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Peaches-n-Cream 06-28-2002 12:29 AM

This thread is out of control. I don't understand the need to debate this issue. Racism exists. Affirmative action is flawed, but so far it is the best solution to compensate for past systematic exclusion and current inequality or disparity in education.

I think that an education is the best way to improve the quality of life for anyone regardless of race or gender. When I look at many of the public schools in NY and other cities, some are overcrowded and can't give students the individual contact that they need. Quite frankly some schools are downright dangerous. Many children in these schools don't even view college as an option. Until the powers that be can end the disparity in education at the primary and secondary levels, programs like affirmative action are necessary to level the playing field in college admissions unless or until they come up with a better policy.

KSig RC 06-28-2002 12:54 AM

Re: clarification on MY beliefs
 
A bit of an aside - not so much germane:

Where the in the world do schools pay for AP tests, or SAT prep? I went to a wildly successful magnet school, well-ranked nationwide as a top public school, and the best we got was 1/2 the test paid for and even that was dependent upon an A in the class. The rest of the public school system (one of the better-funded nationally) got a whopping zero. No paid-for SAT prep . . . maybe that's something that exists in other parts of the country? That would blow me away, that's a really poor appropriation of funds, considering the other options available.

Exquisite5 06-28-2002 01:02 AM

Re: Re: clarification on MY beliefs
 
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Originally posted by KSig RC
A bit of an aside - not so much germane:

Where the in the world do schools pay for AP tests, or SAT prep? I went to a wildly successful magnet school, well-ranked nationwide as a top public school, and the best we got was 1/2 the test paid for and even that was dependent upon an A in the class. The rest of the public school system (one of the better-funded nationally) got a whopping zero. No paid-for SAT prep . . . maybe that's something that exists in other parts of the country? That would blow me away, that's a really poor appropriation of funds, considering the other options available.

You would be surprised.

I was fortunate enough to attend a magnet school, Houston's M.E. DeBakey High School for Health Professions [also nationally ranked, a TEA Exemplary school, a National Blue Ribbon School and a New American High School]. I received FREE (well maybe like 20 bucks to cover supplies) Princeton Review. Since my school was a magnet school and had a different funding allocation than most HISD schools it was "rich" enough to have a $50,000 Owl-Link lab installed and to be on Owl-Link (a video internet connection with Rice University) so the Princeton Review class was taught there and simultaneously webcast at my school. We could interact with teacher and students at Rice and everything. Also, in my high school curriculum we were required to take a "SAT prep" class in tenth grade. It wasn't any brand name, but did help lead to my school having one of, if not the, highest SAT averages in the district.

As far as AP exams go, many suburban schools in Texas pay for them for the students. I don't know how, or what budget it comes from but I know that at least in suburbs of Houston and Dallas it occurs. If you want me to do research and actually find school names, I can and will. Something in my head is leaning me towards some schools in Plano ISD (a fairly well off Dallas suburb).

librasoul22 06-28-2002 01:29 AM

First off, Exquisite5, Lovelyivy, ^5. Ooops, better not have a public display of solidarity! ;)

Cream great post!

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Keep on posting, matter of fact, post more! What you say is pure comedy. And, how much is lil itty bit prejudIST?
LOL!!! :D

Dionysus 06-28-2002 01:40 AM

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Originally posted by librasoul22
^5
Alright, fess up! What does that mean? It's like the fifth time I seen that tonight.

Peaches-n-Cream 06-28-2002 01:44 AM

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Originally posted by librasoul22
First off, Exquisite5, Lovelyivy, ^5. Ooops, better not have a public display of solidarity! ;)

Cream great post!



LOL!!! :D

Thanks! Can I be endorsed by librasoul22 also? ;) :)

Honeykiss1974 06-28-2002 08:56 AM

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Originally posted by Dionysus


Alright, fess up! What does that mean? It's like the fifth time I seen that tonight.

^5 = high five!! :)

Serenity 06-28-2002 09:08 AM

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Originally posted by Dionysus
Alright, fess up! What does that mean? It's like the fifth time I seen that tonight.
High five?

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Originally posted by lovelyivy84
People who think that me n' Honeykiss n' librasoul22 are some sort of pc gang really don't know anything about any of us! Our beliefs differ a great deal- but we really don't express them in front of you on racial topics on a regular basis. We discuss our opinions on the black community all the time, and believe me they are very very different for each of us. The effective segregation on GC btwn BGLO members/interests and other folks means that you just don't see us enough to know that.
I think this is a great thread - very informative from all sides/POV's. I, for one, am loving the dialoque between everyone.

OK, maybe not everyone... :eek: :rolleyes:

librasoul22 06-28-2002 10:24 AM

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Originally posted by Cream


Thanks! Can I be endorsed by librasoul22 also? ;) :)

LOL! Careful! If you are endorsed by me, that makes you one of "US"! And if you are one of US your views must be indentical to OURS at all times! Unwavering solidarity is a must! ;)

Serenity, I am with you. Although this thread has sometimes gotten off the beaten path, a lot of it has been extremely valid. Even SOME of those I do not agree with have expressed thought-provoking arguments. They're just wrong, that's all. LOL, j/k!

For those of you who have thrown up your hands in frustration and started to see all the opinions that differ from yours as one lump of wrongness, you are doing yourself a disservice.

That being said,
^5's for Cream, KSig RC, Honeykiss1974, Lovelyivy84, Exquisite5, and even you Rudey! ;)

You know, if nothing else, we have ALL expanded our vocabulary to include prejudISM and prejudIST. See, this thread was not a waste after all!

KSig RC 06-28-2002 11:37 AM

Re: Re: Re: clarification on MY beliefs
 
Quote:

Originally posted by Exquisite5


You would be surprised.

I was fortunate enough to attend a magnet school, Houston's M.E. DeBakey High School for Health Professions [also nationally ranked, a TEA Exemplary school, a National Blue Ribbon School and a New American High School]. I received FREE (well maybe like 20 bucks to cover supplies) Princeton Review. Since my school was a magnet school and had a different funding allocation than most HISD schools it was "rich" enough to have a $50,000 Owl-Link lab installed and to be on Owl-Link (a video internet connection with Rice University) so the Princeton Review class was taught there and simultaneously webcast at my school. We could interact with teacher and students at Rice and everything. Also, in my high school curriculum we were required to take a "SAT prep" class in tenth grade. It wasn't any brand name, but did help lead to my school having one of, if not the, highest SAT averages in the district.

As far as AP exams go, many suburban schools in Texas pay for them for the students. I don't know how, or what budget it comes from but I know that at least in suburbs of Houston and Dallas it occurs. If you want me to do research and actually find school names, I can and will. Something in my head is leaning me towards some schools in Plano ISD (a fairly well off Dallas suburb).

Solid - I went to DM Central Academy, same concept, top-10 AP school . . .

Anyway - the "magnet school" funding I can live with - that's a top-up educational structure, rather than the quest for homogeny that many school districts tend to strive for. As far as paying for exams as a suburban thing I'd believe it, simply due to the higher amount of funding that they have. It's interesting to think that this might happen for one true 'public' school in a district, but not another, though - that would seem to me to be blatantly illegal, and somebody should just smash them on that. I can see the split between a school you test into, compared to the other schools in the district - but there shouldn't be any distinction between schools based purely on location . . . how sad.

Bamboozled 06-28-2002 11:50 AM

Re: Re: Negative Action
 
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Originally posted by PM_Mama00
I think hired minorities are the hardest workers! My father's workers are either Italians or minorities. Why so many minorities? Cuz they come to him for work, and are the best and hardest working. My father is not prejudist, but there may possibly be that lil itty bit of it in him, but he loves those guys because they are the ones makin the company money.
:eek: And on that note, I am so over this conversation. I know the "others" will hold it down.

Dionysus 06-28-2002 12:01 PM

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Originally posted by librasoul22
You know, if nothing else, we have ALL expanded our vocabulary to include prejudISM and prejudIST. See, this thread was not a waste after all!
You know, after reading some recent (and past) posts on GC, I am very tempted to start a "Greek Chatters say the darnest things" thread. :D

Cloud9 06-28-2002 12:05 PM

Go AA
 
RU Greek, you seem pretty intelligent based on your writing. But I wonder, and this is to all those who have misgivings with Affirmative Action, I wonder how much of that opinion is objective, and how much is just because you happened to be born as white people. For example, Palestinians will go all day talking about the injustices of the Israelis, and vice versa, while really those individuals would probably have the opposite opinion if by chance they were born into the "other side." Now while this discussion is very interesting and thought provoking, I would be much more eager to hear from people who have been born in one situation but have the opinion of the other. Are there any minority classified people who dislike AA? I have seen a few white posters who are for it, and I can be included in that group. Honestly, it's ridiculous for white people to sit back and say, "ohh, she/he is stealing a more worthy person's spot just because they're a minority." Really, think how insulting that is. It makes the assumption that finding a worthy candidate for higher education among qualified recipients of AA is not equal to those of the majority. I don't know about you people, but all of the black people on my NYU campus are exremely intelligent, and many of them are much smarter than the white kids who floated in on daddy's money. I would say it's difficult if not impossible for these fears of underqualified minorities taking the spots of more qualified whites actually occuring. And believe me, if it were to happen, nine times out of ten an extra spot would be created for that ONE random instance. Maybe there is a better solution, but until minorities are given better opportunities in PRIMARY education, the ground must be leveled somehow in Secondary education. Also, this whole thing about immigrants having it tough doesn't really compute. I've known many many european immigrant families, and their kids have gone to places like Johns Hopkins, Harvard, MIT, and other such institutions WITH scholarships. Also you must realize, even IF one generation of immigrants has a rough time, the next one is usually more established. But generation after generation black people still have it tough in this country. Why? Because we are still not doing enough, and whites still have the advantages.

lovelyivy84 06-28-2002 01:17 PM

Re: Re: Re: Negative Action
 
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Originally posted by Bamboozled


:eek: And on that note, I am so over this conversation. I know the "others" will hold it down.

Well since we all have the same opinion anyway and all:rolleyes: ....

LMAO

PM_Mama00 06-28-2002 02:57 PM

Re: Re: Re: Negative Action
 
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Originally posted by librasoul22


PM_Mama...

I...Really...Think...You...Should...Not...Post...A gain.

If u read that post clearly, u would see that I was commenting on the whole hired minorities being lazy. Open ur eyes a lil. And NO I'm not against blacks or any kind of race, however I'm tired of people complaining about the past. There are so many ways that this country has tried to make things equal. Just because there are those companies or people or whatever that still discriminate doesn't mean that there aren't others out there who actually care and don't care what color ur skin is. I'm a big girl. I've been discriminated from getting jobs, but I don't complain about it. I pick myself up and find someone who will hire me for who I am. When my mother came to this country, she was discriminated against cuz she was an immigrant. Does she complain about it? No. Her and her family did what they could to get to the top. It'd be the same if any of my famly complained about what their life was like back then. I'd be sick of it. That is me. Take it however u want, but ur these are my opinions, and u have ur own. As for me posting again, I'll keep on.

librasoul22 06-28-2002 03:13 PM

Re: Re: Re: Re: Negative Action
 
Quote:

Originally posted by PM_Mama00


If u read that post clearly, u would see that I was commenting on the whole hired minorities being lazy. Open ur eyes a lil. And NO I'm not against blacks or any kind of race, however I'm tired of people complaining about the past. There are so many ways that this country has tried to make things equal. Just because there are those companies or people or whatever that still discriminate doesn't mean that there aren't others out there who actually care and don't care what color ur skin is. I'm a big girl. I've been discriminated from getting jobs, but I don't complain about it. I pick myself up and find someone who will hire me for who I am. When my mother came to this country, she was discriminated against cuz she was an immigrant. Does she complain about it? No. Her and her family did what they could to get to the top. It'd be the same if any of my famly complained about what their life was like back then. I'd be sick of it. That is me. Take it however u want, but ur these are my opinions, and u have ur own. As for me posting again, I'll keep on.

My eyes are wide open, believe me...each time you post, you have me looking at my screen, wide-eyed in disbelief. :eek:

I am not really surprised that people still feel this way. I guess I am disappointed that people STILL do not see anything wrong with it, and are in fact, confident enough to say it with pride.

PM Mama...the fact is that your parents immigrated over here...immigrated...BY CHOICE. Not everyone's ancestors had that luxury. Some were plucked from their native villages and forced to come here under the worst conditions imaginable.

Yes that was the past. But the fact is that the ramifications of it STILL haunt Black people today. The consquences are far-reaching and long-lasting.

It is great that you are able to dust yourself off and try again. Great! But please understand that NOT EVERYONE IS LIKE YOU! (breathing a sigh of relief). And it is not THEIR fault either. They are simply not afforded the same opportunities you are.

I think that at your age, it might be hard for you to unlearn everything that you have been taught. That is very unfortunate because people like you are the reason that oppression, racism, PREDUISM, xenophobia and whatever other label you want to put on it, exist today.

Please do post. I wrote that out of haste. The more you post the more your ignorance is exposed.

KSig RC 06-28-2002 03:29 PM

Re: Go AA
 
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Originally posted by Cloud9
RU Greek, you seem pretty intelligent based on your writing. But I wonder, and this is to all those who have misgivings with Affirmative Action, I wonder how much of that opinion is objective, and how much is just because you happened to be born as white people. For example, Palestinians will go all day talking about the injustices of the Israelis, and vice versa, while really those individuals would probably have the opposite opinion if by chance they were born into the "other side."Now while this discussion is very interesting and thought provoking, I would be much more eager to hear from people who have been born in one situation but have the opinion of the other. Are there any minority classified people who dislike AA? I have seen a few white posters who are for it, and I can be included in that group.
Since you asked . . . I am a white male, and I am for the concept of AA - however, much like lovelyivy, I don't think the implementation is nearly as beautiful as the concept. Something is, most likely, better than nothing, though - and it's way better than something negative.

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Originally posted by Cloud9
Honestly, it's ridiculous for white people to sit back and say, "ohh, she/he is stealing a more worthy person's spot just because they're a minority." Really, think how insulting that is. It makes the assumption that finding a worthy candidate for higher education among qualified recipients of AA is not equal to those of the majority.
Very true, esp about the 'insult' portion - but it is equally inappropriate to assume that there exist no instances of the system failing, and having a person of minority status who is less qualified than a comparable white male get a job, or that these don't 'matter', as it is to assume that this is the situation all the time.

It is a logical fallacy to assume that either are the majority of cases - I'd say the majority most likely happen as planned. Either way, I can see how the concept can be extremely insulting to those who are AA-eligible - the point isn't to put incompetent people into jobs. It's to make sure that employers look toward the equally-competent minorities, and try to ensure they don't get passed up just due to race.

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Originally posted by Cloud9
I don't know about you people, but all of the black people on my NYU campus are exremely intelligent, and many of them are much smarter than the white kids who floated in on daddy's money.
Eh . . . I won't make assumptions one way or another - I know that most of the college kids I know, PERIOD, are relatively intelligent, and the black kids (or hispanic, or asian, or whatever) are certainly no exception. Again, there are (most likely) kids of all races that float in on daddy's money - it's unfortunate, and more of these are probably white, but that doesn't make it any better when it happens.

Either way - the vast majority of kids I know at school BELONG there. That would preclude, say, dumbass black kids getting free rides b/c they're black (not that that's been explicitly claimed :rolleyes: ) . . . but that's purely anecdotal, so take that for what you will.

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Originally posted by Cloud9
I would say it's difficult if not impossible for these fears of underqualified minorities taking the spots of more qualified whites actually occuring. And believe me, if it were to happen, nine times out of ten an extra spot would be created for that ONE random instance.
Again, I find it best not to make assumptions either way - if we have no statistical support, I don't know that this type of commentary really leads anywhere. I do think, however, that the thought that AA puts underqualified minorities in the place of more-qualified whites sounds a lot like hysteria, and not a lot like something that can be backed up with more than "well, I know this guy..." . . . but it's hard to prove either way, so people will believe what they want to believe I suppose.

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Originally posted by Cloud9
Maybe there is a better solution, but until minorities are given better opportunities in PRIMARY education, the ground must be leveled somehow in Secondary education.
I'd say that both are equally necessary, and most likely are outcroppings of the same root problem - it's just that secondary-education reform is (slightly) easier to pass as legislation, and so that has happened first. The fact that an education gap still exists in America today makes us look more like a 3rd-world nation than the world superpower we claim to be, at least to my mind. Also, I think that the education gap is by and large a by-product of the distribution of wealth in the US - which also is partly a product of education (wealth via jobs via education) . . . talk about a viscious circle. This sort of "poor get poorer" mentality is very hard to counteract.

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Originally posted by Cloud9
Also, this whole thing about immigrants having it tough doesn't really compute. I've known many many european immigrant families, and their kids have gone to places like Johns Hopkins, Harvard, MIT, and other such institutions WITH scholarships.
Ugh, Cloud9, I loved ya until this comment. This sounds, to me, very similar to "BUT THIS ONE HISPANIC GUY GOT A SCHOLARSHIP JUST BECAUSE HE'S HISPANIC!!!" Observation is key in science, but here doesn't hold much weight - immigrants may very well have it tough in general, but not in the few instances you've seen. Again, I don't know the answer, but the logic-class portion of my brain doesn't really like the way this is put - it applies a statistically-insignificant sample to the whole population, much like many of the 'reverse-racism' issues dealt with earlier in the thread.

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Originally posted by Cloud9
Also you must realize, even IF one generation of immigrants has a rough time, the next one is usually more established. But generation after generation black people still have it tough in this country. Why? Because we are still not doing enough, and whites still have the advantages.
(note - coloring/italicizing is mine)

The conclusion here is probably the lesson that those of us who don't have minority status in this country should take away from here - not as a "thank God I'm white" thing, but as a "well that's how it is now, how can we change it?" type deal.

But in the words of my favorite social commentator - that's just my opinion, I could be wrong.

ilovemyglo 06-28-2002 03:37 PM

Okay let me explain a few things about me personally and I also want to say that CREAM and EXQUISITE5 are about the only two posts I have read on this thing in awhile that make more than perfect sense. I still don't agree with affirmitive action, but I can truly appreciate your point of view.
This is a baring of my soul so I would appreciate if you have any personal blows to make at to do so with a PM- Here goes
I come from a poor part of Louisville, KY. I grew up in a prodominetly black neighborhood. I never cared, nor do I now, I am proud of where I am from and the relationships I have developed from it.
I have two brothers and my parents neither one were afforded the opportunity to go to college. Their families were poor and they both came from broken homes.
My mother and fathered worked two jobs a piece for many years and put my brothers and I through private schooling when I was young. In fifth grade I was taken out of private schools because I tested into an advanced placement program in the public school system. I was then bused to a very bad part of town (over 65% of the rapes and murders were commited within three miles of my school that year) because I was white. No other reason, and that is what was told to me my first day of school by every student there- I didn't belong and the only reason I was there was because I was white.
I went to a middle school closer to home (remember the poor part of town) and with a very diverse group of kids. In 6th grade Louisville's school system changed so that busing was no longer enforced by where you lived. This meant that if a student in a poor neighborhood wanted to go to a school out in the rich part of town they could and the county is responsible for transportation. I honestly did not know that places do not allow this everywhere (such as the NYC example given). I chose to go to a public high school while my parent worked extra jobs (including weekends) to pay for my brothers to go to a private school in town. I applied for a magnet school here. I had a 4.0 and was a model student. I had to write an essay, audition and have an interview. I was accepted and that is where I went to high school. I got to choose what high school I wanted to go to and where it was. I can't imagine what would have happened if I had been forced to go to my "home" school as they used to call them. Most students that I knew chose schools outside of their home school because they wanted a better education.
Because I watched my parents labor for years to give their children a better education and because myself and my two brothers worked so hard in school, we got to go to college. Not because we are white and had it better, we had it just as hard as anyone.
This is why AA bothers me. My parents did it. My brothers and I did it. We came from a poor neighborhood, worked our arses off and now my brothers are engineers and I am about to graduate cume laude. We had to take out student loans to pay for college, and I will pay them back, no problem. So I get frustrated when I know a few (yes a few, not every person) people that have received scholarships, get a 2.0 every semester and don't have to pay for college because they are minorities. They are not model students, they don't come to class half the time, they complain about doing homework and exams, they are disruptive in class and yet they gladly tell people they don't pay for school, they got a full ride. That doesn't seem fair to me. Why do they get a free college education while I get good grades, I study hard, and do well in school and I have to end up in debt? All because I am white? I could get a free ride through the Native American funds. I am enough Native American to qualify for free college, but I chose not to because I don't think that is a good enough reason to get a free ride. My parents always taught me to work for what I get.
Now, all that being said, can some of you understand why I may feel that AA if unjust? I came from those poor neighborhoods you have talked about. I went to those schools and worked very hard on limited supplies. My parents worked two jobs each to make sure their kids got a good education. They sacrificed so much for us, and anyone else could do the same. That is all I am saying- anyone can do it. It just means hard work.

Serenity 06-28-2002 03:40 PM

Re: Negative Action
 
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Originally posted by librasoul22
My eyes are wide open, believe me...each time you post, you have me looking at my screen, wide-eyed in disbelief. :eek:

I am not really surprised that people still feel this way. I guess I am disappointed that people STILL do not see anything wrong with it, and are in fact, confident enough to say it with pride.

Please do post. I wrote that out of haste. The more you post the more your ignorance is exposed.

THANK YOU!!

There's just so much that I wanna say but I am truly at a loss for words... :eek: :rolleyes: :o

Honeykiss1974 06-28-2002 03:55 PM

KC Sig RC made a really good point earlier in regards to the PURPOSE of AA within the working community (I hope you don't get lumped into "our" group :) by me pointing this out ). Anway he said :

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It's to make sure that employers look toward the equally-competent minorities, and try to ensure they don't get passed up just due to race.
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That is all minorities (which includes white women) want is a chance, fair consideration. I honestly believe that if everyone would put their personal experiences aside, and look at the BIG SCHEME of things, this has not been the case. My guess is that maybe if we contact all of the companies listed on the Fortune 500 (and state universities/colleges) to request this statistical data, this will help some of us to "open our eyes".

librasoul22 06-28-2002 04:09 PM

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Originally posted by ilovemyglo
Okay let me explain a few things about me personally and I also want to say that CREAM and EXQUISITE5 are about the only two posts I have read on this thing in awhile that make more than perfect sense. I still don't agree with affirmitive action, but I can truly appreciate your point of view.
This is a baring of my soul so I would appreciate if you have any personal blows to make at to do so with a PM- Here goes
I come from a poor part of Louisville, KY. I grew up in a prodominetly black neighborhood. I never cared, nor do I now, I am proud of where I am from and the relationships I have developed from it.
I have two brothers and my parents neither one were afforded the opportunity to go to college. Their families were poor and they both came from broken homes.
My mother and fathered worked two jobs a piece for many years and put my brothers and I through private schooling when I was young. In fifth grade I was taken out of private schools because I tested into an advanced placement program in the public school system. I was then bused to a very bad part of town (over 65% of the rapes and murders were commited within three miles of my school that year) because I was white. No other reason, and that is what was told to me my first day of school by every student there- I didn't belong and the only reason I was there was because I was white.
I went to a middle school closer to home (remember the poor part of town) and with a very diverse group of kids. In 6th grade Louisville's school system changed so that busing was no longer enforced by where you lived. This meant that if a student in a poor neighborhood wanted to go to a school out in the rich part of town they could and the county is responsible for transportation. I honestly did not know that places do not allow this everywhere (such as the NYC example given). I chose to go to a public high school while my parent worked extra jobs (including weekends) to pay for my brothers to go to a private school in town. I applied for a magnet school here. I had a 4.0 and was a model student. I had to write an essay, audition and have an interview. I was accepted and that is where I went to high school. I got to choose what high school I wanted to go to and where it was. I can't imagine what would have happened if I had been forced to go to my "home" school as they used to call them. Most students that I knew chose schools outside of their home school because they wanted a better education.
Because I watched my parents labor for years to give their children a better education and because myself and my two brothers worked so hard in school, we got to go to college. Not because we are white and had it better, we had it just as hard as anyone.
This is why AA bothers me. My parents did it. My brothers and I did it. We came from a poor neighborhood, worked our arses off and now my brothers are engineers and I am about to graduate cume laude. We had to take out student loans to pay for college, and I will pay them back, no problem. So I get frustrated when I know a few (yes a few, not every person) people that have received scholarships, get a 2.0 every semester and don't have to pay for college because they are minorities. They are not model students, they don't come to class half the time, they complain about doing homework and exams, they are disruptive in class and yet they gladly tell people they don't pay for school, they got a full ride. That doesn't seem fair to me. Why do they get a free college education while I get good grades, I study hard, and do well in school and I have to end up in debt? All because I am white? I could get a free ride through the Native American funds. I am enough Native American to qualify for free college, but I chose not to because I don't think that is a good enough reason to get a free ride. My parents always taught me to work for what I get.
Now, all that being said, can some of you understand why I may feel that AA if unjust? I came from those poor neighborhoods you have talked about. I went to those schools and worked very hard on limited supplies. My parents worked two jobs each to make sure their kids got a good education. They sacrificed so much for us, and anyone else could do the same. That is all I am saying- anyone can do it. It just means hard work.

I appreciate this example. But also you need to understand that it is not a CLASS issue, which is what your story is. It a ETHNICITY/SEX issue. That is what Affirmative Action is.

Dionysus 06-28-2002 04:20 PM

I don't want to sound like I am bitching, but please for those who type a page long with no paragraph breaks, please use them! It's VERY hard to follow along. Thanks. :)

ilovemyglo 06-28-2002 04:43 PM

I was not saying what the example is- i was just explaining why I feel the way I do about AA. It all boils down to I think if you work hard enough you can do whatever you want without your gender or ethnicity being a reason for it.

Exquisite5 06-28-2002 05:02 PM

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Originally posted by ilovemyglo
I could get a free ride through the Native American funds. I am enough Native American to qualify for free college, but I chose not to because I don't think that is a good enough reason to get a free ride. My parents always taught me to work for what I get.

Did you receive financial aid? I only ask because I am confused as to how one could be self-righteous enough to refuse a race-based scholarship, but not self-righteous enough to accept class-based financial aid.

Neither one has anything to do with scholastic achievement.

They both rely on outside factors to determine who should recieve collegeiate financing.

If the answer to your question is no..then nevermind and congratulations on sticking to your beliefs. If your answer is yes, understand that financial aid is basically an affirmative action to level the playing fields of class.

It just has a different name to make people like you feel better.

Exquisite5 06-28-2002 05:09 PM

prejudist!!!!!

prejudist!!!!!

Sorry, the more I see that post the more I am forced to drop to its ignorance level.

Okay, I am back....

ROFLMAO!!!!!

Honeykiss1974 06-28-2002 05:10 PM

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Originally posted by Exquisite5



Did you receive financial aid? I only ask because I am confused as to how one could be self-righteous enough to refuse a race-based scholarship, but not self-righteous enough to accept class-based financial aid.

Neither one has anything to do with scholastic achievement.

They both rely on outside factors to determine who should recieve collegeiate financing.

If the answer to your question is no..then nevermind and congratulations on sticking to your beliefs. If your answer is yes, understand that financial aid is basically an affirmative action to level the playing fields of class.

It just has a different name to make people like you feel better.


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Tom Earp 06-28-2002 05:26 PM

LovelyIvy, I do not get on a post because it is a race thing but because it gets into a prolonged debate that starts with good points and degenerates into back biting and name calling!

That is not what this site is for. Correct me if I am wrong!

We are here to air Greek Problems whether it be Black, Red, White or Yellow!

Yes I get a lot of shots and who in the hell cares, but I have one common goal in life, that the Greeks unite as We as A Group are A Minority, not counting on the color or race barrier!

If some one comes in my business and acts strange, I do not care what color he/she is I get a little concerned! Why Because of my safety!

I have gone into many reasons of explanations of my feelings and the people I have come to meet and Know but I still got shot down on what I have tried to say with my feelings!

Hell yes we are all different, would it not be a boring place if we are all the same?:confused:

Yes I get upset when someone comes on this site and says you hate!!!!!!! Then whe when people try to explain their feelings and get flamed!

BS I will hate when someone acts me or my way of life!

There have been many good points brought up but has anyone noticed neicey has not posted?
:confused:

Cloud9 06-28-2002 05:30 PM

KSig RC, thanks for your reply! I found your answers very interesting, and I thought over my ideas again. You know what, I agree with you, efforts should be made in all stages of schooling. I didn't mean to imply that any other efforts should be taken away, but that more are added to existing efforts.

The whole immigrant thang...ah yes, I see your point there, even though it wasn't one guy, it's consistent relationships with a very large number of people(I come from a crazily diverse neighborhood). But you are right, it could still just be MY experience. I'm mad that I slipped up there, I usually try to repress basing things on just my experience. But my point is that a white immigrant is still white, and will still have an advantage over minorites, even if it takes a generation or two for that to happen.

Does anyone else want to respond? I'm interested, and get this, I WELCOME criticism!!! Well, as long as it's not idiotic and makes grammatical sense...:p

librasoul22 06-28-2002 09:05 PM

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Originally posted by ilovemyglo
I was not saying what the example is- i was just explaining why I feel the way I do about AA. It all boils down to I think if you work hard enough you can do whatever you want without your gender or ethnicity being a reason for it.
This is the Horatio Alger myth...oops! I meant the american Dream isn't it? And it sure does sound ideal! Unfortunately ilovemyglo, it just doesn't work out that way. See Exquisite5's post, she broke it down.

CLASS and RACE/GENDER barriers are two VERY different things.

Affirmative Action as we speak of it is in place to protect MINORITIES and WOMEN in the workforce and education. Not that it is oh so successful, but that is why it is there. It is NOT there to assist the UNDERPRIVILEDGED. Do not over-generalize and make the two synonymous when they are not necessarily.

lovelyivy84 06-28-2002 11:21 PM

I understand your experience, I really do.

But once again, anecdotal evidence can not be assumed to hold true to a group at large.

If I held to my anecdotal evidence about whites I would make the assumption that they were all rich WASPs because that's what I grew up with in my provate school.

My experience is skewed too because I have never been in a school where every minority didn't work their ass off a. to get there and b. to stay there. It was quite all right for the white kids- who were almost all rich- not to have especially good grades, or maybe a discipline problem, but we were well aware that the school wasn't going to have the same lenient attitude with us. So this whole "Who deserves to be there" argument really only happened over the people who bought their way in, and guess what, they weren't minorities.

The conduct of the few minorities that you saw who didn't appreciate what they had doesn't disvalue the system at large.

If you looked, I am sure you would have found that they are in the clear minority of people who do get into college using affirmative action.

And you still haven't addressed my point- when the chances of black children in this country at a decent education are so SHARPLY curtailed at the secondary level, how can you even imagine that some form of AA is not needed? At the public school in MY neighborhood they barely had books, and at some of the schools there were actual holes in the walls. Real fun during winter. I refused to walk by the school at night because that's where "business transactions" would commonly take place- and don't think they left when school started either. Let's just say learning wasn't a priority at that school, just getting the hell out was. Busing was not an option unless you tested out- if you didn't go to the crappy ass public school then your parents had to put out the money for parochial or private school. And most families really didn't have it.

So kids who went there and graduated didn't always have the best grades- not because they weren't smart, or didn't try. But it wasn't a place where LEARNING was a priority. And you can forget about help with AP's or SAT's. One friend of mine who went there told me that when SAT time rolled around, no one gave them any info on the test other than they had to take ie, they just told them to show up at the gym on a saturday.

And applying to colleges wasn't going to be easy unless by the Grace of God you happened to have one of those rare college guidance counselors who gave two shits about you. One of my best friends that I grew up with went to a SUNY- and I am not criticising SUNY's here, but this girl had the grades and extracurriculars to go damn near anywhere she wanted! But when she was applying to schools, the thought of a Harvard, or a Princeton (which will give extensive financial aid to anyone who needs it, regardless of race, they can afford it!) never entered her head! No one at that school ever assumed that it could be within her range of possibilities! I was SO upset when she told me because I knew that she could do whatever she put her mind to, and whoever was advising her didn't.

So there is my anecdotal evidence, and the research that I have done into the school system has shown me that far from being only my observations, it is the experience of many minorities, especially in urban areas.

Trying to compare the experience of white immigrants and Blacks in this country is like comparing apples and tomatoes.

Immigrants come here with a choice, and without social stigma- unless they're Hispanic, or Lord help them, Haitian. They don't even begin to face the kinds of discrimination that blacks do in this society.

I have to say that I resent the hell out of your implication that somehow all blacks are somehow just lazy. You have NO IDEA what we face, and you make it obvious.

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Originally posted by ilovemyglo
Okay let me explain a few things about me personally and I also want to say that CREAM and EXQUISITE5 are about the only two posts I have read on this thing in awhile that make more than perfect sense. I still don't agree with affirmitive action, but I can truly appreciate your point of view.
This is a baring of my soul so I would appreciate if you have any personal blows to make at to do so with a PM- Here goes
I come from a poor part of Louisville, KY. I grew up in a prodominetly black neighborhood. I never cared, nor do I now, I am proud of where I am from and the relationships I have developed from it.
I have two brothers and my parents neither one were afforded the opportunity to go to college. Their families were poor and they both came from broken homes.
My mother and fathered worked two jobs a piece for many years and put my brothers and I through private schooling when I was young. In fifth grade I was taken out of private schools because I tested into an advanced placement program in the public school system. I was then bused to a very bad part of town (over 65% of the rapes and murders were commited within three miles of my school that year) because I was white. No other reason, and that is what was told to me my first day of school by every student there- I didn't belong and the only reason I was there was because I was white.
I went to a middle school closer to home (remember the poor part of town) and with a very diverse group of kids. In 6th grade Louisville's school system changed so that busing was no longer enforced by where you lived. This meant that if a student in a poor neighborhood wanted to go to a school out in the rich part of town they could and the county is responsible for transportation. I honestly did not know that places do not allow this everywhere (such as the NYC example given). I chose to go to a public high school while my parent worked extra jobs (including weekends) to pay for my brothers to go to a private school in town. I applied for a magnet school here. I had a 4.0 and was a model student. I had to write an essay, audition and have an interview. I was accepted and that is where I went to high school. I got to choose what high school I wanted to go to and where it was. I can't imagine what would have happened if I had been forced to go to my "home" school as they used to call them. Most students that I knew chose schools outside of their home school because they wanted a better education.
Because I watched my parents labor for years to give their children a better education and because myself and my two brothers worked so hard in school, we got to go to college. Not because we are white and had it better, we had it just as hard as anyone.
This is why AA bothers me. My parents did it. My brothers and I did it. We came from a poor neighborhood, worked our arses off and now my brothers are engineers and I am about to graduate cume laude. We had to take out student loans to pay for college, and I will pay them back, no problem. So I get frustrated when I know a few (yes a few, not every person) people that have received scholarships, get a 2.0 every semester and don't have to pay for college because they are minorities. They are not model students, they don't come to class half the time, they complain about doing homework and exams, they are disruptive in class and yet they gladly tell people they don't pay for school, they got a full ride. That doesn't seem fair to me. Why do they get a free college education while I get good grades, I study hard, and do well in school and I have to end up in debt? All because I am white? I could get a free ride through the Native American funds. I am enough Native American to qualify for free college, but I chose not to because I don't think that is a good enough reason to get a free ride. My parents always taught me to work for what I get.
Now, all that being said, can some of you understand why I may feel that AA if unjust? I came from those poor neighborhoods you have talked about. I went to those schools and worked very hard on limited supplies. My parents worked two jobs each to make sure their kids got a good education. They sacrificed so much for us, and anyone else could do the same. That is all I am saying- anyone can do it. It just means hard work.


Kevin 06-29-2002 08:20 AM

As far as ancedotal evidence of a couple of minorities in college goes... That argument is pretty damned lame. I've seen PLENTY of rich kids go to school, not give two shits about their grades and basically live off of mommy and daddy for as long as they can. I knew a guy like that who pulled a whopping 0.0 GPA!

You can't judge an entire race (millions of people) by the stupid behavior of 1, 2 or 200 or whatever. THAT is what prejudism is all about! How do you expect people to get out of neighborhoods like many come from without a little help? Oh true, it CAN be done... but the path is much harder than it was for me who had a suburban upbringing, the best schools and all the opportunities life can offer.

AA has its place, that's for certain... Again I'll say I'm not so sure it has much of a place beyond educational institutions -- if a company doesn't hire minorities they have to answer to Jesse Jackson!!! (kidding, I had to go there though:D ). But seriously, the law is a bit flawed. You can't FORCE an employer to hire females and people of color to meet certain quotas... The change has to be voluntary so the culture needs to be changed.

PM_Mama00 06-29-2002 11:52 AM

Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Negative Action
 
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Originally posted by librasoul22

PM Mama...the fact is that your parents immigrated over here...immigrated...BY CHOICE. Not everyone's ancestors had that luxury. Some were plucked from their native villages and forced to come here under the worst conditions imaginable.

Yes that was the past. But the fact is that the ramifications of it STILL haunt Black people today. The consquences are far-reaching and long-lasting.

It is great that you are able to dust yourself off and try again. Great! But please understand that NOT EVERYONE IS LIKE YOU! (breathing a sigh of relief). And it is not THEIR fault either. They are simply not afforded the same opportunities you are.

I think that at your age, it might be hard for you to unlearn everything that you have been taught. That is very unfortunate because people like you are the reason that oppression, racism, PREDUISM, xenophobia and whatever other label you want to put on it, exist today.

Please do post. I wrote that out of haste. The more you post the more your ignorance is exposed.

Yes, my parents did migrate here for their own choice. I didn't even think about how your ancestors might've come over.

I understand what you say about the ramifications from history, but I just think that many people have done what they could to make things equal. History and now is what bothers me. The Jews encountered a horrible event long ago, and I'm sure are discriminated against in some issues, but I've never really heard them complaining about what happened. Yes complain, but I can't really think of the words to write to explain what I'm thinking. So please don't take that comment in a negative way.

No, not everyone is like me and thank God because I like being an individual.

Yes at my age it is hard for me to unlearn things that I learned growing up in a mostly all-white neighborhood. However, coming to college I've learned a lot about other cultures and kept an open mind. Last night I talked to one of my black friends and he totally understood what I was saying, and we discussed it in a mature way. I think posting online, people are gettin the wrong idea about me. Sometimes I saw things that I'm thinking, but they came out the wrong way.

If my ignorance is exposed, so be it. I am being true. If my opinions are making me ignorant, then I'm sorry. I value others' opinions, and I only wish that people would do the same.

I started this thread just to post that news story, and to get your opinions ON THE STORY. I'm glad that it has prompted a somewhat intellectual debate. I am only sorry that is has made you all think that I'm an ignorant, prejudiced person. I'm not. I'll interact with any race. If someone of another race came through Rush, if I feel that they would be a great addition to my organization, I'd vote positive on them. But since I'm an ignorant person, I'll prolly get flamed for sayin that.

sasharala 06-29-2002 02:39 PM

Just kind of funny....
 
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Originally posted by PM_Mama00


Last night I talked to one of my black friends and he totally understood what I was saying, and we discussed it in a mature way.

I just got a kick out of that satement :D That's all. Now ya'll can go back to the topic :p

librasoul22 06-29-2002 02:54 PM

Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: To many Re's
 
Quote:

Originally posted by PM_Mama00

Yes, my parents did migrate here for their own choice. I didn't even think about how your ancestors might've come over.

I understand what you say about the ramifications from history, but I just think that many people have done what they could to make things equal. History and now is what bothers me. The Jews encountered a horrible event long ago, and I'm sure are discriminated against in some issues, but I've never really heard them complaining about what happened. Yes complain, but I can't really think of the words to write to explain what I'm thinking. So please don't take that comment in a negative way.

First off, you have to understand that when something like slavery happens, the after-effects don't just magically disappear. When it comes to the ethnic hierarchy in the U.S., blacks remain at the bottom. That is not something that will change tomrrow or next week. Itis going to take a LOT to eradicate that and the oppression that STILL results. Don't get me wrong. Yes, progress has been made. Yes, there have been great strides to ensure equality. But the fact remains that there is still great progress to BE made. I think that unless you can walk in the shoes of a black person for one day, you can't get a full grasp on a black person's daily reality. I understand that you feel that the american dream is reality, but that is because you have not yet experienced otherwise.

On another note, the plights of Blacks and Jews CANNOT be compared. Although both ethnic groups have been through a SEVERE trauma, they are fundamentally different. Again, the Jews chose to migrate here, they were not forced to come to America to become enslaved. They did face their share of discrimination (and still do, to an extent), but they were bumped up the totem pole when the next groups of immigrants came to the U.S.

Historically, whenever a group migrated to the U.S., they were automatically classified at the bottom of the hierarchy and recieved the worst treatment until the next wave of immigrants came along. However, since blacks were brought to the United States, they became the new bottom dwellers and for some reason, that has not changed.


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Yes at my age it is hard for me to unlearn things that I learned growing up in a mostly all-white neighborhood. However, coming to college I've learned a lot about other cultures and kept an open mind. Last night I talked to one of my black friends and he totally understood what I was saying, and we discussed it in a mature way. I think posting online, people are gettin the wrong idea about me. Sometimes I saw things that I'm thinking, but they came out the wrong way.

If my ignorance is exposed, so be it. I am being true. If my opinions are making me ignorant, then I'm sorry. I value others' opinions, and I only wish that people would do the same.

You cannot blame us for our perception. All we know of you is what you post. If your post comes off sounding ignorant, that is how you will be perceived. Perhaps you should thoroughly think out your replies before submitting. I actually think that this post was FAR better than your others as far as explaining your mentality.

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I started this thread just to post that news story, and to get your opinions ON THE STORY. I'm glad that it has prompted a somewhat intellectual debate. I am only sorry that is has made you all think that I'm an ignorant, prejudiced person. I'm not. I'll interact with any race. If someone of another race came through Rush, if I feel that they would be a great addition to my organization, I'd vote positive on them. But since I'm an ignorant person, I'll prolly get flamed for sayin that.
Quick correction: I do not think you are an ignorant person...rather, you just have some ignorant views on the topic of ethnicity in America.

Also, because you will interact with someone of another race, or invite them into your organization does not make you any less ignorant on these issues.

I am not flaming you at all. I respect this post a lot because it seems to me that you actually took the time to consider your feelings, without getting defensive.

The fact that you posted "I hope no one thinks I am racist for posting this article..." as a preface to the beginning of this thread let me know that you are unsure how others will perceive you and your level of prejudice. If you are introspective, you might realize that other's perceptions (specifically those on GC, as based on your posts) are not all that inaccurate. If what you post is how you TRULY feel, then there is no room for error.

RUgreek 07-02-2002 01:20 AM

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Originally posted by lovelyivy84
No it does not come down to biology. What you are talking about is APPEARANCE. TOTALLY DIFFERENT from biology which has a science basis. Appearance! You mean appearance! Once I understood that was what you meant I 'got' what you were saying. I just wish you understood that what you are discussing is NOT Biology or science (which are terms that I feel, unlike racism- or hell, any ism, have pretty standard definitions), but completely superficial judgement. Yes, people DO base judgements on appearance! You're correct! They do! But it's not biology!

LMAO! This is comedy!


Fine, it's not biology. If appearance isn't biology, then I'm wrong. I thought I look the way I look because of my parents, I didn't realize science had to be all or nothing to be "science." I understand you when you say it's not science or biology, but physical appearances aren't conjured up at random, there is a pattern to everyone. I took biology in high school, I remember the whole dominant and recessive gene chart, and of course I realize that you can have a white african-american, and just about any other combination if the odds are in your favor. I know all this and see what everyone is saying.

All people look different, this is pure fact. Some people have similarities between others, this is also safe to claim as fact. And yet, while some people look the same, they may not have any relation to that group other than their appearances being similar.

Is it all just a strange random coincidence that so many people look alike that they can be segregated as a group? No, they similar because they share a variation in their genetic makeup that is not part of everyone else. Is it an exact science that someone can go "Hey look, I found the asian gene, woohoo!" Silly rabbit, trix are for kids. I am not a scientist, I can't make heads or tails of my double helix, but I know that there is "something" there that makes me appear the way I do.

I know you do not agree there is any concrete biological basis for race, I see what you are saying. It does make sense, but someone's physical appearance does derive from their genealogy. Even though it is a social construct, there is some merit (even if it's less than 1%) in the theory that it has something to do with your genetic makeup.

I'm not trying to say that one group has better DNA than me, or that it has anything to do with one race being superior to another, all I'm trying to say is that the similar physical appearance of one ethnic group occurs from a shared or common trait passed down by our parents.


RUgreek

RUgreek 07-02-2002 01:58 AM

Woah there, slow down!
 
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Originally posted by librasoul22

On another note, the plights of Blacks and Jews CANNOT be compared. Although both ethnic groups have been through a SEVERE trauma, they are fundamentally different. Again, the Jews chose to migrate here, they were not forced to come to America to become enslaved. They did face their share of discrimination (and still do, to an extent), but they were bumped up the totem pole when the next groups of immigrants came to the U.S.

Historically, whenever a group migrated to the U.S., they were automatically classified at the bottom of the hierarchy and recieved the worst treatment until the next wave of immigrants came along. However, since blacks were brought to the United States, they became the new bottom dwellers and for some reason, that has not changed.

Hmm, alright, I will try to make this as neutral and simple so I don't say anything offensive or stupid here. The plight of Blacks and Jews cannot be compared? I guess I need to understand more of what you mean, in the sense that one suffered more than the other?

There is no way I'm going to sit here and say one group suffered more than the other, I think that would just be the most ridiculous thing to argue about, and pointless. We all suffered, that should be enough. As for Jews choosing to migrate, I think that's a fallacy. Throughout history, all the jewish people have done is migrate from one place to another, only to be enslaved, persecuted, and murdered. There are still people today that believe in blood libels, that's how back assed our friendly friendly world is :rolleyes: Anyway, to say that they chose to come here, where african-americans were forced here as slaves is different, no argument here. However, african americans were emancipated way before jews were accepted in America. Check out some movies from the 1920's and 30's, antisemetism was strong and very much part of American society.

So what did bump the Jews up the totem pole in America then? Well, that's sort of complicated, but the assimilation didn't occur, at least effectively until after the 1967 middle east war when America started showing support for Israel. Most people believe it was pity from the holocaust that made Jews "white" in America, this is not true. Being white in America was strictly for the christians (Protestants) before that time. Economics played an important role I'm sure, as well as other factors. But this is nativism, not what we are suppose to be talking about.

One last thing I'd like to say, which is the gender discrmination as it relates to race. You say African-americans are at the bottom of the ladder so to speak, but even within that classification, it separates even further. I'd have to say that being black as well as female only adds insult to injury, because they have what appears to be double discrimination. Talk about unfair!

Sorry if my ramblings didn't have a point, I just felt like typing some thoughts, later...


RUgreek

SigmaChiCard 07-11-2005 02:09 PM

i love reviving old discussions:

there is a website & i think it's funny...because I don't think it is too poor of taste, but see what you think.

It's mostly a stab at white people who are like - 'me, i'm not racist - i had a black friend when i was in third grade'

Some people have taken REAL offense to it, so I'm curious as to what your impressions are, in light of this discussion, old as it may be - it is a basis

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Honeykiss1974 07-11-2005 02:33 PM

I think someone buried in this rubble of a thread, is a discussion about this website.

I'm surprised its still up and running.

SigmaChiCard 07-11-2005 02:44 PM

i haven't even the slightest idea what that means. if it weren't for the smiley, i wouldn't even know that, presumably, it is a negative thing. for the sake of curiousity...what is that?

KSig RC 07-11-2005 03:41 PM

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Originally posted by SigmaChiCard
i love reviving old discussions:

there is a website & i think it's funny...because I don't think it is too poor of taste, but see what you think.

It's mostly a stab at white people who are like - 'me, i'm not racist - i had a black friend when i was in third grade'

Some people have taken REAL offense to it, so I'm curious as to what your impressions are, in light of this discussion, old as it may be - it is a basis

Black People Love Us


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