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sickofthesefolks 02-28-2001 03:15 AM

I HATE MY LINE SISTERS
 
I HAVE BEEN ONLINE FOR ABOUT THREE WEEKS NOW
(PURSUING A BGLO)AND I HATE MY LINE SISTERS I MEAN WITH A PASSION YOU CAN NOT BELIEVE THEY ARE SO TRIFLING AND LAZY I SWEAR. THEY DO NOT KNOW SHYT AND THEN THEY GET UPSET WITH ME BECAUSE I DO....I REMEMBER BACK WHEN I WANTED TO GET THIS POINT I THOUGHT BEING ONLINE WOULD BE ONE OF THE MOST FUN(IN THE END ANYWAY) THINGS IN THE WORLD TO DO I MEAN I THOUGHT I WOULD MEET NEW PEOPLE MAKE NEW FRIENDS SO ON AND SO FORTH BUT OH MY *%$#!*$
I CAN NOT WAIT TO GET THIS OVER WITH WHEN AND IF WE CROSS THE BURNING SANDS I PROMISE YOU THE ONLY CONTACT I WILL HAVE WITH THEM IS FOR CHAPTER BUSINESS NO FRIENDSHIPS WILL COME OUT OF THIS FROM MY END...........HAS THIS EVER HAPPENED TO ANYONE. I AM READY TO SCREAM AND IF DID NOT WANT TO BE IN THIS SORORITY SO BAD I WOULD QUIT JUST BECAUSE OF THOSE DUMB B******! I'M SORRY THIS MAY SOUND CRAZY TO SOME BUT I AM NO CLICKING WITH THESE WOMEN THIS WHOLE CONCEPT OF WE ARE "ONE" IS NOT FLYING WITH ME!! I HATE THE FACT THAT THEY ARE SO LAZY AND DUMB TILL THEY DO NOT KNOW THEIR SHYT SO WE HAVE TO STAND IN THE LINE AND I HAVE TO PRETEND LIKE I DO NOT KNOW TO I HATE THAT SHYT......I KNOW MY SHYT AND HAVE BEEN TRYING TO HELP THEM STUPID HOES KNOW THEIRS BUT I CAN NOT FORCE THEM TO LEARN IT YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN? THEY WANT SAY I AM TRYING TO SHOW THEM UP HOW THE HELL CAN I BE TRYING TO SHOW THEM SHYT IT WOULDN'T BE HARD MY DAUGHTER KNOW MORE ABOUT THE SORORITY THATN THEY DO I HATE THEM I SWEAR WHEN THIS IS OVER..........................ITS OVER!I DO NOT KNOW WHAT ELSE TO DO AT THIS POINT BUT TRY AND WAIT IT OUT WHEW

NUPE4LIFE 02-28-2001 08:41 AM

When will people learn not to post crap like this on the web. DISCRETION, DISCRETION, DISCRETION, DISCRETION, DISCRETION, DISCRETION, DISCRETION, DISCRETION, DISCRETION, DISCRETION, DISCRETION, DISCRETION!

And one last thing. I wouldn't want anyone for a sister/brother who called me a stupid hoe. Hopefully through greek life you can meet people who will become some of your closes friends. However, that's not always the case. But still their is a basic level of respect here. I wouldn't dare want you in my organization if you can't even respect on the basic brotherhood/sis'hood level. Think about that. And don't put your business out here for the world to see.

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gphi2k 02-28-2001 09:53 AM

Um, far be it from me to be a cynic, but, does anyone else here think the person who posted thhis thread is full of it? I find it VERY hard to believe (call me jaded, call me ignorant) that this person is serious. Calling your line sisters hoes? Common now. You MUST be joking. No girl would put herself through the pledge process with b**tchy girls who didn't know their 'shyt' if they hated it that much. I dunno...I smell a perpetuator of a heated thread here. Considering that's her first post to date. Fishy I tell you.

Leslie

loviest95 02-28-2001 12:51 PM

Well if you are for real--'sickofthesefolks"
I say this your Big Sisters have not taught you the meaning of DISCRETION
There are always weak links in chain and you have to hold them up

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Rain Man 02-28-2001 02:30 PM

Please keep in mind folx, that sickofthesefolks may not be pledging a NPHC organization. It may be an independent or NGA (National Greek Alliance) BGLO. Or it could be a brand new one none of us knows about.

Nonetheless the discretion thing should remain intact regardless of org.

My .25 cents
RM

Asia2000 02-28-2001 03:24 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by loviest95:
There are always weak links in chain and you have to hold them up

I'd say we've found the weak link! This has to be bogus because I am in my educational process as we speak (type?) and there is NO way I could survive any of this without the undying support of and from my beautiful Pledge Sisters!!

If this is true, you should reevaluate your choice of organization as this organization you apparently want so badly feels that these "lazy" "hoes" that "don't know their shyt" deserve the same letters you are working for. Since this organization wants women that you obviously have NO respect for, is this something you truly want to be a part of . . . Just my POV



MaMaBuddha 02-28-2001 06:27 PM

whoa whoa whoa...

sickofthesefolks....i think you need to RETHINK about pledging, you may not be worthy of your organization.

First of all....

as my greek brother and fraternity brother NUPE4LIFE said....DISCRETION is the key.

Second...WTF!!!! you should not be up in here discussing how you dislike your LS's.

Third...you just called your LS'a HOES....WTF!!!!

i just hope it isn't one of the divine 9....

but as soror6 stated....let me find my 13 feet pole!!!

and stay away from you.

hmmmmmmmmmmm...i remember the old school days of discretion...



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sickofthesefolks 02-28-2001 06:38 PM

WHATEVER YALL CAN SAY WHAT YALL WANT TO SAY .......... AND OH YES I AM VERY FOR REAL. I DO NOT HAVE TO LIKE THEM, EVERY PERSON IN AN ORGANIZATION DOES NOT LIKE EACH OTHER AND I JUST HAPPEN TO NOT LIKE THESE GIRLS SO WHATEVER........AND ITS THEM THAT DO NOT KNOW THEIR INFO THREE WEEKS INTO IT THIS NOT ME I KNOW EVERY THING I NEED TO KNOW I AM NOT WORRIED ABOUT CROSSING OVER BUT WHAT I WOULD NOT WANT IS SOME LAZY ASS WOMEN IN MY CHAPTER OR MY ORGANIZATION AND THAT IS JUST WHAT THEY ARE AND SINCE YALL DO NOT KNOW ME OR THE ORGANIZATION I AM PLEDGING THEN I AM USING DISCRETION.......I CAN SAY WHAT I WANT THATS THE PURPOSE OF ME COMING ON HERE TO LET OUT MY ANGER YALL DO NOT KNOW ME OR THEM SO IF YO DON'T LIKE IT THEN DO NOT POST..................YALL NEED TO QUIT LIKE YALL ABSOLUTELY LOVE EVERYONE IN YOUR ORGANIZATION PLEASE YALL ALWAYS FRONTIN ON THIS BOARD YALL NEED TO QUIT I MEAN REALLY ...............ANYWAY THEY LUCKY I DON'T CALL THEM STUPID HOES AND B******* TO THEIR FACES, BELIEVE THAT. I AM NOT DISRESPECTING THE ORGANZATION BECAUSE THEY ARE NOT A PART OF IT YET AND NEITHER AM I.....I CAN'T HELP WHO I AM PUT ONLINE WITH AND I CAN'T HELP THAT I DO NOT LIKE THEM. I DO NOT NEED THEM I KNOW WHAT I NEED TO KNOW AND IT PISSES ME OFF THAT WE ALL NEED TO KNOW IT OR IT DOESN'T MATTER, I CAN NOT MAKE THEM LEARN AND I HATE THAT THEIR NOT LEARNING AFFECTS ME........THEN THEY GET UPSET AND WHINE ABOUT EVERY DAM THING I MEAN GIVE ME A BREAK I CAN NOT WAIT UNTIL THIS IS OVER SO I CAN GET THE HELL AWAY FROM THEM! THATS JUST HOW I FEEL I WILL HAVE THOUSANDS OF OTHER SORORS(AND I KNOW PLENTY OF THEM ALREADY WHO I AM TIGHT WITH)SO SCREW THEM I MEAN IF I SEE THEM AFTER WORDS OF COURSE I WOULD NEVER LET ANYBODY SEE THE TENSION BUT THEY KNOW AND I KNOW THAT WE HAVE ANYTHING BUT BONDED DURING THIS.............WE ALL KNOW EVERY SOROR IS NOT A FRIEND!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

sickofthesefolks 02-28-2001 06:43 PM

oh yeah and trust me my big sisters have no idea about our ill feelings i mean i know better than that. i am going through the process because i want to be apart of this particular organization i do not have to like my linesisters to be deserving or to want to be apart of the org and i be dam if i let them get in my way.........i love my big sisters and others i know in this organization i just do not like them i mean dam one of the girls did not even know how many founders were in the org. and then another one could not name ONE of the founders give me a break how can they wnat to be in a org that they do not know shyt about?............................................ .YES IT IS A DIVINE NINE ORG.........................................
AND WHO THE HELL SAID I HAVE NEVER POSTED HERE BEFORE "DISCRETION" IS THE KEY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/smile.gif

AKA2D '91 02-28-2001 06:45 PM

*shaking my head*

I hope everything works out for this sista and her linesistas...AND the organization... http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/confused.gif

How are you all going to be able to "work" together for the good of the ORGANIZATION?
How are you all going to be able to "bring" others in? DAYUM....WHEW!

OH MY GOODNESS! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/eek.gif

*shaking my head*

DST Love 02-28-2001 07:03 PM

I don't know about everyone up in here, but you couldn't pay me to use the word Soror while I was on line or anytime before I was so fortunate to make it in. Maybe that's not important to others, but it sure stuck out to me.

Secondly, I understand wanting to vent and feeling like no one will know who you are, but you just never know what people may find out. So you are not using discretion. Sure everyone is not going to get along with everyone. That goes for family, a circle of friends, sororities/fraternities, etc. However, you never put your business out there to people on the outside. Just because most of us here are in Greek organizations, we are still outsiders to the organization and/or chapter you're trying to come through.

And what if someone did find out what org and chapter you're talking about? That's putting your chapter as well as the organization on blast. That sure doesn't sound very respectful or discreet.

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Serenity 02-28-2001 07:16 PM

Hmmmmmmm....three weeks in and still using "I"? http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/eek.gif But I digress.....

Quote:

*shaking my head*
I hope everything works out for this sista and her linesistas...AND the organization...
How are you all going to be able to "work" together for the good of the ORGANIZATION?
How are you all going to be able to "bring" others in? DAYUM....WHEW!
OH MY GOODNESS!
*shaking my head*


My sentiments exactly.....

DELTABRAT 02-28-2001 07:26 PM

sickofthesefolks:

You have a problem. I don't care what anyone thinks about me saying that. I DO happen to love all of my Sands!

For you to say whatever and "if" I see them then I will not let others see the tension?!?! Basically uyou are saying that you would not want to see your line sisters again, but if you do then...

That's crazy to me.

As AKA2D '91 said...what will you do when time to bring others in?

Then, don't say you don't care what we think. You are the one who brought your drama to us AND asked for advice. It's hard to get to the advice without seeing how blatantly WRONG you are for calling your ls's hoes and b******.

It may be too late but you should really re-think your reasons. You seem really immature about the whole process.

JMO.

sickofthesefolks 02-28-2001 08:07 PM

well i guess i should say thanks for all the wonderful advice right....please i haven't gotten any all everyone has come in here and said is that i'm worng and undeserving very few people have given any real advice..............but how am i being immature like i said before i do not have to like them i am mature enough to handle chapter business but that is where it begins and ends most of them are leaving afterwards anyway........to answer some one who mentioned this, no i do not care if i see them after this is over but i know i will see some of them....yall just do not know what they arelike really you do not..........as far as saying soror, everyone is not as sensitive about such trivial things as that and i was not saying that right now i have sorors because i do not but i will and i am sorry if you think that i should not say that but i know what i know i am quite sure we will all get past it unless someone drops.....once people get to this point very few are turned away, and if one of us was turned away i am sure it would be one of them and long as they get their money back they can always try again..............and as far as whoever mentioned the love for their sands, hey thats nice ot know most people do come out and love their sands but i am not one of them i love my big sisters i wish they were my sands but they got it before i did so i sticking it out with these fools till the end and this is just me saying this i am not speaking for the big sisters because i do not know how they personally feel about all of them. I wish my exsperience could have been different but i can not change it understand that we do not have straight up heated arguments or cursing matches or anything of that nature but we have made it clear to each other that we do not like one another sooooooooooo we dealing with it.................no

12dn94dst 02-28-2001 08:35 PM

I am CRACKING UP!!!

Boy I'll tell you. Don't think for one second that IF your line sisters don't know their stuff (like you say) that the ENTIRE LINE cannot be dropped, because it can. By the way, what happened to the concept of "if one knows, everyone knows"?? Don't be fooled into thinking that your Big Sisters, or anyone else for that matter, cannot see the tension, because they can. They may be acting like they don't to see how you all are going to handle it. It's called a SISTERHOOD CHALLENGE. HOWEVER, since you're apparently not up for the challenge, my advise to you (since you don't know what else to do) is D-R-O-P. Judging by the attitude you've presented here, the organization, your line sisters & that chapter may be better off without you.

MIDWESTDIVA 02-28-2001 10:44 PM

I hope that I'm not asking something that is out of line. But how can sickofthesefolks be so confident that she will become a member? Don't the members of the sorority still have to vote on her?

Sickofthesefolks,

What did you mean by "who the hell said I have never posted here before...discretion is the key"? I hope that you haven't posted here before under some other screen name. Because if you have, it wouldn't be too hard to figure out which interest posts in all caps, doesn't use punctuation except for ellipsis, and makes a lot of typos and grammatical errors. You know there are several detectives up in here.

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ZetaAce 02-28-2001 11:41 PM

Midwest, I thought the same thing when I read that, lol....any guesses?

ZetaAce

Quote:

Originally posted by MIDWESTDIVA:
I hope that I'm not asking something that is out of line. But how can sickofthesefolks be so confident that she will become a member? Don't the members of the sorority still have to vote on her?

Sickofthesefolks,

What did you mean by "who the hell said I have never posted here before...discretion is the key"? I hope that you haven't posted here before under some other screen name. Because if you have, it wouldn't be too hard to figure out which interest posts in all caps, doesn't use punctuation except for ellipsis, and makes a lot of typos and grammatical errors. You know there are several detectives up in here.



12dn94dst 03-01-2001 12:41 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by MIDWESTDIVA:
Sickofthesefolks,

What did you mean by "who the hell said I have never posted here before...discretion is the key"? I hope that you haven't posted here before under some other screen name. Because if you have, it wouldn't be too hard to figure out which interest posts in all caps, doesn't use punctuation except for ellipsis, and makes a lot of typos and grammatical errors. You know there are several detectives up in here.


I was discussing this thread with my bestest Soror-Friend, CrimsonTide4, who ALSO brought up the same points you did, Midwest. You know, the posts DO remind me of someone who posted QUITE FREQUENTLY & who was VERY opinionated about greek life & her aspirations. And although she never specifically mentioned which organization she wanted to pledge, members of that organization who frequent GC & moderate that organization's board knew of her aspirations. Her attitude bordered on over-confidence (I can't say the word I want to use cuz the profanity filter will get me http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/wink.gif) and I distinctly remember warning her about that in our many conversations. And now that I'm putting 2 and 2 together based on my conversations with her & these posts, I am 99.8% POSITIVE I know who this person is. It's a small world and it ain't pretty, girl.

It just goes to show how some folks don't take heed to the advice given them.

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mccoyred 03-01-2001 01:06 AM

Unfortunately, this boils down to the selection process.

If this young lady is so indiscreet, it makes you wonder how she got this far http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/confused.gif

If her ls are so trifling and lazy, how did they get this far http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/confused.gif

Sad http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/frown.gif

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SoSweet8 03-01-2001 01:10 AM

Let me tell you this sickofthesfolks, if your line doesn't start exhibiting sisterhood and cohesiveness then you all are in for a long process. So if you ever wanna cross you all need to get it together.

SoSweet8 03-01-2001 01:13 AM

I agree with McCoyred, How on earth did you make it 3 weeks into your process and still not know the information about the sorority you are trying to join. I tell you this I hope you're not trying ton join my organization because allowing pledges like you in is not saying much for the selection process or the organization.

soror6 03-01-2001 01:47 AM

Glad you weren't on my line.....I don't know what you are "pledging", and I don't want to know, but if you have that much disrespect for your future organization that you would already reject the common principles of respect and discretion, then there is a definite problem! I could go on about the foul nature of this post,but............. <<soror6 searching for her 10-foot pole>>... mmmm still not long enough for me to touch this one any further! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/tongue.gif
Close your mouth and open your heart and mind, da&%it! That is all! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/rolleyes.gif


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Asia2000 03-01-2001 04:41 AM

I just think it's sad. I feel like my Pledge Sisters are the most important part of my process right now. (Keep in mind, I am not attempting to join a BGLO, so my level of discretion is slightly different) I just couldn't imagine sharing all these special moments with women I hate. I don't LOVE everyone on my line. There is tension. But we work through it and we would NEVER EVER expose any negativity to ANYONE outside of our group. Ya know, it's like family. If I am fighting with my brother, I am not going to do it infront of company - make sense? That's just my take. I know I'll have a bond with my line sisters for the rest of my life that will be distinct from the amazing bond I'll eventually share (I hope & pray) with the actives that are educating us right now. It won't be any more or less, just different in its own right. If we are blessed enough to cross, I look forward to sharing many "birthdays" with these women. I am so sorry you are missing out on this experience. I'd wait for another line. Good luck.

crimsonsoror1913 03-01-2001 05:16 AM

Putting in my 13 cents. I was taught loose lips sink ships, if you know what I mean. The pressure and the strain of being on line is one thing, but disrespect for one's organization, members and potential members is quite another in my book. How the hell this young initiate finds the time to post on boards, I'll never know... Ms. Hating needs to study that part about love for oneself and organization, before she goes any further.

Crimsonsoror1913

"Only the Strong pledge DST"

ZChi4Life 03-01-2001 05:27 AM

Hmmm, I just keep reading and re-reading sickofthesefolks' posts and I just don't get it. How is it possible to HATE ALL of your LS's? I really feel like this isn't for real. I mean, dang, you've got to like AT LEAST one!!
But if this is for real...
I want to know have you at least made some kind of effort to get to know these women? I feel like if you are putting SO much effort and strength into learning your stuff, etc, then you should be putting that same effort into getting to know your LS's. I personally think this is just a classic case of "I don't like them inside the process, but rather outside of it". Have you ever spoken to them on just a getting to know you level? Do you still dislike them? Well, to me, it sounds like you haven't taken the time to get to know them outside of having to work w/ them through this process. I've had some experience w/ this situation where an associate (pledge) absolutely hates person A cuz person A isn't doing their share of whatever. However, outside of that...when they are bonding....they find that person A is cool as hell. I don't know, that's just what it seems like to me. It's kinda weird, but whatever...

I think I can speak on behalf of all Greeks (hopefully I can do that cuz you know we all family up in here http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/smile.gif) when I say that the membership process is not meant for you to solely learn about the sorority/fraternity. It's also meant for you to learn about yourself and the people that are going through the process with you. If you are not doing that and strictly concentrating on the info, then you are gonna have problems...and you can see that already!
Basically, you are only gonna get out what you put in. I'm not sure what you've been doing about trying to get to know these women, but if your answer is "nothing", then you've got a LOT more learning to do. And like everyone said, you might think you'll cross regardless, but you're gonna be looking pretty silly if they decide to drop ya'll. And trust us, they KNOW what's going on. I was the Asst. Dean of our last pledge class and whenever they had issues, I knew...and most of the time, I knew before they even said a word to us about it (that's WHEN they decided to even say a word about it http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/tongue.gif)

But that's JMO. I hope you situation gets better.

PrettyPetite 03-01-2001 09:41 AM

(I'm just putting in my two cents...from a non-greek p.o.v)

All this time that you have on your hands to bash your line sisters, can be used wisely. Instead of saying how they are lazy, trifling, don't know info, etc., why not bring them up to par. Make sure they know the information that you know.

Also, you see the way you are talking about them...what makes you think that they like YOU? http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/rolleyes.gif

Later,
PP

AXO Alum 03-01-2001 10:23 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by 12dn94dst:
And now that I'm putting 2 and 2 together based on my conversations with her & these posts, I am 99.8% POSITIVE I know who this person is. It's a small world and it ain't pretty, girl.
12dn94dst, MidwestDiva, & ZetaAce - I was not going to say it because I always look like the cynic on here -- but GREAT to know that my suspicions weren't totally out in the left field! :cracking up as we speak:

sickofthesefolks -
You summed it up 100% right here with your own words: "as far as saying soror, everyone is not as sensitive about such trivial things as that"

Trivial??? Okay then!


DST Love 03-01-2001 11:41 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by crimsonsoror1913:
How the hell this young initiate finds the time to post on boards, I'll never know... Ms. Hating needs to study that part about love for oneself and organization, before she goes any further.

Crimsonsoror1913

"Only the Strong pledge DST"

Soror I was thinking the same thing. I wish I had had time to be chilling on the Internet when I was coming through. Only time I had for that was when I was sending an e-mail to my number who lives out of town.
Sounds to me like she isn't "pressed" enough. As my Big Sisters would say http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/wink.gif!!

Rain Man 03-01-2001 03:16 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by 12dn94dst:
You know, the posts DO remind me of someone who posted QUITE FREQUENTLY & who was VERY opinionated about greek life & her aspirations. And although she never specifically mentioned which organization she wanted to pledge, members of that organization who frequent GC & moderate that organization's board knew of her aspirations. Her attitude bordered on over-confidence (I can't say the word I want to use cuz the profanity filter will get me http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/wink.gif) and I distinctly remember warning her about that in our many conversations. And now that I'm putting 2 and 2 together based on my conversations with her & these posts, I am 99.8% POSITIVE I know who this person is. It's a small world and it ain't pretty, girl.


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Rain Man in a pseudo-British accent:

Do I detect a major clue, Sherlock? Or a name dropping, perhaps? http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/wink.gif

MaMaBuddha 03-01-2001 03:19 PM

sickofthesefolks,

no one is trying to discourage you from your process, but understand how you walked in this forum. saying things like: hoes, b*itches. whatever happened to humility?

what would you say about YOUR chapter members if you had a disagreement?

the information that you so call know...having you tried to share it with your LS's? have you talked with your dean?

there is no "I" when you have LS's to work with...it is always "WE". that is the first lesson to be learned.

and as for even saying soror while in your process is unheard of because you are not a soror of anything.

one thing i can say about my LS's, we may have not got along some of the time....but i would not trade them and any situations for anything in the world. i would do it again the EXACT same way.



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DELTABRAT 03-01-2001 04:26 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by 12dn94dst:
It's a small world and it ain't pretty, girl.


Uh huh! That's what I thought too. I like the way you slid that in Soror.

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Mahogany1913 03-01-2001 04:30 PM

http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/mad.gif IF "YOU" KNOW IT THEN YOUR LINE SISTERS KNOW IT!!!!!!!!! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/mad.gif

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MIDWESTDIVA 03-01-2001 04:49 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by 12dn94dst:
It's a small world and it ain't pretty, girl.
I agree! That was just too cute! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/smile.gif

These people post here under a different name and swear up and down they're being clever. http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/rolleyes.gif


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sickofthesefolks 03-01-2001 05:40 PM

LAUGHING OUT LOUD TO MYSELF FOR ONE THING I ACTUALLY YALL TRIPPING LIKE SOME OF YALL DO NOT HOW THIS PLEDGING THINGS "REALLY" WORK I MEAN I KNOW I DO NOT HAVE TO COME ON HERE AND BREAK IT DOWN FOR THE PEOPLE ON THIS FORUM.......I AM NOT BEING OVER CONFIDENT THE FACT IS WHEN PEOPLE GET PAST A CERTAIN POINT ONLINE WHETHER THEY DROP OR THEY ARE "DROPPED" AFTER THIS CERTAIN POINT THEN TECHNICALLY THEY ARE ALREADY MEMBERS HENCE, "PAPER" FOLKS. THEY MIP PROCESS OR SHALL I SAY THE LEGAL MIP PROCESS DOES NOT TAKE LONG AT ALL THE PLEDING PART IS UNDERGROUND "ILLEGAL" WHICH IF PEOPLE ARE EVEN CAUGHT PARICIPATING HARSH ACTIONS ARE BROUGHT AGAINST ALL PARTIES INVOLVED. NOW YALL CAN FRONT IF YOU MAY BUT I KNOW FOR A FACT THAT PEOPLE ARE ACTUALLY INDUCTED BEFORE THE ACTUAL "PLEDGE" PART IS DONE AND IF YOU DROP OR DO NOT FINISH THE PROCESS PEOPLE CONSIDER YOU PAPER SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO TRUST ME AT THIS POINT I AM NOT EVEN WORRIED ABOUT THE ACTUAL "MEMBERSHIP" PART RIGHT NOW WE ARE JUST WORKING ON THE "RESPECT" PART!

I AM GLAD THAT MAMABUDDHA AND A FEW OTHERS RESPONDED TO ME DECENTLY. YOUR RIGHT THOUGH MAYBE I SHOULD NOT HAVE COME IN HERE AND CALLED THEM OUT OF THEIR NAMES BUT WE HAD ACTUALLY JUST HAD AN ISSUE AND I WAS REAL UPSET ABOUT AT THAT VERY MOMENT


I JUST LOVE HOW YALL THINK THAT YALL KNOW WHO I MAYBE http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/smile.gif ITS CRACKING ME UP, BUT I WILL MOST DEFINTELY LET YALL CONTINUE TO THINK THAT BECAUSE ITS NO SKIN OF MY BACK IF THATS WHAT YALL THINK LOL http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/smile.gif

ManndingoNUPE 03-01-2001 05:47 PM

Pretty Girl, sickofthesefolks or whatever name you are using right now,

Since no one else will say it. Why not just post under your regular name. Damn, everyone here knows who you are. Don't front. You haven't changed. Still wayyyyyy too much mouth.

Might I suggest that the time you spend here typing, you could be educating your LSs, since you know so much and they don't. But the funny thing about knowledge is that no matter how much you think you know, there is always going to be someone who knows more than you. Your job is to make sure that your LSs are up to speed. When they go out here and claim XYZ chapter that reflects on you. So you would want to make sure that they know thier s&*t.

MN

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loviest95 03-01-2001 06:10 PM

If the reference to "pretty girl" means that she is in the "process" of becoming a member of my beloved organization
Well .. I am almost speechless....

But "sick of these folks" I must say that I was toooo busy during my process to even think straight

I will say.. that if your attitude relects how you will deal with disappointments that may occur if you become a member of MY sisterhood-- you have a long way to go

We have all had bad situations come up within our organizations-- but the way you handle it dear-- is to
speak with parties that have upset you
not use a public forum
whether anyone really knows your identity or not is not really the point

You can not run from yourself...

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IVY in my HAND-- AKA in my HEART

sickofthesefolks 03-01-2001 06:20 PM

I AM JUST SITTING HERE LAUGHING AT POST AFTER POST YALL TRIPPIN, SHALL I PUT PRETTYGIRL IN MY NAME SINCE THATS WHO YALL WANT ME TO BE IF THAT WILL MAKE YALL HAPPY THEN I DEFINITELY WILL BUT I DO NOT KNOW HOW HAPPY THAT WOULD MAKE HER BUT HEY WHY NOT, YALL GETTING AWAY FROM THE POINT REALLY BUT YOU KNOW I (PRETTYGYRL) LOL, THINKS THAT IF SOME OF ALL ARE SO SURE THAT YOU KNOW ME THENI GUESS YALL SHOULD BE WORRIED ABOUT INHERITING ME(PRETTYGYRL) AS A SOROR! WHICH IS GOOD SO WHEN I CROSS THEN NO ONE WILL EVER SUSPECT ME SO I GUESS I AM COOL! I HOPE THAT PRETTGYRL IS NOT EVEN TRYING TO BECOME A MEMBER THEN SHE HAS NOTHING TO WORRY ABOUT, BUT WAIT A MINUTE IN ALL ACTUALITY I DO NOT GIVE A DAM!!! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/smile.gif http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/smile.gif http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/smile.gif http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/smile.gif I'LL LET YALL WORK THAT OUT WITH HER

loviest95 03-01-2001 06:26 PM

sickofthesefolks,

I hope that your grammatical errors are part of the "joke" too

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IVY in my HAND-- AKA in my HEART

c&c1913 03-01-2001 06:29 PM

*shaking my head*

It doesn't matter who you are. If you have all of this time and energy to post and argue, then why not focus it on getting along with your line sisters? The current members of the chapter must have saw something in all of you to even extend membership to you.

While you're calling folks out of their name, what vibe are you sending out? If you have all this negative energy towards complete strangers on a PUBLIC board, I can only imagine what you do when you're around your line sisters. Believe me, your big sisters know EVERYTHING that's going on. Ever heard of the phrase "been there, done that."

It appears that even though you've been in the "process" for three weeks, you still have a lot to learn.

loviest95 03-01-2001 06:49 PM

I just heard from my sweet soror that that you want to become a member of Delta Sigma Theta-- now girl maybe I should school you but those lovely ladies do not play they are serious
about everything --service, sisterhood and --especially about RESPECT

I have never ever heard a member of Delta Sigma Theta --speak of their LS's like that

My Delta friends would have your head!!!



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