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PKTSU01 12-18-2001 04:15 PM

Ladies, do you prefer short hair or long hair on guys?
 
Another riveting bar convo this past saturday night. The girls were split on the issue 3-3. The guys..well, we really didn't care.

AlphaGam1019 12-18-2001 04:26 PM

short hair.

long hair = yuck. (on most guys anyways)

KillarneyRose 12-18-2001 05:00 PM

Short! Military-style haircuts, but not the extreme "high and tights" favored by Marines.

dzrose93 12-18-2001 05:33 PM

Short! I've seen my bf with long hair and short, and I think short is definitely the way too go. Short hair generally always looks neat and professional on a guy whether he spends a lot of time on it or just a little. On the other hand, long hair can look pretty bad if you don't take the time to work with it each day.

valkyrie 12-18-2001 05:40 PM

It depends on the guy. Seriously, I like short hair or long hair, as long as it looks good and the guy is well groomed. As long as he's happy with his style, so am I.

amycat412 12-18-2001 06:35 PM

Short. Not tooooo short though.
:)

aephi alum 12-18-2001 08:21 PM

Depends on the guy. On some people, long hair looks really good... on others, it just looks weird.

ErikaXO 12-18-2001 08:54 PM

short short short

Heather 12-18-2001 08:59 PM

short, I grew up around military guys so long hair just looks out of place to me.

shopgirl 12-18-2001 10:02 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by KillarneyRose
Short! Military-style haircuts, but not the extreme "high and tights" favored by Marines.

killarneyRose...they're not FAVORED by the Marines themselves.:rolleyes: My father can't wait to let all of his hair grow...especially his facial hair! LOL!!!:D

Parsifal 12-18-2001 10:03 PM

Short. No hippies allowed.

shopgirl 12-18-2001 10:05 PM

I prefer short...BUT I love, love, love that medium length, wavy, shaggy type of style. Only a few can pull this off and when they do it looks soooo good. It's kind of that messy surfer look. Well, that's what I think of anyway.:rolleyes:

33girl 12-19-2001 12:23 AM

It definitely depends on the guy, but I hate when their hair is so short they look like they're in the Hitler Youth Corps.

KillarneyRose 12-19-2001 12:43 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by shopgirl



killarneyRose...they're not FAVORED by the Marines themselves.:rolleyes: My father can't wait to let all of his hair grow...especially his facial hair! LOL!!!:D

Shopgirl, you're absolutely right! I should have specified that its favored by THE Marines, not by the individual Marines. Well, most of 'em! (My Grandfather was a Marine and he wore his hair high and tight until he didn't have enough left for it to be high so he switched to tight all over!)

Sorry! :)

lovelyivy84 12-19-2001 12:45 AM

depends on the guy, the shape of his face, and the texture of his hair. I do NOT like long straight hair. But hair that is curly/wavy can be reaaally hot when it is a LITTLE longer.

I don't like blowouts or cornrows though. Brothas, keep it short and tight, and if you have the right shaped head, cut it all off! Nothing like a sexy bald black man!;)

DGPhoney 12-19-2001 01:15 AM

I say short hair. I seen a lot of guys who have had long hair and then they go through that transition. And tada!!!! It's like they are a whole new person, I think long hair on a guy hides the guy. The Short cut or having short hair on a guy, I think is not only sexy, but makes him look classy and cute
DGPhoney~

shopgirl 12-19-2001 02:24 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by KillarneyRose


Shopgirl, you're absolutely right! I should have specified that its favored by THE Marines, not by the individual Marines. Well, most of 'em! (My Grandfather was a Marine and he wore his hair high and tight until he didn't have enough left for it to be high so he switched to tight all over!)

Sorry! :)


Don't be sorry, silly girl!!!

I'm just messing with you!!!:D

Peaches-n-Cream 12-19-2001 02:50 AM

I love short hair, but I need a little something to run my fingers through! :D
No facial hair or (even worse) back hair allowed! I don't like a man to look like he's wearing a sweater when he takes of his shirt! :rolleyes:

ilovemyglo 12-19-2001 03:41 AM

I like preppy guys, so short hair is a definite thing for me. I think long hair looks unkempt and unprofessional. So long as it isn't past the ears though it is usually okay. And mullets are so OUT!

curiouss 12-19-2001 04:01 AM

If the hair is straight, and if you're Asian, white, or hispanic neck length is attractive. But, if black keep those perms out of your hair, I do not want a James Brown nor Al Sharpton!

If the hair is curly, of any race, keep it low or shaved. I don't want a Justin Timberlake nor Malik either!

UMgirl 12-19-2001 02:49 PM

Like Ilovemyglo (Sarah), I tend to like trendy-preppy guys, so I have to go with short hair (specially the spikely kind of I just woke up, but look nice kind). But it does depend on the guy. It can be a little long, as in a little past the ear, but not too long. Bald can be good sometimes too.

Steeltrap 12-19-2001 02:55 PM

I prefer short, because it's part of a clean, classic look.
I can tolerate texturizers, but absolutely no Jheri Curls.
Bald is also wonderful. Look at Michael Jordan, Chris Webber and Kevin Garnett. :)
Long, straight hair on a brother isn't too attractive, IMHO. That look should be saved for women.:cool:

lovelyivy84 12-19-2001 03:21 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Steeltrap
I prefer short, because it's part of a clean, classic look.
I can tolerate texturizers, but absolutely no Jheri Curls.
Bald is also wonderful. Look at Michael Jordan, Chris Webber and Kevin Garnett. :)
Long, straight hair on a brother isn't too attractive, IMHO. That look should be saved for women.:cool:

Soror, I do not know what it is but I can not take a man with a process! Be it texturized, curled or outright relaxed, Straight stringy hair is not ever cute on a black man IMO.

Steeltrap 12-19-2001 03:47 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by lovelyivy84


Soror, I do not know what it is but I can not take a man with a process! Be it texturized, curled or outright relaxed, Straight stringy hair is not ever cute on a black man IMO.

Amen, Soror. Someone needs to send the message to Lil' Bow Wow as he grows up. ;) I saw him with long straight hair on an awards show and I was :eek:

Sisterplum 12-19-2001 05:56 PM

Short hair all the way baby!

I can't stand guys with long hair....for some reason to me it makes them look lazy....I don't know why that is!

I prefer a guy with short hair he can somewhat style (does that make any sense?!) Basically I love my husband's hairstyle!!!:D:D

Happy holidays y'all!

justamom 12-20-2001 08:04 AM

On men past their 30's, I like shorter hair. Young guys, I love beautiful, clean, longer hair. We called it soccer hair, the kind that was longish on top but shorter around sides...not exactly a bowl. When I met my Hubby, he had shoulder length hair. I loved
it.

On black men, I have to say short is attractive. I grew up with the handsome faces of Harry Belofonte and Sidney Portier. Compare that style to Prince in Purple Rain...no contest. Is it Seal who has the shaved look? I like that too.

volgirl2376 12-21-2001 01:33 AM

i love love love a man with short hair. not bald. just short and clean cut

G8Ralphaxi 12-21-2001 01:34 AM

Generally shorter...but it depends on the guy. Some guys I can't imagine looking better with anymore than a lil' bit of hair. Some guys look totally natural with it longer.

That being said, it's awfully nice to have it long enough that you can tousle it with your fingers. Most guys have such nice thick soft hair - it's fun to play with.

But NO WAY should he take longer washing and styling it than I do or use more products! i.e. wash shampoo a little gel/mousse/etc. blow dry is fine. Crunchy hair is bad. Sticky hair is bad. Taking 1 hour in the bathroom while your shampoo (lather rinse repeat), conditioner, leave-in-conditioner, humectant, emulsifier, volumizer, shine agent, gel, mousse, styling spray, super-hold hairspray, and God only know what else all congeal on your head is totally NOT OKAY! :p

kimmykimmy 12-21-2001 03:42 PM

short short short! I don't mind a "jar head" style hair cut but definitely short.

AlphaChiGirl 12-21-2001 04:45 PM

It depends on what you're considering "long". "Metal hair", mullets, waist-length--no way. I REALLY like mops, shaggy dos, and what JAM called "soccer hair". Here is an example of an ideal guy cut...for me, at least: http://images.amazon.com/images/P/B0...1.LZZZZZZZ.jpg

I grew up in a military town, so I equate crew/buzz cuts with scary military fathers. (in reality, they probably weren't that scary, but definitely looked strict). All the nice, cuddly civilian fathers had longer hair.

FHwku 12-22-2003 03:00 AM

has a year made any difference?
 
about a year ago, you ladies answered with a resounding preference "short."

FiReKraCkEr 12-22-2003 03:05 AM

I like short haired guys.... but I do like the occasional shaggy/curly hair... but ONLY on certain type of guys.

absolutuscchick 12-22-2003 03:19 AM

short haired I guess....not too long, but I think that shaggy can be cute!!! I hate guys with shaved heads or almost shaved heads...ick!! I LOVE being able to run my hands through his hair, so I also hate it when its all geled up..but its hot when they use like styling wax.....anyhow.. :) :)


---doesnt this thread belong in "Dating & Relationships"??

Lady Pi Phi 12-22-2003 10:46 AM

It depends on the guy. I usually prefer short hiar on guys, but some guys can look hot with long hair...you know the rugged Viggo Mortensen kind of guys :D

kddani 12-22-2003 11:00 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by absolutuscchick

---doesnt this thread belong in "Dating & Relationships"??

Since it's so old and was just resurrected, the mods doing the moving probably haven't had the time to move it yet

bethany1982 12-22-2003 11:28 AM

Short, no contest here.

MeLikey 12-22-2003 12:51 PM

Short... a couple of guy friends who are hot started growing out their hair to try something different... I was like no... it's short now.

rainbowbrightCS 12-22-2003 01:21 PM

I like groomed and spikey. I really do not like curls on guys what so ever ( they look like a male little annie to me, no matter what the color)


So I like short hair I guess.


Christia


p.S I like to have the long hair in the relationship, plus I don't like a guy who spends to much time grooming.

Munchkin03 12-22-2003 02:31 PM

I like long hair on guys, unless it is unnaturally so (ie, Al Sharpton or James Brown). The boy's hair has been long and short, and long hair definitely looks better on him! Besides, I like playing with it. :D

Ginger 12-22-2003 05:09 PM

another vote for short!


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