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Senusret I 09-23-2009 12:34 PM

Mackenzie Phillips: I slept with my own father
 
....yuck.

http://abcnews.go.com/images/Enterta..._080919_mn.jpg

LA Times Article

DaemonSeid 09-23-2009 12:48 PM

and we should be surprised and/or shocked by this because...?


Just last year this happened.

News like this (especially if you are seeking help and not book peddling) is better relegated to your shrink, not on Oprah.

DrPhil 09-23-2009 12:48 PM

This story has been bothering me. Really, really bothering me. So sad and gross if it is true. Her father giving her drugs and having sex with her...her having sex with Mick Jager (wasn't it he?) when she was 18.....

She said she kept it a secret because she didn't want to ruin her father's reputation. Umm...thanks for sharing now, I guess.

DrPhil 09-23-2009 12:51 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DaemonSeid (Post 1850124)
and we should be surprised and/or shocked by this because...?


Just last year this happened.

News like this (especially if you are seeking help and not book peddling) is better relegated to your shrink, not on Oprah.

That link doesn't work.

I'm always surprised and shocked when I hear about incest. The celebrity status makes it material for mainstream media. It also makes me wonder why the hell we're being told about it all these years later.

The Oprah factor adds to my "why the hell" wonder.

ForeverRoses 09-23-2009 12:51 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DrPhil (Post 1850125)
This story has been bothering me. Really, really bothering me. So sad and gross if it is true. Her father giving her drugs and having sex with her...her having sex with Mick Jager (wasn't it he?) when she was 18.....

She said she kept it a secret because she didn't want to ruin her father's reputation. Umm...thanks for sharing now, I guess.

some things are better left out of a tell-all book! really, did she need to share this?

DrPhil 09-23-2009 12:54 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ForeverRoses (Post 1850130)
some things are better left out of a tell-all book! really, did she need to share this?

I don't think so. It annoys me that we now know this.

Then again, I'm conflicted because who are we to want people (celebrities or people who held onto info for 30 years) to hold onto these types of things?

It's just perfect timing for her tell-all book and need for continued stardom/money. It's like Barbara Walters vagina monologues that were so tacky and attention whoreish.

agzg 09-23-2009 12:55 PM

Is this the lady that was in Wilson Phillips or was that a different child of the Mamas and the Papas?

DaemonSeid 09-23-2009 12:57 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DrPhil (Post 1850129)
That link doesn't work.

I'm always surprised and shocked when I hear about incest. The celebrity status makes it material for mainstream media. It also makes me wonder why the hell we're being told about it all these years later.

The Oprah factor adds to my "why the hell" wonder.

Fixed

I am not all that surprised anymore...I think I am more surprised to see that in order for some celebs to retain any relevancy , they resort to tell the world about their dirty secrets.

That's why you hear about things like this years later.

I wouldn't be surprised if somewhere in the back of her mind this thought went through it:

"If Valerie can come back out of nowhere and make money for Jenny Craig, tehn why can't I sell my story and do the same?"

HEY YALL VALERIE GOT A HOT BODY AND MY DADDY USED MY BODY!! LOOK@MEEEE!!!!

Senusret I 09-23-2009 12:58 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by agzg (Post 1850133)
Is this the lady that was in Wilson Phillips or was that a different child of the Mamas and the Papas?

Different child.

DrPhil 09-23-2009 12:59 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by agzg (Post 1850133)
Is this the lady that was in Wilson Phillips or was that a different child of the Mamas and the Papas?

Chynna Phillips is her half sister.

http://www.nj.com/entertainment/cele...ackenzies.html

Senusret I 09-23-2009 12:59 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DrPhil (Post 1850132)
I don't think so. It annoys me that we now know this.

Then again, I'm conflicted because who are we to want people (celebrities or people who held onto info for 30 years) to hold onto these types of things?

It's just perfect timing for her tell-all book and need for continued stardom/money. It's like Barbara Walters vagina monologues that were so tacky and attention whoreish.

I think it's gross that it happened but I don't feel one way or the other about her in particular sharing it. I think incest is one of those things that is swept under the rug and probably needs to be more "demystified" for lack of a better word.

MysticCat 09-23-2009 01:02 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by agzg (Post 1850133)
Is this the lady that was in Wilson Phillips or was that a different child of the Mamas and the Papas?

This is the one who was on One Day at a Time. (I had such a crush on Valerie Bertinelli.)

jojapeach 09-23-2009 01:07 PM

If publishing the book and being on Oprah helps her in someway to release any demons, then I'm happy for her. However, that seems like a huge stretch, and I can't watch Oprah today. Her appearance on the show is just disturbing and seems to be a need for attention like DaemonSeid said. But if it helps one person out there, then...okay. I'm still so disturbed in my heart at the idea of years of consensual incest with her father.

KSig RC 09-23-2009 01:40 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DrPhil (Post 1850132)
I don't think so. It annoys me that we now know this.

Then again, I'm conflicted because who are we to want people (celebrities or people who held onto info for 30 years) to hold onto these types of things?

It's just perfect timing for her tell-all book and need for continued stardom/money. It's like Barbara Walters vagina monologues that were so tacky and attention whoreish.

Similarly, it will sell a shit ton of books. It's hard to ignore that part.

DaemonSeid 09-23-2009 01:55 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by KSig RC (Post 1850186)
Similarly, it will sell a shit ton of books. It's hard to ignore that part.

Sordid sex secret + Oprah appearance + her fans who like to read whatever is suggested = $$$

Yup, you are right.

AnchorAlumna 09-23-2009 01:59 PM

She's written and talked about everything before but the incest. Her father's not around to confirm or deny. Makes me wonder if she's making up stuff to sell books? She can't be in very good financial shape. Sad, because she had a lot of talent.

Munchkin03 09-23-2009 02:22 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DrPhil (Post 1850132)
I don't think so. It annoys me that we now know this.

Then again, I'm conflicted because who are we to want people (celebrities or people who held onto info for 30 years) to hold onto these types of things?

It's just perfect timing for her tell-all book and need for continued stardom/money. It's like Barbara Walters vagina monologues that were so tacky and attention whoreish.

It annoys me too that we know this. This should be between Ms. Phillips and her therapist and relevant family members/friends, and not the entire country.

I don't know how we got all confessional about our pasts, but I don't really care about this.

AGDee 09-23-2009 02:49 PM

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Originally Posted by MysticCat (Post 1850141)
This is the one who was on One Day at a Time. (I had such a crush on Valerie Bertinelli.)

Back in 1982 or so, my 2 year old cousin saw Valerie Bertinelli on TV and pointed, saying "Dee Dee! Dee Dee!" (my nickname). He thought she was me :) I was thrilled that this toddler thought I was her. Then again, he was 2.

jojapeach 09-23-2009 03:04 PM

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Originally Posted by AnchorAlumna (Post 1850206)
She's written and talked about everything before but the incest. Her father's not around to confirm or deny. Makes me wonder if she's making up stuff to sell books? She can't be in very good financial shape. Sad, because she had a lot of talent.

I was about to edit my original post with that fact. If she'll publish a book about this subject, there's no telling how far she'll go to further her "career" or make some money.

I honestly don't see who in their right mind would want to read about this subject. Just reading how her father suggested moving overseas to continue the incest gave me a headache. Who wants to pay $25 or so for a hardback that they'll probably read only once? I'm having a hard time even listening to a favorite afternoon drive radio show talking about this matter.

I'll be watching Tyra instead about the first year of parenthood and what no one talks about.

DaemonSeid 09-23-2009 03:06 PM

You know that the Kindle version is cheaper. *wink*

jojapeach 09-23-2009 03:09 PM

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Originally Posted by DaemonSeid (Post 1850245)
You know that the Kindle version is cheaper. *wink*

LOL! Some of us haven't upgraded yet. It's actually $17.15 a hardback at Amazon, and Kindle version is $14.29. It's currently ranked 18th. I'm gonna pretend this whole matter doesn't exist. I'm getting nauseous. Have a good day, GC.

ForeverRoses 09-23-2009 03:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Jen (Post 1850234)
Chynna Phillips is backing Mackenzie up - http://latimesblogs.latimes.com/thed...-are-true.html

Whether it happened or not, writing a tell-all book, going on Oprah and doing interviews about it seems more like it's about money than actually helping people.

Hell, volunteer for an abuse charity or incest survivor group if you want to "speak up."

10 years? this whole thing makes me want to go scrub my brain...

Still BLUTANG 09-23-2009 03:31 PM

this mess will never make its way on to my kindle.

well, maybe the free intro chapter.

but NO! i don't like this at all.

Benzgirl 09-23-2009 05:19 PM

I'm sorry, the interview on Oprah was disgusting. I don't know if it's true. I don't want to know if it's true. However, I agree that she most likely needs the money since it's all going into her veins.

RU OX Alum 09-23-2009 05:57 PM

she probably wanted this long because (in part) because she thought no one would believe her....and since some people don't want to, they won't. (for example: posts doubting the timing/motivations/truth of her claims)

AOIIalum 09-23-2009 07:40 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ForeverRoses (Post 1850248)
10 years? this whole thing makes me want to go scrub my brain...

Same here. There's not much I wouldn't believe about John Phillips, but this is just eeewwww.

christiangirl 09-23-2009 08:53 PM

Ew. I know that everyone has a story and everyone deserves to be heard but I'm still grossed out.

DaemonSeid 09-23-2009 10:42 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by RU OX Alum (Post 1850330)
she probably wanted this long because (in part) because she thought no one would believe her....and since some people don't want to, they won't. (for example: posts doubting the timing/motivations/truth of her claims)

Good point...and speaking for myself, it's not that I don't believe it, it's how she is going about telling the business that makes hearing what happened all the more uncomfortable.

Xanthus 09-23-2009 11:28 PM

Kind of freaked me out. Pretty disgusting if you ask me.

PeppyGPhiB 09-24-2009 12:03 AM

So just because we find her story disgusting means that she shouldn't share it? This was rape, incest, sexual abuse, however you want to describe it, and that stuff is unfortunately far more common than people want to believe. That it morphed into a "consentual" relationship that lasted 10 years I'm willing to speculate was because of the position of authority her father was in. I mean, having your dad rape you - and I bet that encounter was not the first time her dad made advances toward her - must really mess with your mind. Add to that that she was so drugged up at that time in her life, and I guess it doesn't surprise me that her dad could manipulate her like that.

McKenzie Phillips' reputation and career was ruined by her drug habit. Maybe she blames her dad a little (or a lot) for that and she wants the world to know it. Seems to me that she (and other celebrities such as Oprah who disclose sexual abuse and other horrible things many years later), is looking for a little understanding or sympathy from people who have had none for her.

One Day at at Time was before my time, but I do love American Graffiti, and I'll always think of McKenzie in her role in that movie.

DrPhil 09-24-2009 01:09 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by PeppyGPhiB (Post 1850444)
So just because we find her story disgusting means that she shouldn't share it?

Is that what you gathered from our responses?

PeppyGPhiB 09-24-2009 03:39 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DrPhil (Post 1850588)
Is that what you gathered from our responses?

Several of them, yes.

Munchkin03 09-25-2009 07:30 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by PeppyGPhiB (Post 1850444)
So just because we find her story disgusting means that she shouldn't share it? This was rape, incest, sexual abuse, however you want to describe it, and that stuff is unfortunately far more common than people want to believe.

My problem with this whole thing is that she doesn't seem to be doing this to come out with it as a way to do anything else than to make some money off of her family's notorious dysfunction.

Why did she do this? It's not for punitive reasons--her father's been dead for nearly a decade and he can't only confirm or deny it, he can't be punished for it if it's even true. It doesn't seem to be in order to help people going through similar tragedies; if that was the case she would have worked with an organization like RAINN. She even could have used her appearance on Oprah on that angle--since Ms. Winfrey has been very open about her history of abuse. Why does her confession happen to center around her book's release?

kommitted1973 09-25-2009 08:16 AM

I'm wondering if so many people are grossed out by her story, how many people will actually buy her book? I am one of the ones that actually believes her story and no I will not buy the book but, I think she should have the right to tell her story and if this is only was for her to release the demons that have plagued her for 30 years or so then who am I to judge.

What really got to me was that she said she knows she's not the only one that this has happened too as far as having the consentual (sp) relationship. Who knows maybe she'll help someone else.

Society has made sensationalist topics a part of our entertainment.

Just my .13 cents.

christiangirl 09-25-2009 11:01 AM

I was watching the news at my internship (hey, a girl needs a break sometimes ;)) and someone noted that this might encourage people in similar situations to speak out and have their abuse stopped and their abuser punished. OK maybe I'm just weird, but I don't see how ANYONE would get that message when MP waited till 10 years after her abuser died to finally speak up. That fact by itself sends a huge message, one that (IMO) kind of overshadows what she's saying. A agree with Munchkin, there were several ways to use this horror to help other people and this just doesn't seem like one of them. Now, if each purchase of her book resulted in a donation to an organization that helps abused children, that'd be something that would make this more inspirational, helpful, whathaveyou.

33girl 09-28-2009 04:56 PM

I think she's full of shit. She's tried to restart her career numerous times and come up with squat. I don't deny that she had a very messed up childhood, but this is beyond. She probably promised Chynna a cut if she would back her up.

FWIW, Michelle Phillips agrees with me and she and John were definitely not on the best of terms.


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