initation secret reveled!!
 

i have a problem,

my wife and i have been married almost two years. i am a KA and also a freemason, and my wife means more to me than eaither of those orginizations, so when she asked me about the initiation of each i told her even though i was reluctant, because she is a kappa alph theta, and i knew she would understand the importance and signifigance of them and they were safe with her,... but when i asked her in return, she wouldnt tell me anything only that her initiation was "very intresting" ... that really scares me WTF??
any advice, insite, similar stories, or anything to ease my mind?

*sigh* So you apparently don't hold God in any esteem since you violated your obligation sworn before him.

She is telling you to go fly a kite!

DaffyKD

Please read Bound By A Mighty Vow by Diana Turk. Perhaps your local public library has a copy. It's about the founding of women's fraternities, with an emphasis on Kappa Alpha Theta. You will learn a lot, and it will set your mind at ease.

Psi U MC Vito,im not sure about the " i dont love god and im going to hell for telling my fraternity info" angle.. it was to the one person in the world who means more to me than any prior comitmeit i made in life. i think thats how it should be.. she means more to me than any thing that i thought was important before,.. and for her to still kling to those things like that is kinda.... telling about where her devotion lies... i love ka, and FM but my wife comes first.. and i know i shouldnt expect her to tell stuff like that but she def. asked me and i told for all the reasons stated above.. is theta really a "theta before family and husband" type sorit? KA never drove those values home!!!!

I never said that. I said you obviously didn't respect God since the obligation you swore before him didn't hold any value.

ETA: Also I have no idea why you think that it would do your marriage any good to tell secrets that you know that you aren't supposed to. Not like anything would harm her.

Y'all are taking this one seriously?

Oh, ok.

k_s, I was trying to be polite. Hoping that you would show up. It's recycle troll, right?

Psi U MC Vito, without any of the asumptions about my spirituality, or values, do you have any constructive response to my origional question? its really bothering me.

Perping one of my Brethren, so I choose to believe it is real lol. Actually I am making assumptions about your values because you claimed to violate your obligation, which says a lot about you.

I don't know who this is, but it's hard to believe that a Theta would press her husband to reveal initiation secrets.

I wish these newbs would come up with interesting stories. This is just stupid.

You're a freemason? I had no idea.

#TheMoreYouKnow

ok that answers that question... so NO you do not have anything constructive to add. please stay away from my thread as you are no help.

LOL

He put you in your place, Vito! I wouldn't take that if I were you.

ok BTW everone pleas forgive my horrid spelling.. between iphon predictive txt.. big fingers& tiny buttons we are all lucky it can still be translated!! lol

Apparently he owns GC, and maybe even the interweb, since it is HIS thread.

HAHAHA OMG

BIG FINGERS AND BUTTONS! YOU'RE FORGIVEN!! LOLZ

We don't care. :)

[QUOTE=knight_shadow;2045248]I don't know who this is, but it's hard to believe that a Theta would press her husband to reveal initiation secrets.

I wish these newbs would come up with interesting stories. This is just stupid.


she didnt press for secrets.. we were having a few hours of deep conv. and she expressed intrest... thats all it took. and i take them serious... but not as seriousas my trust and comitmet with her...i dont go around screaming these things to the world, actually she is the only person ive ever told.... why is she looking at it so diff than i?

Oh, you took the time to explain.

How about you post her phone number here and we'll ask her for you.

its not that i need to know... its more of i dont understand, and i realize how serious i was about them at the time, but all those feelings are dewarfed by the extent of the feelings and love and trust i have with her.... she cant feel the same way i do

Call a marriage counselor.

is it common for people to be a that unwaveringly stanch commited to an organization she joined at 16?? or is it more normal for folks to eventualy let it fade away.?

it was great while i was active, but its importance to me now is minimal... more directed to KA than FM...

Trying to read this made me shit on myself a little bit.

Call a marriage counselor. And, what org did she join at 16?



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i think she also thinks it is fun to say "it was very interesting" and watch me squirm & wonder...... its her sick power trip!!!lololol i love her... but she is this way!!

she was a freshman at 16.. (grad. early)

My preferred brand

btw... we have a great marriage... she is perfectly happy as am i... i just dont understand this one issue.. and i fel like i should, before i ever mention it to her.

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You're kinda creepy.

Congratulations, you found a wife who knows how to take a vow seriously! You win the game of marriage!

maybe there was a rule against telling creepy people expesialy?? lol?

prettyv.....

didnt thiink of that.... good point though.

I'd beat it out of her...

Outstanding! :)

...really..

Oh come on. Bad form troll. Bad form.
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I may have just switched to Team Sen.

lmao...

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