This is where the PM option is grrrrrrrrrreat.

I'm glad somebody said it...*sharpen, sharpen*

Most people open up when they get to know the person but I didn't think that's what you were initially saying. I thought you were saying you were basically mute until you got to know someone. Is that what you're saying?

We have different routines and I've never had a problem finding the right person to spend my life with. ;) Try something new.

Is that much worse than the whole world reading your on-line "dating" attempt?

I never said they wern't drawn to me. I don't have a problem there. The wrong ones are drawn to me, but that comes from being very picky. Yup, I'm mute/quiet until I see if the girl is worth my time. I observe 1st then I open up. If we don't have anything in common then what's the point?

We have different routines and diffenernt taste too. You're probably not as picky as me. ;)

See my edit.

That depends on what things you can observe without talking to a person.

You don't know what my tastes are. All you know is that I date men and you date women.

If your criteria are silly and ridiculous, then you're right. But if your criteria are reasonable then you're probably wrong. Don't present yourself as too much of an unattainable prize. ;)

Yeah, don't take everything so literally.

LOL, not to be a total smartalic, but how many have you found? :) :o

How many have you?

None, which is why I remain CG:o. Relax, it was just a funny sounding sentence, like life partners are in great supply or something. Just had a little titter, that's all.

I'm usually relaxed.

Potential dates are in great supply for some of us. Where you take your dates from there is up to you.

You quoted me saying "life partners" so why even ask if I was talking about "sex partners" or "potential dates"? :confused: You said something that I thought sounded funny even though you didn't mean it to be, so I poked a little at it. No biggie.