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thetalady 01-30-2013 07:33 PM

UNT Sigma Nu member paralyzed
 
Very sad... Sigma Nu member severely injured & paralyzed at the Delta Sigma Phi house at University of North Texas. The incident happened during Rush Week.

http://www.myfoxdfw.com/story/208755...aternity-house

maconmagnolia 01-30-2013 08:04 PM

How terrible. :( Poor guy.

thetalady 01-30-2013 08:33 PM

Hard to believe, but the guy's father claims that his fraternity brothers have not even been to visit him in the hospital. Something really seems off...

Kevin 01-31-2013 11:42 AM

UNT is a colony. This probably doesn't bode well for them being rechartered.

33girl 01-31-2013 01:42 PM

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Originally Posted by thetalady (Post 2200768)
Hard to believe, but the guy's father claims that his fraternity brothers have not even been to visit him in the hospital. Something really seems off...

Yeah, how about the fact that a Sigma Nu is partying at a Delta Sigma Phi rush party. I've known guys who get kicked out of their fraternities for that. Not saying they aren't visiting him because of that, but maybe his relationships with his brothers were bad to begin with.

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Originally Posted by Kevin (Post 2200968)
UNT is a colony. This probably doesn't bode well for them being rechartered.

Why? It wasn't at their house. While what happened to him is horrible, it didn't have anything to do with the colony.

Kevin 01-31-2013 04:41 PM

Don't know enough to say whether it will, just that it could. All I know is what I've read in the papers.

It's a shame. I remember that chapter was at one time a really good chapter and from all accounts is headed that direction again. A couple of guys who were active around the same time I was did okay in the music business, you may have heard of them--the Eli Young Band.

arrowlady 02-04-2013 02:01 PM

Sad news to hear. I feel bad for this young man and his family.
I remember Sigma Nu's being a strong chapter back in my days.

LaneSig 02-07-2013 09:55 AM

UNT has issued a blanket ban on alcohol at any Greek event or gathering, including events held off campus or members over 21.

http://www.star-telegram.com/2013/02...at-events.html

Kevin 02-07-2013 11:05 AM

^ That always works.

knight_shadow 02-07-2013 01:10 PM

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Originally Posted by LaneSig (Post 2202250)
UNT has issued a blanket ban on alcohol at any Greek event or gathering, including events held off campus or members over 21.

http://www.star-telegram.com/2013/02...at-events.html

Bullshit.

Kevin 02-07-2013 01:58 PM

In what sense?

knight_shadow 02-07-2013 02:37 PM

Trying hard not to turn this into an "us vs them" situation, but...

I used to help advise our chapter at UNT. A lot of the "cultural" Greeks will use socials as fundraisers for the chapters, and there are already a ton of hoops that we have to jump through to get these off the ground (I can't speak for other groups, but ours are planned well in advance, with insurance/deposits/approvals/marketing completed before the semester begins). So, not only does that chapter lose money by not being able to host the socials they want, they also lose the opportunity to recoup the money they've already spent. The type of function that this individual was at is not the same as the events that we host, so issuing the blanket ban seems like a knee-jerk reaction.

Also, knowing UNT's culture, this is just going to create a ton of underground parties or folks going to Dallas or Fort Worth, then driving back to Denton drunk.

Kevin 02-07-2013 04:18 PM

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Originally Posted by knight_shadow (Post 2202277)
Also, knowing UNT's culture, this is just going to create a ton of underground parties or folks going to Dallas or Fort Worth, then driving back to Denton drunk.

This was my experience at UCO. Back circa 2000, we had an ATO pledge get his hip shattered after being run over while being passed out drunk in the middle of a dirt road. The University banned all alcohol at all functions. Did fraternities and sororities stop having alcohol at functions? Hell no. The rule was completely ignored and any semblance of control over Greek Life and alcohol was lost.

The school has sensibly back peddled from that and now we observe what are probably some similar rules to what you have at UNT. I think the current rules work fine and agree UNT's decision here was very knee jerk. Hopefully they reverse course and just start enforcing the rules they already had a little better.

MaryPoppins 02-07-2013 07:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Kevin (Post 2202285)
Hopefully they reverse course and just start enforcing the rules they already had a little better.

This! Just this would improve so many things.

CougarGrad 02-09-2013 01:52 AM

There's more to the alcohol ban than the young man's fall. That incident probably spawned discussion of the ban, but that incident wasn't the last straw. UNT has been concerned with underage drinking in particular for some time, but the accident at the Delta Sig house and some subsequent issues apparently constituted "the" last straw- partly due to drinking, and partly due to underage drinking at parties that weren't supposed to include alcohol in the first place.

thetalady 03-01-2013 09:18 PM

And of course, the alcohol ban for Greek organizations worked just as well as WE knew it would. Unbelieveable that it was the SAME house (Delta Sigma Phi) that was caught violating it :eek:

http://www.dentonrc.com/local-news/l...-sigma-phi.ece

Now the Delta Sigma Phi chapter has been suspended.

knight_shadow 03-01-2013 10:52 PM

Surprise of the century.

I went back and reread the original article about the ban. It says that it doesn't apply to members who drink at their homes. I wonder how they plan to handle members who live in?

ETA: Also, I'm hoping that the powers that be realize that 2 incidents occurring at the same house in a relatively short period of time does not equal a problem with the entire Greek system.

AGDee 03-02-2013 12:43 AM

If the original article is correct in its claim that alcohol is banned at fraternity and sorority functions, events, formals, parties, etc., then it doesn't seem as though the recent behavior violated that. I guess it depends on the wording of the original ban.

I'm trying to work some of this stuff out in my head. If these kids had not consumed this alcohol (yet... we know they were probably going to, but for the sake of hypothetical situations), a 21 year old had bought it, and they were just carrying it from the car to the house for the 21 year old, is that really a minor in possession? Like, if I buy beer while grocery shopping and my son carries it in the house for me, is that MIP? What about 18 year old bartenders and waitresses who pour and deliver alcohol all the time? Is simply holding a bottle truly being a minor in possession?

thetalady 03-02-2013 12:51 AM

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Originally Posted by AGDee (Post 2206140)
What about 18 year old bartenders and waitresses who pour and deliver alcohol all the time? Is simply holding a bottle truly being a minor in possession?

FYI, here in Texas, 18 year old servers are not permitted to pour or even just serve alcohol. No 18 year old bartenders either! They must be 21 to handle liquor in any way.

AGDee 03-02-2013 07:44 AM

Wow. In Michigan and New York, you can do both at 18.

DeltaBetaBaby 03-02-2013 09:05 AM

Some states go with the arbitrary age of 19, which is weird.

MaryPoppins 03-02-2013 11:20 AM

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Originally Posted by DeltaBetaBaby (Post 2206170)
Some states go with the arbitrary age of 19, which is weird.

Some states used to have 19 as the drinking age. Maybe they didn't update their alcoholic beverage server laws when they changed the drinking laws?

DeltaBetaBaby 03-02-2013 12:35 PM

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Originally Posted by MaryPoppins (Post 2206188)
Some states used to have 19 as the drinking age. Maybe they didn't update their alcoholic beverage server laws when they changed the drinking laws?

Oh, that could be. In good ol' Champaign, the bar age is 19, though you have to be 21 to drink.

thetalady 03-02-2013 03:25 PM

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Originally Posted by thetalady (Post 2206142)
FYI, here in Texas, 18 year old servers are not permitted to pour or even just serve alcohol. No 18 year old bartenders either! They must be 21 to handle liquor in any way.

I made a mistake... looks like minors can serve alcohol in the course of their employment with a licensed establishment here in Texas. Don't know when that changed!

CougarGrad 12-04-2013 01:11 PM

I'm terribly late with this news, but the alcohol ban was lifted: http://ntdaily.com/university-lifts-...e-alcohol-ban/

The alcohol issue did have something to do with Delta Sig's suspension, but again, there were a few additional issues. The alcohol- and in particular underage drinking- was just the last straw.

ElieM 12-04-2013 06:20 PM

Don't kids get drunk and fall off balconies all the time - not necessarily in fraternity houses? Are they going to ban multistorey student housing next?


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