The Most Hurting Words....
 

Breaking up?
Pork Chop?
"you smell badly, can you take a shower first?"
"...Yes, your bum DOES look big in that"
"so i am wrong again, right?"
"u act like my mum"
"Wow baby, you have so many spots on your face, you need to do something about it".
.....
What's the most hurting words from your gf/bf?

:eek: :eek: :eek: :eek:

Curiousgirl, are you currently in a relationship?

"Dont worry darling, I've had two gf's at the same time before! Its a hassle which I dont need!"

"Darling, I'm surprised at the number of hot chicks working at my office"

"DOH! I really dont want to know!!!"



:p

Re: The Most Hurting Words....
 

Um all I have to say is that if some scum aka GUY said those things to me he'd be out the door. Why bother!?:mad: :rolleyes:

" " - Sara

Notice how nothing is said??? Try having a relationship where your girlfriend never had anything to say, that is truly the worst.

Said while cuddling in bed with my then-boyfriend of a week, after the girl he had been hoking up with knocks on the door and he goes out to talk to her:

Me: "Who was that?"

Andrew: "Oh, her.. well, she was last week."

Me: "So what does that make me?"

Andrew: "Oh, you're this week!"


Riiight. Peace...

Just want to point something out, you said "Said while cuddling in bed with my then-boyfriend of a week......" and then get pissed when he tells you you are? Whats up with that?

I wasn't clear I guess... he had made a point of committing to me as my boyfriend, not just as some random girl.

After saying it, he realized how bad it sounded and tried to backtrack, in the end we had a laugh out of it and ended up staying together for over a semester... but I always gave him grief for that one comment :)

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this is really recent, hence the extremely bitter tone...

my b/f of over 2 yrs (off and on, but more on than off) went into the air force...we broke it off b/4 he left...but then he started missing me, so we got back together not long after he left...asked me to come see him in tx (which i did...spent 30 HOURS in my car one weekend)...find out 2 months later (aka: 4 days ago) that:

"well...when i found out i wasn't going to be stationed close to home, i realized that i had to get an Air Force g/f"--meaning he was dating this girl at the time i came to see him, just didn't tell either of us about the other except for "confessing" minor mess ups...

SUPER!

-sigh-
monica

after the breakup of a 2 year relationship....
 

"do you realize that you partying with your friends makes you look like a huge tramp? i wish you would stop, you're making me look bad."

a: how does me having fun make me look like a tramp (note: i was just partying and drinking w/ friends, not hooking up with guys)

b: how in the hell does it make him look bad??? we broke up.

he was just a jacka$$

after the breakup of a 3 yr relationship
 

"Your parents are such great people, how'd you turn out to be such a bitch?"

I think sometimes the most hurtful words are the ones that go unsaid...like when a guy doesn't want to date you anymore and just stops calling you. HINT, HINT Guys...this is NOT a breakup!!!

More :

"sorry I dont love u any more, so Im going to change my ph number"

"heres a $10000 diamond necklace as a I-dont-love-u-anymore gift"

" I-hate-you-so-much-Im-gonna-marry-you"

"we've been dating two hours and you still havent called, dont you love me ?"


" your the nth guy Ive dated but I think youre the best yet"

:D :D

when i finally got my now ex bf Michael to admit he had been cheating on me, he told me "She is just one in a million"...like wtf was I?

Hmmm..interesting post.

Worst thing I've ever heard had to be when my first real g/f and my "first" cheated on me when I went away to college. She stayed back home in the city and I went upstate. When i went home to surprise one weekend freshman year, i found out she cheated on me. When i confronted her, she said" It's your fault for leaving me alone." What was that bitch? Come again? Anyways, last I heard of her she was knocked up, dropped out of school and already had an abortion.

Karma payback is a bitch isn't it?:D

This isn't a mean thing but...
 

I had just started dating Hunny, and I was staying with him, and we were getting ready to go out, and I was putting on blush. He pops in the bathroom, and says:

Him: "Is that rouge?"

Me: (thinking, ok, no one calls it that but..) "Sure"

Him:" Ladies pinch....whores use rouge"

Me" What??!!"

He bursts out laughing-turns out that it was a line from a Simpson's episode that we had laughed at, and he decided to use it. I had forgotten it was from the Simpsons, and when I realized that he didn't mean it, and was trying to be funny, I wasn't mad. But I still remind him of it sometimes.:)

......can we still be friends?

Oh...and the all time worst.
her:"my dad forbade from taking to you or seeing you or anything and i'm grounded basically even though i am eightteen. This isn't fair. I will always love you, no matter what. We will still be married someday. Promice you will find me again."

OH my god..its been like five years. I guess I should start looking.

not necessarily said to me but.... still mean...
 

"you were just some great a$$"

"you know sometimes you're butt seems so small"

"get out the car" -- it was my friend's car, not her bf's

"i have a daughter" -- after being together for 8 months

"i think you're cool, but your friend is much prettier."

"you're a b--" -- that was after i called him an a$$hole, though!!!

"You would have a great body if it weren't for your stomach." :mad:
I'm thinking, "You would be a great guy if it weren't for your mouth."

WTF?! Do guys realize that like 2% of women are actually capable of completely flat and cut abs? And if you have a large chest the likliehood of super model abs are even less? And if you eat or DRINK at all you will not have super model abs?? ESPECIALLY after the age of 25?! tHAT is something all men should be taught.

:) OK, stepping off my soapbox to go do my 1/2 hour of daily crunches and other assorted ab workouts so that no one ever says that to me -- cause I think 99% of us have heard that one, Cream, you're not alone. Hell, I personally don't think there's a damn thing wrong with my abs, they are flat, but they don;'t look like Britney's and never will, and still superficial, dumb guys say stupid Sh*t like that.

Sigh.

Well, I figure since I work out just to offset the drinking/cheeseburgers/etc that I do, there's no reason to expect 2% bodyfat on girls . . . not all guys are unreasonable.

OK that last sentence isn't really true - but not all are unreasonable in this way ace, if for no reason than for the reciprocal understanding.

but that's just the thing-- seems like women are much more accepting of the flaws in a man's body/we don't expect you all to have Brad Pitts abs and pec, then a lot of men are of the perceived flaws in a woman's body...

Of course, it can also be said, quite truthfully, that we women are way harder on our own bodies than you guys are on them...

Its just the whole abs thing that ticks me off. Genetically, most people can't acheive that. Trust me, I've been trying. ha ha ha

hey gorgeous :) You dont need to change a thing. Your perfect just the way you are. :D

I knew that quote would get a reaction! He is a total DICK! I thought that I looked really cute that night, and I was feeling good and BAM! insult! I went from :cool: to :eek: and then :mad:! I went to my sorority reunion a few days later, and all of my sisters told me that I looked the same as I did when I was in college which was nine years ago so I have looked like this :D ever since! That was our last date so that guy is history! I don't need to be an insult magnet! :rolleyes:

thanks Kevin. :)

Amycat, you said it! Thanks! I'm totally over it. I love my belly and it loves me!:p

"I just need some time" - when you know they could have the rest of their lives and shit wouldn't change.

"I love you but I'm not in love with you." - yeah, I understand the concept, but it still sucks!

By the way, how does someone hide they have a child for 8 months?!?!?

If said baby lives with baby mama, then it is quite possible, and quite often done.

"Why are you trying so hard?"

said when I was out with random folks and hating it but trying to be nice. Some random dude said that to me and it just ruined my whole night. Yeah, I still can't stand him.

I really don't get these comments often because it's known that they would be scraping their face off the floor when I was done with my analysis of their faults. Or maybe all the people I know are passive aggressive. I dunno.

[QUOTE]Originally posted by lovelyivy84
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If said baby lives with baby mama, then it is quite possible, and quite often done.

yes in fact that is very true. he was not living with the baby's mom so i had no clue that he had a baby.

and i got more:

"i love you. but i've loved her longer."

"are you ever going to change your look?" -- you mean the way i looked when we got together isnt doing it for you anymore??? oh well.

"you should hit the gym."

your welcome. :)

"It's not the pants making your butt look big!"
"I'm too tired tonight, hon."
"Sorry, your card has been declined!" (damn!!!!)

You might have a point there but I know many women who are just as picky or even pickier. Both whats on the outside and even more whats on the inside. Why cant we take everything back 20 years. :(

20 years would be perfect, we would be in one of the most sexually promiscious eras of this Country. Sounds great, lets start a movement!

Ladies I feel for you, I have luckily never had any women say anything really crushing to me. This despite the myriads of women that have direly forecast that some future girl will tear my heart out. Un-fucking-likely.

However, I do reflect that I have said some unfortunate things to women in the past. Some were quite bad and would lose me the good feeling that some of you have for me if I shared. In my defense, they were not meant maliciously, but originated out of a callous disregard for anyones feelings/desires except my own.

But I am quite contrite, and have endeavored to be gallant and above saying crushing words designed To-prey-on-weak-self-esteem . Even in the face of outrageous provocation. Sometimes people make too easy of a target.

I hear ya James. Lets start a movement. :cool:

I can think of all kinds of hurtful things I've been told. Some of the typical lines that girls who have been my cuddle buddies.

"I'm not ready for a relationship right now in my life and I have too many other things to accomplish"
"I'm not good at relationships"
"You live too far"
"Your too old"
"You have issues"
"Lets just be friends(which means buh-bye)"

Then of course the little pat on the back. There'll be someone.
Thats exactly right. There will be someone and you wont be that girl to win the prize babe.

I think I love your family more than you.

I am okay with settling for you.

My favorite of all time

So can we still sleep together cause I always thought you were great.

After receiving my valentines day gift, which was a jar of heart candy.....

Sue "thank you"

Guy "Yeah, my mom picked it up at Stop n Shop for me"



Not hurtful but just showed me he did not care enough about me to buy the gift himself - grocery store or no grocery store!

Said to me after I drove 300 miles to spend my spring break with him:

him: we have to talk.
me: ok, what's up?
him: well, M(a friend of both of ours) told me he already talked to you, and I guess you already know. (M had told me a break up was coming and I knew that the whole 300 mi drive...) So I guess that's it then.

WTF? So, even though your friend told me, you can't put it into your own words??? Gee, thanks for making an effort.

"You are everything I want in a life partner. There's only problem -- I have fallen out of love with you." :(

And he has to bring up our past every time we talk. Sniff, sniff.

Some of these are pretty harsh! :(

My worst breakup story: (after dating for 4 months)

Him: Will you convert to my religion for me?
Me: No. I'd like to learn more about your faith, but the religion I will follow is a personal decision that I will make for myself.
Him: Well, I can't marry someone who isn't (his religion). So it's over. But we can still be friends, right?

The worst part was that this conversation took place over IM. B@st@rd didn't even have the balls to break up with me in person. :rolleyes: Still don't know what I saw in him.......

Him: "Have you gained weight?"
Me: "Ummm..."
Him: "Wanna have sex?"

I don't think so!

Or how about: "Have you ever thought about two guys at once?"

And then I turn around and see that his (biological) brother is watching! Ew!

Or the winner: "Well, when we were together, it was just like being back with you at the beginning when everything was so great. But now that I think about it, I can't. But I'm always going to love you and I'm always going to be a part of your life as your friend because I care about you so much..."

Dear god, if this is logic, I'd like to see irrational thought.