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PinkSkyAtNight 12-08-2014 02:41 PM

OK, somewhat of a left turn, but I think that some of the tweets and retweets from Greek Leadership accounts are getting somewhat unprofessional. @FSPAC is tweeting articles from the National Review that put in doubt all rape statistics. I wasn't aware that @FSPAC had a particular political lean, but if they do and they are going to use this as a podium to promote it, I will sure as shit be letting my national office & NPC know how I feel about them doing so. Sabrina Rubin Ederly really, really messed this whole conversation up, but jumping on the "many women are liars" bangwagon is sickening, and I can't believe NPC is supporting this type of chorus. Gross, gross, gross.

honorgal 12-08-2014 03:09 PM

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Originally Posted by PinkSkyAtNight (Post 2301701)
OK, somewhat of a left turn, but I think that some of the tweets and retweets from Greek Leadership accounts are getting somewhat unprofessional. @FSPAC is tweeting articles from the National Review that put in doubt all rape statistics. I wasn't aware that @FSPAC had a particular political lean, but if they do and they are going to use this as a podium to promote it, I will sure as shit be letting my national office & NPC know how I feel about them doing so. Sabrina Rubin Ederly really, really messed this whole conversation up, but jumping on the "many women are liars" bangwagon is sickening, and I can't believe NPC is supporting this type of chorus. Gross, gross, gross.

How does questioning the "1 in 5" statistic equate to jumping on the "many women are liars" bandwagon?

honorgal 12-08-2014 03:12 PM

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Originally Posted by robinseggblue (Post 2301700)
Seems like the Washington Post edited that back in. Might have been after or right before or right as the blog post was being published. If the WP doesn't indicate edits, then there's no way to tell but there's a photo on the blog post and it was left out when I read the WP article.



I don't find it odd. I hear it used when people want to say they know of a person, but haven't met in person (since people can "meet" over the internet, e.g. Facebook or forums like 33girl mentioned).

I think to my age group Facebook friends and Facebook chatting would constitute "meeting" but not meeting in person.

Yes I agree with that and with 33girl. Which begs the obvious follow up question of has he ever "met her" on line.

And yes, it's really unacceptable for WaPo to keep editing their story online and make no mention of having done so.

SOM 12-08-2014 03:39 PM

Trolls are outing Jackie. That's Rolling Stone's fault too. http://www.slate.com/blogs/xx_factor...all_tab_tw_top via @doublexmag

SOM 12-08-2014 03:41 PM

FratPAC Pushes University Of Virginia To End Punishment Of Greek Life http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/1...hp_ref=college

honorgal 12-08-2014 03:57 PM

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Originally Posted by SOM (Post 2301705)
Trolls are outing Jackie. That's Rolling Stone's fault too. http://www.slate.com/blogs/xx_factor...all_tab_tw_top via @doublexmag

I admittedly only skimmed Hanna Rosin's piece (who, btw, has done a commendable job on her reporting so far). But I recall multiple instances where it is claimed that Jackie has told some version of her story at a "Take Back THe Night" event. Seems like that would end her anonymity, at least among part of her college campus? Or maybe I'm missing something?

1964Alum 12-08-2014 04:02 PM

Here it the NPC's separate press release on the matter:

https://www.npcwomen.org/resources/a...%20%285%29.pdf

Kevin 12-08-2014 06:14 PM

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Originally Posted by 1964Alum (Post 2301709)
Here it the NPC's separate press release on the matter:

https://www.npcwomen.org/resources/a...%20%285%29.pdf

I wish they hadn't put in the bit about her being "victimized twice." What we know is that the facts she gave Rolling Stone are untrue. The only real victims in this case are the men of Phi Kappa Psi who had to endure months of being punished for something they didn't do... and to some extent Rolling Stone and the reporter who have both lost a lot of credibility.

33girl 12-08-2014 06:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Kevin (Post 2301723)
I wish they hadn't put in the bit about her being "victimized twice." What we know is that the facts she gave the reporter are untrue. The only real victims in this case are the men of Phi Kappa Psi who had to endure months of being punished for something they didn't do... and to some extent Rolling Stone and the reporter who have both lost a lot of credibility.

FYP slightly. (Since it's not like she talked to multiple people employed by RS)

And there's no way Rolling Stone can be called a "victim" in this. If she would have claimed she was raped by a member of Students For a Greener UVA, RS would have double, triple and quadruple checked and done their due diligence and the story would have never seen print. They absolutely did this to themselves.

Plus this reporter sounds like she watches Law and Order more than I do and fanfics most of it.

pinksequins 12-08-2014 06:32 PM

Again, we are not in possession of all of the facts. Some of the elements of the story are not correct -- whether by reason of Jackie's statements or the reporter's fabrications or both -- and they have compromised any elements that are legitimate. We do not know at this time whether the entire story was fabricated. Those facts will be determined as investigations progress. Clearly, RS did not meet the standards for responsible, professional journalism. We also do not know how "Jackie" was interviewed and to what degree the reporter manipulated questions to obtain desired responses.

Kevin 12-08-2014 06:37 PM

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Originally Posted by 33girl (Post 2301726)
And there's no way Rolling Stone can be called a "victim" in this. If she would have claimed she was raped by a member of Students For a Greener UVA, RS would have double, triple and quadruple checked and done their due diligence and the story would have never seen print.

Let's be fair. Even if they had the video of that hypothetical act, they wouldn't give it any attention whatsoever.

Kevin 12-08-2014 06:55 PM

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Originally Posted by pinksequins (Post 2301727)
Again, we are not in possession of all of the facts. Some of the elements of the story are not correct -- whether by reason of Jackie's statements or the reporter's fabrications or both -- and they have compromised any elements that are legitimate.

Have you read the WaPo article? I can't imagine they haven't tried to locate and get the "victim's" story.

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We do not know at this time whether the entire story was fabricated. Those facts will be determined as investigations progress. Clearly, RS did not meet the standards for responsible, professional journalism.
Clearly not. But really, these were important (false) facts which could ONLY have come from the victim. She's either stupid or a liar... and well... UVA doesn't take folks with subpar SATs.

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We also do not know how "Jackie" was interviewed and to what degree the reporter manipulated questions to obtain desired responses.
Since the "victim" has appeared in public as an activist, we can assume she read the article. If she didn't have any major corrections, we can safely conclude she was at least complicit in the falsehood if not directly responsible (which is more likely).

This lady was apparently willing to shut down an entire fraternity chapter and possibly, if some innocent guy had been a lifeguard at some point, ended up sending an innocent man to prison and having him spend his life labeled a sex offender.

honorgal 12-08-2014 07:05 PM

More from Slate. Very long article but even-handed and for those who are mostly familiar with the big picture look only from sound bites or as a result of the RS article, it's well worth the time.

http://www.slate.com/articles/double...e_efforts.html

33girl 12-08-2014 07:11 PM

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Originally Posted by Kevin (Post 2301729)
Let's be fair. Even if they had the video of that hypothetical act, they wouldn't give it any attention whatsoever.

True story. I was just trying to think of something with sufficient liberal "cred" as opposed to a fraternity.

pinksequins 12-08-2014 07:15 PM

I most certainly have been following The Washington Post. Kevin, put on your legal hat. I think you might be a bit more circumspect. There is a very distinct possibility that some of these misstatements were generated by the reporter rather than Jackie or that Jackie could have been encouraged to embellish her story. I would not be surprised to learn that there were misleading statements from both, but the investigations (media and external counsel) haven't yet gotten there. Therefore, other than RS gross mismanagement of its publication of the story, I am not ready to jump to conclusions about the story.

pinksequins 12-08-2014 07:18 PM

I think Slate has been pretty spot-on so far with its articles.

33girl 12-08-2014 07:25 PM

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Originally Posted by honorgal (Post 2301732)
More from Slate. Very long article but even-handed and for those who are mostly familiar with the big picture look only from sound bites or as a result of the RS article, it's well worth the time.

http://www.slate.com/articles/double...e_efforts.html

from the story:


She says she is troubled by the blurring of distinctions between rape (notably by predatory males), unwanted sex (where one party agrees to sex not out of desire but to please or placate the partner), and the kind of consensual sex where both parties are so drunk they can barely remember what happened—and one of them later regrets it. She says, “Calling all of these kinds of sexual encounters ‘rape’ or ‘sexual assault’ doesn’t teach young women how to learn what they want sexually, let alone how to communicate what they want, or don’t want. It doesn’t teach them to take responsibility for their decisions, for their reluctance to speak up. Sexual communication is really hard—you don’t learn how to do it in a few weekends.”


Tavris also believes holding only men responsible for their sexual behavior has pernicious effects on women because it supports a victim identity that is already too prevalent in our society. “It’s so much easier to be a victim than to admit culpability, admit your own involvement, admit that you made a mistake,” she says. “It’s much easier to say it’s all his fault. Look, sometimes it is all his fault. That’s called rape. But ambiguities and unexpected decisions are part of many encounters, especially sexual ones.”


This. This. This. This. THIS.

1964Alum 12-08-2014 07:25 PM

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Originally Posted by pinksequins (Post 2301734)
I most certainly have been following The Washington Post. Kevin, put on your legal hat. I think you might be a bit more circumspect. There is a very distinct possibility that some of these misstatements were generated by the reporter rather than Jackie or that Jackie could have been encouraged to embellish her story. I would not be surprised to learn that there were misleading statements from both, but the investigations (media and external counsel) haven't yet gotten there. Therefore, other than RS gross mismanagement of its publication of the story, I am not ready to jump to conclusions about the story.

Nor am I. CNN's Jake Tapper did a segment on this today at 4PM. The first half is accessable on a video. Unfortunately, the second part is not. The second half was an interview of the President of the Student Council, himself a fraternity man. He essentially said that neither the student body at UVA nor the fraternity men are minimizing Jackie's story, despite the descrepancies. They acknowledge that this is and has been a very serious problem on campus, which is well-known to students. Also that several fraternities there are developing protocols to make sure that their houses are the safest places on campus. Perhaps the second part of the interview will show on on The Cavalier Daily's web site.

http://thelead.blogs.cnn.com/2014/12...s-overwhelmed/

SOM 12-08-2014 07:29 PM

Twitter Under Fire As Users Spread Information About Alleged Rape Victim http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/1...13&ir=Politics


Right Wing Smear Merchant Chuck C. Johnson Posts Alleged Rape Victim’s Name on Twitter http://littlegreenfootballs.com/arti...ame_on_Twitter

Chuck C. Johnson: Journalist (In Three Images) http://mrdestructo.tumblr.com/post/1...n-three-images

Right-Wing Douchebag Outs Alleged Rape Victim From ‘Rolling Stone’ Story http://po.st/Zbe2Ya via @po_st

33girl 12-08-2014 07:37 PM

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Originally Posted by 1964Alum (Post 2301737)
The second half was an interview of the President of the Student Council, himself a fraternity man. He essentially said that neither the student body at UVA nor the fraternity men are minimizing Jackie's story, despite the descrepancies. They acknowledge that this is and has been a very serious problem on campus, which is well-known to students. Also that several fraternities there are developing protocols to make sure that their houses are the safest places on campus.

Such a double edged sword. While it's great and necessary that they are doing this, the anti-fraternity contingent will say that the ends (whether from the accuser, the "journalist" or RS) justified the means. The same thing happened with the Vs.

robinseggblue 12-08-2014 09:37 PM

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Originally Posted by Kevin (Post 2301723)
I wish they hadn't put in the bit about her being "victimized twice." What we know is that the facts she gave Rolling Stone are untrue. The only real victims in this case are the men of Phi Kappa Psi who had to endure months of being punished for something they didn't do... and to some extent Rolling Stone and the reporter who have both lost a lot of credibility.

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Women should not be victims
twice because of the sexual assaults and then again because of potential concerns with reporting.
I read this as more of a general statement than a specific response to the facts of Jackie's story being investigated further.

To me concerns with reporting immediately jumps to a meaning of safety concerns and the like. Jackie's name has supposedly been released to the public. Whether she is lying or is traumatized to remember specifics, it is not okay for her identity to be revealed in that way and I am concerned for her safety even though I don't know her.

I think NPC is completely right in this respect... this statement reaches further than Jackie. Once any type false allegation becomes public (even if it's just that some elements aren't true and I'm on the boat that is unsure about the truth in Jackie's case), it becomes much harder for anyone else to come forward in the future and this was what I read in the quote.

It is wrong to knowingly fake a report of a crime but the public outlash should not be such to make less and less individuals who are real (future or past) victims come forward. If Jackie knowingly made a false report and this may be proven, by all means go to a legal court. The court of public opinion only hurts real victims of this types of crime. Edit: I don't mean for this to make the impression that it does or doesn't include Jackie because I don't have all the evidence and can't know the truth.

I don't think that Rolling Stone can be called a victim in this case for the reasons 33girl mentioned.

If everything the fraternity has said is true (from what someone said on this thread, it's impossible to verify whether there was a party on that weekend or not), I do feel bad for them. I have sympathy for their reputation being tarnished and I don't think that's fair. I'm glad it didn't get too far with naming names and stuff if they're not involved and hope the community can welcome them back without bad feelings.

SOM 12-09-2014 01:25 AM

UVa won't reinstate fraternity activities http://a.msn.com/01/en-us/BBgv9jX

1964Alum 12-09-2014 01:49 AM

I think they will reinstate them but at a later date. Investigations are still ongoing as well as the development of more effective policies and procedures by administrators, faculty, and students to address this complex of problems of long-standing on that campus.

I DO hope that representatives from the national councils of fraternities and sororities will have a seat at the table in addition to those Greeks at UVA who are already on the board.

Kevin 12-09-2014 12:35 PM

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Originally Posted by robinseggblue (Post 2301744)
To me concerns with reporting immediately jumps to a meaning of safety concerns and the like. Jackie's name has supposedly been released to the public. Whether she is lying or is traumatized to remember specifics, it is not okay for her identity to be revealed in that way and I am concerned for her safety even though I don't know her.

If she is lying, it is absolutely okay to reveal her identity. She should have to live with the shame that she lied about being raped, even indicated who she thought did it, potentially ruining the life of the man she falsely accused. I can think of few things less contemptible than that.

If you read the WaPo article, either this journalist is just a total hack and moron, or at the very least, the details Jackie provided were false.

There won't be legal consequences for her, a lawsuit is highly problematic, and what lawyer is going to take a case where he sues a student who is probably already up to her eyeballs in student loan debt?

In my family law work, I see this sort of thing all of the time. Women in custody and divorce situations very often will manufacture claims of domestic violence, abuse or child molestation against the fathers and typically, the consequences are nil. There's almost no downside to it. Courts don't award custody of children punitively because one party was dishonest with the court.

I suspect some attorneys of counseling their clients to make these sorts of claims to gain a leg up in the litigation.

It is not a leap for me to think a woman with a past record of attention-seeking activism might make up a claim of sexual violence in order to get attention. It certainly seems possible.. even probable here.

One of the most interesting comments I've heard listening to the coverage on this was on NPR this morning about the difference as to how an activist journalist from a rag like the RS vs. how a prosecutor interview rape victims. RS journalists tend to be sympathetic, maybe even rewarding (possibly unconsciously) a victim for jazzing things up a little. Prosecutors on the other hand are aggressive, cold, at times even demeaning and very detail-oriented so that by the time the case is ready for trial, the victim's story is absolutely air-tight.

Since there will probably no consequences for anyone except maybe the Phi Kappa Psi house, I guess whichever truth you are inclined to believe is up to you and it's immaterial who is right vs. who is wrong.

Low D Flat 12-09-2014 02:27 PM

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If she is lying, it is absolutely okay to reveal her identity.
But the reveal already happened, and we're a long way from knowing that she lied about being raped.

Kevin 12-09-2014 03:21 PM

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Originally Posted by Low D Flat (Post 2301812)
But the reveal already happened, and we're a long way from knowing that she lied about being raped.

I'm aware that many of them experience memory problems, and that is where the activists have pivoted to at this point... of course until now, her memory of her attackers was perfect and how dare we question it. Now she's simply confused. Let's rejigger the narrative until we can make her a victim again and not a liar.

I think this guy had it right before almost anyone:

http://www.richardbradley.net/shotsi...ne-story-true/

And Wapo gets it right too.

http://www.washingtonpost.com/blogs/...al-media-bias/

Yeah, I guess we'll never know for sure whether she's a liar, but to me, that's how she looks.

SOM 12-10-2014 12:12 AM

Former Suitemate Of Alleged University of Virginia Gang-Rape Victim: ‘This Is Not a Hoax’
http://www.liberalamerica.org/2014/1...is-not-a-hoax/

Kevin 12-10-2014 09:48 AM

So she appeared to be depressed, ergo she must have been gang raped at the Phi Kapp house. That is the only possible explanation.

honorgal 12-10-2014 11:58 AM

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Originally Posted by Kevin (Post 2301918)
So she appeared to be depressed, ergo she must have been gang raped at the Phi Kapp house. That is the only possible explanation.

The College Rape Crisis can explain anything.

1964Alum 12-10-2014 07:00 PM

Sorry, but both of you are out of step with the North-American Interfraternity Conference. I just hear an interview with Pete Smithhiser, the President and CEO of said conference on NPR. When posed with the question of whether this rape crisis on college campuses was manufactured or real, he acknowledged that it was real. And further that the conference wished to work in collaboration with administrations in developing effective strategies in dealing with this very real and serious problem. He specifically mentioned vigorous bystander training and participation on the part of its member fraternities. He also expressed the desire to have a seat at the table when developing these protocols.

Denying that there is a problem will only give a black eye to the Greek system, which is already on the ropes at this time. I am all about making it stronger and a positive experience. The failure to constructively address this most serious problem will only weaken it.

navane 12-10-2014 09:54 PM

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Originally Posted by robinseggblue
To me concerns with reporting immediately jumps to a meaning of safety concerns and the like. Jackie's name has supposedly been released to the public. Whether she is lying or is traumatized to remember specifics, it is not okay for her identity to be revealed in that way and I am concerned for her safety even though I don't know her.

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Originally Posted by Kevin
If she is lying, it is absolutely okay to reveal her identity. She should have to live with the shame that she lied about being raped, even indicated who she thought did it, potentially ruining the life of the man she falsely accused. I can think of few things less contemptible than that.


IF she is found to have lied, then I will struggle to understand why she deserves to receive protection for her identity. The only reason I'm reading here so far is that real rape victims may not want to report their cases due to fear of being outed. Ok, I get that.

Here's the thing - I'm going to look at it from the man's perspective. Is it fair for a woman to falsely accuse a man of rape only to have his name and organization publicly smeared and have people conduct protests against him? Then, when his accuser is found to be a liar, be told, "Oh well, sorry. We're not going to release the name of the person who ruined your reputation and life to protect the unnamed, hypothetical, future rape victims that may or may not be telling the truth as well". That would be BS.

honorgal 12-10-2014 10:57 PM

http://www.washingtonpost.com/local/...y.html?hpid=z1

The latest from the Washington Post investigation of the Jackie/RS debacle. All three of the friends from the night in question have been located and interviewed.

If I'm understanding the chronology correctly, it appears she really did make the whole thing up.

33girl 12-11-2014 01:04 AM

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Originally Posted by 1964Alum (Post 2301960)
Sorry, but both of you are out of step with the North-American Interfraternity Conference. I just hear an interview with Pete Smithhiser, the President and CEO of said conference on NPR. When posed with the question of whether this rape crisis on college campuses was manufactured or real, he acknowledged that it was real.

LMAO. Because no one has ever said anything in an interview (on NPR!!) that isn't completely true just to save their asses.

The one in five or one in four (depending which garbage truck your stats fell off of) rates are HIGHLY questionable.

33girl 12-11-2014 01:13 AM

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Originally Posted by 33girl (Post 2301739)
Such a double edged sword. While it's great and necessary that they are doing this, the anti-fraternity contingent will say that the ends (whether from the accuser, the "journalist" or RS) justified the means. The same thing happened with the Vs.

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“The main message we want to come out of all this is that sexual assault is a problem nationwide that we need to act in preventing. It has never been about one story. This is about the thousands of women and men who have been victims of sexual assault and have felt silenced not only by their perpetrators, but by society’s misunderstanding and stigmatization of rape.”
No, the "main message" is that accusing someone of a crime they didn't commit and/or not confirming someone's story before dispersing it demands punishment.

honorgal 12-11-2014 01:22 AM

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Originally Posted by 33girl (Post 2301988)
LMAO. Because no one has ever said anything in an interview (on NPR!!) that isn't completely true just to save their asses.

The one in five or one in four (depending which garbage truck your stats fell off of) rates are HIGHLY questionable.

Very smart move by Mr. Smithiser, if he wants IFC to "have a seat at the table".

honorgal 12-11-2014 01:26 AM

Has anyone seen reporting on this story that has been able to confirm what percentage of sexual assault complaints originate from the fraternities at UVA? Seems like it would be a relevant piece of information.

StealthMode 12-11-2014 07:03 AM

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Originally Posted by honorgal (Post 2301994)
Has anyone seen reporting on this story that has been able to confirm what percentage of sexual assault complaints originate from the fraternities at UVA? Seems like it would be a relevant piece of information.

How so (for this particular story)?

honorgal 12-11-2014 09:09 AM

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Originally Posted by StealthMode (Post 2302005)
How so (for this particular story)?

Because we are now being admonished to pay no attention to the fact that the Phi Psi gang rape likely is a fabrication and instead focus on the fact that UVA has a rape problem, especially at their fraternities.

I'd like to have those allegations quantified, not just blindly accept them.

Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me.

honorgal 12-11-2014 09:35 AM

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Originally Posted by 33girl (Post 2301991)
No, the "main message" is that accusing someone of a crime they didn't commit and/or not confirming someone's story before dispersing it demands punishment.

My prediction? Sabrina Rubin Erdely and Jackie will become cause celebs for the college rape crisis industry and radical feminists. They will be feted with speaking engagements and "bravery" awards.

We have a not-insignificant number of folks in this country for whom there is no such thing as truth and falsehood, and objective facts are meaningless. Unfortunately, many of them have gone into journalism. The end always justifies the mean.

Kevin 12-11-2014 09:43 AM

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Originally Posted by 1964Alum (Post 2301960)
Denying that there is a problem will only give a black eye to the Greek system, which is already on the ropes at this time. I am all about making it stronger and a positive experience. The failure to constructively address this most serious problem will only weaken it.

I never did deny there's a problem. This thread is not abiout rape culture or any of that. It's about the alleged rape at UVA, which doesn't look like it happened. I'm all for bystander training and rape prevention. There probably is a rape crisis not just on college campuses, but everywhere. It's a societal thing.


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