New mom to this...
 

My daughter has begun rush week (as of last night at 2a.m.!! lol) I am looking for info on DBS in Murfreesboro TN. Any help you can give me would be totally appreciated!!

Thanks to all:)

Wait. What?

What is DBS?

And how is rush starting in July?

what sort of organization is she "rushing"? national panhellenic sororities do not hold recruitment in the summer, nor do they start at 2 a.m.

DBS is mrusfosoboro TN is apparently satellite service.

MTSU doesn't start rush yet and the NPHC info sessions aren't until september. http://www.mtsu.edu/greeks/

I call stealth spam incoming.

Maybe she REALLY wants to spy on her daughter? Heli-mom x 422 (or sati-mom).

Delta beta sigma is a high school sorority with a few chapters in the southeast. Could this be what mom is referring to?

Yep.

"Delta Beta Sigma is a national high school sorority founded in Columbia, Tennessee in 1903."

http://www.deltabetasigma.com/

PS Who lets their high school kid out at 2am?

And to the OP - what do you need help with?

And what kind of worthwhile activity would a bunch of high school girls be doing while ''rushing" at 2am? And why would a mom be looking for information after the fact?

The key word is "worthwhile". Because a high school service sorority that promotes "tolerance, scholarship, social poise and citizenship" has many important things to do in the cloak of darkness.

2am makes me think of Dazed and Confused. :)

if i were up at 2 a.m., i would be dazed and confused.

We had DBS where I grew up. All of my friends were members. The way you find out (at least in my town) that you have been accepted for membership is that they arranged with your mom to "kidnap" you one night. She made sure you had pajamas that were acceptable for public viewing and that the front door was unlocked. They snuck in, woke you up and took you out to the car (or pickup), and you spent the rest of the night going around with them to kidnap the rest of the new pledges.

Everyone had breakfast together, and they took you home, after giving you a time and place for the pledging ceremony. If you decided not to pledge, you simply didn't show up for the pinning ceremony.

When they contacted my mom, she said no. :( However, 8 years later she let my sister join. :D Go figure!!

The organization has a long history, and does a lot of good philanthropy. It's kinda "sorority lite". They are a legitimate organization.

What is this, Gilmore Girls?

^^ My mom was in a high school sorority, though I'm not sure the letters. I'll admit, I don't 'get' it, but I guess it's still around some places. Banned here though.

We had Sub Deb at my high school, but I wasn't popular enough to have known much about it.
(Except they REALLY haze, and all I ever heard of them doing other than hazing, was having parties to get drunk and have sex)

I'm sorry but as a step-mother of a 14 year old getting ready to go to high school in the fall, I find that whole 2am thing to be rather silly and ridiculous.

This is why I'm not too keen on the idea of high school sororities. At that age, I'm not sure they really get it, are more likely to have inaccurate views of sorority life (what we do, what we're about, etc), and there is usually not a governing body to bring hazing under wraps. That is just my opinion.

The new "initiates" would have stuff dumped on them and then they'd have to go to school the next day without bathing. Sometimes they had to do embarrassing things or wear crazy outfits to school.
(From what I saw)

Did they have to ask the guy from Rent to marry them? LOL

LOL (What's in it for me? Anything you want? Anything? Anything.)
I don't know exactly, but when I was a senior one of my classmates had to wear a sequined prom dress to school.

Holy crap - that IS the guy from RENT. I knew he looked familiar. :o

Not to mention potentially dangerous. A bunch of teenagers driving around even younger teenagers in the middle of the night, being silly - that's kind of scary. Some states have restrictions on teens driving - such as no driving between midnight and 5 am, passengers limited to just siblings, or people over 18 with a valid license, etc. There are good reasons for that.

I agree. It's like playing house - all of the privileges but none of the responsibilities. This organization apparently has a governing body, but I don't know what level of oversight there is. And again, if it has to take place in the middle of the night, it makes me wonder what else is going on.

Apparently, pledges wore silly outfits (which would be considered hazing these days) back in 1948/9. I found a link on some ancestry page (note that the URL has the words "hell week"). Sure, wearing giant bows appears to be in good-natured fun (then again, not so much when you think about the purpose, which is to make the "pledge" stand out - which can be humiliating), but is that the extent of it?

http://www.rootsweb.ancestry.com/~armpgs/photos/hell-week-001.jpg

Lastly, where is the OP?

Sitting back and enjoying the consternation she stirred up would be my guess.

Lol.

Not sure about other high school sororities, but Delta Beta Sigma does have a governing body, set up very similar to the way NPC GLOs operate. They do not have a full time HQ, though.

The chapters with which I am familiar had multiple mothers of actives with them on the "kidnapping", it wasn't JUST teenagers.

DBS does not tolerate hazing.... to my knowledge, no one has ever had to wear anything weird, or go around without bathing. That would reflect badly on the organization. They did have rules for maintaining GPA and PDA (Public Displays of Affection). The chapter went to church together on Sunday morning once a month and did a monthly philanthropy event as well. The chapter meetings were weekly on Sunday afternoons,

Different chapters had slightly different traditions, but there are National rules and policies that they have to follow. We had one high school sorority and two high school fraternities (Sigma Phi Omega and Delta Sigma) where I grew up. I didn't realize it wasn't the norm until after I was in college.

ree-xi got it, she means Delta Beta Sigma.

By the way, schools can't really "ban" high school sororities, in that they're regional things (sort of like chapters at the regional level for BGLO's or whatever).

We had DBS at our school (most of those girls ended up Greek in College too) as well as the "Betas" which were some sort of African-American fraternity. I don't quite remember their full leters.

They're prohibited in the district, and if it came back they'd punish the students involved. That's 'banning.'

Been gone here for long enough though it's not an issue.