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rolltide3553 03-19-2011 06:03 PM

what are my chances at Bama frats?
 
I'm a junior at a private Catholic school in Los Angeles. I have a 3.7 GPA from last semester but only like a 3.2 cumulative. I really don't want to attempt to join a preppy frat, as I don't think I'd fit in there very well. I'm white(I've heard that's pretty relevant when it comes to UA frats), athletic, and love hunting and fishing. I'm from an upper-middle class household(heard this is important too).

What fraternities at the University of Alabama would take me/be good for me? I don't want to come off as shallow, I'm just talking about things that I know some frats care about.

Thanks guys!

Drolefille 03-19-2011 06:20 PM

^^ You're a junior. You have a year. Worry about it later.

rolltide3553 03-19-2011 06:39 PM

Fraternities are going to play a role in choosing my college though, and I'm probably going to do early admissions this summer

Drolefille 03-19-2011 06:58 PM

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Originally Posted by rolltide3553 (Post 2039647)
Fraternities are going to play a role in choosing my college though, and I'm probably going to do early admissions this summer

Right. Ok with the name and the attitude - picked a school yet not deciding yet... right - I call troll early this time.

rolltide3553 03-19-2011 07:04 PM

you're so cool. I hope someday I can post 12,128 times on a website for college kids. I hope I can be a "has-been" when I grow up!

Gusteau 03-19-2011 07:10 PM

Don't make college decisions based on fraternities. You are going to college to get an education, not to join a fraternity.

That being said, we do not discuss the reputations of organizations or chapters on GreekChat, nor can we tell you what your chances of getting a bid are because we don't know you, and are not the members of the chapter who are making such decisions.

rolltide3553 03-19-2011 07:15 PM

It's only going to play a pretty small part in the decision, thanks for the straightforward answer though

Psi U MC Vito 03-19-2011 07:25 PM

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Originally Posted by rolltide3553 (Post 2039660)
It's only going to play a pretty small part in the decision, thanks for the straightforward answer though

Honestly it shouldn't play any part. You go to school to get an education, and everything else is just gravy.

Quote:

Originally Posted by rolltide3553 (Post 2039655)
you're so cool. I hope someday I can post 12,128 times on a website for college kids. I hope I can be a "has-been" when I grow up!

Just so you know, most of the members of GC are actually Alumni in their various organizations. Some of them are among the best in what they do for a vocation. So check your attitude at the door. You are a junior, and already seem to know what school you want to go to. So why ask for specific info on particular fraternities if you weren't a troll.

rolltide3553 03-19-2011 07:29 PM

I'm asking for specific info on fraternities at Alabama because I don't know the answer? Isn't it obvious?

And calling someone a "troll" is the dumbest insult ever. Sorry if I don't have enough time to spend hours on a forum every day for the past 6 years... Shame on me

FSUZeta 03-19-2011 07:36 PM

do you have relatives who live in the south that you visit often? have your visited bama yet?

The bama culture is going to be very different than the los angeles culture(perhaps bordering on culture shock). besides that, tuscaloosa is a small town.

Splash 03-19-2011 07:40 PM

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Originally Posted by Psi U MC Vito (Post 2039662)
Honestly it shouldn't play any part. You go to school to get an education, and everything else is just gravy.

Disagree. I think academics are the first priority but often you have multiple colleges that can cater to your academic path and choosing based on an opinion of the area/social scene/general feel of the school becomes very relevent. Being happy socially (Greek organizations fall here) is in many ways just as important as academic endeavors, and if not, the health of social happiness/general happiness with life can greatly affect academic success. My 12 cents

rolltide3553 03-19-2011 07:42 PM

I've got plenty of family in Florida and Texas. I've been and I love it. With all the traffic and other crap, I'm 100% sure I won't regret leaving California. I love the Southern culture

FSUZeta 03-19-2011 07:46 PM

good. huntin', fishin' and fraternities=bama.

AZTheta 03-19-2011 07:53 PM

As a native Californian, having spent time in several Southern states, I can confidently tell you this: Florida and Texas are NOT Alabama. And you may "love the Southern culture" but the more important question is this: how will the ladies and gentlemen of the South view YOU?

Please spend some time simply reading and researching on GC. And, work on that GPA, you'll be grateful that you did.

As a much wiser person* once said, "Remember not only to say the right thing in the right place, but to leave unsaid the wrong thing at the tempting moment."

Good luck.

*Benjamin Franklin

Gusteau 03-19-2011 07:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Splash (Post 2039667)
Disagree. I think academics are the first priority but often you have multiple colleges that can cater to your academic path and choosing based on an opinion of the area/social scene/general feel of the school becomes very relevent. Being happy socially (Greek organizations fall here) is in many ways just as important as academic endeavors, and if not, the health of social happiness/general happiness with life can greatly affect academic success. My 12 cents

I would agree with this. There is more to what makes a good fit in a school than academics, though they should certainly be the first priority. For example, all of the grad schools I applied to had large football programs; it wasn't the end all be all of my decision, but it was something I was looking for in terms of fit and university culture.

Regina.George 03-19-2011 07:57 PM

If you keep referring to them as "frats" your chances are going to be zero.

Gusteau 03-19-2011 07:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Regina.George (Post 2039675)
If you keep referring to them as "frats" your chances are going to be zero.

This isn't true everywhere. As a general rule, you're always safe calling them fraternities, but the word frat is acceptable in some campus cultures.

Drolefille 03-19-2011 07:59 PM

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Originally Posted by rolltide3553 (Post 2039663)
I'm asking for specific info on fraternities at Alabama because I don't know the answer? Isn't it obvious?

And calling someone a "troll" is the dumbest insult ever. Sorry if I don't have enough time to spend hours on a forum every day for the past 6 years... Shame on me

And now I'm pretty sure it's actually a troll.

Not an insult, just the truth. My sig covers why you fail.

Regina.George 03-19-2011 08:00 PM

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Originally Posted by Gusteau (Post 2039676)
This isn't true everywhere. As a general rule, you're always safe calling them fraternities, but the word frat is acceptable in some campus cultures.

Duh. But we are specifically talking about ALABAMA here. Roll tide.

rolltide3553 03-19-2011 08:02 PM

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Originally Posted by AzTheta (Post 2039672)
As a native Californian, having spent time in several Southern states, I can confidently tell you this: Florida and Texas are NOT Alabama. And you may "love the Southern culture" but the more important question is this: how will the ladies and gentlemen of the South view YOU?

Please spend some time simply reading and researching on GC. And, work on that GPA, you'll be grateful that you did.

As a much wiser person* once said, "Remember not only to say the right thing in the right place, but to leave unsaid the wrong thing at the tempting moment."

Good luck.

*Benjamin Franklin

I know there's going to be a huge culture shock, and I think I'm excited for it mostly. I've been doing a lot of research on this website and others, and I think UA is the one for me. Awesome Ben Franklin quote too:)

rolltide3553 03-19-2011 08:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Drolefille (Post 2039677)
And now I'm pretty sure it's actually a troll.

Not an insult, just the truth. My sig covers why you fail.

"Troll: One who posts a deliberately provocative message to a newsgroup or message board with the intention of causing maximum disruption and argument"

I fail to see your point.

33girl 03-19-2011 08:50 PM

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Originally Posted by rolltide3553 (Post 2039682)
"Troll: One who posts a deliberately provocative message to a newsgroup or message board with the intention of causing maximum disruption and argument"

I fail to see your point.

Asking for reputations or membership selection policies of specific fraternities or chapters on GC = provocative, disruption causing and argument causing. (That's why we don't do it.)

Most likely, some groups at Alabama are going to be more receptive to you than others. But it isn't our place to say "XYZ only takes guys who live in Alabama or Mississippi" because we honestly don't know that about their membership selection practices.

southbymidwest 03-19-2011 08:55 PM

OP, aren't you counting your chickens before they hatch as to being admitted to Alabama? These days, one cannot do that unless one's grandfather's name is etched upon a campus building.

Elephant Walk 03-19-2011 09:00 PM

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Originally Posted by Gusteau (Post 2039657)
Don't make college decisions based on fraternities. You are going to college to get an education, not to join a fraternity.

Disagree.

Education is a small part of the collegiate experience.

Honestly, we make fun of Californians quite often and maliciously...and we're not that conservative.

Gusteau 03-19-2011 09:06 PM

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Originally Posted by Elephant Walk (Post 2039709)
Disagree.

Education is a small part of the collegiate experience.

I completely agree, which is why I posted this in response to Splash up thread as well...


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Originally Posted by Gusteau (Post 2039674)
I would agree with this. There is more to what makes a good fit in a school than academics, though they should certainly be the first priority. For example, all of the grad schools I applied to had large football programs; it wasn't the end all be all of my decision, but it was something I was looking for in terms of fit and university culture.

In the grand scheme of things I still believe that academics should be considered the highest ranking factor in a college decision.

MysticCat 03-19-2011 10:04 PM

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Originally Posted by rolltide3553 (Post 2039663)
And calling someone a "troll" is the dumbest insult ever. Sorry if I don't have enough time to spend hours on a forum every day for the past 6 years... Shame on me

We got lots of posts similar to yours from definite trolls, especially lately it seems. If you're not one, fine. But it's not a random assumption, and your attitude is reinforcing the assumption.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Elephant Walk (Post 2039709)
Honestly, we make fun of Californians quite often and maliciously...and we're not that conservative.

Do you call them shanes and refuse to affiliate with them? And then say you affiliated with them anyway?

elicampbell 03-19-2011 10:57 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Elephant Walk (Post 2039709)
Disagree.


Honestly, we make fun of Californians quite often and maliciously...and we're not that conservative.

What campus, LSU or UA?

lucgreek 03-19-2011 10:59 PM

OP, you do realize the top tier (and mid tier) groups at UA and Ole Miss do a lot of their recruitment during summer parties, right? You being from California and having no relatives in the area means if you want to be greek at those schools, you'll probably have to settle for bottom tier chapters. If that's not appealing to you, consider other schools.

knight_shadow 03-20-2011 12:35 AM

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Originally Posted by Gusteau (Post 2039712)
In the grand scheme of things I still believe that academics should be considered the highest ranking factor in a college decision.

As it should be :)

As Vito said earlier, everything else is gravy. You can make the best of your Greek experience no matter where you end up.


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