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Transfer problems and joing a new frat
Hey guys,
I just transferred schools and I was in an aepi chapter at my old school. After transferring to the new school(I won't mention the name), the new aepi chapter did not let me in. They were incredibly rude, the president did not show up to a meeting he planned with me, and he said I could not attend any of their events. They told me to look at other fraternities and that transfers do not do well there. I could possibly call national and fight my way in, but I do not want to. If they don't want me in it, I don't want to be in it. They are extremely different then the chapter I was in at my old school and not people I want to associate with. Since I decided that I wouldn't let this ruin me being in a frat, I decided to check out other fraternities, but I am now told I can't join any of them because I am a member of Aepi. As it stands now, I cannot join absolutely any fraternity at my new school. Is there a way to get around this? The chapter here really shares nothing other then the name, the people are obsessed with drinking and nothing else. The new frat I have been looking at, SigEp, said they are not sure I can join but they have been very receptive. I am not the type of person to quit things, it's just they won't let me join here and are incredibly rude. Please let me know if anything can be done. Thanks in advance and good luck with exams! |
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You'd have to drop from your current fraternity to be ELIGIBLE to join another, but that doesn't mean another fraternity will take you. |
I am willing to drop Aepi, and my old chapter is willing to help me because they understand the situation. SigEp is willing to accept me assuming they are allowed, are they? What would I need to do?
Thanks! |
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As the previous poster said, these questions are more appropriate for your I/HQ, not a message board. If you want to hear how others' stories panned out, do a search of the forum. |
For this to happen, you have to not only deactivate from AEII, but get your national headquarters to send a letter saying such to SigEp headquarters (which AEII may not do, even if you deactivate). SigEp nationals then has to approve of you joining the national fraternity, and only then can the local SigEp chapter get you in. But you also have to check your university's IFC rules. Even if AEII and SigEp cooperate, IFC might have rules against this (my school does). Also, make sure that ALL the SigEps are on board, not just the friends you've made in it. If I were you I'd just take alum status and keep the SigEps as friends, but that's just me.
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It's in our IFC constitution that even if you're initiated and drop, under no circumstances can you join another social fraternity as an undergrad on campus. As far as whether it's legal for that clause to be there per NIC rules I couldn't say.
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He would be so disappointed in you. :(
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*sigh*
This exchange is unfortunate. |
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? Are you for real? That is very offensive, and I would never guess that anyone who is educated enough to be Greek (thus in college) would stoop that low. Homophobic remarks like that are unacceptable, I don't know who you think you are, but you sound like a very disappointed, scorned little boy, who for some reason feeds off putting other people down and hasn't got a decent bone in his body. Maybe you should work on yourself before going online and posting such ridiculous things. Dixi. |
Phi_Delta, from one Black person to another Black person (I guess you just professed your Blackness LOL), explaining your words takes the "crassly entertaining" away from it all. We already know that you want to get attention and want to be crass, which is why you would type the "F word."
And, for those who don't know, Phi_Delta only exists to be crass, rude, and potentially offensive. Telling a crass, rude, and potentially offensive username that it is crass, rude, and potentially offensive is like telling them how kick ass they are. I did chuckle at "thanks for listening." |
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Too late, name sullied. |
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We all know what two cents is worth these days. Sidetrack: I am reminded of one of the many stories of the English conductor and impresario, Sir Thomas Beecham. (My favorite of those stories is the statement he is said to have made to a female cello soloist in rehearsal one day: "Madam, you have between your legs an instrument capable of giving pleasure to thousands, and all you can do is scratch it!"/sidetrack Quote:
As for not being around here much longer . . . promises, promises. |
FLOUNCE.
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He shall be back as a new username and a new Internet personality soon. :) |
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I really see no reason to give you the benefit of the doubt. "Lol just trolling" is an incredibly pathetic response. http://img815.imageshack.us/img815/2...5k38846363.jpg |
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This thread is a lesson to check all threads regardless of if you think it will interest you.
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This is just a hunch I'm working with, but stay with me. I think that the level of animosity people express toward you might directly be related to how often and vigorously you tell people to "go fuck themselves". To test this, I have recently started going to public places and telling people to "go fuck themselves". Shockingly, 100% of the people responded with animosity toward me. No further experimentation is planned. |
I guess Phi_Delta changed his mind about his flounce and brought his Big (other personality) with him.
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