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humblerumble 05-11-2009 09:02 AM
I just need to vent. What a MISTAKE!!!
 
Thank you everyone!

VandalSquirrel 05-11-2009 09:10 AM
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Originally Posted by humblerumble (Post 1808044)
I understand that I will be reminded about how very important it is to choose your Sorority/Fraternity wisely.
Having no real knowledge of Greek life (since no one in my family is Greek), and no understanding of the TRUE connection and networking opportunities as well as community service opportunities available amongst certain orgs, I honestly feel that I kind of blindly chose mine. And now I regret it more than I ever thought I would.

There have been no opportunities to network or obtain mentorship. When I've tried, I get turned away. The women in this org (I HATE to sound shallow..but I have to be honest) don't really carry themselves well in terms of their public appearance. The chapter I came in through was smaller, and full of older women, so I didnt recognize this at first. But the women are generally unkempt, hair not done, nails dirty and chipped, clothing is ill fitting, and it's almost like they don't believe in makeup. Many of them are also out of shape. I am embarrassed to call them Soror, or to show people pictures of myself with them.

The org itself doesnt get much respect, and is very unorganized. The website is a joke, everything takes 45-90 days before it's handled, and overall, it's falling to pieces. I have smaller nieces and cousins who want to be Greek when they go to college, and I cringe when I hear them say they want to be an "XYZ", like me.

Also, before induction, I was SO close to backing away from this org, but a good friend, who is also a member convinced me to "push on", telling me that I shouldnt be a quitter, and so on. I'm not making excuses for myself, but I now realize that she did it because misery loves company. Immediatley after my induction, she began to complain about everything and everybody, and even once said she was glad that I was in because she wouldnt have to go through it alone.

I guess in the end, I know the rules, and I'm stuck. I just wish the LARGER governing body of all the orgs would allow some kind of "open window", where one could switch their org if they'd like. I know that's insane, and it will never happen...but I swear that I dream about it day in and day out. I've truly made the biggest mistake of my life. Dues are increasing, and I don't feel that I'm getting a mutual benefit from being in this org. I do LOADS of community service with a group of friends who are unrelated to this org.

I made the decision to join because I beleived in the mission and legacy of the founders. but also because I was "sold" into thinking so much would be available to me. That the relationship would be mututally beneficial. I could do community service, youth outreach, and gain mentorship while getting networking opportunities. I have been a hard working Soror.

This was a horrible mistake....sometimes I'm near tears, and I wish I'd never done this. When I see my colleagues who are in other orgs, their membership benefits are evident. They are in the community working, getting a leg up on job opportunities, and more. They are also more respected. I even began to dislike our colors and handsign. The colors are unladylike and ugly and the hand sign makes me look cripple (that last part was seriously immature venting..just had to get it out).

Well...thanks for listening.
QFP because some people are still asleep.

humblerumble 05-11-2009 09:41 AM
I'm sorry. I don't know what QFP means...
Thankyou for replying though...

Kevin 05-11-2009 09:45 AM
Either quit or make the best of it.

If nothing else, it must feel great to be sitting in a room *knowing* that you're better than everyone else, yes?

humblerumble 05-11-2009 09:49 AM
Not really, lol!
When I tell others I'm affilliated with this org, I see the disrespect spread across their faces! Conversley (sp?), some people say "YOU'RE an 'XYZ?!...that CANT be possible!". It's because these women have such a bad reputation for being sloppy, and so on...I wish I could quit...and go to another org, the one that's truly in my heart, but I know I can't. It's just not possible. For anyone else reading this who is young or on their way to college/Greek life...RESEARCH RESEARCH RESEARCH!!!! PLEASE!!!

agzg 05-11-2009 09:50 AM
I find it hard to believe that every member of a large national organization is unkempt or dirty. Especially since (I'm assuming, here) it's an NPHC organization. I also find it hard to believe that a large national organization is not allowing you networking opportunities. Perhaps you should take the initiative and put yourself in contact with area alumnae.

Sounds like you've got a case of buyer's remorse. It happens. Unfortunately, there's not much you can do about it as far as joining a different organization.

I realize I'm out of my lane here, greekchatters, but I would assume that these situations are similar as far as NPC v. NPHC v. NALFO.

groovypq 05-11-2009 09:54 AM
I agree with Kevin. Quit or make the best of it. At the very least, have the respect for your sisters -- who you once chose and also chose you -- to not slander them in such a way.

If you really think it's so bad, run for a leadership position and try to effect positive change. Do you have sisterhood activities? Organize a "spa day" and give each other manicures, hairstyles, etc. Do an etiquette workshop, or a do's and don'ts fashion show.

You're not getting out of this organization and getting into another one. Try to make a positive experience out of it.

AOEforme 05-11-2009 10:01 AM
Concur. Quit or try. You're doing absolutely no one any good by whining. You should either dissociate and go on with your life or attempt to make a difference.

If this is an NPHC group, you will have the connections and mentorship you seek. You just might actually have to take the initiative to go find them.

Try and take a leadership role and see if you can begin to steer your chapter in a direction you'd like. Get your friend who agrees with you on your side and work to make your group better. This is a much better use of your time and energy.

If you look for the benefits, I'm sure you'll find them.

If you're not willing to put in the work for that, it's probably best if you leave.

humblerumble 05-11-2009 12:49 PM
I appreciate all of the advice. I'm just curious as to why you've all assumed this is a NPHC organization?

Senusret I 05-11-2009 12:57 PM
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Originally Posted by humblerumble (Post 1808096)
I appreciate all of the advice. I'm just curious as to why you've all assumed this is a NPHC organization?
Because NPC orgs don't say "Soror" and it just doesn't sound likely that it's a Multicultural or NALFO org.

Plus, because you said "induction" and not "initiation" I can almost guarantee that I know which sorority it is.

SydneyK 05-11-2009 01:01 PM
While it isn't that much of an indicator anymore, the mention of handsigns was another clue for me. (Many NPCs use handsigns now though.)

MexicanMami0286 05-11-2009 01:07 PM
Just wow at this post...

I'm glad someone QFP'ed this.

I think it's easy to assume it's an NPHC organizations from mentioning things like "soror" and "handsign," though we all could attest that it could be a non-NPHC GLO...

In any case, it's up to you to take the initiative to make certain things happen. Just because you see others in different organizations with a "leg up" on opportunities, doesn't mean they simply got this from their membership with a certain org. I'm sure these women are qualified, despite their membership privileges and have taken it upon themselves to initiate contact with others and create the opportunities they want to see/partake in, whether it's in their careers or communities.

Perhaps, you should consider joining another chapter. If you're in a metro area, you may have several to choose from or you could consider simply participating as a member-at-large and continue the work of your organization that way (or continue participating in the service you've been doing with other organizations).

And as others have posted, perhaps, you should just quit the organization and find a "better" use of your time.

MexicanMami0286 05-11-2009 01:07 PM
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Originally Posted by Senusret I (Post 1808097)
Plus, because you said "induction" and not "initiation" I can almost guarantee that I know which sorority it is.
Ditto...:rolleyes:

humblerumble 05-11-2009 01:30 PM
could someone tell me what QFP means? Forgive me. I'm not hip to the lingo on this site :)
Thanks.
Also, out of respect for the org itself, all I can do is allow others to assume they know which one it is. I won't mention the name of the group, it's NPC/NPHC or NON NPHC/NPC afilliation, etc. I mean, I feel what I feel, and I appreciate all of your advice. I thank you all for not giving me a hard time about this rant. I just really needed a place and space to speak my mind freely and get this off of my chest. It's a pretty heavy load to carry....

TSteven 05-11-2009 01:48 PM
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Originally Posted by humblerumble (Post 1808102)
could someone tell me what QFP means? Forgive me. I'm not hip to the lingo on this site :)
Thanks.
Quoted For Posterity

ASTalumna06 05-11-2009 01:53 PM
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Originally Posted by agzg (Post 1808055)
I find it hard to believe that every member of a large national organization is unkempt or dirty. Especially since (I'm assuming, here) it's an NPHC organization. I also find it hard to believe that a large national organization is not allowing you networking opportunities. Perhaps you should take the initiative and put yourself in contact with area alumnae.
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Originally Posted by MexicanMami0286 (Post 1808100)
In any case, it's up to you to take the initiative to make certain things happen. Just because you see others in different organizations with a "leg up" on opportunities, doesn't mean they simply got this from their membership with a certain org. I'm sure these women are qualified, despite their membership privileges and have taken it upon themselves to initiate contact with others and create the opportunities they want to see/partake in, whether it's in their careers or communities.
Listen to this advice. You can't rely on other people to put things in front of you, even when it's a national organization you're looking to for help. You have to do the research yourself. Especially when it comes to networking opportunities. I think the main idea behind it is that you "know" people around the country simply because you're all XYZs. But you actually have to seek them out and ask for help. I know of one sister who became friends with as many alumnae as possible through Facebook, and ended up talking to one of them who got her a job after she graduated.

The same goes for the chapter. If you want to see change, create it. Even if it's small change. Take on leadership roles. Recruitment or New Member Director (or whatever they're called in your org) might be good ones to strive for.

And I have to ask... how long have you been a member? Did you just join this semester? Because if so, remember that there will be many people who come after you. Maybe the chapter will gain some different new members and completely turn around come fall.

But if this is the case, and you did just join, and after another semester or two you are still completely unhappy, then consider dropping and becoming involved in something that you'll enjoy.

Kevin 05-11-2009 02:04 PM
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Originally Posted by Kevin (Post 1808052)
If nothing else, it must feel great to be sitting in a room *knowing* that you're better than everyone else, yes?
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Originally Posted by humblerumble (Post 1808054)
Not really, lol!
Does anyone else see what I did there?

33girl 05-11-2009 02:42 PM
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Originally Posted by ASTalumna06 (Post 1808108)
I know of one sister who became friends with as many alumnae as possible through Facebook, and ended up talking to one of them who got her a job after she graduated.

And I have to ask... how long have you been a member? Did you just join this semester? Because if so, remember that there will be many people who come after you. Maybe the chapter will gain some different new members and completely turn around come fall.

But if this is the case, and you did just join, and after another semester or two you are still completely unhappy, then consider dropping and becoming involved in something that you'll enjoy.
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Originally Posted by humblerumble (Post 1808044)
The chapter I came in through was smaller, and full of older women, so I didnt recognize this at first.
She is in a grad chapter of an NPHC or NALFO organization. "Semesters" have no bearing on her life. She is already what's considered an alumna.

On another note, if this NPHC, I would love to know what she thinks are "unladylike" colors. I mean it's not like there's a sorority whose colors are black and gray.

humblerumble 05-11-2009 02:42 PM
Im not really sure what you "saw"...what I basically meant was that I don't take an ounce of pleasure in any kind of "assumed" notion that I am better than anyone. I'm not attempting to start a back and forth, or be argumentative, I just wanted to be clear on that. When I said "not really", I basically meant that I take no pleasure in being thought of as "better than" anyone, or telling myself that I am.

But lets be clear folks...some things are a given!
Your hair should be combed
Your clothing should be well kept and clean
You are a representative of yourself, your greek family, your personal family, etc.
You should carry yourself like a lady with class. Extensive drinking, shouting, etc. is not necessary.
Being an "XYZ" does not make you better, but it should prompt you to be your best. If someone meets you and you tell them what org you are in, they should be impressed based on the way in which you speak and your overall appearance.

Please don't make it seem as though I'm not saying what others are thinking. And I've tried to initiate change. It's either too much trouble, no one has the time, or the money, or I am labeled as being "stuck up" because I like to do my hair, dress nice, wear makeup, and I carry myself a certain way.

I LIVE for community service, but I've found that the rules and constraints of a sorority, coupled with the overall lack of people really stepping up to get the job done, makes it difficult for me to do things in my community (in the name of my sorority, that is. I do a great deal on my own).


The bottom line is that I feel like I noticed so much more after I came in...I'm sure we could all say the same about our respective orgs. And as far as duration goes, I've been going strong now for almost 4 years. It's pretty disheartening knowing I can never go back...

knight_shadow 05-11-2009 03:04 PM
If you're just wanting to vent, there's really no need to be defensive.

You know that you can't join another organization in the council. Do as others have said -- initiate change, serve elsewhere (another chapter or a service organization), or turn in your letters.

The end.

humblerumble 05-11-2009 03:16 PM
Knight:
Thanks for your thoughts...but I'm not really sure why you say I'm being defensive.

Thank you anyway, and have a good day :)

I understand my options, and I honestly think I am very close to choosing the last one you mentioned. I don't feel I would be of great benefit to an org that isnt really on my heart. And out of respect for those ladies, as well as myself, I think I should remove myself from the org.

Thanks again!

knight_shadow 05-11-2009 03:28 PM
You're welcome, and good luck.

AKA_Monet 05-11-2009 04:03 PM
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Originally Posted by humblerumble (Post 1808125)
But lets be clear folks...some things are a given!
Your hair should be combed
Your clothing should be well kept and clean
You are a representative of yourself, your greek family, your personal family, etc.
You should carry yourself like a lady with class. Extensive drinking, shouting, etc. is not necessary.
Being an "XYZ" does not make you better, but it should prompt you to be your best. If someone meets you and you tell them what org you are in, they should be impressed based on the way in which you speak and your overall appearance.

Please don't make it seem as though I'm not saying what others are thinking. And I've tried to initiate change. It's either too much trouble, no one has the time, or the money, or I am labeled as being "stuck up" because I like to do my hair, dress nice, wear makeup, and I carry myself a certain way.

I LIVE for community service, but I've found that the rules and constraints of a sorority, coupled with the overall lack of people really stepping up to get the job done, makes it difficult for me to do things in my community (in the name of my sorority, that is. I do a great deal on my own).


The bottom line is that I feel like I noticed so much more after I came in...I'm sure we could all say the same about our respective orgs. And as far as duration goes, I've been going strong now for almost 4 years. It's pretty disheartening knowing I can never go back...
Demanding behavior from another person as to their "shoulds" will only be disheartening to you.

First, you have no right to post volatile comments on GC like this using terms like "Soror" and "induction" thereby narrowing down choices as to who you are and what organization you are in. It is disrespectful to your chosen, select and paid for organization. If you have a problem with your sorority sisters, you confront them in an organized setting. If you are too scared to do so, being a neophyte, I can imagine how scared you are, then revoke your membership... Get expelled or go inactive. And once you make that decision, do not back down. We are all adults making adult choices.

Blaming your lack of family familiarity and experience shows that you lack trust and support from your own members who actually saw you as an asset to the organization! One of my closest friends who is a member of DST, practically became chapter president within 5 years of her membership!!! She was that well put together. It is my understanding she connected up with what her International Organization requested all chapters were to do at the time...

That is a matter of KNOWING YOUR DOCUMENTS!!! How well do you know yours? Constitution & Bylaws? Other documents all members must know? Who are your mentors within your organization--locally, regionally, Internationally?

I could see if you had 20 years under your belt and were burnt out... But 4 years? Wow!!! After 4 years, I felt like I was still pledging for the hayle I caught... I did not feel like full-fledge member until 10 years of membership!!!

Get it together and stop disrespecting your sorority sisters publicly!

Kansas City 05-11-2009 04:10 PM
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Originally Posted by humblerumble (Post 1808125)
... The bottom line is that I feel like I noticed so much more after I came in...I'm sure we could all say the same about our respective orgs. And as far as duration goes, I've been going strong now for almost 4 years. It's pretty disheartening knowing I can never go back...
I believe that this (in bold) may be contributing to the perceived "defensiveness". Please do not speak for me. I'm happy and involved in my respective organization and active in making change for the better. Do the same or move on.

Senusret I 05-11-2009 04:13 PM
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Originally Posted by Kansas City (Post 1808160)
I believe that this (in bold) may be contributing to the perceived "defensiveness". Please do not speak for me. I'm happy and involved in my respective organization and active in making change for the better. Do the same or move on.
Come on.... in the context of the sentence you quoted, she's just saying she knows more about the organization now than she did before initiation.

humblerumble 05-11-2009 04:18 PM
I appreciate your response. To answer your questions, I know my Constitution and Bylaws front to back. I know my history front to back, I know my past and current officers front to back. This is part of the reason why I AM so down. Because I've given so much to this org, and I feel like it's just not for me.

As far as what's being done publicly, I've not named my org, anyone's names, etc., as my intention is not to be inflammatory and rude. It was to come here and vent HONESTLY about what I feel.

That's all. I'm not here to debate whether or not I have the RIGHT to these feelings, or the right to voice them, because I do. I'm not here to debate 4years of membership vs 10. There are some people that do more work in 2 years than someone who's been around for 40! It's not about any of that. It's not about putting my expectations on others. I feel as a member of an org, I am a representative of the whole, and vice versa. I'm not happy with the reflection, that's all. And I'm not making excuses, I'm being honest. I've never blamed this choice on anyone. It was my fault for not educating myself, and I admit that.

I can turn in my letters, I can formally ask to resign, and be granted that request, but I can't then go to another org because the rules don't allow it. However, at the rate things are going with this org...they may not be around much longer, and I may be granted the option of going elsewhere, or I may not. Who knows...I'm just down in the dumps about this...that's all.


It's about the bottom line...that I came here merely to vent, and I thank you all for your responses.

Kansas City 05-11-2009 04:19 PM
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Originally Posted by Senusret I (Post 1808162)
Come on.... in the context of the sentence you quoted, she's just saying she knows more about the organization now than she did before initiation.
Perhaps ,but I have a feeling that her views of not aligning with her selected org are probably not with the majority of GC and although I'm from a different counsel, I find it innapropriate to sterotype anyone as not enjoying/contributing/appreciating their membership.

humblerumble 05-11-2009 04:21 PM
Kansas City:
I didnt mean it that way.
Now you're being defensive :)

I meant just what Senusret I said, exactly as I said as well.
We all learn more after we join. I didnt mean anything more than that.

MysticCat 05-11-2009 04:29 PM
Quote:
Originally Posted by humblerumble (Post 1808163)
As far as what's being done publicly, I've not named my org . . . .
Not in so many words, but seriously, it's not hard at all to figure out what organization you're talking about. :rolleyes:

Kansas City 05-11-2009 04:49 PM
Quote:
Originally Posted by humblerumble (Post 1808165)
Kansas City:
I didnt mean it that way.
Now you're being defensive :)

I meant just what Senusret I said, exactly as I said as well.
We all learn more after we join. I didnt mean anything more than that.
Sorry to have taken it that way but I never claimed to not be defensive about my choice of an organization. :p Good luck.

AOEforme 05-11-2009 05:30 PM
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Originally Posted by humblerumble (Post 1808163)
However, at the rate things are going with this org...they may not be around much longer, and I may be granted the option of going elsewhere, or I may not.

I seriously doubt that. I'm lane-swerving here, but with what I can see, I highly, highly doubt this statement. Sure, your particular chapter may not be around, but the organization will still exist. And I'm pretty sure a chapter losing it's charter doesn't grant you the opportunity to join another NPHC sorority.


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Originally Posted by MexicanMami0286 (Post 1808100)
Perhaps, you should consider joining another chapter. If you're in a metro area, you may have several to choose from or you could consider simply participating as a member-at-large and continue the work of your organization that way (or continue participating in the service you've been doing with other organizations).
Once again, not in the NPHC, so I'm not sure: but if things are unbearable for you locally, can't you do this?

KSUViolet06 05-11-2009 06:12 PM
Geez, you sleep in and you miss all the fun around here, lol.

MexicanMami0286 05-11-2009 06:56 PM
Quote:
Originally Posted by AOEforme (Post 1808174)

Once again, not in the NPHC, so I'm not sure: but if things are unbearable for you locally, can't you do this?
Oh yeah! It's definitely an option. There's nothing wrong with joining another chapter (of the same organization, of course) - if one is available (and if you are a resident of that area). In my area, there are about four chapters that I could join, or I could choose to be a member-at-large.

Every chapter has a different dynamic...I think that's something important to keep in mind. There are always good and bad things in any organization and in any chapter, but there are things one can do to improve certain things, ignore certain things, or disband themselves from certain things.

MexicanMami0286 05-11-2009 06:57 PM
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Originally Posted by KSUViolet06 (Post 1808177)
Geez, you sleep in and you miss all the fun around here, lol.
Awww! Dang! :p

AKA_Monet 05-11-2009 07:42 PM
Quote:
Originally Posted by humblerumble (Post 1808163)
I appreciate your response. To answer your questions, I know my Constitution and Bylaws front to back. I know my history front to back, I know my past and current officers front to back. This is part of the reason why I AM so down. Because I've given so much to this org, and I feel like it's just not for me.

As far as what's being done publicly, I've not named my org, anyone's names, etc., as my intention is not to be inflammatory and rude. It was to come here and vent HONESTLY about what I feel.

That's all. I'm not here to debate whether or not I have the RIGHT to these feelings, or the right to voice them, because I do. I'm not here to debate 4years of membership vs 10. There are some people that do more work in 2 years than someone who's been around for 40! It's not about any of that. It's not about putting my expectations on others. I feel as a member of an org, I am a representative of the whole, and vice versa. I'm not happy with the reflection, that's all. And I'm not making excuses, I'm being honest. I've never blamed this choice on anyone. It was my fault for not educating myself, and I admit that.

I can turn in my letters, I can formally ask to resign, and be granted that request, but I can't then go to another org because the rules don't allow it. However, at the rate things are going with this org...they may not be around much longer, and I may be granted the option of going elsewhere, or I may not. Who knows...I'm just down in the dumps about this...that's all.


It's about the bottom line...that I came here merely to vent, and I thank you all for your responses.
Venting does not work. It fails to lead to resolution of issues. Days, months, years from now, you will still be ruminating about how "A" member treated you...

See, here's the thing, if you were denied membership, you'd be writing angry letters to the International office as to why you were blackballed!

So sad. Really, because it says something about how you view sisterhood in your Sorority through the lenses of your current chapter. What did you expect people would say here? You thought you had GC friends? You thought you could share this with random people where you could not feel you could share to your sorority sisters or to their faces? WTH? You don't trust your own sorority to do right by you?

That's really lame...

Please, turn in your letters... Save your Sorority the grief...

humblerumble 05-11-2009 08:36 PM
Thank you for your OPINION AKA Monet.
You may now refrain from talking to me.

Oh wait...you don't HAVE to refrain from anything.
Because much like it's my right to vent, in this forum if I choose, it's your right to respond. I don't think I have "GC" friends. Nor was I seeking agreement, hand holding or head patting. I merley came to vent.
You came to read and respond.

Now that we are clear...you can move on :)

And no one can GUESS what org I am referring too. It must have flown over my head that only NPHC orgs say "Soror". That's news to me. If anyone is GUESSING or ASSUMING what org I am referring to, that very well may prove why these issues are of concern to me. The very fact that people I've never met, on an online forum MAY be able to ASSUME which org I am referring to, is pitiful. It means the rep of the org is obvious, and that's a shame.

AKA_Monet 05-11-2009 08:48 PM
Quote:
Originally Posted by humblerumble (Post 1808217)
Thank you for your OPINION AKA Monet.
You may now refrain from talking to me.

Oh wait...you don't HAVE to refrain from anything.
Because much like it's my right to vent, in this forum if I choose, it's your right to respond. I don't think I have "GC" friends. Nor was I seeking agreement, hand holding or head patting. I merley came to vent.
You came to read and respond.

Now that we are clear...you can move on :)

And no one can GUESS what org I am referring too. It must have flown over my head that only NPHC orgs say "Soror". That's news to me. If anyone is GUESSING or ASSUMING what org I am referring to, that very well may prove why these issues are of concern to me. The very fact that people I've never met, on an online forum MAY be able to ASSUME which org I am referring to, is pitiful. It means the rep of the org is obvious, and that's a shame.
Wow, I must have struck a nerve... It must not be just my opinion solely for you to speak so harshly.

Ask yourself why you have a heightened response, then ask yourself why you cannot answer my questions?

You wanted honest feedback and understanding didn't you? Otherwise, you would have put a huge comment in bold letters not asking anyone to respond in kind.

Doubt anyone would have ignored your posts, though.

The other issue is that everyone knows what happens in chapter meetings, stays in chapter meeting. That is a part of sisterliness, privacy and confidentiality. You made some effort to commit to your demoted sorority. That is what I take issue with.

Why an invitation was extended to you to join, one will NEVER know. Unfortunately, you are somebody's sorority sister, which makes you look more pathetic...

You are out of the pecking order here... Keep responding to my posts, the more I have to dissect your misdirected comments...

Welp, out of respect, of your foot and mouth disorder, I will stop responding to you. When you need help, you know where you can find it. A request for your IP address can be made, but no one cares enough to know your dysfunction.

Gusteau 05-11-2009 08:49 PM
Quote:
Originally Posted by humblerumble (Post 1808217)
Thank you for your OPINION AKA Monet.
You may now refrain from talking to me.
Flounce!

But really humblerumble, if you really cared about the values and mission of your sorority you would have taken the initiative to do something about these perceived problems (instead of complaining) and shown some compassion to your sisters (instead of disdain). Just my opinion...

Senusret I 05-11-2009 08:52 PM
That's really not a flounce....the person she was talking to has said the EXACT same thing to other posters on this board.

Gusteau 05-11-2009 08:56 PM
Hmm perhaps I could have used a better word choice. In any case, my opinion on the OP's commitment to her sorority remains the same


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