1st thing you notice
 

What is the first thing you notice in a potential mate?

HMMMM
 

Been a long time since I had to look for a "potential" mate. But the first thing that I notice is wedding ring finger, height, built, then I delve into employment status.

HMMMM Let me See....

The first thing I notice is his smile, personality, and they way he smells...

Physically it would be his smile followed by his spirit. A man has to have a heart after God to win me over. Looks count, but his spirit is most important (among many other things)

I mainly look at his personality as a whole, his cleanliness, and how he treats me.

Let's see...
 

I notice his smile first.

I notice the way he looks at ME (leery, genuine interest, slightly shy, open, smarmy, etc.)

I notice the way he opens his mouth to speak (his conversation).

The first thing I notice is his eyes.....are they looking into mine....are they checking me out....are they red from lack of sleep....or too much hanging out ..:rolleyes:... and finally.....are they his natural color???

:D

Depends on where I am...
 

If I'm out somewhere, the 1st thing I'll notice is how he's dressed. I absolutely loved a well dressed man.

But if I'm in the gym, the 1st thing I notice is his smile.

LMAO!!!:D

His smile, which leads to the teeth which must be straight.

Yall see all dat....from a glance?
 

I can believe yall will check the body, the smile, the teeth, and the man's gear, but the spirit and personality? Don't that take time and a willingness on his part to reveal those things?

TOA
 

AS I said first thing I notice is if ring is on finger.............lol.

As you already know...
 

Hi Spring!

As you already know, alot of married dudes don't wear their rings while they rollin':D

Re: Yall see all dat....from a glance?
 

hi TOA, nice meeting you! :)
that's a good point, since everyone usually puts on a "game face"--you know, what we want others to see...

oh, but i believe that when women make a conscious choice to OPEN OUR EYES, EARS, AND MINDS, we can tell lots about a man while he's "rollin'"--whether he's willing to reveal it (or we're willing to accept it) or not!
:D ;) :eek:

to answer the question, i always notice(d) personality, viewpoint and intelligence first.

(ladies, listen and ponder CAREFULLY what a man says FROM THE BEGINNING--you can learn a lot about an individual from jump street!) ;) :p

TRU

Of course I notice the physical attributes of a person first so...
Physically: His lips and his eyes
But, that will attract me..not keep me...
So, other than physical attributes, the first thing I notice is:
How sincere he is.

Okay, here I go....
 

Are Yall sure....?
 

Ladies,

Suppose you meet a man who works a hard, dirty job? Will you STILL judge him based on his appearance? How will you judge such a brutha? Will you assume him to be not ambitious enough? Will you assume that he has no college education?

I'm with Orginial Ape on this one....
 

How in the world you can tell a man's TURE spirit and personality when you frist meet him is beyond me. Everybody at least will try to put they're best foot forward when you first meet them, some whether that foot is real or not. That's cool though, my sister told me when I asked her a couple of years ago that women usually look for haircut, white teeth, nice shoes, and smell. that was 7 years ago though, but I guess it doesn't change much.

LOUD & CLEAR
 

TOA if a man works a hard dirty job, and on first appearance he 's in work clothes, my eyes still check out that ring finger......
I;m blue collar, and make a great salary, so I never assume blue collar workers have no education....most of us do :)!

That's why you're special!
 

Special,

You must know already that you're an exception to the rule. Most women don't see things that way.

Oh yeah!
 

I meant to holla at you Blu! It's nice to meat you too!