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cheerfulgreek 03-03-2011 07:12 PM

I have quite a few but, only three really big ones. My biggest pet peeve is people who have bad table manners. There are a lot of bad table manners that are obvious that would annoy a lot of people but, it really aggravates me when people don't know how to hold a fork properly when eating. Like, the people who wrap their entire hand around the fork with their thumb on top of the fork, "woofing" down their food like they've never eaten before. That's primary pet peeve #1 for me.

Smokers who want to talk to me while their clothes and breath smell like cigarettes. The same thing goes for people who have had too much to drink.

And then people who bring their whiney kids into the movie theater. I won't tolerate it. The first cry/whine, I get up and I tell one of the movie staff. I didn't pay to hear your kid whine and cry. Take them home!

knight_shadow 03-03-2011 07:28 PM

I think this thread is more appropriate for my OCD lol

1. I HATE when people put napkins on plates when they're done eating. I used to start gagging when I saw it, but now I just tell people to take the paper off the plates. When it's put in cups, that's even worse. The only time it's "acceptable" to put paper on plates is when the paper is neatly folded.

2. When I was younger, I used to have to touch non-circular surfaces as many times as my age (ex. If I was 12 and was eating at a square table, I'd have to hit the 4 corners, the 4 sides, and the middle of the table 4 times so that my "taps" would equal 12). If I ran into a wall, I'd have to run into it with the same limb (on the opposite side of my body) to make things right. Now, if I close a door, I have to hit the doorknob on the opposite side before I can "feel OK" about the door being closed.

3. This was terrible in college, but not that big of a deal now: Whenever I am at a restaurant and order coffee (or tea, or anything that requires sugar), I have to fold the sugar packets so that they're neat. With coffee, I stack the cream tubs and neatly place the folded sugar in the tubs. My friends hate it when I make them clean up their messes, but servers like it lol

cheerfulgreek 03-03-2011 07:33 PM

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Originally Posted by knight_shadow (Post 2035424)
I think this thread is more appropriate for my OCD lol

1. I HATE when people put napkins on plates when they're done eating. I used to start gagging when I saw it, but now I just tell people to take the paper off the plates. When it's put in cups, that's even worse. The only time it's "acceptable" to put paper on plates is when the paper is neatly folded.

2. When I was younger, I used to have to touch non-circular surfaces as many times as my age (ex. If I was 12 and was eating at a square table, I'd have to hit the 4 corners, the 4 sides, and the middle of the table 4 times so that my "taps" would equal 12). If I ran into a wall, I'd have to run into it with the same limb (on the opposite side of my body) to make things right. Now, if I close a door, I have to hit the doorknob on the opposite side before I can "feel OK" about the door being closed.

3. This was terrible in college, but not that big of a deal now: Whenever I am at a restaurant and order coffee (or tea, or anything that requires sugar), I have to fold the sugar packets so that they're neat. With coffee, I stack the cream tubs and neatly place the folded sugar in the tubs. My friends hate it when I make them clean up their messes, but servers like it lol

Wow. This is really an interesting post, knight_shadow. So, what if you're on a date and she puts her napkin on her plate after she's done? I'm just really curious.:)

knight_shadow 03-03-2011 07:36 PM

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Originally Posted by cheerfulgreek (Post 2035429)
Wow. This is really an interesting post, knight_shadow. So, what if you're on a date and she puts her napkin on her plate after she's done? I'm just really curious.:)

If we're eating at a place with paper napkins, then we're probably at a point where I'll say "take that shit off the plate" lol Cloth napkins don't have the same effect.

cheerfulgreek 03-03-2011 07:37 PM

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Originally Posted by knight_shadow (Post 2035432)
If we're eating at a place with paper napkins, then we're probably at a point where I'll say "take that shit off the plate" lol Cloth napkins don't have the same effect.

lol lol lol
Hilarious!

ZTAngel 03-03-2011 07:41 PM

People who stand thisclose to you when you're in line. I'm very big on personal space and I get really aggravated when someone is standing practically on top of me. I especially get annoyed when I'm paying the cashier with a credit card and the person next to me is standing so close that it's like they're involved in the transaction. I start covering my credit card, the receipt and my purse because I feel like the person is about to mug me.

crusse10 03-03-2011 07:55 PM

There are 2 things I can't handle
1. When people don't use their turn signals
2. If my iPod isn't meticulously organized

madeline21 03-03-2011 08:06 PM

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Originally Posted by ZTAngel (Post 2035436)
People who stand thisclose to you when you're in line. I'm very big on personal space and I get really aggravated when someone is standing practically on top of me. I especially get annoyed when I'm paying the cashier with a credit card and the person next to me is standing so close that it's like they're involved in the transaction. I start covering my credit card, the receipt and my purse because I feel like the person is about to mug me.

I agree that bugs me so much!

One of my biggest pet peeves is when people drive 65 in the fast lane on the freeway. It drives me nuts!

crusse10 03-03-2011 08:08 PM

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Originally Posted by madeline21 (Post 2035442)
I agree that bugs me so much!

One of my biggest pet peeves is when people drive 65 in the fast lane on the freeway. It drives me nuts!

Is that the speed limit? I'm used to 55mph on the interestate

xibair 03-03-2011 08:19 PM

My biggest pet peeves are people eating with their mouths open. My brother in law has this bad habit and it grosses me out. Big time when he eats Mexican food.

Knight Shadow, my husband has major OCD. His clothes are coodinated to color hangers. For example, all slack are with blue hangers, short sleeve shirts green hangers, and long sleeve shirts are purple hangers. They all have a rotation so he know what clothes are to be worn on which day.

My favorite is all the light switches have too be facing the same direction. If the light is on the switch is upright and light off switch down. In a room with two light switches in opposited sides of the room, I will go and mess them up just to get a reaction. One side will be up and the other side will be down. This drives him crazy.
I can think of others but I will be here all day.

Oh I do the same thing with the sugar packets and fold them nicely into the cream tubs. Except I do not have OCD.

AnotherKD 03-03-2011 08:19 PM

I agree with the people having no concept of personal space. It's so bad where I work now- people walk right into my cube, where there's not a lot of space, and just get right up on me and start talking to me. Looking at my computer screen. I've even had a guy reach over and start using the mouse without really saying why. Ooh, I wanted to smack it right out of his hand.

A lot of my coworkers tend to eat while working, but when they eat, their mouths are open and they apparently think it's completely cool to talk to others while their mouth is full. I am disgusted when little bits of food start spitting out of their mouths onto the conference table.

knight_shadow 03-03-2011 08:21 PM

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Originally Posted by xibair (Post 2035446)
Knight Shadow, my husband has major OCD. His clothes are coodinated to color hangers. For example, all slack are with blue hangers, short sleeve shirts green hangers, and long sleeve shirts are purple hangers. They all have a rotation so he know what clothes are to be worn on which day.

I keep my clothes color coordinated, too, and also have different hangers depending on how long I've had the item of clothing. I don't think I've ever put clothes on rotation, though.

crusse10 03-03-2011 08:38 PM

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Originally Posted by knight_shadow (Post 2035449)
I keep my clothes color coordinated, too, and also have different hangers depending on how long I've had the item of clothing. I don't think I've ever put clothes on rotation, though.

Meaning newer clothes get plastic hangers?

DrPhil 03-03-2011 08:43 PM

http://foolforlifecoaching.com/wp-co...re-hangers.jpg

I really do hate wire hangers. Anyone who knows me knows that I cringe when I see people putting clothes on wire hangers. Dry cleaners bother me because they use wire hangers. LOL. I'm not crazy about it but I am known for confiscating wire hangers and buying plastic or wood hangers and "ordering" family members to hang an entire closet full of clothes on the new hangers.

xibair 03-03-2011 08:50 PM

Dr. Phil, I agree about the wire hangers. My mom loves them and I can't get her to dispose them.

knight_shadow 03-03-2011 09:26 PM

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Originally Posted by crusse10 (Post 2035454)
Meaning newer clothes get plastic hangers?

No -- my newer or "favorite" clothes get the black hangers (they're a bit thicker). The older clothes get the white hangers (skinny, a little bit cheaper).

sceniczip 03-03-2011 09:39 PM

I use wire hangers ;) I really like them.

Pet peeves: Grammar, it's not hard! I promise!

AGDee 03-03-2011 09:43 PM

Mine are primarily grammar related also.
"I seen"
"flustrated"

Or any botching of phrases such as "For all intensive purposes" <cringe> "waiting with baited breath" <cringe>

And, of course your, you're, their, there, etc.

PrettyBoy 03-04-2011 03:05 AM

No offense to AGDee, and any other members who were born and raised in Michigan, but I'm going to say my biggest pet peeve is Michigan drivers. I've never been to any state where people drive this slow and bad. It's really, really frustrating.

I also hate it when people run their mouths in the movie theater.

txAOII_15 03-04-2011 03:53 AM

people who clip their nails in public. just hearing the sound of the nail clipper is disgusting to me. i dont understand why people wont take care of their nail grooming at home and in private.

AnotherKD 03-04-2011 07:53 AM

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Originally Posted by PrettyBoy (Post 2035552)
No offense to AGDee, and any other members who were born and raised in Michigan, but I'm going to say my biggest pet peeve is Michigan drivers. I've never been to any state where people drive this slow and bad. It's really, really frustrating.

I also hate it when people run their mouths in the movie theater.

Michigan? You've never had the pleasure of driving around DC. Out of DC, MD and VA, I think Maryland drivers are the worst. I think that they were never taught that a turn signal exists.

MysticCat 03-04-2011 09:28 AM

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Originally Posted by AnotherKD (Post 2035561)
Michigan? You've never had the pleasure of driving around DC. Out of DC, MD and VA, I think Maryland drivers are the worst. I think that they were never taught that a turn signal exists.

I have to differ. DC drivers pale in comparison to Boston drivers.

ASTalumna06 03-04-2011 10:34 AM

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Originally Posted by madeline21 (Post 2035442)
One of my biggest pet peeves is when people drive 65 in the fast lane on the freeway. It drives me nuts!

You must live in Connecticut.....

DiamondAthena 03-04-2011 10:36 AM

My husband lived in DC for a bit (in fact he was taught to drive there) And he claims ppl there don't use the signal because ppl would speed up if they knew you wanted to change lanes. LOL

Mine is the sound of grinding teeth. I've been known to wake someone up with a pinch if they do it while asleep. Also, I think I was crowned Grammar Queen, but that means when I make mistakes I CRINGE if I can't "take it back". I LOVE THE EDIT BUTTON!

AOII Angel 03-04-2011 10:41 AM

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Originally Posted by DrPhil (Post 2035455)
http://foolforlifecoaching.com/wp-co...re-hangers.jpg

I really do hate wire hangers. Anyone who knows me knows that I cringe when I see people putting clothes on wire hangers. Dry cleaners bother me because they use wire hangers. LOL. I'm not crazy about it but I am known for confiscating wire hangers and buying plastic or wood hangers and "ordering" family members to hang an entire closet full of clothes on the new hangers.

OMG! I HATE wire hangers! My husband dry cleans EVERYTHING and leaves these stupid hangers all over my house. I've found them in by bed under the covers. Sometimes I feel like Mommy Dearest screaming, "No wire hangers!!!"

TonyB06 03-04-2011 11:02 AM

Misuse of the infinitive.

I hear all the time, "The car needs washed."

No. The car needs "to be" washed.

thetaj 03-04-2011 12:08 PM

Low water pressure. Long thick curly hair takes forever to rinse when the shower is but gently misting you.

Blotchy print in paperback books, especially when it's crystal clear on one page and blotchy on the very next.

When people say, "I could care less" when they mean "I couldn't care less." I don't know why, but that bugs me the most. Also when people spell y'all, "ya'll." T_T

33girl 03-04-2011 12:42 PM

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Originally Posted by xibair (Post 2035446)
Knight Shadow, my husband has major OCD. His clothes are coodinated to color hangers. For example, all slack are with blue hangers, short sleeve shirts green hangers, and long sleeve shirts are purple hangers. They all have a rotation so he know what clothes are to be worn on which day.

I think Einstein (or some other big-brain) did something similar to this, just so he didn't have to think about clothing.

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Originally Posted by TonyB06 (Post 2035581)
Misuse of the infinitive.

I hear all the time, "The car needs washed."

No. The car needs "to be" washed.

You probably want to avoid ever coming to Pittsburgh or western PA in general. We do this ALL the time.

ASTalumna06 03-04-2011 01:49 PM

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Originally Posted by 33girl (Post 2035591)
I think Einstein (or some other big-brain) did something similar to this, just so he didn't have to think about clothing.

Didn't Einstein wear the same thing every day...?

AGDee 03-04-2011 04:38 PM

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Originally Posted by PrettyBoy (Post 2035552)
No offense to AGDee, and any other members who were born and raised in Michigan, but I'm going to say my biggest pet peeve is Michigan drivers. I've never been to any state where people drive this slow and bad. It's really, really frustrating.

I also hate it when people run their mouths in the movie theater.

I admit it... I won't go more than 10 over and people get really ticked off and get on my tail when I'm going 80 already. I think if I'm going 10 over, I get to be in the fast line, deal with it. Besides, the car in front of me isn't going faster than 80 either so Mr. Impatient Ride My Tail isn't going to get very far if he gets past me.

I really hate when all the lanes are going about the same speed (over the speed limit) and some joker is crazily going from lane to lane, as if they will break some magic spell and be able to get through if they keep switching lanes. I can't begin to imagine how tense these people are. It makes me want to sing Bob Marley to them "Don't worry, be happy".

ASTalumna06 03-04-2011 05:03 PM

The verdict is in...

According to Allstate's annual report, Washington D.C. has the most accident-prone drivers.

http://voices.washingtonpost.com/dr-...ers_worst.html

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The bad news is that Washington drivers get into crashes an average of every 5.1 years... By contrast, the best drivers in the land are in Fort Collins, Colo., where collisions are 31.2 percent less frequent than the national average with an average of 14.5 years in between.
Click on the link in the article to be taken to the full listing of 193 cities around the country, and see where they rank.

ASTalumna06 03-04-2011 05:04 PM

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Originally Posted by AnotherKD (Post 2035561)
Michigan? You've never had the pleasure of driving around DC. Out of DC, MD and VA, I think Maryland drivers are the worst. I think that they were never taught that a turn signal exists.

^ Double-posting to say that Baltimore wasn't far behind D.C. in the rankings... as in, by one spot.

AnotherKD 03-04-2011 07:04 PM

I think another problem with the drivers around here is that people often drive in areas where they just aren't comfortable. For instance, I'm good with everything DC and NoVA. Anything in MD? I have no idea where I'm going. Where I used to live in other cities and be comfortable with the city and the surrounding areas in kind of a concentric circle, and stay in that area for the most part, people are forced to go in different areas almost every day around here, it seems.

And I love it when people make a left from the right lane and vice versa.

PrettyBoy 03-04-2011 07:24 PM

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Originally Posted by AnotherKD (Post 2035561)
Michigan? You've never had the pleasure of driving around DC. Out of DC, MD and VA, I think Maryland drivers are the worst. I think that they were never taught that a turn signal exists.

Although people not using turn signals can be somewhat annoying at times, that doesn't nearly frustrate me as much as the slow starts and driving 10-15mph slower than the speed limit. I think the reason why I'm so annoyed with it is because I've never witnesssed anything like this in other states. And it's not like it happens on occasion like it has done in other states I've lived in, but it happens every time I leave the house at least 3-4 times before I get back home.


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Originally Posted by AGDee (Post 2035636)
I admit it... I won't go more than 10 over and people get really ticked off and get on my tail when I'm going 80 already. I think if I'm going 10 over, I get to be in the fast line, deal with it. Besides, the car in front of me isn't going faster than 80 either so Mr. Impatient Ride My Tail isn't going to get very far if he gets past me.

I really hate when all the lanes are going about the same speed (over the speed limit) and some joker is crazily going from lane to lane, as if they will break some magic spell and be able to get through if they keep switching lanes. I can't begin to imagine how tense these people are. It makes me want to sing Bob Marley to them "Don't worry, be happy".

It's not on the freeways, it's on the streets and at stop lights that it happens. When I'm on the freeway, I just flow with the traffic or do the speed limit. I never do below unless the weather is bad. I agree with you, I don't like impatient drivers especially if I'm doing the speed limit or flowing with the traffic, but I have issues with people who will not do the speed limit and rather than doing 50mph (the max speed limit) on a two lane street, they would rather do 35-40 and in both lanes. I don't get that. I've never witnessed this until I moved here. It's insanely ridiculous and it drives me up a wall.

knight_shadow 03-04-2011 07:26 PM

After driving in Miami and all of the major cities in Texas, nothing phases me.

I'm about to drive through rush hour traffic in Dallas and will end up in Austin, one of the most congested cities in the country. Lucky me.

SMTTT 03-04-2011 07:41 PM

When people try to order while on their phone. Whether I'm in front or behind the counter this really gets to me, especially today. One lady told me what she wanted but it took forever for her to realize that she hadn't paid yet. She was holding up quite a line and my manager eventually got her attention. Then she got mad when she wanted her drink Decaf and sugar free and we had to remake it. I usually ask, but didn't want to be rude *cough*, and interupt.

33girl 03-04-2011 09:11 PM

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Originally Posted by SMTTT (Post 2035669)
When people try to order while on their phone. Whether I'm in front or behind the counter this really gets to me, especially today. One lady told me what she wanted but it took forever for her to realize that she hadn't paid yet. She was holding up quite a line and my manager eventually got her attention. Then she got mad when she wanted her drink Decaf and sugar free and we had to remake it. I usually ask, but didn't want to be rude *cough*, and interupt.

That's when you put up a sign that says "we will take your order when you are finished with your phone conversation." Several restaurants around here do this, and it seems to work.

AGDee 03-04-2011 09:16 PM

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Originally Posted by PrettyBoy (Post 2035665)



It's not on the freeways, it's on the streets and at stop lights that it happens. When I'm on the freeway, I just flow with the traffic or do the speed limit. I never do below unless the weather is bad. I agree with you, I don't like impatient drivers especially if I'm doing the speed limit or flowing with the traffic, but I have issues with people who will not do the speed limit and rather than doing 50mph (the max speed limit) on a two lane street, they would rather do 35-40 and in both lanes. I don't get that. I've never witnessed this until I moved here. It's insanely ridiculous and it drives me up a wall.

Honestly? 95% of my driving is on the freeway. Other than that, it's pretty rural roads where I am so it's not bad. There are two roads/intersections that I avoid if I can because they are loaded with businesses and traffic is slow there. I stick to open roads mostly. But, that's part of why I choose to live way down here instead of where you are. Seems like most of the jobs I see posted are up your way though. I could be in for a helluva commute if I get a job up there.

lovespink88 03-04-2011 09:27 PM

Worst drivers ever: Puerto Rico. I'm not sure I've ever seen someone use a turn signal there. I also saw a guy backing up on the highway once.

My pet peeve: Too much PDA. I really hate people making out in public. I cringe when I see a couple walking down the street with their arms around each other. I'm cool with hand holding and small kisses, but that's about it.

I also hate when friends get too touchy feely. I remember being in class in high school once and this girl was giving her friend a back rub during class. It wasn't a massage, she was just kinda tracing her fingers up and down the other girls back. Ugh, it's making me super anxious just remembering it.

Gusteau 03-04-2011 09:49 PM

When toilet paper hangs from the front. I need it to hang from the back because, in my mind, it's neater that way. I have changed it in other people's homes before, and understand that this is insane.


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