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katydidKD 04-19-2011 11:25 PM

Chapter Facebook Guidelines
 
Has anyone been in a Chapter where you had a facebook/social media contract? What did it say if so, and how did you enforce it? Just curious, i always wanted to make one as president, never got around to it/figured out how. I wanted to get a copy of another Chapter's and use it, but it just fell through.

DrPhil 04-19-2011 11:49 PM

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Originally Posted by katydidKD (Post 2048669)
Has anyone been in a Chapter where you had a facebook/social media contract? What did it say if so, and how did you enforce it? Just curious, i always wanted to make one as president, never got around to it/figured out how. I wanted to get a copy of another Chapter's and use it, but it just fell through.

people telling this new username to fuckoff and go somewhere else in 3, 2, 1.....

psy 04-20-2011 12:07 AM

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Originally Posted by DrPhil (Post 2048681)
people telling this new username to fuckoff and go somewhere else in 3, 2, 1.....

??? Am I missing some history here? That seems harsh... even for GC.:confused:

aephi alum 04-20-2011 12:09 AM

I was an active back when dinosaurs (otherwise known as VAXstations) roamed the earth, the web was in its infancy, and Facebook didn't exist. Now I'm very active on Facebook and other social media outlets, and I run more than one web site.

My main guideline for myself is, if I wouldn't want my parents or a potential employer to see it, I don't post it. So, while I may post the occasional off-color joke or politically-charged comment here and there, I keep it to that. No pictures of me drunk off my gourd, etc.

If your nationals don't provide social media guidelines for your sisters, you might want to start with that - would you want your parents to see that picture or read that joke? If not, don't post it.

Edit: Taking the OP at her word here - serious answer.

knight_shadow 04-20-2011 12:11 AM

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Originally Posted by psy (Post 2048685)
??? Am I missing some history here?

Yes

victoriana 04-20-2011 12:13 AM

We have a "tap" system. If a sister sees a photo or a status that is inappropriate, they comment "tap" and the sister takes it down. If she doesn't, she can be brought up to standards. Examples of taps: photos with alcohol displayed, overly sexy photos, negative statuses about sorority, status with a lot of curse words, ect...

katydidKD 04-20-2011 12:15 AM

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Originally Posted by victoriana (Post 2048689)
We have a "tap" system. If a sister sees a photo or a status that is inappropriate, they comment "tap" and the sister takes it down. If she doesn't, she can be brought up to standards. Examples of taps: photos with alcohol displayed, overly sexy photos, negative statuses about sorority, status with a lot of curse words, ect...

thats an awesome idea!

preciousjeni 04-20-2011 12:41 AM

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Originally Posted by victoriana (Post 2048689)
We have a "tap" system. If a sister sees a photo or a status that is inappropriate, they comment "tap" and the sister takes it down. If she doesn't, she can be brought up to standards. Examples of taps: photos with alcohol displayed, overly sexy photos, negative statuses about sorority, status with a lot of curse words, ect...

This is a really good idea. Hmmm...

sweetmagnolia 04-20-2011 01:39 AM

We have an account run by our Standards Council (under a fake name) that every member has to be friends with and give full profile viewing access to- if you see something inappropriate, you can report it to that account and they will ask her to take it down. They also do regular checks of everyone's recent posts and photos.

kddani 04-20-2011 05:59 AM

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Originally Posted by aephi alum (Post 2048686)

If your nationals don't provide social media guidelines for your sisters,

KD has one.

AOEforme 04-20-2011 08:28 AM

Our nationals also provides social media guidelines for us, and we have to sign promising we will follow them.

Our risk management chair would enforce them, sending women notifications that they had 48 hours to remove the offending images without further consequences.


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Originally Posted by victoriana (Post 2048689)
We have a "tap" system. If a sister sees a photo or a status that is inappropriate, they comment "tap" and the sister takes it down. If she doesn't, she can be brought up to standards. Examples of taps: photos with alcohol displayed, overly sexy photos, negative statuses about sorority, status with a lot of curse words, ect...

We did something just like this, except you would just comment "Oh, this makes me blue". That was our code that it should come down before the RM chair noticed it.

kddani 04-20-2011 08:38 AM

KD's internet policy can be found here:

http://kappadelta.org/chapterpolicies#3

Gusteau 04-20-2011 08:47 AM

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Originally Posted by victoriana (Post 2048689)
We have a "tap" system. If a sister sees a photo or a status that is inappropriate, they comment "tap" and the sister takes it down. If she doesn't, she can be brought up to standards. Examples of taps: photos with alcohol displayed, overly sexy photos, negative statuses about sorority, status with a lot of curse words, ect...

The ZTAs on my campus do this except they comment "CC" for "Crooked Crown." I know of another chapter here that also has a fake account like sweetmagnolia's:

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Originally Posted by sweetmagnolia (Post 2048707)
We have an account run by our Standards Council (under a fake name) that every member has to be friends with and give full profile viewing access to- if you see something inappropriate, you can report it to that account and they will ask her to take it down. They also do regular checks of everyone's recent posts and photos.

I kind of feel like you trust people to not be dumb, but I suppose that's unrealistic. :rolleyes:

Between the two I would prefer the first because it means everyone is holding themselves accountable instead of someone on e-board being Big Brother and reprimanding you. I would assume people respond better to it.

AGDee 04-20-2011 10:28 AM

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Originally Posted by Gusteau (Post 2048735)

Between the two I would prefer the first because it means everyone is holding themselves accountable instead of someone on e-board being Big Brother and reprimanding you. I would assume people respond better to it.

Not to mention, all you'd have to do is hide that album from that "friend" and put all the inappropriate pics in there.

katydidKD 04-20-2011 12:24 PM

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Originally Posted by DrPhil (Post 2048681)
people telling this new username to fuckoff and go somewhere else in 3, 2, 1.....

Nice language :)

preciousjeni 04-20-2011 12:25 PM

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Originally Posted by katydidKD (Post 2048785)
Nice language :)

You missed the point.

Barbie's_Rush 04-20-2011 12:40 PM

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Originally Posted by katydidKD (Post 2048785)
Nice language :)

OMG! Call the GC Police! Are you really this dense or do you have Asperger Syndrome?

DrPhil 04-20-2011 01:05 PM

And I have much nicer language than that. Stick around for a while, assuming you aren't a sock puppet.

knight_shadow 04-20-2011 01:40 PM

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Originally Posted by Barbie's_Rush (Post 2048787)
OMG! Call the GC Police! Are you really this dense or do you have Asperger Syndrome?

Are you fucking serious?

AlphaFrog 04-20-2011 01:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Barbie's_Rush (Post 2048787)
OMG! Call the GC Police! Are you really this dense or do you have Asperger Syndrome?

Wait...the person who is up in arms to the point of signature-mocking a child abuse joke is making a joke about mental impairment? Really?

Death by irony....

DrPhil 04-20-2011 01:46 PM

This is all my fault. I have failed you. Farewell, GC.

*jumping from a cadberry creme egg*

Barbie's_Rush 04-20-2011 01:48 PM

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Originally Posted by AlphaFrog (Post 2048814)
Wait...the person who is up in arms to the point of signature-mocking a child abuse joke is making a joke about mental impairment? Really?

Death by irony....

No irony there. I am dead serious and asking her a serious question about a medical condition that would explain things. It's not a joke at all. Quite different from some dullard making light of child abuse.

knight_shadow 04-20-2011 01:51 PM

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Originally Posted by Barbie's_Rush (Post 2048820)
No irony there. I am dead serious and asking her a serious question about a medical condition that would explain things. It's not a joke at all. Quite different from some dullard making light of child abuse.

Bullshit, dumbass.

katydidKD 04-20-2011 01:52 PM

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Originally Posted by Barbie's_Rush (Post 2048787)
OMG! Call the GC Police! Are you really this dense or do you have Asperger Syndrome?

Not dense, and no I don't, but glad you aren't above using mental illness as a pejorative.

Barbie's_Rush 04-20-2011 01:55 PM

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Originally Posted by knight_shadow (Post 2048823)
Bullshit, dumbass.

Believe what you want, you pathetic lonely cretin. I don't give a shit about anything someone like you might think.

katydidKD 04-20-2011 01:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Barbie's_Rush (Post 2048828)
Believe what you want, you pathetic lonely cretin. I don't give a shit about anything someone like you might think.

So, people who make sarcastic comments about bad language have asperger's. I thought that was an autism-spectrum condition? What does it have to do with my post?

knight_shadow 04-20-2011 02:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Barbie's_Rush (Post 2048828)
Believe what you want, you pathetic lonely cretin. I don't give a shit about anything someone like you might think.

"Someone like you"

Right. Dumb bitch.

agzg 04-20-2011 02:05 PM

le sigh.

AlphaFrog 04-20-2011 02:30 PM

I can't wait for DF to get here...

Epic awareness rant in 3...2...1...

AZTheta 04-20-2011 02:52 PM

WHOA.

Not a rant from me, not even pearl clutching, but, rather, an "educational" request:

Autism Spectrum Disorders are (a) not a mental impairment (b) not a mental illness. Autism is a brain-based difference. I have been fortunate enough to treat people on the spectrum since God was a baby, so kinda know a little bit more than the average bear.

With the incidence of ASD being 1 in 110 or 1 in 150 (depending on who you cite), there are, in all likelihood, GC members or family members affected by ASD.

*runs off to scoop up the remains of the cadbury creme egg that DrPhil ruined. For shame!*

DrPhil 04-20-2011 03:08 PM

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Originally Posted by AzTheta (Post 2048845)
*runs off to scoop up the remains of the cadbury creme egg that DrPhil ruined. For shame!*

No sadness that I jumped in the first place? I tell ya. :(


So...yeah...the original topic isn't horrible--since facebook still has its minions. Organizations and chapters should (and many already do) have protocol and policies to handle Internet and "in person" matters.

I just find the OP to be interestingly disgruntled to be a newbie.

I was always neutral about Barbie's Rush and anything she typed because she's a sockpuppet or something like that. Right? LOL.

Senusret I 04-20-2011 03:15 PM

This thread gave me life. I am going to share it with my chapter and see what they think.

agzg 04-20-2011 03:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Senusret I (Post 2048849)
This thread gave me life. I am going to share it with my chapter and see what they think.

Instead of Chapter Facebook Guidelines, Chapter Social Networking Guidelines?

Pro-tip: Don't do this.

katydidKD 04-20-2011 03:29 PM

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Originally Posted by DrPhil (Post 2048846)
No sadness that I jumped in the first place? I tell ya. :(


So...yeah...the original topic isn't horrible--since facebook still has its minions. Organizations and chapters should (and many already do) have protocol and policies to handle Internet and "in person" matters.

I just find the OP to be interestingly disgruntled to be a newbie.

I was always neutral about Barbie's Rush and anything she typed because she's a sockpuppet or something like that. Right? LOL.

I'm a sock puppet

preciousjeni 04-20-2011 03:32 PM

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Originally Posted by katydidKD (Post 2048855)
I'm a sock puppet

Are you now? :rolleyes:

katydidKD 04-20-2011 03:33 PM

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Originally Posted by preciousjeni (Post 2048856)
Are you now? :rolleyes:

Yes :p

AZTheta 04-20-2011 03:34 PM

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Originally Posted by DrPhil (Post 2048846)
No sadness that I jumped in the first place? I tell ya. :(

Major sad here. And major disappointment. I expected way more from you. *phlounce*

everyone else is ignoring the obvious, which is that DrPhil is a chocolate hater.

ASTalumna06 04-20-2011 03:35 PM

"You know who loves to get fisted? ...

Sock puppets! Ahhh, that joke is aDORable!"

- Daniel Tosh

katydidKD 04-20-2011 03:36 PM

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Originally Posted by Jen (Post 2048758)
I wish that tap technique was usable with non-sorority FB friends. I imagine being able to put an end to all the oversharing and passive-aggressive crap some of my friends post, and oh, the joy it brings me lol.

Same

preciousjeni 04-20-2011 03:37 PM

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Originally Posted by AzTheta (Post 2048858)
DrPhil is a chocolate hater.

Hi, my name is preciousjeni and I am a chocolate hater. I stand with all of my chocolate hating peers.


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