J Lo and Ben!
 

I just saw J Lo's new video and the girl is hot, she actually makes me want to workout.:rolleyes: The question is, given J Lo's history with men, her first husband, P Diddy, her second husband, now Ben who she has featured in her new video, like she did with husband #2, how long do you think the relationship with Ben will last? I give it 3 to 4 more months.:o

I just got the latest People magazine in the mail and this issue announces that Ben and J Lo are engaged!!! :eek: The engagement ring that everyone said was a prop for the video is actually a real diamond....a pink one...designed by Harry Winston. I can't see it lasting....but who knows maybe 3rd time's the charm :rolleyes: :p

:eek: She just got a divorce! I guess she thinks it's true love again. What ever happened to getting to really know a guy? I guess if P Diddy had asked for her hand in marriage, she would have said yes also.:cool:

Well, I don't know how she can say she is engaged! I heard on tv today that her marriage to Cris Judd is not final until the end of January. They (ET on MTV) also announced that they planned to get married on Valentine's Day in Puerto Rico.

I think Puff was wise not to ask her to marry him. She goes through men faster than I go through shoes! I give this new marriage until August 2002. I think that she is the new Elizabeth Taylor.

And speaking of her ring, I heard that it was 25 carats!!! :eek: Does Ben Affleck know about her past with men or can he not see past her booty? :confused:

I also saw the video and I think it sucked! :mad: The point of the song is that she hasn't changed , so why wasn't it made in the Bronx.

Okay that's enough venting about J. Lo. Thank you and good night!

I assumed it was in the Bronx up until they said something about Cali. I just wonder why she had to be topless all those times. Could she not be "the same old Jenny from the block" with a top?

I think she's trying to call herself "Jenny" to be more, ahem, mainstream. It just wouldn't do to be J.Lo with ol' balding Bahs-ton Ben Affleck at her side.:rolleyes:

But if they ever are called Jen and Ben, I'm going to regurgitate my food. That would remind me of Jennifer Aniston (talk about overrated).

This will be her third marriage in four years.If you count Puffy that would make 3 serious relationships,including 2 marriages in a year and a half. She needs a serious vacation not another husband.

Steeltrap: I don't think I could handle the Jen and Ben either but it is funny.:)

The Divorce Is Not Final
 

Her divorce will not be final until January. I find her behavior disrespectful. The least she could do is keep her business on the down low until after she is divorced from Judd. I would not sport another man's engagement ring while still married to another. I believe she loves the attention all of this is giving her.

From the OLD Comic View!
 

She needs JEEZUS!

:rolleyes:

J Lo is suppose to be on a Barbara Walters special this week, I am not for sure of the date but I am going to watch it because they are going to be discussing this HOT TOPIC!

Re: The Divorce Is Not Final
 

I agree! The divorce won't be final until around Jan. 26. Does anyone else notice somebody moving on up the ladder? Personally, I think he can do better.

Re: From the OLD Comic View!
 

She really needs GOD the Father:rolleyes: :D :p

What Jennifer Lopez doesn't realize is that Ben is MINE!!! :p lol! ;)

VERY STRANGE
 

I never though that J-Lo and Ben Affleck dating was all THAT strange until an article in People (I think) made me think.

It said if you don't think J-Lo and Ben is that weird a couple...then try and picture their exes together....LMAO...Gwynneth and P.Diddy...truly truly ROFLMPGAO!!!!!

I mean dayum! How many times does one need to get married in a lifetime!!!:mad:

NUPE4LIFE
 

I've never been married, but I couldn't see myself (espcially after my second divorce) wanting to date, let alone marry someone. She does need help. I thought she was Catholic. She must not be a practicing one. If I were a Priest, I wouldn't marry her. Does anyone know if she had a previous marriages annulled? I feel that she has some serious issues that only God and a shrink can help her figure out. I'm not against divorce, but I'm against people marrying for the wrong reasons. The good thing though, is that she's never had kids from any of her multiple relationships. That would make this whole situation worse. All things being said, she has the free will to do whatever she wants. If she wants to marry a new man every 9 months, she can go right ahead.

Jen and Ben
 

THEY DID IT!

this morning on the early show (CBS), they did a short report on the new video and the engagement, et. al... and the little caption that flashed across the screen was Jen and Ben.


ewwwwwwwwwwwww

Re: Jen and Ben
 

Ohh. My. Gaww.

:eek: :eek: :eek: :eek:
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I think she isn't giving enough time for her relationships to flourish. But she is her own woman and only see knows whats right for her. I don't think Ben is used to all the publicity that comes with her popularity( an example seen on Making the Video, MTV)

I think she is the Elizabeth Taylor of the new millenium. By 2010 she'll be on her 6th hubby.

Did anyone see the Dateline special with J. Lo and Diane Sawyer last night? I watched it. Let me just say that I think J.Lo is full of stanky boo-boo. For about 45 minutes of the hour long interview, all she said was that "I'm still Jenny from the block," "I'm really still just the same old girl from the Bronx," and "well, you know I'm from the Bronx." We get it!!! We know that you're from the Bronx. Nobody forgot!

Diane asked her about all of her marriages and relationships and how she thought her marriage with Ben would last if the other two didn't. She said something like "I've been married twice, but I've never had a real marriage." She also said that she doesn't think that she was really in love before. She was just in love with the idea of being in love. They did do many close-ups of the ring and it is downright fabulous. A 25 carat pink diamond. I probably would've said yes too.

I have said it before, and I'll say it again, Jennifer Lopez is full of it. I think that every move she has made has been a calculating step to make her even more famous. She was not the megastar that she is now, when she started dating Puffy. I think she used him to catapult her career. And, when the going got tough, Jennifer got going. Now, she's marrying Ben Affleck is to go even further.

My take on this.......
 

Re: My take on this.......
 

No, no, no!! No you didn't call him Puff the Dragonbreath Mofo! I am literally crying right now!

Lord, please forgive me for this....
 

No she doesn't......If she did, she might try to marry him :eek:

Okay, I'm going to repent for that now :cool:

Re: Lord, please forgive me for this....
 

Re: My take on this.......
 

Unless this info came from someone who witnessed these things for themselves or from a direct link to J-Lo, I would hardly classify them as facts. I'm not a J-Lo fan per se, but I find a lot of the really ugly/nasty stuff being said about her is simply being put out there to add fuel to the already out of control fire. Good publicity, bad publicity... it's still publicity.

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On another note, it's hardly a crime to be married three times and/or be in a relationship with several people back-to-back. Nor does it classify you as a ho, IMO. We're talking about four people she dated, not forty. Would I do it? No. But not everyone can be me. ;) J/K

I saw the 20/20 special and thought her comments about her dating habits seemed quite honest. She basically said she had issues and was in love with being in love. I know of women like that. Looking for love in all the wrong places... Sad, but true. It happens.

And while she may have ridden on the coat tails of P.Diddy to get herself out there, who in the entertainment business hasn't ridden someone's coat tails? People do it allllll the time, especially in the music business. They'll make it big, start their own company, and then look for their own talent to sign. That's usually what makes unknowns, known. If you hang out with celebrities, you're bound to get noticed. Isn't that kinda the point, especially if you're trying to make it in the business?

Not to be overly cynical, but isn't the entertainment business just that...a business?

Re: My take on this.......
 

What is the source for this celeb gossip? I have never heard the first one (and I would hipe the source is credible for it to be spread out there. It sould like Tommy Hilfiger doesn't lik n****s wearing his vclothes myth to me) and I have read statements from J-Ho's camp denying the second one altogether.

Re: Re: My take on this.......
 

lmao...

Still, are the "camps" more credible? They lie and cover-up too.


:D

Ben is People magazine's sexiest man alive this year...

In one word, and a quick comment.....
 

J-Lo's Prenup
 

she is soooooooooooooooo full of it. . .

J.Lo's Pre-nup Demands
April 28, 2003
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Hollywood superstar Jennifer Lopez has instructed her lawyers to draw up an extensive pre-nuptial agreement ready for her summer wedding to Ben Affleck.

The singer and actress reportedly wants her handsome Daredevil star fiance to agree to hand over half of his multi-million dollar fortune if he ever cheats on her - no small sum since Ben currently commands around $24 million a movie.

Reports in British tabloid the Daily Star claim J.Lo also wants to keep their jointly-owned mansions, as well as all monies generated by Ben from business ventures during their marriage.

Untrusting Jen also allegedly stipulates her beau agrees to never again see any children they may have together if he is to blame for the break-up of their union. [WTF EVER -- ROLAND X 100]

The clause states, "If any infidelity by Mr Affleck should be the cause of the divorce, Ms Lopez will receive full and final custody of all minor children. Mr Affleck shall be entitled to absolutely no visitation privileges."

Bizarrely, Jennifer's pre-nuptial agreement also reportedly states Ben would not be entitled to any of her wealth - should they split.{WTF -- ONE MO GIN!!!!}

The actress's first marriage to waiter Ojani Noa collapsed after ten months, and saw the Cuban benefit from a $48,000 pay-off as well as monies earned through kiss and tell stories. While Jen's second marriage to dancer Cris Judd lasted just seven months, for which he acquired $14 million.

According to the Star's sources, in order to escape the marriage with his estate in tact, Ben must stay with Jennifer until he is 82. (HA!!! He won't stay with her for 82 WEEKS let alone til he is 82)

Such longetivity seems unlikely - British bookmakers Ladbrokes are already offering odds of 3-1 that the marriage will end in divorce by December 31st.



:rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :mad: :mad:

Ben-Lo, you betta just say no to the J-Ho.

If he agrees to THAT isht..... I don't really know what to say about that.

What does him cheating have to do with him NEVER being able to see his kids? :confused: What kind of isht is that?

What if SHE cheats on him? What does Ben get?

Hey Jen,

As a wedding present, I'm giving you a ladder cause you seriously need to Get Over Yourself

Best Wishes,

tnxbutterfly

Umm, Booo!
 

Um, boo, he's already cheated, technically. Don't you know that they cheat with you, they'll cheat on you?

Untrusting Jen also allegedly stipulates her beau agrees to never again see any children they may have together if he is to blame for the break-up of their union.

The clause states, "If any infidelity by Mr Affleck should be the cause of the divorce, Ms Lopez will receive full and final custody of all minor children. Mr Affleck shall be entitled to absolutely no visitation privileges."

I don't think that stipulation will hold up in court. Too many courts have ruled that ties to both parents are in the best interests of a child.

As I said before.....
 

Ditto :p