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volgirl2376 02-13-2002 02:55 PM

The most important physical aspects of a guy!
 
(1) Tall (for me 6'0" - 6'5")
(2) Clean hands and nails
(3) Minimal back hair
(4) strong arms (for hugging)
(5) full lips
(6) Nice hair (shorter styles)
(7) Clean/Straight teeth - great smile
(8) Bare(ish) chest
(9) I like a guy who has some meat on them

h2oot 02-13-2002 03:16 PM

He'd look like my b/f.... ;)

1) Tall but not, too (6'2")
2) Nice smile and dreamy eyes
2) Clean cut and shaven
3) Lean but not skinny (swimmers body)
4) No tattoos or piercings
5) Full lips
6) Strong arms
7) Minimal back and chest hair

FuzzieAlum 02-13-2002 03:24 PM

1) Clean and not stinky (or should that be a given?)
2) Tallish (no short guys!)
3) Not hairy (except on head of course)
4) No chub! Skinny or buff, I don't care
5) No facial hair
6) Nice big eyes (preferably blue)
7) Quick smile (no moody poets)
8) Decent skin (tattoos OK, major acne not)
9) No short stumpy weiner dog legs
10) OK, I'll be the bad person and say it ... size matters!


:D

volgirl2376 02-13-2002 03:29 PM

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Originally posted by FuzzieAlum
10) OK, I'll be the bad person and say it ... size matters!
:D

LOL - I wanted to add something like this to my list - but its not entirely that it matters...its just...well guys, if you have a small wang, dont brag about how huge it is and build the whole thing up - because we will be disappointed. Kinda like if a guy picks up a girl in a bar, and she has a really nice chest, and when they get home, she takes off her ultra padded bra. Honesty is the best policy!

KarenC725 02-13-2002 05:04 PM

A smile that makes me smile
Great arms
Kinda weird, but I like cute noses!

LexiKD 02-13-2002 07:06 PM

Physical...
1. Well groomed/cute (overal clean, appropriate clothes, good teeth habits...)

2. At least as tall as me (5'7'')

3. I might be the only girl who still likes chest hair, I do not want a 12 year old with out any, unless he's a swimer then I understand!

4. Tattos/piercing are good in moderation!

5. Medium build, not attracted muscle bound men, but I am not opposed to them.

6. Boering or girly men need not apply...I need a funny man who can change my car's oil and not break a sweat or gripe about messing up his hair.

The1calledTKE 02-13-2002 08:06 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by FuzzieAlum

9) No short stumpy weiner dog legs

Thanks for the laugh!:D

Shawndalynn 02-13-2002 10:10 PM

I could not help but laugh hysterically at the no short dumpy weiner dog legs


1) definately has to be tall- I am 5'9 so I prefer a guy who is 6'2 or a little taller
2) beautiful eyes
3) smile
4) nice body- I also prefer guys with some meat on them

lovelyivy84 02-13-2002 10:23 PM

1. lips - and not in an LLCool J over-hyped and no longer attractive in the slightest way, but in a juicy, sexy suckable way
2. skin- I need nice skin on my guys- tones can range but quality has to be good
3. the body- I need buff. Nuff said.
4. nice teeth- when combined with the sexy lips- a devastating combination
5. height- I like tall men. I mean TALL men- 6'3" and up


Note: This is all stuff that would be nice in an ideal world. I have been known to forego different items from the above list (well, actually only the height thing, and a certain amount of leeway on HOW diesel they are, but whatever!) for a man who attracted me on a mental level. THe most important thing is your personality. There is nothing uglier than ignorance of any kind.

aggieAXO 02-13-2002 10:27 PM

1. tall (at least 6')
2. has to have hair (though I am 30 now and the men I have been seeing my age have receeding hairlines-that is ok but no comb overs)
3. size definitely matters
4. beer belly ok but stay in reclined position
5. brown hair and brown eyes preferred
6. nice smile and good sense of humor
7. some chest hair ok, no back hair-if this is present I would expect him to shave or wax

volgirl2376 02-13-2002 10:28 PM

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Originally posted by lovelyivy84
Note: This is all stuff that would be nice in an ideal world. I have been known to forego different items from the above list (well, actually only the height thing, and a certain amount of leeway on HOW diesel they are, but whatever!) for a man who attracted me on a mental level. THe most important thing is your personality. There is nothing uglier than ignorance of any kind.
Amen!:D

ZTAngel 02-13-2002 10:34 PM

1. Height between "5'11" to "6'3"
2. Must be muscular (I like strong guys...makes me feel protected)
3. nice smile
4. good breath (it is such a turn off to talk to a cute guy who's breath is just STANK!)
5. nice skin
6. no facial hair
7. no body hair except for legs, arms, and the other important area
8. nice arms...I love to put my hand on a guys arm and feel a nice hard muscle...ooh la la! (nice calf muscles also)
9. no tattoos
10. a butt that looks nice in a pair of khakis....I hate guys who have scrawny butts....I love muscular butts (I'm weird...I know)

But, I have met many guys who have had all these qualities and they have nothing but air inside their head. My number one priority in a man is that he MUST BE INTELLIGENT. There is nothing worse than a dumb guy. I have always been attracted to those guys who get 4.0's and who were in the top 10% of their classes. I think intelligence is a huge turn on. (and an awesome personality to match)
That's why my boyfriend is so perfect. :D :)

RxyChrldr 02-13-2002 10:47 PM

Gosh, I feel bad for the shorter guys...looks like we all like them tall!

ladybug1116 02-14-2002 01:30 AM

Not all of us like them tall ;) I'm fairly short (between 5'4" and 5'5") so I don't want a very tall guy. Almost everyone I have dated has been under 6' (there are exceptions) I think, for me, a shorter guy is just a better fit. Anyway...

I don't know that I have a list of specific physical attributes. I generally like clean cut guys...think "the boy next door" I'm generally not into all the huge muscle stuff so just a "normal" size guy is fine for me. A nice smile and eyes are always a plus :)
(Edit: I think I'll jump on the bandwagon and say "minimal back hair" lol)

My friends say that I do have a type....but it's personality rather than looks. I tend to gravitate towards intelligent guys who are outgoing and have a great sense of humor. I can honestly say (in the short list of guys that I've dated) I've never dated a "jerk" It seems like there is a shortage of this type of guy though. Hopefully I'm wrong :)

DGPhoney 02-14-2002 01:36 AM

Hmm, I had to answer to this topic:
Lets see, I guess wheres the best place to start
Height:5-10 and up,( I like em tall)
Nice build: Sorry for my suyper skinny friends , I love ya'll too, but a guy with a decent build, he doesn't have to be the next Mr. Olympic, but he has to hold his own
Smooth Skin
A good hair cut
Humor
Touchable hair,(just like u guys like to touch our hair) not all gooey with gel or mouse or whatever
Ok Ex Greek just reminded me of this one: a Great memory!!!!!!
I'll even settle for a decent memory, lol
Sexy Legs or chest, whichever doesn't matter
this is such a sad topic before Vday, oh well :(



DGP~Honey~

SATX*APhi 02-14-2002 03:39 AM

I am not all that picky...


He must have beautiful hands and feet.

-AND-

He must be taller than me, at least 5'8".


:)

Starlet 02-14-2002 06:51 PM

Well since I'm not that tall, I like guys who are at least 5'8 and taller. And for some odd reason, I'm attracted to surfer type looking guys...if that makes sense. I mean I prefer guys with short hair, but if they have not too longish hair...like sandy blonde, with blue eyes, tan and muscular, then I'm totally hooked!
Also, I look for...

-a nice smile...because that's one of the first things I notice first
-buff arms...I like guys who work out
-a nice stomach...guys don't need to have the full 6 pack, but it is a turn-on to know the guy works out his stomach, i.e. the beer belly is not attractive

GreekLetterGirl 02-14-2002 07:40 PM

boys
 
ok i like my boys to me
- blonde
- blue eyed
- muscular ( but not too beefy)
- taller than me but not towering above me
- smart
- funny
- caring
- get along with my biological sisters and family
- have some form of educatio


so hard to find i think they don't exist

Betarulz! 02-14-2002 11:36 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by RxyChrldr
Gosh, I feel bad for the shorter guys...looks like we all like them tall!
Yeah, don't think us shorter guys didn't notice that :p! I'm 5'10" and I won't date any girl who is 5' 8" or above (well there are a few girls I know that I woudl still date). Accordingly I totally prefer my women petite and about 5'5".

PKTSU01 02-14-2002 11:42 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Betarulz!


Yeah, don't think us shorter guys didn't notice that :p! I'm 5'10" and I won't date any girl who is 5' 8" or above (well there are a few girls I know that I woudl still date). Accordingly I totally prefer my women petite and about 5'5".

Hush it brotha! , 5'10" isn't short, I think 5'7" is average for a guy. I'm 5'11", so, of course I don't want to hear "short" comments. But, i agree though, it would irk me to be with a chick that would be like 6'2".

Peaches-n-Cream 02-15-2002 12:07 AM

I'm 5'9" and some change. Only one man under six feet tall has ever asked me out. This has happened to me - I am out and sitting at a bar or at a table with my friends, a guy approaches, and we are hitting it off. He asks me to dance. As soon as I stand up, the guy looks pertrified and disappears. It goes both ways guys. I prefer my men 6'4" and gorgeous with a net worth that reads like a telephone number, but the reality is that a nice man under 6' with a great personality and a sense of humor can make me swoon.:)

FuzzieAlum 02-15-2002 01:57 AM

Quote:

Accordingly I totally prefer my women petite and about 5'5".
Hey, 5'5" isn't petite! The average America woman is 5'3"!

Of course, I am a complete hypocrite for being of average height and insisting on a tall guy. It's hardly fair to the tall girls who really need a tall boy.

Peaches-n-Cream 02-15-2002 11:38 AM

Hey FuzzieAlum, I couldn't stand it when the petite women were with tall guys. My college roommate is 5'2" and dated guys who were well over six feet tall. So all you short women, stop taking tall men from those of us who need them! :p

FuzzieAlum 02-15-2002 12:57 PM

Hey, maybe I'm keeping tall guys away from the tall girls, but as long as the tall guys want to date me, I'm not changing my ways!

ErikaXO 02-15-2002 01:57 PM

To me my husband has all of the physical qualities....

1. Nice thick dark hair but cut short and clean.....(little bit of gray is a sexy bonus and he is finally getting it!!!!!!)
2. GORGEOUS eyes, (don't care what color but his are incredible baby blue) with long, thick lashes.
3. Taller than me but not looming over me.
4. Big, strong body, big chest, broad shoulders, not a skinny neck, but not a big steroid monster.
5. Nice chest hair
6. Sexy, full, gotta-kiss-me lips
7. Nice smile
8. Classy, conservative dress
9. Strong arms/biceps
10. GREAT ass!!!
11. No chicken legs
12. Handsome face with strong bone structure, nice cheekbones

I could go on and on.....to me Brent is perfect!!!!! And the best part is he doesn't think he's good-looking!!!!!!!!!!!!!

TigerGirl52 02-16-2002 06:32 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Cream
Hey FuzzieAlum, I couldn't stand it when the petite women were with tall guys. My college roommate is 5'2" and dated guys who were well over six feet tall. So all you short women, stop taking tall men from those of us who need them! :p
I couldn't have said it better!!!!!! I'm even worse off than you are Cream. I'm 5'11" (everyone gasps...lol). It's sooooo hard for me to find guys that are taller than me. I have only dated one guy that was actually taller than me. Every time I see a guy who is taller than me with a petite girl I want to cry!!!!!!!! LOL. But hey...if it hadn't been for my dad (who is 6'6") marrying my mom (who is 5'3")...I wouldn't be here. :)

Allison

phisigQT 02-17-2002 12:06 AM

1) TALL (my b.f. is 6'2'')
2) clean shaven
3) smells sweet
4) cute buns!
5) love those puppy eyes!!!
6) nice muscles..not huge but definately cut
AND the most important...
7) knows how to treat me...okay so it isnt physical but it is still important! :)

ErikaXO 02-17-2002 02:09 PM

Oh you guys, the tall guy/short girl thing always annoyed the crap out of me.....my Granny called it "Itty-bitty" syndrome. She said that these guys were embarrassed by their tiny "equipment" so they tried to find a tiny girl who they thought would have "matching" equipment......but she said actually these tiny girls are the "cavernous" kind who usually lift one leg and shoot their baby across the room when giving birth......what a horrible stereotype!!!!!!! (Most of the tiny girls I know had a hard time in labor!!!!!) Although my husband dated this little short chick right before me and he said that having sex with her felt like he was dipping his you-know-what in a big bucket of warm water......or another analogy he likes is something about bowling down a wide hallway......

ANYWAY there is hope.....I know this really attractive, VERY tall guy and one of his prerequisites is that a girl be of a certain height.....he HATES looming over a short girl.....he only goes out with tall girls and he is now engaged to one.....

phisigQT 02-17-2002 02:46 PM

i find it very judgemental that you all are ASSUMINING that tall guys have small packages and all of us small girls are "caneverous". cause you know what??? my boyfriend is 11inches taller than me and isn't "small" either. don't be so sour b/c tall guys date small girls...good things come in small packages...like me!!!


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