A Kappa's Girl. Advice please.
 

Hey y'all. I'm don't know why I wasn't able to sign in under my original user I.D. I'm new to the bond of Kappa Alpha Psi. The last time I posted here for advice, I was a potential pledge. A quick recap. I slept with my frat brother's girlfriend over the summer, and at the time, I had some concerns about him finding out about it and not being able to be a Kappa because of it. I thought he found out through the grapevine, but he didn't even know. He never found out. I made it on line and crossed so, I never told him. I decided not to say anything thinking he would never find out. The problem is she's pregnant, but she doesn't know if it's his or mine. They broke up over winter break, and she and I had sex again shortly before we got back to school. He also had sex with her when we got back to school, and now they're back together. She's 3 months pregnant and he thinks it's his baby, so he's all excited about it. I congratulated him, but she thinks it could possibly be mine since he had sex within the same week that I had sex with her. I only got with her because they had broken up. This isn't a joke, I'm asking here, because I don't want it to get out. Should I say anything, by telling him that the kid could be mine? Serious question. I'm in a really bad bind, your help would be appreciated.

Thanks
Tre

wait till the baby pops out of an obviously trampy mother, and complete dna tests.....

if you want to tell your brother that you screwed him over (and his girlfriend), go fo it, but be ready for the obvious shit storm that will be heading your way.

Congrats on initiation. And possible fatherhood. I take it you didn't receive condoms during big little week?

WWJD?

LOL.

You don't know why you weren't able to sign in under your usual username? Maybe it's because you conveniently forgot your password because you don't want anyone here to know your true identity...

Anyway.. This is another one of those situations where I think, why are you asking strangers on the internet?!

Waiiiiit a second. That's not how that whole story went down last time. I'm pretty damn sure that the guy in the original story got caught/told/etc.

Now I have to find it, because all I remember was the 'accidental sex'

iSnickered

He would QFP, obviously.

Help from the Kappas. He found out, and I hope I don't get cut.
question to members of Phi Beta Sigma
Damn troll get your story straight.

And keep the dick in the pants so it doesn't 'accidentally' end up anywhere else. WTF do you have a detachable penis or something?

ETA: Per past posts he'll now tell me I don't date a lot because I've never accidentally screwed someone, and then say "fuck you bitch" which I will decline, politely. Don't know where that thing's been.

Just saving the troll some time.

There's clearly only one way to solve this...

Jerry! Jerry! Jerry! :p

If this is serious - he's happy about it, she's happy about it, why would you mess it up?

Didn't I just see this on an episode of Community?

^^ It was funnier there.

Maury Povich

"You are not the father!"

There won't be any DNA test unless someone contests the paternity of the child. If not, there'll be an acknowledgement of paternity to sign, and after that's done, there's probably a period of time which would have to pass, then it's a done deal.

Along with the birth of a child comes a hell of a lot of responsibility, not to mention child support if you don't happen to end up as the custodial parent.

It seems her monogamous relationship with your brother isn't going to work out. Right now it's you, eventually, it'll be someone else. You need to hire a lawyer as soon as that kid is born, do the DNA tests, etc., then step up and be a father if this child is yours. If the child is yours, be ready to figure out what sort of custodial time schedule you're ready to deal with, and budget for child support. If you Google your state's name and the words "child support calculator" you should be able to figure out about how much that'll be.

Once this kid is born, you're going to need legal advice. Depending on the state, child support can start when the kid is born, and if you don't become the acknowledged father right of the bat, they can go back and assess an arrearage against you. You do need to deal with this, and again, hire a lawyer.

People kill me with the "accidental" sex. Unless he tripped and her vajayjay broke his fall, I don't really follow.

Isn't in the case in many states that if a woman is married her husband is assumed to be the father of her baby, and if she is unmarried paternity can be admitted by a man, and if the guy she names denies it or no one comes forward the state gets involved with DNA tests?

Maybe neither of these guys is the father, tricky situation.

Whole new kind of slip and fall case. Maybe we need modern chastity belts for men and women if accidental sex is common and resulting in children entering this world to be parented by people who are so accident prone.

I don't think a chastity belt could help this poor soul. I think some non-slip soles and a couple wet floor signs should suffice.

Next time you decide to perp my fraternity with "Tre (insert whatever here)" use a better fake line name, because "Kaptain Krunch" is lame. There's a reason for line names, what was yours? Let me guess, you eat a lot of "kereal".

Perp.

LOL

ROTFL

This fool said his name is Kaptain Krunch.

That line name alone is the closest evidence to make me think his story is true.(which I know it ain't)

Perfect gift for the baby:

http://i4.photobucket.com/albums/y13...ry-clothes.jpg

No, I really am a Nupe. My posts don't match because I didn't know what bruhs were on here or who knows who. I didn't want any bruhs that I might know to put two and two together. I tried to private message you, but you've got it blocked. Seriously, I am a Nupe. My info is in the Kappa introduction thread. I can explain everything to you via private message? What's your email address Nupe?

Why would I need a lawyer? She said she thinks it might be his but she's not sure. She told me that it really didn't matter because he's happy about and I'm not, so she said she's going to choose him as the father regardless. So there won't be any blood tests.

Lucky guy....

:rolleyes:

I know, that's what I said.