HC Vanda, please take heed to what was said?
HC what if you were the wife?
HC CT4, is that why you started that thread in DST Blvd?
HC what happened to "do unto others as you would have them to do unto you"?
HC you can't have Sister BTB disturbed?
HC she's a great friend of mine?
HC we will pray for Vanda?

HC Nikki1920, where are you?????

HC here I is?!
HC I wanna meet ya'll too.
HC Ideal08 will beat me up first b/c I keep missing her parties, but I still wanna meet her, too. lol

HC VANDA, WALK, NO RUN, FAAAAAARRR AWAY!!

HC Third day of being at home due to snow/ice and the Fed having unscheduled leave.
HC I aint going out unless I need to

HC I had a talk with myself
HC I need to stop comparing myself to other women
HC it makes me depressed
HC this all started when I went to the dr for the Patch (TMI, I know, lol) and I had gained 15 lbs. :eek:
HC I dont feel attractive
HC I dont like my hair, my stomach, or my clothes
HC I need a personal shopper
HC I need to get my self esteem back. :(

HC Vanda, RUN, GIRL, RUN
HC drool @ him from afar, but dont touch him
HC Karma is a beast, but is nothing compared to a wronged wife, and that is REAL.

HC the distraction is taking me to his family reunion in August.
HC we spent yesterday afternoon on the phone, looking up train prices? :p
HC the trip from here to there is 20+ hours??!! :eek:
HC we are both excited about it!

HC someone clue me in on what happened w/ Librasoul?
:confused:

HC I know YALL did not think I wanted a married man?!?!!
HC shiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii?
HC it ain't that type of party!?!?

Some clarifications
 

I am not the one contemplating an affair. I deal with an 18 year old drop out, who at the time really ticked me off because those are the words she said to me when I asked her why did she ditch a job interview I had set up for her. She would rather follow this fool around. What makes it so bad is I think she's serious. I have tried on several occasions to see that that's not the way to go but she says I'm wrong. I wanted her to see that I was not the only one who thought she was wrong. I felt you guys here would give it to her straight, and you do not know her so she could not say we were just on her case. When I came on to clarify this, the site was down.

You know I would never cause drama, but I am at my wit's end as to how to get through to her. NO one in her family has graduated and they all had a child by the age of 16. Thankfully she doesn't. Everyone else has given up on her, but I do not want to. I will not. A lot of you said you would pray for me, but I ask that you pray for her. I hope she sees her errors and try her best to change them before it's too late.

I know a lot of you were probably saying Vanda is a dumb fill in the blank. That's not the case at all. I went through being the one cheated on and it's not a great feeling so I could not in good conscious hurt someone else. I have also seen it hurt very dear family members. Besides I am happy with who I have and I'm not about to mess up a good thing.

HC what does this have to do with a 18 yo drop out and an interview?
HC if you are not contemplating an affair why did you say/type I ?
HC :confused:
HC I was going to stay away from this chit but your current post makes NO SENSE

HC I concur?

HC Nikki, welcome back?
HC stop comparing yourself to other women?
HC beauty is in the eye of the beholder?
HC that means that "THE DISTRACTION" sees something in you that he sees in no other?
HC if you wanna lose weight, do the thug thizzle?
HC I KNOW it's not that easy?
HC support group though?
HC I think you're beautiful!!!
HC I don't flow that way though...just a compliment. :D

HC CT4, again...I APOLOGIZE!!!! :rolleyes:

HC (((((((nikki)))))))

HC you need to stop comparing yourself to other women and compare yourself to you
HC you should think about why exactly you're unhappy
HC if it's something you can and ARE PREPARED TO genuinely change, then make changes
HC a lot of times it doesn't have much to do with the physical, that's where we focus our frustration
HC check ya PMs!

HC James is going off in Chit Chat?
HC preach? :D
HC ((((((((NIKKI1920))))))))?
HC stop comparing yourself to anyone?
HC the only person you need to compare yourself to is Christ?
HC and it has NOTHING to do with the physical? :)
HC one of good friend's is bad at this?
HC she is constantly comparing herself to me and trying to "out-do" me?
HC her comments sometimes irk me? :mad:
HC Nikki1920 you are wonderfully made?
HC see my signiture for confirmation? ;)
HC random HC time?
HC Vanda?
HC you last post :confused: me too?
HC ah well..................?
HC I've got a dentist appointment this afternoon?
HC I get to leave work early?
HC its colder than a mug here?
HC BRRRR?
HC Old Man Winter has straight settled in?
HC he done took his shoes off and everything?
HC let me get back to work?

More clarification
 

I realize I should not have used "I" but it seemed the right choice when I first posted. I didn't want to put out an HC starting "HC this girl I know" because I knew she would take it as me trying to embarrass her and trying to intentionally hurt her. The reason it is about an 18 year old is because the reason she ditched the interview was to hang out and look for him. I hope this clears up things and makes sense to the other post.


My first post were words she had said to me when I questioned why she had missed the interview.

@ NIKKI
 

HC NIKKI, READ THIS?

HC be not dismayed?

Nikki
 

HC ((((((((((((((((HUGZZ)))))))))))))))))



ETA


HC Boondocks today
HC Re-Negrofication
HC Holla
HC that made my day

HC (((((((NIK-diddy))))))))?
HC I'll come visit you, and you can feel like the small friend if we go out? :p
HC that'll make you feel better? HAHAHA :D

HC there is some twilight zone chit going on up in hurr'? :rolleyes:
HC a coupla people is 'actin' funny'?
HC and that's all I'm gonna say about that?

HC "Re-negrofication" made my day as well?
HC I was like, "Oh no he didn't"?

HC I'm definitely not going to FL next month, but I'm still not sure whether I'm coming to MD?
HC it depends on the weather up there?

HC Homeboy sure did preach on CC??
HC Unfortunately, not everyone will get his point? :( :(

HC (((((NIKKI1920)))))
HC Don't let anyone/anything steal your joy?
HC STRUT YOUR STUFF!!!!
HC Make changes for yourself and yourself only?

HC this thread: http://www.greeksource.com/gcforums/...threadid=45800

HC the Ying Yang twins CD makes me feel extra ghetto too? :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes:
HC some folks are starved for attention?

HC Along with Grey Goose and Pinapple
HC le sigh