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KSUViolet06 02-13-2006 09:21 PM

Someone said before that they don't feel like "legacies count anymore." I think they count alot. Tri Sigma's legacy policy is such that the girl is invited to the first round of invite only partes (which at most schools would be 3rd party). That is a significant advantage if you ask me. Most of us who've been through recruitment on either end, know how easy it is to be released from a chapter. Having that invitation, while it does not guarantee you a bd by any means, it gives you an opportunity to get to know the chapter that other PNM's might not get.

irishpipes 02-14-2006 01:22 PM

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Originally posted by JocelynC
Tri Sigma's legacy policy is such that the girl is invited to the first round of invite only partes (which at most schools would be 3rd party).
Really? I would think that the first invite only party would be the second party. I thought it was pretty much open houses/icewaters first round and everything after that was invitation only.

KSUViolet06 02-14-2006 01:42 PM

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Originally posted by irishpipes
Really? I would think that the first invite only party would be the second party. I thought it was pretty much open houses/icewaters first round and everything after that was invitation only.
Well that's just the case for my school then. Our first 2 rounds are open. The policy just basically states that she has to come back to the first round of parties that are invite-only. For some schools that is only the 2nd day.

alum 01-04-2007 12:47 AM

Since we seem to have a lot of legacies rushing, I thought I should bump this.

carnation 07-14-2007 10:36 PM

Bump again!

AnchorAlumna 07-15-2007 02:57 AM

We had a chapter that had somehow got into the mindset that they wanted NO legacies. You can imagine how everybody held their breath when the daughter of a former international officer went through recruitment. All ended happily, however, as daughter pledged and everyone breathed again. :D

jwright25 02-14-2008 08:45 AM

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Originally Posted by aeda (Post 1600457)
i was actually curious? if my sister is pledging right now and is to be initiated in march, at the same moment i will be going through recruitment, would that make me a legacy?

That's very interesting, and I imagine that the policy would vary from sorority to sorority.... If I were advising the chapter, I would say that if the sister initiated before your Bid Day, you would be a legacy. But that still doesn't guarantee a bid in my organization - only an invitation to the first invitational round. So even if initiation is right before or on Bid Day, the chapter's obligations have already been exercised.

AOII Angel 02-14-2008 08:48 AM

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Originally Posted by aeda (Post 1600457)
i was actually curious? if my sister is pledging right now and is to be initiated in march, at the same moment i will be going through recruitment, would that make me a legacy?

Put on your application that your sister is a NM for that group and will be initiated on whatever date. The sisters of that chapter can decided whether or not you fit the criteria for their organization when it comes to legacy status. You shouldn't care, otherwise, whether or not they do consider you a legacy since it does NOT mean a free bid from the chapter.

AOII Angel 02-14-2008 08:49 AM

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Originally Posted by AnchorAlumna (Post 1485365)
We had a chapter that had somehow got into the mindset that they wanted NO legacies. You can imagine how everybody held their breath when the daughter of a former international officer went through recruitment. All ended happily, however, as daughter pledged and everyone breathed again. :D

Why in the world would they not want any legacies? I understand that they wouldn't want to be forced into taking one they don't like, but no legacies?!

33girl 02-14-2008 11:11 AM

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Originally Posted by AOII Angel (Post 1600475)
Why in the world would they not want any legacies? I understand that they wouldn't want to be forced into taking one they don't like, but no legacies?!

If you go to a restaurant and get a bad meal every time, after 3 or 4 times you're probably not going back to that restaurant.

AnchorAlumna 02-14-2008 02:40 PM

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Originally Posted by AOII Angel (Post 1600475)
Why in the world would they not want any legacies? I understand that they wouldn't want to be forced into taking one they don't like, but no legacies?!

They're pretty independent gals, and I think they got the idea that EO was "telling" them what to do.
I think they understand better now. That was several years ago.

nittanyalum 02-14-2008 03:03 PM

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Originally Posted by 33girl (Post 1600532)
If you go to a restaurant and get a bad meal every time, after 3 or 4 times you're probably not going back to that restaurant.

LOL! Great analogy.

KSUViolet06 02-14-2008 04:45 PM

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Originally Posted by aeda (Post 1600457)
i was actually curious? if my sister is pledging right now and is to be initiated in march, at the same moment i will be going through recruitment, would that make me a legacy?

If your sister is initiated before recruitment, then yes, you would be. Be advised that being a legacy might grant you some courtesies, it does not guarantee a bid to her sorority.

amanda6035 02-15-2008 06:01 PM

reading this thread makes me think that I'll advise my daughters to keep their mouth shut about being a legacy if she ends up going to an ultra-competitive school. Simply because of the "fair" factor - and not being dropped by other chapters "just because" she's a legacy.

Too bad panhellenic cant tell only the chapter that the PNM is a legacy to that she's a legacy. Then again, you run the risk of girls in that chapter blabbing to other chapters to "stay away from Susie Q, she's ours"

*rolls eyes*

ehope 03-12-2008 02:55 PM

legacy discussion
 
As several posters have already stated, clearly each GLO handles legacies differently according to their bylaws and policy and procedure statements. My organization offers a form for the member to complete that essentially "introduces" the potential member to the chapter. I know that many chapters receive these forms as the potential member is arriving to school the first week for freshman year "just in case" the woman is thinking about recruitment!

I think the issue is perhaps more about common sense and courtesy. Chapters are not mind readers- if you have a legacy attending a college with your organization on campus, just let them know. It shows you took the time to recommend (or not:)) your legacy and the chapter has the rec in their records ahead of time so they can extend the courtesy that is offered to them as legacies. But, as long as normal recruitment procedures are being followed, if a chapter drops a legacy according to their needs, and this women finds a home at another house, then who really is the loser?

Please also note that there have been situations where potential members say they are a legacy and they are not. There have also been members who think they they are a legacy because their sister's husband's aunt was a soririty member. So i think there is room for improvement on all sides!


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