Guy Dumps Cheating Girlfriend ON AIR!
 

she thought he was going to propose, lol.

http://twiturm.com/2ju2p

LMAO my sister and I are listening and dying! too funny!

this chick got pwned! i love that she just loses it around 10 minutes!

damn.

"let me take a deep breath...." WOOOOOOW

I didn't think it was funny. What a coward.

Oh my lawsy lawsy mercy goodness me. I was sitting here, thinking how terrible this had to've been for her (but still smirking at the pwnage), and I lost it when I heard, "B*tch be trippin'!"

I feel sort of bad for her, but I died laughing... I feel like a terrible person, but it made me laugh :)

Exactly.

"I'll take it however it comes..."

*dead*

o u c h

kind of liked the part when W&R said "eh, you're not even a listener!" when she said she hated them.
lol

that was fucked up, but hilarious! bitch be trippin and you're not even a listener had me dyin.

That was terrible.



But I chuckled a little bit at "Bitch be trippin"

O. M. G. :eek:

I thought she pretty much got what she deserved

that wasn't very funny...

I mean, cheaters are horrible, but so is publicly humiliating someone. They deserve each other.

He got publicly humilated by her cheating on him. He got burned twice

That dude is a douchebag and I HATE cheaters. Both of them are craptastic. She sucks for cheating but that was cruel. I would have hung up if I was her. If I was him I would have just put her out and been like chick you have to go.

i've never been broken up with horribly, so im a little biased. BUT if youre going to break up with someone for a good reason (as in, the dumpee has it coming), you might as well make it good.

bet she'll think twice about cheating and lying in public.

where's PB to weigh in on these low-down triflin jokers?

OMG that SUUUUCKS...I feel kinda bad for her b/c she really didnt see it coming and they were dating for so long..but I guess she had it comin huh? I loved the way he asked "The question I wanna ask you Ashley is.......how soon can you get your crap out of my house??!" She was DUMBFOUNDED lol.

Yikes. It's like Maury but on the radio.

The lie detector test said, "THAT was a lie!"

Wow, that's just cruel.

No joke, what kind of people are they. If my son pulled that kind of public humiliation on anyone, he'd be in alot of trouble with me - NO CLASS.

Granted cheating is terrible, but two awful wrongs don't make a right. And for these shock jocks to be laughing at these people's misery is just gross.

Am I the only one who thinks this was all an act? It seemed like really bad acting on her part.

Funny at first then I kinda felt bad for her. Kinda. I was thinking "why don't you just hang up?"

Last week? Daaaayuuum.

"Crush this B****** soul"
Harsh.

"How long will it take for you to get all of your crap out of my house?"
"You got until Sunday"
**smh**

I so agree. SWINES.
She was no angel, but he has a cruel streak and obviously takes pleasure in humiliating people, so good riddance.

Yeah, that's how I felt, too. I didn't know how I reall felt about this whole thing. To humiliate someone publicly just to get your point across says something about you. All he had to do was let her know they were through. I always wonder about a person who goes out of his way to humiliate someone just to make his point. We don't know if HE was all that innocent, either. The girl acknowledged their 5-year relationship right there over the air, which tells me that she saw him as her man, despite any other stupid things that happened within the meantime. To do that to her was just cruel.

And the radio DJs didn't help at all!! :mad:

That was freaking awesome.

I wouldn't even call it cruel. To be vulnerable to that she had to have done wrong.

And in relationship terms, cheating is one of the ultimate betrayals in a relationship.

And this girl was going to marry him anyway. And probably stay "friends" with this guy.

She's a pretty bad human being.

Edited to add: I have a feeling that if it had been the man called out this way, people would have been more accepting.

That guy by far is the biggest wuss, ever. I mean, seriously? Shame on her twice. One, for cheating, and two, for spending/wasting 5 years of her life with a lamo.

Male or female...I'm not here to take sides...but I think that most people have a problem with the truth...

And the truth is...

If you are going to conduct yourself as if you have no self-respect, integrity...morals or values...get the f*** out of the relationship - don't drag others down with you!! Not only do you run the risk of causing great emotional damage and humiliation (as seen in this case)....but you also run the risk of exposing your partner to a number of STD's or even HIV/AIDS.

In my opinion, a coward is one who chooses not be be honest and commits infidelity - that sh*t is weak, and totally unacceptable.

I will agree that this situation could have been handled in a more mature fashion...but I do believe that in order to get respect, you must first give it...and this young lady lacked decency and respect on all levels.

I have no sorrow or sympathy for her, nor anyone else who cheats.

Whether it's a football player who ends up murdered b/c he forgets that he has a wife and children at home, or a politician who is publicly humiliated b/c he chooses to cheat on his terminally ill wife.

Evil begets evil...and if you play a sick and disgusting game - expect sick and disgusting results.

There is one thing that my grandmother used to say about lies and manipulation - "the only person you're fooling is yourself."

It's sad to say...but there are so many of us who think that we're exempt...and probably will not stop until we're caught...or until someone walks the dog on our a$$.

Karma is a b****...remember to treat people the way you want to be treated.

I agree 110%!

I've been cheated on and lied to before and it SUCKS. I know I wouldn't go about this the way that he did, but I don't blame him, either.

This girl was cheating on him, but also knew that he was going to propose.. and she wasn't inclined to come clean?

Back in high school, I once kissed a guy when I was dating someone else, and the guilt ate away at me for just three days before I had to say something to my boyfriend about it and admit that things just weren't working out.

And yet this girl, after having repeatedly CHEATED on her boyfriend, was planning to marry him without saying a word? I can't imagine keeping a secret like that from my husband for the rest of my life. I'd go crazy.

If this whole thing wasn't staged (because I've had my suspicions as well, PM_Mama00), then this girl clearly has no conscience.

I say she got what she deserved.

I have to say, I pretty much agree with everything you said.

THIS

Yep. And crisis averted. I can only imagine how much worse these two folks' lives would have been but for this gentleman's discovery of the cheating and subsequent dramatic revelation.

As for the method of the breakup? After such a betrayal, my sense of justice condones such cathartic/scorched-Earth means. Her acts were unforgivable and could have (and possibly do) had lifelong financial and emotional implications for this man. She got what was coming to her.

I still say the whole thing is crass and uncouth. But, I come from a more civilized era, where a breakup was handled privately and with discretion. There wasn't a venue or market for this type of trash.

Having 3 sons, if one of them pulled this stunt, I would not only be disappointed in him, but I would question where my parenting went wrong.

Break up with the cheating wench - YES, absolutely! But it's much better to emerge from the whole fiasco the "better person", not the sensationalistic scumbag who people are talking about publicly and on national websites and airwaves.

Will he be proud to have his children hear that performance in a few years? I don't think so.

I think that discussions like this are great...and we're all entitled to our opinion...however...

It's quite obvious that this young lady wasn't too concerned about privacy and discretion when she PUBLICLY disrespected herself, her partner and her relationship.

People have grown tired of having to remain silent when it comes to abusive relationships, cheating and betrayal...and I'm not sure as to why you're so moved to call the young man a "scumbag" b/c had she NOT conducted herself in such a manner, there would be nothing to discuss.

In my humble opinion, she got what she deserved...and considering the fact that she continued to lie and cheat after finding the ring . . . and still, arrogantly, expected a proposal -it should have been 10X's worse.

Some people have lost their lives behind such irresponsible behavior. If I'm correct, the ex-wife of a Texas dentist is serving a 10 year prison sentence for running over her cheating husband three times with a car. Others have even experienced the pain of hot oil or grits on their skin (ask Al Green).

I'm definitely not in favor of violence, but there is no telling what a person will do until they're in a particular situation.

Again, whether it's a male or female, people are fed up and tired of "turning the other cheek."

I'm reminded of an old saying, "don't start no mess and there won't be no mess."

We all have a breaking/snapping point - and sometimes it's just best not to be stupid enough to test it.

Perhaps we should just bring back the stockades...LOL!

Anyway, my point remains...treat others the way in which you want to be treated...it's quite simple.

Cold!

There is a huge difference between being seen kissing an old boyfriend in a bar by a friend of your boyfriend's and airing the entire sad event on radio.

If you listen to the broadcast, it's not clear WHAT she actually did other than kiss the guy, which, YES constitutes cheating, but IMO, does not constitute public humiliation and cruelty. She even tearfully says that she made a mistake. Wouldn't this confession and sorrow be better handled privately between the two?

If she had had sex in, say, a public venue and it had been taped and broadcast on youtube, then YES, publicly humiliate her because she has brought the thing to the public. But, from the recording, this doesn't seem to be the case - nor is there any indication that it was some on-going affair.

I just don't think these shock jock public humiliations are not a heatlhy thing in any way, and I wish the "market" for them was less, because IMO, it doesn't say much for the American public if hearing someone's private pain and agony aired to God knows whoever is entertaining. I think it is sick and sadistic.

Also, having been through alot of life and having seen many things - the "kissing" event over the length of a long relationship and marriage can be something that can be discussed, worked through and actually even strenghten the marriage. I've seen worse things gotten over, but this guy, who had spent 5 years in love with this woman, who seemingly loved him back, despite the indiscretion, has blown any chance he had to make things right. She certainly doesn't sound like a woman who didn't care.

Another thing, I believe that sometimes admitting to an indiscretion or mistake can be MORE harmful and actually MORE selfish than keeping it to yourself - sometimes, the, "I can't live with the guilt, so I had to tell you." is actually more painful to the other person, and as long as the indiscretion truly was a MISTAKE, not to be repeated, it is kinder to move on and not hurt your partner.

But, like I said, I've seen alot - I've been married for 25 years (thankfully never been in this situation) but I have plenty of friends who have and I've seen it go both ways.

There is a huge difference between being seen kissing an old boyfriend in a bar by a friend of your boyfriend's and airing the entire sad event on radio.

Honestly, there is no difference between the two...both are unacceptable. And once again, if she had a modicum of decency and self-respect, she would NOT have put herself in that position in the first place. She was in a relationship...not playing a kindergarten game of "play-house."

I think we all have made mistakes...but repeatedly? When do you grow the hell up? You're not only playing with someone's emotions but you're using their finances, their time...and playing a dangerous game with their life/health!!

...but this guy, who had spent 5 years in love with this woman, who seemingly loved him back, despite the indiscretion, has blown any chance he had to make things right.

Not trying to be funny, but this is slightly laughable. Who's to say that he wants her back in his life? Are you aware of the number of good, self-respecting, and honest women out there...who are willing to do right by their mate? I'm quite sure that this guy doesn't live under a rock...he doesn't have to settle.

I think that she blew any chances when she: A)cheated B) still couldn't even come clean when asked. "The best lessons in life, are the ones you pay for..." and hopefully she learned from this.

Still, no one has to take that crap...unless they have some serious self-esteem issues.

I tell most of my female friends..."if he's cheating and has no respect or appreciation for you, there's someone out there who will do right by you." And yes, it's sometimes easier said than done..

This young man will meet someone who will do right by him.

It's about knowing your worth, your value and loving yourself.

Ask yourself, "would I treat myself this way?"

If not, tell 'em to pack their bags and leave the key on the counter.

I love you, baby...but you gotta take that stress and drama somewhere else...

LOL!!

I have to say that I agree with srmom. The tramp deserved to be dumped, but on the radio? He lost the high road when he turned to the radio.

FYI, an accident somewhat similar to this happened on the radio station I listen to. The station was later sued - and lost - but I forget what grounds the plantiff used. We have some crazy laws, though.

I agree that both actions were unacceptable as well - I even stated that in my last post.

"Whatever one sows, that will he also reap." Not my words...I think they come from Galations 6:7.

Again, if you treat people right from jump...you should have nothing to worry about - no pain...no shame.

If you have to say "but" then you really don't believe they were both unacceptable.