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I will say that chapters who are on the larger side are, to an extent, made fun of/ostracized because they are bigger. My chapter, for example, takes large PCs and we're fine with that. However, people will say that 'we take anybody.' You can't get houses to change size without changing that culture
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And if that happens...honestly? I wouldn't be surprised if a local sorority culture sprung up. Maybe I am just talking out of my hat, but for a campus who has clung to this method as long as they have, it seems the logical next step if that method's yanked away. |
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I guess I just am frustrated watching so many quality women who want to be in the Greek system being denied membership on such a large scale. |
After reading all the information on IU's bed quota policy on NPC's blog all I can say is WOW! I'm shocked and concerned about all the negative impact this single large university will/might have on young women who are interested in going Greek not only at IU but other large universities. I am surprised that the National organizations have not stepped in and mandated that IU uses RFM or some other method to place women. It just seems logical to me that if you have 1,600-2000 women go through and there is 20 chapters and they are all taking +-50 you are not going to place all of these girls. The cross cutting must be tremendous for a young women to attend 3 preference parties and go bidless. As a Mom I would be VERY cautious to send my daughter into a situation with those kinds of odds.
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I'd be curious to know how many of the unplaced PNMs who had "perfect" recruitment experiences until being cross cut after preference ranked the Jordan and unhoused chapters low enough to drop them in the earlier rounds. One other thing too. All the complaints about not knowing the odds at IU. Is IU really that secretive about the placement rate or are these girls simply in denial and don't think it could possibly happen to them? |
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I almost made your middle point earlier tonight, but I didn't know how to make it not sound abrasive or negative. Each year, I know at least two or three girls going through recruitment at IU. Last year, all three of them ranked the "popular" chapters at the top. One of them got 14 back and got most of her top 14. Number 2 got 12 and was not pleased to return to a few of them. The third was the hardest hit, she only got 8 back and she had better stats "on paper" than the other two. She had more high school activities, leadership positions, lettered in multiple sports, etc. She was extremely upset, I spent over an hour on the phone with her. It's pretty easy for me to talk with them objectively since SK isn't there. Number one ended up going to two prefs and did NOT get a bid. She transferred at end of the year. Number two fell in love with one of those "less popular" chapters at 8 party, went to pref at that chapter and another, SIPed and happily got a bid! She's a great fit and loves her chapter dearly. Number three dropped after 8 when she only had two lesser popular chapters left. She was offered a COB bid from one of her chapters at 14 party, but she had already signed an apartment lease and didn't want to break it. She did not go through again this year, nor is she interested in joining one of the unhoused chapters. No girl thinks these sort of things are going to happen to them, if they all did, no one one would sign up for recruitment. This year, the girls I know had perfect rushes until pref and they did drop those "lesser popular" chapters after 20 party. I think one of them truly regrets it and hopes one of them calls her for COB, if there is any. IU chapters COB on the sly, for some reason COB has a stigma attached to it. |
I realized that blog was posted in January of 2011, and I didn't read every single post thoroughly, perhaps I am just cynical, but with the qualities and credentials shared by these moms, maybe some went without bids because they limited themselves to particular chapters and when it came down to ranking on both sides, it didn't work out. Am I right in thinking that to go without a bid at Indiana a woman starts out on the second bid list and isn't ranked high enough to move to the first list if women on the first list match elsewhere first? To add a dose of reality, and math, tell the PNMs the bed quota for each chapter where they attended preference, and how many women attended preference. At a place where there are no quota additions, so therefore getting a bid from any one of the chapters she ranked, knowing ABC can take 37 and XYZ 24 may jump start a woman's acceptance of not being an XYZ, or receiving any bid.
The NPC blog is the same stuff we hear from moms and their daughters at other schools when they don't get the results they want. I did laugh that there was a cry to "alert the media" for an expose. The complete lack of understanding isn't surprising either, but is par for the course for many of the parents of the college students of today. There will always be "more spots than PNMs" because not every PNM is going to be issued invitations, or accept her invitations. The situation is just more pronounced at Indiana as each chapter sets their own quota.I didn't notice any mention of Alpha Delta Pi doing informal recruitment or of the Theta Phi Alpha colonization in the comments. I did notice a lot of demands for other chapters to take more members, but none about these two as something to look into or join. I know it is mutual selection, but all these PNMs had resumes posted that would lead one to believe they had desirable qualities on paper, so I'm wondering if some moms have no idea their daughter has personality issues, or if they think they are too good for these groups? Lastly, Indiana will not be hurt by people not sending their daughters because of a bed quota. I'm pretty sure enrollment is not going to be hurt when someone is moved off the waiting list and gets to enroll. |
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