would dating a non-virgin bother you?
 

Just wondering, if you dated a girl you knew had hooked up with a bunch of guys before would you still date her? i find it really disgusting TBH, but everyone tells me to get over it...sigh

I find trolls on GC really disgusting, TBH. So bite me.

Well if you wouldn't have been stuffing your face full of food, fatty, you could have been hooking up with girls too.

Hey fatty, she won't even respond to your texts. So I don't think there's any chance you have to worry about dating her.

Jealousy is really unbecoming. Besides, you wouldn't have a shot with her at all, even if she were a virgin.

I laughed and snorted out loud while at work. :o

No, he's AWESOME! SHAME THE SLUT!

Hey. Don't start trashing a girl because she has rejected you. Grow up. And by the way, enough with the pity party. It's a big turn off to members of the opposite sex.

Anymore if someone had a problem with dating a non-virgin they probably would not date much.

I'm debating about turning the troll thread into something legitimate.

Let me think.

This guy is obviously a virgin. So for him, I say maybe a girl that hasn't been with anyone is more your speed. If you suck, she won't know any better. And you obviously don't handle rejection or constructive criticism very well.

At my age, dating bothers me.

There is something to be said for hormones, I suppose.

ETA:BluPhire, is this what you had in mind?

Huh? Seriously? So if a guy "hooked up" with a bunch of women before, that isn't? You're an idiot.

Not to double post, but guys are not the victims of their sexuality they claim to be. One of the only differences between men and women in this area is that girls are taught to control their sexual urges and behave like "ladies" while boys have been taught that numerous sexual conquests are validation of manhood. Lame and stupid.:rolleyes:

Loathe as I am to feed the trolls...

They're called "condoms". Use them. (PSA: This is a good idea with any new partner.)

FYP ;)

Again, they're called "condoms". Use them.

I don't know about that. There was the case here of the pledge whose hotdog jumped out of his pants and landed in the hallway of the girlfriend of one of the actives. By accident of course.

Who said we'd want Trolly McTrollerson? Someone with little experience will not automatically accept all applications. 100% of GC virgins agree, troll we no likey!

I agree, but that wasn't my point.

In my experience, someone out there will take him, virgin or not. Sadly. I swear, all of the sucky people I know find someone eventually. Now whether or not that someone sticks around after quickly finding out what they got themselves into is another story...

FYP. You just never knooooooooooow. ;)

Somewhat, but I was gonna bring up a real life scenario that occured with me, but was debating if we are trying to let the thread just die then I was gonna keep it to myself.

There we go, I knew there'd be some awesome slut shaming in this thread!

http://youtu.be/WEeKcG1p2GI :D

Obviously we just think poorly of ourselves! Otherwise we'd be good and properly shamed.

If I met a man who was in my dating age range who was a virgin, I'd run as fast I could in the other direction. Scary, scary thought.

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I don't know where PB's imaginary 'doesn't respect one's self' line is or isn't, so I'm just being all inclusive.

Please feel free to tell me where you have a problem with my statement.

http://www.qwipster.net/40virgin.jpg

Ahhhhh.

Well, at least PB is shaming the male sluts too...as in if he started working the other side of the hot dog stand he wouldn't park his weiner there.

It's just so ridiculous. Live-in doesn't know my "number" and I don't know his. As long as we're both healthy and happy it doesn't matter one bit.

Amen to this. Though I will say I've pushed for an STD screen before with a bf that had slept with triple digits (which I highly suspect was an inflated number, but based on the # of girls at our school alone, it was worth the check).

Then again, I'm careful about that sort of thing, period. I refuse to catch something just because the other person doesn't take their health seriously, cause I'm serious about mine. But as far as I'm concerned, that's the only way in which their prior sex life effects me and the relationship. And the same applies the other way around. My business is my business.

Prior to Live-in and before we moved in together, I was screened regularly. He was, too. Didn't matter the number at all. This reminds me that when I set up my next appointment I should get screened again just in case.

Husband was a virgin when we started dating. He doesn't know my exact number, but he knows it was more than one. Actually, my number + their prior partners could be easily rivaled by a good number of high school sophomores personal numbers.

i don't know any virgins. it'd probably be easier to find a unicorn.

and hump it.

I assume (hope) you mean the back of the unicorn and not the front. Hell of a Freudian slip there, dude. :p :D

Honestly, I don't ask. I just wait for it to eventually come out. Personally, when it comes to dating, I'm very transparent and I expect the same from the man I am dating. I also don't think anything is wrong with a guy who may have slept with a lot of women, it's just that he wouldn't be the guy for me. I have a standard, and I've never apologized to guys I've dated for keeping a standard, instead, I let it be my guidepost. I just think it's important to separate my options and decide (when dating) if the man standing before me is conducive to how I see my life moving forward. If he's more of a distraction than an asset and is causing me to stray from my course, then I'll end it and move on. A guy with a high number of sexual partners is a distraction and not an asset for me. On the flip side of that, just because he is not the one for me does not make him a bad person, nor does it mean he will not be perfect for someone else. I just think that sex was designed to be a response to love, not a foundation for it. Pretty much the cement and seal of an already established relationship.:)

It also aggravates me when couples try to compare what they accept in the opposite sex to what other couples accept and do not accept. Be happy with you and yours. Not everyone has the same personal preferences. IMO, I just think that it helps when people have similar backgrounds and share complimentary goals and values. Two becoming one is a lot easier to achieve when both parties are walking in the same direction. So, what might work really well with one couple may not work well with another.

lol