If I had a gun, I'll shoot the b****!
 

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If you call her a friend, then you sure don't need enemies! I'd distance myself from her, pronto. Life is too short to be dealing with that kind of drama.
:rolleyes:

sometimes in life you have to just face the reality that people change, and that you need to move on with your life..I say chalk it up to a loss, (hers, not yours), you're better off without her..it's always easier to give advice about walking away from a relationship(friendship, significant other, etc..)..it just takes a lot of strength but in the long run you'll be a lot happier..take it from someone who's been there, done that too many times to count.

She sounds pretty mean & nasty. If I were in your place, I'd just forget about her. I wouldn't call her or return her calls, and I would just act as though she no longer exists.

It totally sucks to lose a friend (I've had it happen) but sometimes you have to do what's best for you. Good luck.

A borderline psychopath, more likely. ;)

Well it could be several things!

She/He have a new friend or maybe you have gotten on the deep side as you did on previous post!:rolleyes:

Wweell Just a thought!

At least with me, people who aren't worth anything to you shouldn't even be worth your time, or worry, or effort placed into writing a page long email to a bunch of strangers about much of a bitch this girl has become. Get what i'm saying? You even putting in effort to get mad means she has the upper hand, and all this chick sounds like is a mooch who is taking advantage of your good nature anyways. So F#(K it, don't keep up the communication, and stop going out of your way for someone who seems to view you as a "part-time" friend. At least that's how i'd handle it.

This is no friend. Walk away and don't look back. Don't even think about getting even. Forget it. It's history. Move on.

I say kick her in the head.

Probably not the best idea (or the most mature), but for sheer entertainment value...

Ditch the B**ch. :0)

She isn't worth the effort.

What do you mean by that? :confused:

What do you mean by that:confused: Well;)

if this is the way the individual is Drop like a hot tater coming out of the coals on a campfire! You do not need a two face butt head!:D As a so called freind!

True, true!

i'm going to take a different tack here, I think you need to help your friend.

It sounds like she's addicted to something, you mentioned morphine, and i thought drugs from all of your other posts even before you had that comment out.

its time to get your friend some counseling, some treatment, or something, but to me there's something bigger going on besides your friend being a witch.

do you two share mutual friends? what do they say?

We used to, but she isn't friends with them anymore, neither am I. But, I do want to get back in touch with them.

GMUTeke may be right. But I think she needs professional help -- not yours.

I may have fell out of the stupid tree, but I haven't been beaten with the dumb ass stick yet. ;)
That's why I am 20 years old and never have been in a relationship, I've chosen not to. If I have trouble with platonic friendships with other females, I can only imagine a romantic relationship with a male would be like! :eek:
As if this wasn't the first time I had a friendship go sour, just not to this degree.

Perhaps I should just bust out the real slim SH80 in the real world, maybe people won't f*** with me so much and give me some damn respect!

SH80er -

Here's something I found on another BB which I occasionally post on - I hope you find it helpful. I found it somewhat comforting after ending a very, very long and dear friendship:

The Bus and the Bus Driver

Have you ever felt like there were people in your life that should not be there?

There may be someone who likes you (for you) and likes the things that you do and project.

There are those who like you, but don't like the things that you are trying to do - or just don't like things about you.

There are also those who don't like you, but like what you stand for, like what you are doing in your works or your life.

Then there are those who just don't like you at all.

Think about it.
Think about everyone who you surround yourself with and think which one of the above four examples do they fit in.

Think long and hard now, and don't try to fit them in more than one category.

Be honest with yourself.
Even if you THINK they are your friend, best friend, family member, WHATEVER, don't fake.
Put them in the category that they truly belong.

Now, think about you being a bus driver.
Think about what a bus driver does and what the bus driver's purpose is.
A bus driver drives a bus.
Think of this bus as your life and you are still the driver.
Now, on a bus, people get on and people get off.

Think about the reason people get on and get off. Now, people get off a bus, why?
Because they have reached their destination.

Right before they reach their destination, they ring a bell.
Remember, you are the bus driver and when that person RIDING YOUR BUS rings the bell, you have two choices.

To either STOP and let them off or you can STOP the bus and beg them to stay on.

But remember, that bell rang - TELLING YOU THAT IT WAS TIME TO GET OFF.

Here is your lesson....
Again, the bus driver - YOU
The bus - YOUR LIFE
The riders...THOSE GOING ALONG FOR THE RIDE.

The bell signaling the stop....Your SPIRIT telling you - IT'S TIME FOR THAT RIDER TO GET OFF THE BUS (out your life)

BOTTOM LINE
When the bell rings...stop the bus.
Let that rider off,
Shut the door (move on) and pull away.

THE GOOD THING IS -
There are plenty of bus stops down the road and people will always, always, get on your bus to ride.

The key is knowing when to let them off..

It's your journey.

Wow UKAXO great analogy-I like that

I say kick her to the curb, I have been there and done that before also. I would be kicking her out of the bus.

UKAXO-That WAS great. SH80er...what can I tell ya that hasn't been said. Maybe to rephrase a point or two-When we hang with "losers" we sometimes start to mimic those characteristics. You don't want that. She is so unhappy with herself, she is trying to take everyone else down with her. Don't let her.

I know a lot of people will think this is "hokey", but you need some positive self affirmations. Honey, sometimes you seem so down on yourself that you may actually be attracting these people and situations. You are 20...so very young. This is the best time in your life to figure out not who you ARE, but who you want to BE. You must start to ACT (even if it seems a little unnatural at first) like the type of person you want to be perceived as. With a little effort, you will start drawing people to you who will help reinforce what you want to achieve in life. Right now, you seem to be floundering, unsure of your direction.
BECOME what you admire in others and you will draw what you admire into your life.

Drop her, don't hang around her anymore. Than when she asks something of you, stand her up just once for good measure.

SH80, Im feeling your pain, cuz lately ive been hearing couple of people ringing the bus bell and Im letting them off. Some Im just plain old kicking off the bus. People change (unfortunately, sometimes we have to find out the hard way), and people also use people to make them feel better about themselves or to impress others. You can try being polite and tell them how you feel, you can try ignoring it and hope it goes away, or you can just try being a flat out B#@!% and getting angry with them, but when all else fails you just have to walk away and look back. They probably werent who you thought they were anyways. I alwasy think about the quote I found somewhere about people changing.....People dont become things, they always were. Good Luck :)

Thanks so so much for the advice guys. :)

It's time to throw her off, there are many many others waiting to get on the bus. And, then I'll run her over. ;)