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librasoul22 11-01-2002 02:50 AM

Be A Man/woman!
 
To all the people who feel the need to get new user names in order to come on here and insult people, I say BE A MAN/WOMAN ABOUT IT! If you have something to say to someone, have some balls about it, don't hide behind a new username. I hate that mess in real life, and if you have to do it over the net, then you must be really insecure.

Lately, this has been happening more and more...bad news for the people that are doing it...it is OBVIOUS!

Don't make me start a roll call up in here. Unlike y'all, I will say what I have to say and I will not be anyone other than librasoul22.

Imthechamp 11-01-2002 02:53 AM

I think you're silly.

ZetaAce 11-01-2002 08:55 AM

Re: Be A Man/woman!
 
LMAO!

Too funny...

Quote:

Originally posted by librasoul22
To all the people who feel the need to get new user names in order to come on here and insult people, I say BE A MAN/WOMAN ABOUT IT! If you have something to say to someone, have some balls about it, don't hide behind a new username. I hate that mess in real life, and if you have to do it over the net, then you must be really insecure.

Lately, this has been happening more and more...bad news for the people that are doing it...it is OBVIOUS!

Don't make me start a roll call up in here. Unlike y'all, I will say what I have to say and I will not be anyone other than librasoul22.


Serenity 11-01-2002 09:25 AM

Re: Be A Man/woman!
 
Quote:

Originally posted by librasoul22
To all the people who feel the need to get new user names in order to come on here and insult people, I say BE A MAN/WOMAN ABOUT IT!
:eek: Is it really that deep? New usernames? Wow...

Could it be some people take GC a lot more seriously than others?

Kevin 11-01-2002 10:57 AM

People don't realize how unique their posting styles are... It's almost like DNA.

And it DOES come through pretty clearly libra's right:D

Thrillhouse 11-01-2002 11:02 AM

Re: Re: Be A Man/woman!
 
Quote:

Originally posted by Serenity


:eek: Is it really that deep? New usernames? Wow...

Could it be some people take GC a lot more seriously than others?

Yeah maybe some people need to realize that there is more to life than the internet.

Munchkin03 11-01-2002 11:04 AM

People honestly do that other than the V's? I had to change my name because I was getting harassing PMs and emails, but if that hadn't happened, I would have kept my screenname.

Kevin 11-01-2002 11:07 AM

Re: Re: Re: Be A Man/woman!
 
Quote:

Originally posted by Thrillhouse


Yeah maybe some people need to realize that there is more to life than the internet.

I think they just overestimate their degree of anonymity.

ZTAMiami 11-01-2002 11:23 AM

LOL! This is exactly what I was talking about the other day. See my post 'GC problems'

I want a new screen name without my letters on it so I can post in threads that may be a little 'off color' :p NOT so i can flame other people. Thats a pointless waste of time not to mention it takes the place of other interesting threads.

Any suggestions for a new name are welcome. I don't want to be anonymous. I just don't want people to associate my views with that of my organization.:D

librasoul22 11-01-2002 11:43 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by ZTAMiami
LOL! This is exactly what I was talking about the other day. See my post 'GC problems'

I want a new screen name without my letters on it so I can post in threads that may be a little 'off color' :p NOT so i can flame other people. Thats a pointless waste of time not to mention it takes the place of other interesting threads.

Any suggestions for a new name are welcome. I don't want to be anonymous. I just don't want people to associate my views with that of my organization.:D

I just read the thread! Sorry, I didn't mean to be redundant. But when we have people suddenly needing rogaine, people proclaiming to be the champ, you know, losers like that, it tends to take a toll on the sane GC public.

:D

33girl 11-01-2002 12:23 PM

All I can say is, it's a good thing I never wanted to study linguistics, cause I am dumb as a post about this stuff. :p

ZTAMiami - maybe something to do with the school's teams or something?

ZetaLuvBunny 11-01-2002 12:36 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by ZTAMiami
I just don't want people to associate my views with that of my organization.:D
I completely agree. That is why I try REALLY hard not to post anything offensive, because my screen name is very obvious & there a few people from my college who post here as well (including one of my sorority sisters from the same chapter).

I only changed my screen name twice & that was before I even joined ZTA, so obviously I would not have had "Zeta" in my screen name then. My old screen names were TinkerbellMTSU (the summer before I started college) and RusheeGirl (while I went through rush- sadly my rush thread was lost during renovation though). Other than that I have had the same screen name for over a year.

The1calledTKE 11-01-2002 12:42 PM

Re: Re: Re: Be A Man/woman!
 
Quote:

Originally posted by Thrillhouse


Yeah maybe some people need to realize that there is more to life than the internet.

Your a wise man.

Imthechamp 11-01-2002 04:39 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by librasoul22


I just read the thread! Sorry, I didn't mean to be redundant. But when we have people suddenly needing rogaine, people proclaiming to be the champ, you know, losers like that, it tends to take a toll on the sane GC public.

:D

What a loser. You do realize this is the INTERNET and this is a MESSAGE BOARD, right? New people will come and old people will leave.

Why the hell are you so paranoid? Are you scared that all these 'new' people are invading your 'online' family?

It's just words on a screen from someone you don't even know.

*edited by moderator b/c oif content and an attack on another poster*

kdonline 11-01-2002 05:00 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by ZTAMiami
Any suggestions for a new name are welcome. I don't want to be anonymous. I just don't want people to associate my views with that of my organization.:D
Excellent thinking!!!!!!!!!

There are sooooooo many times when I see what some people post & think, "Eeek, they shouldn't be saying that while 'wearing their letters'!"

In fact, I admit, when I see a KD posting something a little too "controversial," I will PM them. (Just my nature...)

And as for all the "fake" people...just ignore them. http://www.gamers-forums.com/smilies...ctus/kyoro.gif

FuzzieAlum 11-01-2002 05:09 PM

I am thoroughly sick and tired of seeing the "it's just a message board" argument on here. Yes, indeed, it is a message board, and I doubt anyone on here is lacking enough in the brains department to notice that. But the rules of polite communication are the same on here as they are in any other realm (face-to-face, letters, public speeches) direct insults to other people are out of line. Disagreement is fine but attacking the person is uncalled for. It doesn't matter if this is "just" the Internet. It doesn't matter how old or new someone is. It doesn't matter whether they're your buddy or a stranger. And words don't magically lose their power to cheer up, offend, inform or piss off simply because they're typed.

And if this site matters so little to a GCer, why are they here? Surely none of our lives are so empty as to hang out somewhere we get absolutely nothing from. Whether we're here to make friends, start a fight, learn something, network, brag about our lives, or whatever, we're obviously getting something from it or we wouldn't bother. So it's hypocritical to take others to task for admitting they get some value from Greek Chat and to pick on them just because they get more or less from it than you do. If "words on a screen" from a stranger are so irrelevant to you, why bother replying to words on a screen from another stranger?

dzrose93 11-01-2002 05:30 PM

Well stated.
 
Quote:

Originally posted by FuzzieAlum
I am thoroughly sick and tired of seeing the "it's just a message board" argument on here. Yes, indeed, it is a message board, and I doubt anyone on here is lacking enough in the brains department to notice that. But the rules of polite communication are the same on here as they are in any other realm (face-to-face, letters, public speeches) direct insults to other people are out of line. Disagreement is fine but attacking the person is uncalled for. It doesn't matter if this is "just" the Internet. It doesn't matter how old or new someone is. It doesn't matter whether they're your buddy or a stranger. And words don't magically lose their power to cheer up, offend, inform or piss off simply because they're typed.

And if this site matters so little to a GCer, why are they here? Surely none of our lives are so empty as to hang out somewhere we get absolutely nothing from. Whether we're here to make friends, start a fight, learn something, network, brag about our lives, or whatever, we're obviously getting something from it or we wouldn't bother. So it's hypocritical to take others to task for admitting they get some value from Greek Chat and to pick on them just because they get more or less from it than you do. If "words on a screen" from a stranger are so irrelevant to you, why bother replying to words on a screen from another stranger?

Kudos, FuzzieAlum. :)

KillarneyRose 11-01-2002 05:52 PM

LibraSoul,
I'm curiouss as to why you think someone would be sh80 enough to want to keep coming back under new screennames??? :D

Dionysus 11-01-2002 06:04 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by KillarneyRose
LibraSoul,
I'm curiouss as to why you think someone would be sh80 enough to want to keep coming back under new screennames??? :D

Oh no, not again! :mad: I am SOOOO not these new people.

Give me three reasons why you think that. I'm just well......curious.

librasoul22 11-01-2002 07:02 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Imthechamp


What a loser. You do realize this is the INTERNET and this is a MESSAGE BOARD, right? New people will come and old people will leave.

Why the hell are you so paranoid? Are you scared that all these 'new' people are invading your 'online' family?

It's just words on a screen from someone you don't even know.

*edited by moderator b/c oif content and an attack on another poster*

D*mmit, IowaHawkeye! I wanted to read what he/she/it said! Oh well, lol.

I hardly think you are new. But it's all good. If you wanna be scared and hide behind another name like the b*tch that you are, I will just *yawn* and move on.

Something tells me that last part will be editted out...oh well, use your imagination!

Imthechamp 11-01-2002 07:40 PM

Ok sweetie. You sure are doing a good job at *yawning* and moving on. You made a post to discuss this issue so it does bother you.

Scared?? Of what? Your post count? Give me a break...

Why don't you ask IowaHawkeye or one of the other incompetent mods here to run an IP check on me? I'm on a cable modem so my IP is static.

wreckingcrew 11-01-2002 07:50 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Imthechamp
Ok sweetie. You sure are doing a good job at *yawning* and moving on. You made a post to discuss this issue so it does bother you.

Scared?? Of what? Your post count? Give me a break...

Why don't you ask IowaHawkeye or one of the other incompetent mods here to run an IP check on me? I'm on a cable modem so my IP is static.

delete post, ban user

Kitso
KS 361 beers i'm drinking tonight at Margaritaville.....YOU should be here.

kddani 11-01-2002 08:45 PM

i'll second that
 
Quote:

Originally posted by AggieSigmaNu361


delete post, ban user

Kitso
KS 361 beers i'm drinking tonight at Margaritaville.....YOU should be here.

C'mon, seriously, how much more of this crap do we have to put up with from imthechamp?

Has (s)he posted anything not inflammatory, degrading, and insulting? How many posts of theirs have had to be deleted or edited? The mods don't need to deal with this. Take out the trash.

And as always, i'm asking- WHAT GREEK ORG ARE YOU IN? If you're not greek, then why the hell are you here????

Kevin 11-01-2002 08:49 PM

Re: i'll second that
 
Quote:

Originally posted by kddani

And as always, i'm asking- WHAT GREEK ORG ARE YOU IN? If you're not greek, then why the hell are you here????

Honestly it would appear that ima's here just to get a rise out of people. That's what it looks like for me at least.

IowaHawkeye 11-01-2002 09:06 PM

Re: i'll second that
 
Quote:

Originally posted by kddani



And as always, i'm asking- WHAT GREEK ORG ARE YOU IN? If you're not greek, then why the hell are you here????

Honestly - I think that is a very unfair question and an extremely rude demand that people be greek to enjoy greekchat. yes it's called greekchat - but do you want to tell the PNMs looking for rush advice and guidance "why the hell are you here????" when in reality they're NOT greek - and some of them may not get bids. Do you want to tell the college alums who have realized later in life what being greek could have done for them "what the hell are you doing here" when all they want is Cutiepie2000's awesome advice on Alum Initiation? No, I didn't think so. Stop perpetuating the stereotype that greeks are exclusive - in my opinion, everyone is welcome at greekchat.

KappaTarzan 11-01-2002 09:15 PM

i agree- greekchat is for everyone. we don't reveal any secrets or anything like that, and we are a close community that shares advice on problems.. just like with everything else in life there is one person who wants to creat a problem or start a fight.. it happens.. so we ignore it and move on. i bet you ima would be REALLY disappointed if everyone just stopped replying to this thread.

kddani 11-01-2002 09:15 PM

Re: Re: i'll second that
 
Quote:

Originally posted by IowaHawkeye


Honestly - I think that is a very unfair question and an extremely rude demand that people be greek to enjoy greekchat. yes it's called greekchat - but do you want to tell the PNMs looking for rush advice and guidance "why the hell are you here????" when in reality they're NOT greek - and some of them may not get bids. Do you want to tell the college alums who have realized later in life what being greek could have done for them "what the hell are you doing here" when all they want is Cutiepie2000's awesome advice on Alum Initiation? No, I didn't think so. Stop perpetuating the stereotype that greeks are exclusive - in my opinion, everyone is welcome at greekchat.

But it's okay for people to come here solely for the purpose of stirring up sh!t? Look through their posts. I think it's a pretty legitimate question to ask why someone is here, because all they have done is stir up trouble.

I'm think that it was "very unfair" and "extremelly rude" for you to say this to me, especially as a mod. You're putting words and contexts in my mouth that weren't there. I never said that nongreeks had no business here. But questioning someone's interests in this board when all they've done is been mean and hurtful is a valid point in my book. This user has said a countless number of very nasty things to many many members of this board, including myself. I consider a number of people on this board to be my "friends" and some of them are actually my sisters.

One of the great things about being Greek is supporting your friends/sisters/brothers (whatever you choose to call them). When someone is constantly saying nasty things and trying to start crap with my friends, I'm going to call them on it.

And if that makes me "very unfair", "extremelly rude", "perpetuating stereotypes that greeks are exclusive" or whatever else you want to say i'm being, then so be it. :confused: I'm sticking up for my friends, and myself.

IowaHawkeye 11-01-2002 09:23 PM

Go ahead and ask "why are you here" - but don't ask, "if you're not greek, why are you here. " Because as a greek, i don't care if someone non-greek is on the boards, and I would hate for them to think all greeks want to know why they are here.

With all of these "trouble makers" you have the option and the ability to IGNORE THEM, and never again have to read their posts. It's called using the ignore button. Check the chit chat forum guidelines at the top of the page for info on how to use this.

Imthechamp 11-01-2002 09:55 PM

Stirring up shit?

Yeah, I guess being honest and having an opinion that differs from yall means exactly that. I'm sure most of yall hate me cuz I openly discussed how "overweight" people are unattractive and I said every girl here was average at best.

What I said earlier about libra being a needy #####-##### was prolly the first derogatory thing I have said here. Hawkeye quickly edited and told me I would be banned if I continued, so there isn't any reason to give her crap about it.

SATX*APhi 11-01-2002 10:55 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by IowaHawkeye
Go ahead and ask "why are you here" - but don't ask, "if you're not greek, why are you here. "
I think this is what kddani meant by that remark:

She could see no reason why this person is on GC. They haven't made any positive contributions to the board, and the only excuse for them being here is because they were Greek.



I have no idea if this is what she meant, it is just what I think was meant.

Imthechamp 11-01-2002 11:18 PM

This is the chit chat board and all I've ever done was express my opinion. Am I going to apologize for feeling the way I do? Nope. The last time I check, it was ok to have a different opinion then someone else, no matter how harsh it was.

Librasoul made this post accusing me of being someone else...

I still don't understand why she thinks that everyone who registers needs her approval so she won't accuse them of being someone else.

And once again...this is the only name I have on GC.

Rudey 11-01-2002 11:43 PM

Sticking up
 
Well I'm sticking up for the champ. No matter how much anyone lies, overweight people are not as physically attractive as they'd be if they lost the weight.

Imthechamp was honest about that. His wording cannot be separated from the situation it was in. Someone used the word "fat" to ask a question and he simply used her vocabulary.

So why are people upset with him? Why do people ask him to show a picture of himself for saying that HE is not attracted to someone that is "fat"? Was it because he said he felt the girls on here were average? I'm so sorry that the egos of many a girl were shattered by him saying that, but to each his own. What my roommate considers attractive, I consider trashy...and we all have differing opinions and accept that.

What bearing does him being in a greek organization have on anything? I don't mean to argue with anyone on this but I just don't see the arguments you guys are presenting. If he makes personal attacks at people then he should be warned, as he was, and asked not to do those actions again. Kddani I understand that you view him as stirring up "sh!t", but his doing so has no correlation to his associations or involvement with any group at this point.

Also you can't make the case that he should be kicked off for not contributing something positive. Are there guidelines as to what is positive on these boards?? Does a guy who has endless time and posts irrelevant articles get considered as positive while someone who actually truthfully answers a question about his own physical attraction get considered as negative??

I think we should all relax. When someone breaks a rule, simply respond and deal with it. If they continually break the rule, ban them. If they say things that you don't like but aren't breaking the rules, well deal with that and stop forming a mob.

Now I have no idea about this imposter stuff. I saw the rogaine stuff and thought it was funny, albeit at someone else's expense. But who has Imthechamp impersonated? Am I missing something?

-Rudey
--Life is so short and you're all arguing about something that lacks importance to such an extent that you wouldn't discuss it with your friends outside the internet world.

Dionysus 11-01-2002 11:59 PM

Sorry Killarney, I totally misinterpreted your post the first time around. :)

Imthechamp, I would say that you are new, however you appear to be WAY too familiar w/ GC.

Rudey, people do not have problems w/ posters expressing their opinions. It's the WAY they do it. It was unnecessary for Imachamp to call out on people's insecurities like that. I don't think he would like if heard women constantly complaining about men with small d**ks (i'm sure he has one).

kddani, why are you letting him/her bother you so much? You're just fueling him/her.

doubleblue&gold 11-02-2002 12:17 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Rudey

I think we should all relax. When someone breaks a rule, simply respond and deal with it. If they continually break the rule, ban them. If they say things that you don't like but aren't breaking the rules, well deal with that and stop forming a mob.


I agree! Evidently some of you have not been out in the real world or you'd understand that you will always find people like this. Better learn how to deal wih them now. And there seems to be a lot of GCers that will jump on whoever disagrees with them even for the most simple or unimprtant of things. (yes, I've experienced it myself). You need to learn to pick your fights!

Imthechamp 11-02-2002 12:25 AM

Whatever Dionysis. I could care less what anyone thinks of me...

Unlike most of the girls who post here, I have very high self-esteem and I am happy with myself. This world is full of "bad" people and am I going to get upset when someone calls me UGLY or FAT? Especially someone who I don't even know? Hell no.

The only time I said anything about someone was in that post where it was headed "AM I FAT?". She used the word FAT, not me.

P.S. Dionysis, why are so interested in my dick? Are you trying to tell us something? It's ok to come out of the closet these days...ya know?

Rudey 11-02-2002 12:42 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Dionysus
Sorry Killarney, I totally misinterpreted your post the first time around. :)

Imthechamp, I would say that you are new, however you appear to be WAY too familiar w/ GC.

Rudey, people do not have problems w/ posters expressing their opinions. It's the WAY they do it. It was unnecessary for Imachamp to call out on people's insecurities like that. I don't think he would like if heard women constantly complaining about men with small d**ks (i'm sure he has one).

kddani, why are you letting him/her bother you so much? You're just fueling him/her.

I knew someone would say what you said. Once again, he used her wording and did not do it in a manner that was arguably offensive. He was not exploiting her insecurities because he did not take advantage of the wording to do something on the side. He simply answered her question.

And in the end, you are one of the people who decided to use multiple identities even as recently as a couple days ago when you decided to make one involving UFPike's name...no?

The issue at hand was in regards to people using multiple identities so why are people jumping at Imachamp but not at Dionysus? Get real...this thread is just being used by people to take out their aggression on certain other users.

-Rudey
--Bravo...you're all quite the accomplished leaders that you aspired to be when you decided to take the same attitude as others.

Dionysus 11-02-2002 01:00 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Rudey

And in the end, you are one of the people who decided to use multiple identities even as recently as a couple days ago when you decided to make one involving UFPike's name...no?

Why yes, I did. I was going to impersonate UF_Pike for fun and the screen name was obvious. The intention was NOT to vent and hide under a different screen name. I can do that under this one.

Quote:

Originally posted by Rudey

The issue at hand was in regards to people using multiple identities so why are people jumping at Imachamp but not at Dionysus? Get real...this thread is just being used by people to take out their aggression on certain other users.

Oh BELIEVE me, people had in the past! Just a year ago, it was ME on the "hot seat". Now it's time for someone else's turn. :p

Dionysus 11-02-2002 01:15 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Imthechamp

P.S. Dionysis, why are so interested in my dick? Are you trying to tell us something? It's ok to come out of the closet these days...ya know?

Gee I don't know, but may I ask, why is your mother's legs open 24-7 like 7-11? :p

One more thing, the name is DIONYSUS, beeee-yatchhhhh!!!!

Thrillhouse 11-02-2002 03:51 PM

Re: Re: i'll second that
 
Quote:

Originally posted by IowaHawkeye


Honestly - I think that is a very unfair question and an extremely rude demand that people be greek to enjoy greekchat. yes it's called greekchat - but do you want to tell the PNMs looking for rush advice and guidance "why the hell are you here????" when in reality they're NOT greek - and some of them may not get bids. Do you want to tell the college alums who have realized later in life what being greek could have done for them "what the hell are you doing here" when all they want is Cutiepie2000's awesome advice on Alum Initiation? No, I didn't think so. Stop perpetuating the stereotype that greeks are exclusive - in my opinion, everyone is welcome at greekchat.

AMEN! I was greek before.... does this mean I shouldn't be here now? No way! I enjoy this site and reading about and chatting with greeks here.

librasoul22 11-02-2002 03:57 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Imthechamp
This is the chit chat board and all I've ever done was express my opinion. Am I going to apologize for feeling the way I do? Nope. The last time I check, it was ok to have a different opinion then someone else, no matter how harsh it was.

Librasoul made this post accusing me of being someone else...

I still don't understand why she thinks that everyone who registers needs her approval so she won't accuse them of being someone else.

And once again...this is the only name I have on GC.

See...lol. You are a transparent mofo. For someone to say "I DON'T CARE WHAT PEOPLE THINK...BLAH BLAH, ETC..."

Then to keep coming back to post whiny, defensive comments shows that you DO care, otherwise why bother??

Imthechamp, give it up, son. I never said you should be banned and if you think you need approval from lil' ol' ME then that is YOUR issue with intimidation. I simply, in that thread, asked whether or not you were fine enough to make such criticisms (which, self-esteem or not, I know you aren't). If you had taken the time to READ the thread I actually AGREED with your perspective. Dumba$$.

Rudey, you are not off base here. I do not think Imthechamp should be banned either. I DO think he has been here before under another name, but I am not losing sleep. In fact, I didn't even begin this thread because of HIM. I began it because of another user...I have mentioned it on this thread. He just got thrown in for trying to call me out, lol.

So, yeah, Imthechamp is an annoying little man/woman. But if he stays or goes, I don't care. If he insults librasoul, whatever. *yawn* lol.


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