

There may be nothing more attractive than an intellegent confident good looking female.

Confidence really stands out.

Also let me qualify the looks comment. Basically the way she looks determines whether she is a potential friend or potential romantic interest.

i look for a guy who's:
intelligent
has a good sense of humor/funny
has no problem teasing, but stops when you ask
knows how to laugh
is caring
is compassionate
has self-confidence
is taller than 5'7" (weird, but I want to be the short one by a couple inches)
not completely devoid of looks (i.e. he's not the ugliest person I've ever laid eyes on)
isn't obsessive/doesn't call more than 4-5 times a week, and lets/expects me to call before he calls me a second time

Ok, in order...

Beautiful Face
Money$$
Nice ass
Nice breasts
Nice Legs
Nice smile
Intelligence

AchtungBaby80~Do you any ATO's at UK?

I want a guy who is intelligent, caring, sweet, good personality, honest, good sense of humor, trustworthy, have confidence, and have good morals and values.
Yeah it's alot but if you don't look for those qualities, then you get jack shit.

6 feet or taller

clean cut

nice dresser

NICE COLOGNE!!!!!!! (Nothing better than a good smelling man!)

Intelligence, drive, manners, confidence, compassion...and all that mess...

intelligent - this one is a must

tall

nice smile

friendly

funny

likes hockey

I can't believe the lies some of yall tell.

You know damn well LOOKS is #1 and nothing else is even close to being SECOND.

I know this because one of my best friends is a genius with a nice personality and he NEVER gets a chick. This guy is freakin NICE too. And he is always talkin about pleasin the girl and stuff.

I am hot as hell, and pretty smart (not genius though). I used to be a real asshole too and I still got way more then him.

WHY??!?

CUZ YALL ARE JUST AS SHALLOW AS MEN. I don't see why you have to hide it.

Champ you have something there..

I'm fairly sure research has shown that looks are what initially attract people (in general).

The ladies here might be referring to what it takes to keep them around... I've dated plenty of beautiful but unintelligent women and I got bored fast...

Some of us men actually enjoy good conversation and value good personality.

Yep, I know a few of them. Do you?