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Ole Miss Theta Is Closing
I am just devastated for these young women.
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And so am I. Have some dear friends from that chapter and am so sad for them.
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http://thedmonline.com/theta-leaving-campus/ --- The Daily Mississippian
Ole Miss Kappa Alpha Theta Loses It's Chapter--NewsWatch Ole Miss https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8LrgoQFkQ48 |
Did I accurately hear the 1st interviewee state that she joined Theta her Senior year?
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No Kevin that's not what she said. She didn't expect it to happen her senior year. ETA: she didn't say she joined as a senior. I just relistened to the interview to be sure.
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How many people does the house hold?
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Average chapter size after Fall recruitment at Ole Miss was around 410 - Theta had 273 women. It's a shame that 91 women accepted bids to this chapter this fall, only for this to happen.
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FYI most of the large Theta houses in the South are at or also below the local school PNC average. |
I am guessing the pledges were not automatically released since the chapter isn’t officially closing until the end of the semester?
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They were able to choose release or be initiated this weekend.
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I find it interesting the university is saying HQ didn't consult them, and HQ reiterated they did talk with university officials before making this decision...:confused:
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It matters far more what the situation and environment is at Ole Miss than other campuses. The Ole Miss Greek system is toxic, petty and vicious. How the Thetas held their heads up in that place for as long as we did is a testament to their strength of character. The manner in how the closure was handled was thoughtless and unnecessarily cruel. I have no comment on that. |
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I'm not usually this directly rude on GC, but IOTA1086 -put a sock in it...bless your heart.
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(As expected the NIC fraternities varies significantly more, currently running from Phi Delta Theta at 95 to Alpha Tau Omega at 26) |
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I posted this in another discussion about it but here you go.
Certainly not the level of "y'all suck so badly at being nice that your national president/exec board has to come in and tell you to knock it off" that Ole Miss is, but I have had the privilege of working with some chapters on different sides of Panhellenic toxicity. Example: Let's say on campus, Kappa is the weakest chapter and Sigma is probably next coolest or middling slightly above Kappa but not much better than Kappa by any means. OBSERVATION: THE GREATEST PERETRATORS OF TOXIC PANHELLENIC BEHAVIOR ARE NOT YOUR TOP TIER CHAPTERS. RARELY. The biggest perps were the middles and lower. The ones who have most to gain by Kappa not seeming "cool." The chapters varied. Some were actively participating in it. Some were not participating in bullying Kappa, but rather doing nothing while other chapters behaved in a toxic manner. BYSTANDER BEHAVIOR IS PROBABLY WORSE THAN BEING THE PERP. Some of these girls were doing the bystander chapter thing of "Oh wow so glad that is not us." Hearing the tent talk, thinking how messed up it is, but not saying anything to dispel it. Seeing how other chapters talk about XYZ or DEF without saying anything. This is what I always said (to those who were either perpetrating it or doing nothing as it happened to other chapters.) Based on a convo I had with the sister who works with our Panhellenic delegates: You are only ever as strong as your weakest. Do what you can to build them up. It is really easy to stand by and watch false info be spread about a chapter, let the tent talk about them get out of control because hey THAT BENEFITS YOU. Yes, believe it or not. It benefits you for everyone in recruitment to think Kappa sucks. (Cue horror because like, we have never even done anything to Kappa. It's all DZ and Chi O doing that stuff. Or we are not even being mean we are just as small as Kappa.) The idea that Kappa sucks does not really benefit the top tier chapter on campus. It benefits the middle so they prop up on it. As long as everyone thinks Kappa sucks, people will see Sigma on the schedule and think "Oh no I got Sigma but hey at least it's not Kappa." So when you hear something negative about Kappa, you let it slide. Hey, at least it's not you, and it makes middle and low tier Sigma look that much cooler. You may even say "Wow Kappa only got like 10 girls I wish they'd close." What you don't see is that you are probably not that much bigger than Kappa and your entire idenity rests on being "not Kappa" in the totem pole. So if Kappa closes, someone has to become the new Kappa. Guess who the new Kappa is? Yep it's the Sigma chapter that stands by and goes "well at least we aren't Kappa." Or who lets Zeta openly mock Kappa. Or who laughs at fraternity jokes about about Kappa. When you are in Kappa's spot (because you will be when Kappa closes) it will not feel as good. |
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However, I know from personal experience that you can have chapters with under 50 members that provide rewarding experiences for those women. I might contend that smaller chapters provide closer relationships and stronger leadership opportunities than these chapters with 400+ members. I know there is the financial piece and the numbers have to make sense. But, does the house at Ole Miss sleep 300? If not, it would seem to an outsider that a chapter with 90+ new members and almost 300 members in total, could have continued enjoying their sisterhood despite being the butt of fraternity men's jokes. During my collegiate days, we had chapters on our campus that were closed when they finally reached under 10 members. But, 270+ seems like an awful lot of interested, involved members that lost their home for the wrong reason. Truly heartbreaking. |
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Maybe that team should have also made a visit to Cal Berkeley. :rolleyes: |
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