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SOM 04-09-2014 11:36 PM

Delta Zeta UConn Sorority Suspended While Hazing Allegation Is Investigated
 
A letter to the Delta Zeta sorority from Kimberly Hill, UConn's associate director of community standards, dated last Friday, said the organization has been placed under an interim suspension "until this student conduct matter is resolved." According to the letter, members of Delta Zeta have been accused of forcing men involved with a school fraternity to consume alcohol, eat dog treats, paint their bodies, wear women's thong underwear and take shots of alcohol off each others bodies, among other things. The incident allegedly took place March 7 at the Mansfield Apartments, a university residence hall....
http://www.courant.com/community/man...,6869624.story

carnation 04-10-2014 07:48 AM

How on earth are sorority members forcing fraternity pledges to do this stuff?

Sciencewoman 04-10-2014 08:19 AM

Linking this to the previous situation at UConn this year, there seems to be some wider issue of cross-group hazing at mixed gender parties?

sigmagirl2000 04-10-2014 08:59 AM

This makes me sad. I'd love to see greek life continue to grow in my home state. However, UConn seems to have many issues coming to light currently. I wish the best for whichever group comes on in the midst of these situations and hope that their support for a new colony is prepared to work with the culture there....

Xidelt 04-10-2014 10:13 AM

I wonder if it is even a wise decision to bring a new group on with this culture of hazing.

33girl 04-10-2014 11:25 AM

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Originally Posted by carnation (Post 2269769)
How on earth are sorority members forcing fraternity pledges to do this stuff?

The fraternity sends their pledges to the sorority house telling them they have to do everything the sorority sisters tell them to do. The sorority reports back to the fraternity. It's not rocket science.

AZTheta 04-10-2014 11:39 AM

Every time something negative hits the news, about ANY GLO, I say "there but for the grace of God". We all get hit. Every one of us. What irritates me is that the positive events don't get the same amount of coverage that the negative events do.

Examples: Tri Delta raises $15 million for St. Jude's. Thon at Penn State (multiple GLOs involved). DG Anchor Splash. Alpha Phi's Red Dress. Alpha Xi's support for autism. PIKE firefighters. Sigma Chi Derby Days. The Divine Nine's lifelong focus on service, thinking specifically of what Delta Sigma Theta has done (because I have some close friends who are Deltas here in Tucson). Blah blah blah blah. I could go on and on. You get the picture. All the good that is done is overshadowed by a very few stupid acts. Really.

/end of rant for the time being.

DrPhil 04-10-2014 11:40 AM

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Originally Posted by 33girl (Post 2269784)
It's not rocket science.

Indeed.

I would take any uproar about hazing and pledging more seriously if people were aware of different GLOs practices. That includes NPC and IFC GLO chapters with practices that span beyond what many people attribute to NPC and IFC GLOs.

LOL @ AZTheta. Wellllll...some of us are surrounded by the positive things GLOs accomplish. Some of us are also surrounded by GLO traditions that do not automatically constitute hazing (or banned pledging). People who feel stories of the cons far outweigh stories of the pros need to span their media/news and social circles.

Tom Earp 04-10-2014 02:43 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DrPhil (Post 2269787)
Indeed.

I would take any uproar about hazing and pledging more seriously if people were aware of different GLOs practices. That includes NPC and IFC GLO chapters with practices that span beyond what many people attribute to NPC and IFC GLOs.

LOL @ AZTheta. Wellllll...some of us are surrounded by the positive things GLOs accomplish. Some of us are also surrounded by GLO traditions that do not automatically constitute hazing (or banned pledging). People who feel stories of the cons far outweigh stories of the pros need to span their media/news and social circles.

Point well taken to be sure!!!! Oh and explained very well!

AZTheta 04-10-2014 03:05 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DrPhil (Post 2269787)
Indeed.

LOL @ AZTheta. Wellllll...some of us are surrounded by the positive things GLOs accomplish. Some of us are also surrounded by GLO traditions that do not automatically constitute hazing (or banned pledging). People who feel stories of the cons far outweigh stories of the pros need to span their media/news and social circles.

Is that an invitation? YAY!

exlurker 04-10-2014 07:21 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SOM (Post 2269753)
A letter to the Delta Zeta sorority from Kimberly Hill, UConn's associate director of community standards, dated last Friday, said the organization has been placed under an interim suspension "until this student conduct matter is resolved." According to the letter, members of Delta Zeta have been accused of forcing men involved with a school fraternity to consume alcohol, eat dog treats, paint their bodies, wear women's thong underwear and take shots of alcohol off each others bodies, among other things. The incident allegedly took place March 7 at the Mansfield Apartments, a university residence hall....
http://www.courant.com/community/man...,6869624.story

A copy of the letter from a UConn administrator to the DZ chapter, and a story with much the same info as ^^ , are at:

http://www.nydailynews.com/news/nati...icle-1.1752310

carnation 04-10-2014 08:06 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by 33girl (Post 2269784)
The fraternity sends their pledges to the sorority house telling them they have to do everything the sorority sisters tell them to do. The sorority reports back to the fraternity. It's not rocket science.

I get that. What I don't get is why the fraternity pledges go along with it. No fraternity I know would have done that and no pledges would've gone along with it, it's just bizarre.

tld221 04-10-2014 08:34 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by carnation (Post 2269839)
I get that. What I don't get is why the fraternity pledges go along with it. No fraternity I know would have done that and no pledges would've gone along with it, it's just bizarre.

Another venue where men can assert their dominance as men over women, perceived or actual, under the guise of the bonds of brother/sisterhood? You betcha.

Cross-pledging is not something I'm a fan of (how a fraternity can add to my becoming a member of a sorority, unknown), but I can see how it would regular practice amongst brother-sister orgs:
  • Phi Beta Sigma and Zeta Phi Beta (constitutionally)
  • Omega Psi Phi/Delta Sigma Theta, Alpha Phi Alpha/AKA, KAPsi/SGRho, unofficially (and somewhat regional/local)

And to dig into the NALFO/NMCG side... (Don't know if there are any Asian interest orgs with such relationship)
  • Sigma Lambda Gamma/Sigma Lambda Beta
  • Lambda Theta Phi/Lambda Theta Alpha
  • Mu Sigma Upsilon/Lambda Sigma Upsilon (I think they're connected - same colors/similar letters/founded at same university around the same time)

I don't recall any NPC/IFC with nationally/historically recognized bonds, but I also don't know their histories. I vaguely recall a sorority being founded on being little sisters to Alpha Phi Delta.

DrPhil 04-10-2014 08:52 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by carnation (Post 2269839)
I get that. What I don't get is why the fraternity pledges go along with it. No fraternity I know would have done that and no pledges would've gone along with it, it's just bizarre.

;) Then you don't know many fraternity chapters.

I know IFC chapters that cross-pledged with NPC chapters and NPHC sorority chapters.

Cross-pledging is not uncommon for many collegiate and alumnae/graduate/alumni chapters of some NPHC GLOs and GLOs of other councils/conferences.

I don't consider it the least bit bizarre. There is variation in what cross-pledging entails. There is also variation of opinions as to whether (for the people familiar with this terminology) a fraternity member can "make" a sorority member and whether a sorority member can "make" a fraternity member.

pinksequins 04-10-2014 08:52 PM

Wasn't there another incident like this recently, but the fraternity hazing the sorority, at Trinity in Connecticut? The SUNYs have had issues too, particularly Binghamton, as did Union (NY). There does seem to be a bit of a regional aspect to this.

33girl 04-10-2014 09:06 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by carnation (Post 2269839)
I get that. What I don't get is why the fraternity pledges go along with it. No fraternity I know would have done that and no pledges would've gone along with it, it's just bizarre.

Because (as stated previously) they know that the sorority is going to report back "well, Vincent didn't know the words to your sweetheart song" or whatever. We often had fraternity pledges come to the house on scavenger hunts or other pledge duties. Not to this degree, it seems like these chicks need to get a couple boy on boy videos and just make the guys do their dishes or something.

tld221 04-10-2014 09:14 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by 33girl (Post 2269854)
Because (as stated previously) they know that the sorority is going to report back "well, Vincent didn't know the words to your sweetheart song" or whatever. We often had fraternity pledges come to the house on scavenger hunts or other pledge duties. Not to this degree, it seems like these chicks need to get a couple boy on boy videos and just make the guys do their dishes or something.

well that's just petty.

33girl 04-10-2014 09:25 PM

Lol. If that's the way you roll I've got no problem. I just know we never asked guys to do body shots off each other. Then again this was in the days before male waxing :p

AGDee 04-11-2014 06:47 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by carnation (Post 2269839)
I get that. What I don't get is why the fraternity pledges go along with it. No fraternity I know would have done that and no pledges would've gone along with it, it's just bizarre.

They go along with it because they lose face if they can't handle what the girls dish out. Whenever I hear about hazing, I don't get why the pledges go along with it... whether it's doled out by their own chapter or another chapter. But I also don't get why the members ever think it is a good idea.

shadokat 04-11-2014 05:43 PM

33girl, we did the same stuff you mention back in the 90s. One fraternity always sent one of their pledges around to all of the sorority houses with a few brothers and all of the sororities contributed to dressing him up like a girl. The whole body shots thing in this story is just weird!

exlurker 04-14-2014 06:40 PM

More Interim Suspensions and Investigations at UConn: This Time, Delta Gamma and Sigma Chi

UConn has put the DG and Sigma Chi chapters on interim suspension pending an investigation of alleged hazing; see

http://www.nbcconnecticut.com/news/l...254944291.html

This is different from – but obviously similar to -- the interim suspension of DZ.

The report ^^ mentions suspensions of Kappa and SAE, also.

sigmagirl2000 04-14-2014 07:26 PM

.... another 2 bite the dust.... how many greek organizations are in good standing at UConn?

clemsongirl 04-14-2014 09:35 PM

I was originally disappointed that ADPi was not presenting at UConn, but after seeing all of these allegations I'm glad we're not potentially expanding in a culture like that. Hopefully if UConn opens up again down the road these problems will have begun working themselves out and we might be able to return to campus.

irishpipes 04-15-2014 11:44 AM

Another issue at UConn is inequitable housing. Gamma Phi Beta is in a dorm and the new group would also be in a dorm, while the other groups have houses. From the write up I saw, this seems to be the permanent arrangement. Housing inequity rarely works out well.

Cheerio 04-15-2014 01:14 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by irishpipes (Post 2270296)
Another issue at UConn is inequitable housing. Gamma Phi Beta is in a dorm and the new group would also be in a dorm, while the other groups have houses. From the write up I saw, this seems to be the permanent arrangement. Housing inequity rarely works out well.

Isn't BGSU changing their Fraternal Housing to meet this inequality?

irishpipes 04-15-2014 01:19 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Cheerio (Post 2270314)
Isn't BGSU changing their Fraternal Housing to meet this inequality?

Huh? I was talking about UConn???

catiebug 07-29-2014 12:07 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by irishpipes (Post 2270296)
Another issue at UConn is inequitable housing. Gamma Phi Beta is in a dorm and the new group would also be in a dorm, while the other groups have houses. From the write up I saw, this seems to be the permanent arrangement. Housing inequity rarely works out well.

UConn sororities are not in houses, per se. They are housed in Husky Village or in one certain residence hall (see http://greeklife.uconn.edu/housing/). I don't live in Storrs, but am over that way a few times a year (I live on the other side of the state).

Aphigal 07-30-2014 09:14 PM

Gamma Phi is moving into KKG's old spot in Husky Village

sigmagirl2000 07-30-2014 09:31 PM

what happened with the interim suspensions for DZ and DG?

Dnpgopenguins 07-30-2014 09:55 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sigmagirl2000 (Post 2283003)
what happened with the interim suspensions for DZ and DG?

The school website still has those two groups listed. I find that interesting in light of the news on here.

catiebug 07-31-2014 05:27 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Aphigal (Post 2283002)
Gamma Phi is moving into KKG's old spot in Husky Village

Good to know!

33girl 07-31-2014 08:07 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Dnpgopenguins (Post 2283005)
The school website still has those two groups listed. I find that interesting in light of the news on here.

Suspension isn't derecognition.


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