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interviewee 09-25-2012 08:51 PM

Interview with a new colony...what do I wear?
 
A (relatively large) national sorority is colonizing at my school this fall, and I have an interview with them set up. What would you recommend wearing? I have a business casual dress that I think would be appropriate, but since it's only a 20 minute interview is that too much? Would jeans, boots, and a nice blouse be better? Thank you!

adpiucf 09-25-2012 09:02 PM

Contact the office of Greek Life at your school. They should be able to provide guidelines for attire for each round of colony interviews. Good luck!

Titchou 09-25-2012 09:03 PM

Business casual for sure - skirt or pants. no jeans. Make up, clean and trimmed nails, hair done.

LouisaMay 09-25-2012 09:09 PM

Oooh...exciting! Good luck. :)

interviewee 09-25-2012 09:11 PM

I already have my nails done and the make up/hair picked out, I'm just struggling with clothes! Being over/under dressed is my worst fear!

And yes, very exciting! Thank you all!

Titchou 09-25-2012 09:13 PM

Unless you wore "after 5" attire, you won't be overdressed. A business suit would nto be looked down upon but business casual would be better. Pants/skirt, blouse/shirt, cardigan/jacket, heels/flats (NO flip flops) are all fine.

interviewee 09-25-2012 09:16 PM

http://www.ae.com/web/browse/product...tId=cat5970034

That's the dress, do you think it's appropriate?

lovespink88 09-25-2012 09:19 PM

As someone who went through colony recruitment, business casual would be best. Like Titchou said, a nice skirt or paints with a pretty blouse would be nice.

Looking SUPER quickly but here's just a few things I found:

http://www.nyandcompany.com/nyco/pro...k-Sheath-Dress
http://www.nyandcompany.com/nyco/pro...-Check-Pattern
http://www.nyandcompany.com/nyco/pro...stripe-Average
http://www.express.com/ruffled-ragla...ow/3/index.pro (blouse only, not the whole outfit)
http://www.express.com/the-original-...ow/3/index.pro

Nice jeans and cute top are more appropriate for the other days where you might mingle with other PNMs.

FSUZeta 09-25-2012 09:21 PM

As long as it is not as short on you as on the model. You will most likely be interviewed by older alumnae, i.e., not right out of college, whose tastes will most likely be more on the conservative side. Nude heels with it?

If I have a vote, I vote for business casual for the interview. Maybe you will be invited to some of the rush parties the sorority will be holding and you could wear the dress then.

sigmagirl2000 09-25-2012 09:21 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by interviewee (Post 2181177)
http://www.ae.com/web/browse/product...tId=cat5970034

That's the dress, do you think it's appropriate?

Not if it as short on you as it is on the model!

Titchou 09-25-2012 09:22 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by interviewee (Post 2181177)
http://www.ae.com/web/browse/product...tId=cat5970034

That's the dress, do you think it's appropriate?

Unless the campus is in southern California, no. And maybe not even then

lovespink88 09-25-2012 09:22 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by interviewee (Post 2181177)
http://www.ae.com/web/browse/product...tId=cat5970034

That's the dress, do you think it's appropriate?

I REALLY like that dress! However, I worry it may be too short. The models in the pictures are always very tall so it's hard to tell if it will be too short for you. I would not buy it unless you can try it on in store before hand and determine if it's an appropriate length (just a few inches above the knee--not mid-thigh.)

ETA: Glad we all posted at once about the length.

interviewee 09-25-2012 09:24 PM

It definitely isn't, I'm several inches shorter. I have either red (burgundy) heels or silver flats, I'm slacking in the shoe department and none of my friends are the same size as me. I also have silver sandals from NY&Company (not flip flops!) which I was considering.

interviewee 09-25-2012 09:27 PM

Everyone who commented on length- I swear it's much longer on me! It's about three inches above my knees. Thank you all for pointing that out, though!

lovespink88 09-25-2012 09:28 PM

If you are absolutely, positively sure that it's not too short, I'd wear this dress. Some may disagree with me, but I really like it. If you do wear it, I would definitely look for some nude heels with it, if your budget allows.

SigKapSweetie 09-25-2012 09:29 PM

I think it's a cute dress. I would make sure it is long enough when you are sitting so that you aren't in danger of revealing anything you don't want to show, as it looks a tad short on the (likely very tall) model, and I also would consider wearing a camisole/tank top beneath it because of the open back.

Titchou 09-25-2012 09:30 PM

It needs to be about 4-5 inches longer...knee length. If it isn't on you, then no. The open back is also an issue. Think of an interview with your dad's boss...

Sciencewoman 09-25-2012 09:31 PM

I checked in PNMs for colonization interviews recently, and most of the girls had booked times when they had breaks between classes. I don't recall anyone wearing heels or looking purposefully "dressed up", but everyone looked tasteful and appropriate...business casual. Dressier pants were typical. I guarded backpacks, a huge art portfolio case, an instrument, etc. Everyone was well-groomed, but they also would have blended in during class.

lovespink88 09-25-2012 09:35 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Titchou (Post 2181196)
It needs to be about 4-5 inches longer...knee length. If it isn't on you, then no. The open back is also an issue. Think of an interview with your dad's boss...

Good call, I did not look at the other pictures.

I change my vote, no for this dress. The back isn't too risque, but definitely not good for an interview.

DeltaBetaBaby 09-25-2012 09:41 PM

31" from the shoulders is too short.

interviewee 09-25-2012 09:47 PM

I was planning on wearing either a camisole, bandeau, or backless bra. The slit in the back is VERY thin, I didn't even notice it at first when I tried it on.

Titchou 09-25-2012 09:49 PM

NO to the backless bra and bandeau looks. You are interviewing with adult women...not peers, not men. Some may be old enough to be your grandmother. It might be OK if you get invited to one of the party rounds (depending on how they are) but not an interview.

Sciencewoman 09-25-2012 09:54 PM

Do you have a nice white cardigan you could wear with it? That would cover the open back and give it an age-appropriate, daytime look.

interviewee 09-25-2012 09:54 PM

What if I wore a blazer so the back was covered?

Sciencewoman 09-25-2012 09:54 PM

That would work, too.

adpiucf 09-25-2012 09:59 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by interviewee (Post 2181215)
What if I wore a blazer so the back was covered?

Love the idea of a blazer with that dress.

interviewee 09-25-2012 10:24 PM

I have a cardigan that matches the flats I'm wearing. Thank you all so much, I appreciate it immensely!

Sciencewoman 09-25-2012 10:40 PM

Sounds like a good plan! I hope you have a great interview!

thetalady 09-26-2012 12:14 AM

Always think about your AUDIENCE when planning what to wear :) Unless you are interviewing for a job at Hooters, then short, tight, low cut, or backless is not the best idea!

eta: You want to be remembered, but not as "the girl in that AWFUL dress"!

FSUZeta 09-26-2012 08:11 PM

Did not notice the back of the dress. Glad my GC panhel sisters did, and that the OP came up with a solution.

interviewee 10-13-2012 05:19 PM

Thanks to all of you for every bit of help, I figured I'd update in case anyone was curious. To clarify, that dress reached from about the middle to the top of my knees, so I decided that it wasn't too short. I was all set to wear a blazer with it, until I came across a pack of safety pins in my desk! I pinned up the entire back, and many safety pins later you would never have known it was open to begin with. That dress, plus some nude flats and a pretty smooth interview led to my receiving a bid!! =) I couldn't be happier, thank you all so much!

LouisaMay 10-13-2012 05:23 PM

Well, aren't you handy?! ;) That's terrific news! Congratulations.

ladybug12 10-13-2012 05:31 PM

Will you please share with us the group you pledged?

Congrats, by the way.

And thanks for coming back to let us know you got a bid!

Sciencewoman 10-13-2012 08:25 PM

I'd like to know, too! Congratulations!

TriDeltaSallie 10-13-2012 08:26 PM

Congratulations! Enjoy your membership! :)

interviewee 10-15-2012 08:26 PM

Alpha Delta Pi!

AZTheta 10-15-2012 08:41 PM

YAY! Another ADPi story!!! Congratulations!!!!!

APhi4Ever 10-15-2012 08:44 PM

Congratulations!

honeychile 10-16-2012 01:37 PM

Another Colonist! Congratulations and Welcome, Interviewee!!

adpiucf 10-16-2012 02:14 PM

Welcome to ADPi!


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