Rushing as a Junior (Fall Semester) - Questions!
 

1 - do you think this is weird or embarrassing? I feel a little awkward about it.

2 - would someone younger than me want me as their little? since, girls younger than me have been accepted into the last pledge class, i more than likely will have a big who is younger than me.

3 - do you have any tips or strategies i could use? i was thinking maybe telling the girls i may be older, but i could be like a pledge class mommy to all the other girls and they can come to me for advice.

4 - are my chances very low?

5 - do COB's have a higher chance of getting in the sorority? I have a good idea of what sorority I want since I have been on campus for a couple years already. Also, I have enough credits to COB.

Oy.

i have no friends really at my school now....i used to but they all joined sororities and we all lost touch. i love to party and i want to be a part of a sisterhood. i hope in this case its better late than never. i want to enjoy my last two years here and be part of something. when girls join sororities you can tell they make so many friends and theyre lives are amazing, i want to experience that. so many girls i know said their bids day was the best day of their life!

what?

This.

come on guys, what is the problem?

i thought this site would be a help...ugh.

Pledge class mommie?

DITY?

did i tell you? what? please be more clear...

Not all of this may apply to you, just my experiences -
1. Not weird or embarrassing unless you act like you're embarrassed to be there, in which, why would you even bother?

2. Yes, they would. A lot of my pledge class is older than their bigs, it doesn't matter.

3. I don't know how well telling them you'd be a 'pledge class mommy' would go over, I would be horrified if someone in m pledge class announced that and probably run away. Just be yourself.

4. Nobody can answer this, it depends on the school and the membership selection process, which nobody will divulge.

5. Once again, nobody can answer this, it varies from GLO to GLO as well as campus to campus.

People are making fun of you because you come off as very immature and silly. I don't think recruitment is the time to mention that you 'like to party' - it's kind of an inappropriate topic to discuss during something like this, in my opinion. Also, even if you know which house you want to be in, they have to want you too. It is a MUTUAL SELECTION process, meaning they have to want you also.

Good luck.

okay thank you!

another question - is it a bad idea to ask a sorority member if you have a chance? i dont want to go through this and come out without a bid. there are a couple sorority girls i know and am wondering if i should ask them this?

Have you let them know that you were planning on going through recruitment? What did they say?

the picture or whatever you posted didn't come up...

i havent asked anyone yet. should i bring it up? what should i say?

OMG at the pledge class mommy! SMH. You know freshmen are people, too. Some of them even are as mature as juniors and seniors. :eek: Do it or don't do it, but don't go into it expecting that everyone in your pledge class will need to come to you, the two year older and wiser woman for advice. My class had women of all age groups, and you'd have never known it. We didn't focus on it. One of my best friends my freshman year was an alum in grad school that I am friends with to this day. Also, I was always really good friends with at least two or three of the new members from each pledge class. I wasn't their mentor or big sister; I was just their friend. This included my senior year with a freshman. You'd miss out on great friendships if age is a limiting factor.

Rachiexo,

Here is my advice to you. Tell your sorority friends (did you loose touch?) that you're interested in going Greek. Don't put them on the spot and ask them if you have a chance. They probably don't know and might not be truthful with you. You having a chance could depend on a 100 different things-grades, do they take juniors, competitiveness of the Greek System, do you have a good/bad reputation, did you steal a boyfriend, are you involved on campus, do you party to much and are you one of those girls? just to name a few. At some schools a lot of juniors go through at others no. It really just depends

Some times you have to take risks. You have nothing to loose. Go through the process but make sure you are prepared. Also, as a junior you need to keep an open mind. That sorority you want may not want you but another one might.

you are right, now that i think about it, that was kinda dumb. good points^^

yes i did lose touch with them. but maybe i should get back in touch and just let them know i want to rush this semester and ask them if they take juniors?

It looks like you go to a school with a small greek system. I doubt being a junior would be a death sentence. That, however, does not mean that you would get a bid. There is always a risk of not getting a bid when going through recruitment, but there is a 0% chance if you don't.

Interesting that she goes to Bloomsburg, the same school as another famous troll. Such a small world!

Which famous troll? Is that where Southern said she went?

Use Bloomsburg for the search term. :)

Will do...I'm trying to stretch my work to fill the rest of the day!

Not unless you want to put them in an awkward situation. Follow the rules and don't approach them about it.

Membership selection is confidential information, but I will say to you that there have been situations where a PNM has friends in a group who want her while there may be other members who don't want the PNM. It sometimes goes the way of the ones who want the PNM. It sometimes goes the way of the ones who don't want the PNM. To me, sorority membership is not worth screwing up a friendship over.

#3 No. Just no.



What do you mean by this? Are you saying that your school doesn't allow freshman to go through recruitment, but that since you are a junior, you are eligible? Nobody can tell you if you're more likely to get a bid during COB/informal recruitment. It varies from campus to campus and chapter to chapter.

Are they still your friends? I would suggest telling them that you want to go through recruitment but if you wouldn't or don't otherwise talk to them anymore, they may be wondering why they weren't good enough to keep in touch with in the first place.

Second, you don't need to be Greek to "party" or be part of something. You seem to have an idealized view of membership. It's not all parties and playtime; there is a "business" aspect to membership (formal meetings, dues, service/philanthropy, rituals, etc.). And no, simply being Greek doesn't mean that someone's life is "amazing". People are still people and still have the same life problems and challenges they had before going Greek.

Ha ha...I totally for got about "i skipped so many classes cuz of that jesus"!

I just got to that post.

wow.

....I think rachiexo is a babe from the south.

I doubt it. She's for real. Trolls come back to argue and argue. The OP took correction, said "sorry" then stopped posting. All signs of a real college girl that realized that she said a little too much.

No, I am not a troll. Lol. But thanks for all your help everyone. Has anyone on here happened to rush as a junior? It would be nice to hear from experience.

Do a search.

Your junior status in and of itself should not make your chances worse; however, the state of mind where you have a concept like being "pledge class mommy" will. Age is nothing but a number. Don't dwell on it.

COB events don't mean you personally have a better or worse chance of getting a bid. It is simply a way for all the sororities to get on an even footing numbers wise before formal rush begins. I would go to these events, but DO NOT limit yourself to one or two sororities. Visit ALL the groups that are holding COB events.

ree-xi - first semester freshmen can't rush. The sororities who need to get up to total have an organized sort of COB-fest right before formal rush. This is only for sophomores and up.

http://www.bloomu.edu/greek_life/recruitment

ETA: I just reread the title of this. If you go to Bloomsburg (which we assumed you do from your other post) why on earth are you waiting until fall?

I rushed as a junior. I am older then both my big and my grandbig and it has worked out perfectly. If you think having a big younger then you would be weird though you can always try to find one who is from a higher up pledge class. I know that at least in my sorority many girls take several littles over the course of their years in college