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CraziLatina12 06-26-2009 02:45 PM

Black Greeks....
 
Last year fall I was a freshman at TAMU-Commerce, and I didn't know anything about black Greeks or the other Greeks until I got to college...Since my mom had grown up in Nacodoges she knew all about the Greeks...She tells me all of the time that she is my biggest supporter...But she will not pay for me to HBCU or to be a Black Greek...I understand that yes if I decide to pledge I'm gonna get hazed...But how can I tell the person that is suppose to be my biggest supporter that this is something that I really like for you support me with....

Second the sorority I want to join just got a new group of girl and one of them is a really good friend of mine... I feel that if I join the sorority that she is in that she's gonna be harder on me... Than the other girls...

Xidelt 06-26-2009 02:52 PM

But will you really have time to pledge with remedial English and appointments for tutoring at the campus writing center?

jessica.lanelle 06-26-2009 02:59 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Xidelt (Post 1820189)
But will you really have time to pledge with remedial English and appointments for tutoring at the campus writing center?

Haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa.

sigmadiva 06-26-2009 03:13 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by CraziLatina12 (Post 1820183)
Last year fall I was a freshman at TAMU-Commerce, and I didn't know anything about black Greeks or the other Greeks until I got to college...Since my mom had grown up in Nacodoges she knew all about the Greeks...She tells me all of the time that she is my biggest supporter...But she will not pay for me to HBCU or to be a Black Greek...I understand that yes if I decide to pledge I'm gonna get hazed...But how can I tell the person that is suppose to be my biggest supporter that this is something that I really like for you support me with....

Second the sorority I want to join just got a new group of girl and one of them is a really good friend of mine... I feel that if I join the sorority that she is in that she's gonna be harder on me... Than the other girls...

QFP - there is so much wrong with this post beyond grammar and English, where does one begin?

SydneyK 06-26-2009 03:36 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by CraziLatina12 (Post 1820183)
She [my mom] tells me all of the time that she is my biggest supporter...But she will not pay for me to HBCU or to be a Black Greek... ... But how can I tell the person that is suppose to be my biggest supporter that this is something that I really like for you support me with....

Who ever said that parental support = parental bill-footing? Many people pay for their sorority/fraternity experience on their own - even those whose parents are/were supportive of their decision to join.

DrPhil 06-26-2009 03:39 PM

LOL

What did weeeee doooooo before weeeee could ask questions on message boards? :rolleyes:

KSUViolet06 06-26-2009 03:42 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DrPhil (Post 1820205)
LOL

What did weeeee doooooo before weeeee could ask questions on message boards? :rolleyes:

You may have actually had to *gasp* step away from the interwebz and *gasp* ask people that you actually know in the org you were interested in.

Crazy I know.

DrPhil 06-26-2009 03:44 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by KSUViolet06 (Post 1820208)
You may have actually had to *gasp* step away from the interwebz and *gasp* ask people that you actually know.

Crazy I know.

I don't believe you! Never! :mad:

KSUViolet06 06-26-2009 03:46 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DrPhil (Post 1820210)
I don't believe you! Never! :mad:

Oh yes.

And get this, this may have actually have required you to *gasp* get to know people who are actually IN the chapter and org of your interest.

DrPhil 06-26-2009 03:49 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by KSUViolet06 (Post 1820211)
Oh yes.

And get this, this may have actually have required you to *gasp* get to know people who are actually IN the chapter and org of your interest.

Liar liar pants on fiar...fire!!!!

SydneyK 06-26-2009 03:52 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by KSUViolet06 (Post 1820211)
Oh yes.

And get this, this may have actually have required you to *gasp* get to know people who are actually IN the chapter and org of your interest.

But they'll be meaner and will haze you harder than people you don't know who aren't in the chapter/org of interest.

DrPhil 06-26-2009 03:56 PM

OMG and some people hang with their dogs because their dogs admire them with no critiques!!! :p

SydneyK 06-26-2009 04:00 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DrPhil (Post 1820222)
OMG and some people hang with their dogs because their dogs admire them with no critiques!!! :p

I just had a Michael Vick moment there - I missed the first "with" the first time I read your post. :eek: Totally different meaning.

DrPhil 06-26-2009 04:02 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SydneyK (Post 1820224)
I just had a Michael Vick moment there - I missed the first "with" the first time I read your post. :eek: Totally different meaning.

Ewww!

I hope Vick can live that nonsense down one day.

pshsx1 06-26-2009 07:20 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SydneyK (Post 1820224)
I just had a Michael Vick moment there - I missed the first "with" the first time I read your post. :eek: Totally different meaning.

hahahah I had the same reaction! :o

JustThinking 06-26-2009 09:47 PM

I Await the Ignorance... But I Know This Will Reach Someone Who Remembers...
 
You guys are A$$HOLES.

Seriously, I hope you lame a$$es find solace in entertaining yourselves with people trying to get information from you, and you just spit in their faces... You should be ashamed of yourselves!!!

You have potential members on here... people who you NEED for this greek tradition to continue, and you make yourselves and your organizations look bad when you mock and harass people.

What happened to that sisterly and brotherly attitude that you are supposed to have? The helpful and assistant demeanor that is supposed to be the guiding light of your orgs? Or, do you only believe you have to respect people with letters? Tell me, are the people you serve out in the community any LESS important or less HUMAN than you are?

THIS IS a community service, to aid people with what you have gone through. They have the same questions you had before you were greek. Why can't anyone on here seem to realize that? it's one thing to just ignore someone's question, which I have seen. But to waste your time to criticize someone who wants to JOIN YOUR RANKS is just mindless.

If you want quality, knowledgable people, you are going to have to deal with QUESTIONS. No one goes out and buys something or invests time into something without attempting to have their fears calmed and their hopes assured that they are going to make the right choice, especially something as masked as greek life.

So I hope greeks on here remember the time, the time when they were scared, questionable, and anxious non-greeks, who honestly searched for brother/sister-hood and understand that the questions posed on here are, for the most part, legitimate, and deserve a respectful and guiding answer. I know, for at least the BGLOs, that this mission (to serve the community with dignity and respect for all people) should be the staple of your lives. This should be exercised whether in real life or the digital community.

***This message is not for people who genuinely answer questions and understand the worries of the non-greek. Thank you for educating the members and guests on this website.***

KSUViolet06 06-26-2009 09:51 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JustThinking (Post 1820368)
You guys are A$$HOLES.

Seriously, I hope you lame a$$es find solace in entertaining yourselves with people trying to get information from you, and you just spit in their faces... You should be ashamed of yourselves!!!

You have potential members on here... people who you NEED for this greek tradition to continue, and you make yourselves and your organizations look bad when you mock and harass people.

What happened to that sisterly and brotherly attitude that you are supposed to have? The helpful and assistant demeanor that is supposed to be the guiding light of your orgs? Or, do you only believe you have to respect people with letters? Tell me, are the people you serve out in the community any LESS important or less HUMAN than you are?

THIS IS a community service, to aid people with what you have gone through. They have the same questions you had before you were greek. Why can't anyone on here seem to realize that? it's one thing to just ignore someone's question, which I have seen. But to waste your time to criticize someone who wants to JOIN YOUR RANKS is just mindless.

If you want quality, knowledgable people, you are going to have to deal with QUESTIONS. No one goes out and buys something or invests time into something without attempting to have their fears calmed and their hopes assured that they are going to make the right choice, especially something as masked as greek life.

So I hope greeks on here remember the time, the time when they were scared, questionable, and anxious non-greeks, who honestly searched for brother/sister-hood and understand that the questions posed on here are, for the most part, legitimate, and deserve a respectful and guiding answer. I know, for at least the BGLOs, that this mission (to serve the community with dignity and respect for all people) should be the staple of your lives. This should be exercised hether in real life or the digital community.

***This message is not for people who genuinely answer questions and understand the worries of the non-greek. Thank you for educating the members and guests on this website.***



So, apparently, advising people to get off the internet and actually ask people they KNOW in a particular sorority is me being mean.

You know, back before I knew GC existed, I had to do the same thing (as did most of the people on this site.

DrPhil 06-26-2009 09:56 PM

JustThinking did a lot there and, once again, shined light on the dark side of Greekdom. Woohoo.

If she/he thought as much as she/he claims, he/she would have figured all of this out already.

JustThinking 06-26-2009 09:57 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by KSUViolet06 (Post 1820370)

So, apparently, advising people to get off the internet and actually ask people they KNOW in a particular sorority is me being mean.

You know, back before I knew GC existed, I had to do the same thing (as did most of the people on this site.


I UNDERSTAND this, but seriously, what if they do not know anyone?
And, now that GC DOES exist, do you really think that it exists for the purpose of downing people who really want to be this-or-that? Can't GC be an outlet for those who are unsure about joining greek life and want a place where they can be anonymous and get their questions answered?

And would you PERSONALLY feel better downing a person like the rest, or knowing you helped someone make an informed decision about a "major thing" in their lives?

DrPhil 06-26-2009 09:58 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by KSUViolet06 (Post 1820370)

So, apparently, advising people to get off the internet and actually ask people they KNOW in a particular sorority is me being mean.

You know, back before I knew GC existed, I had to do the same thing (as did most of the people on this site.

You just don't understand the worries of the nonGreek. The nonGreek didn't exist before the internet existed. The nonGreek didn't exist before GC existed. The nonGreek is a new phenomenon created via evolution.

Dionysus 06-26-2009 09:59 PM

Nicca, who are you and where are you from?

Quote:

Originally Posted by JustThinking (Post 1820368)
You guys are A$$HOLES.

Seriously, I hope you lame a$$es find solace in entertaining yourselves with people trying to get information from you, and you just spit in their faces... You should be ashamed of yourselves!!!

You have potential members on here... people who you NEED for this greek tradition to continue, and you make yourselves and your organizations look bad when you mock and harass people.

What happened to that sisterly and brotherly attitude that you are supposed to have? The helpful and assistant demeanor that is supposed to be the guiding light of your orgs? Or, do you only believe you have to respect people with letters? Tell me, are the people you serve out in the community any LESS important or less HUMAN than you are?

THIS IS a community service, to aid people with what you have gone through. They have the same questions you had before you were greek. Why can't anyone on here seem to realize that? it's one thing to just ignore someone's question, which I have seen. But to waste your time to criticize someone who wants to JOIN YOUR RANKS is just mindless.

If you want quality, knowledgable people, you are going to have to deal with QUESTIONS. No one goes out and buys something or invests time into something without attempting to have their fears calmed and their hopes assured that they are going to make the right choice, especially something as masked as greek life.

So I hope greeks on here remember the time, the time when they were scared, questionable, and anxious non-greeks, who honestly searched for brother/sister-hood and understand that the questions posed on here are, for the most part, legitimate, and deserve a respectful and guiding answer. I know, for at least the BGLOs, that this mission (to serve the community with dignity and respect for all people) should be the staple of your lives. This should be exercised whether in real life or the digital community.

***This message is not for people who genuinely answer questions and understand the worries of the non-greek. Thank you for educating the members and guests on this website.***


KSUViolet06 06-26-2009 10:00 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JustThinking (Post 1820377)
I UNDERSTAND this, but seriously, what if they do not know anyone?
And, now that GC DOES exist, do you really think that it exists for the purpose of downing people who really want to be this-or-that? Can't GC be an outlet for those who are unsure about joining greek life and want a place where they can be anonymous and get their questions answered?

And would you PERSONALLY feel better downing a person like the rest, or knowing you helped someone make an informed decision about a "major thing" in their lives?


That's what the Search function is for. There are quite a few threads for BGLO interests that are quite informative.

And really, if you don't know anyone, don't you think it's beneficial to MEET someone if you're serious about joining?

DrPhil 06-26-2009 10:03 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Dionysus (Post 1820380)
Nicca, who are you and where are you from?

A GLOer (potentially a regular poster) who is pretending to be a nonGreek newbie to prove some point. LOL.

JustThinking 06-26-2009 10:18 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by KSUViolet06 (Post 1820382)
That's what the Search function is for. There are quite a few threads for BGLO interests that are quite informative.

And really, if you don't know anyone, don't you think it's beneficial to MEET someone if you're serious about joining?


WHY DIDN'T YOU JUST POINT HER IN THE RIGHT DIRECTION?
No, it's not your job, but in sarcastically saying that she needs to talk to people in the org and get to know them, you could have just said "GET TO KNOW THEM." Why max around with Dr. A-Hole?

I wonder why people continue to become greek and appreciate it when there are so many greeks who go out of their way to make them feel like they don't belong when they and non-greeks...

Dare I say, online hazing?

I just know that you, and other people on here, are better people than what you come off to be. Yes, it gets repetitive... but it it NOT better to HELP than to HURT??? Really?

KSUViolet06 06-26-2009 10:21 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JustThinking (Post 1820395)

Dare I say, online hazing?

You're reaching.

It's never that serious.

knight_shadow 06-26-2009 10:27 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by KSUViolet06 (Post 1820397)
You're reaching.

It's never that serious.

It can be that serious.

Last week, I was forced to get in the e-cut :(

DrPhil 06-26-2009 10:28 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by KSUViolet06 (Post 1820397)
You're reaching.

It's never that serious.

Stop ruining the mission that JustThinking was created for. There may be a bunch of GCers whose convos led to JustThinking. Obama stands for change. Don't ruin it.

knight_shadow 06-26-2009 10:29 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JustThinking (Post 1820395)
WHY DIDN'T YOU JUST POINT HER IN THE RIGHT DIRECTION?
No, it's not your job, but in sarcastically saying that she needs to talk to people in the org and get to know them, you could have just said "GET TO KNOW THEM." Why max around with Dr. A-Hole?

I wonder why people continue to become greek and appreciate it when there are so many greeks who go out of their way to make them feel like they don't belong when they and non-greeks...

Dare I say, online hazing?

I just know that you, and other people on here, are better people than what you come off to be. Yes, it gets repetitive... but it it NOT better to HELP than to HURT??? Really?

You whine too much for someone who is super confident that she'll get into XYZ Sorority.

GC is a resource, but it shouldn't be the end all, be all. Common sense tells you to go out and meet the people you hope to associate with. If that seems harsh or unreasonable, then it sucks to be you. Greek life will continue without you.

KSUViolet06 06-26-2009 10:29 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DrPhil (Post 1820400)
Stop ruining the mission that JustThinking was created for. There may be a bunch of GCers' whose convos led to JustThinking. Obama stands for change. Don't ruin it.


Don't bring Barack into this, lol.

DrPhil 06-26-2009 10:31 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by KSUViolet06 (Post 1820402)
Don't bring Barack into this, lol.

Hey the GCers who may have created JustThinking justthought Obama was time to also change GC. Get with it! :)

KSUViolet06 06-26-2009 10:34 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by knight_shadow (Post 1820399)
It can be that serious.

Last week, I was forced to get in the e-cut :(

You are so crazy.

JustThinking 06-26-2009 10:41 PM

I get it.
Ballsucker after ballsucker after ballsucker.
God, greek life has really changed. I hope none of you are in BGLOs. I didn't waste my time looking.
White orgs have no respect for anyone... sigh...

DrPhil 06-26-2009 10:43 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JustThinking (Post 1820409)
I get it.
Ballsucker after ballsucker after ballsucker.
God, greek life has really changed. I hope none of you are in BGLOs. I didn't waste my time looking.
White orgs have no respect for anyone... sigh...

Suuuuuuuuure, you didn't. :)

Notice the change in JustThinking's posting style.

knight_shadow 06-26-2009 10:43 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JustThinking (Post 1820409)
I get it.
Ballsucker after ballsucker after ballsucker.
God, greek life has really changed. I hope none of you are in BGLOs. I didn't waste my time looking.
White orgs have no respect for anyone... sigh...

Tehehe

DrPhil 06-26-2009 10:45 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by knight_shadow (Post 1820412)
Tehehe

The curious aspirant act went out the window. :p

KSUViolet06 06-26-2009 10:45 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JustThinking (Post 1820409)
I get it.
Ballsucker after ballsucker after ballsucker.
God, greek life has really changed. I hope none of you are in BGLOs. I didn't waste my time looking.
White orgs have no respect for anyone... sigh...

But I thought you were "for sure" getting into one of them?

Weird.

Gusteau 06-26-2009 10:48 PM

I'm sorry I ever doubted you guys about JustThinking, I think I may have been too trusting...

DrPhil 06-26-2009 10:49 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Gusteau (Post 1820417)
I'm sorry I ever doubted you guys about JustThinking, I think I may have been too trusting...

This was cute. :p We're all just typing to usernames.

Xidelt 06-26-2009 10:54 PM

Since when did greek chat become the official substitute for for the greek life office on campus?

rhoyaltempest 06-26-2009 11:40 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JustThinking (Post 1820409)
I get it.
Ballsucker after ballsucker after ballsucker.
God, greek life has really changed. I hope none of you are in BGLOs. I didn't waste my time looking.
White orgs have no respect for anyone... sigh...

How could greek life have changed from your point of view when you never experienced it? Members of greek letter organizations participate in greek life.


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