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Marie 07-19-2006 09:27 AM
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Originally Posted by Drolefille
UM, yeah so read the entire thread before you post at me please, mkay?

:)
I read the thread and you're embarassing yourself. Thanks!


- Actually that was too harsh. Sorry. You're not embarassing yourself. You just aren't proving your point, and your attempts to prove your point are just taking you farther and farther away from succeeding.

Marie 07-19-2006 09:29 AM
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Originally Posted by AKΨ_BRO@DSU
But, I don't want to break out of my preferance...they go hand in hand with my beliefs plus as I stated above I don't totally let them dictate who i chose to date.
He meant other people breaking out of their preference by dating you.

Drolefille 07-19-2006 09:34 AM
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Originally Posted by Marie
I read the thread and you're embarassing yourself. Thanks!


- Actually that was too harsh. Sorry. You're not embarassing yourself. You just aren't proving your point, and your attempts to prove your point are just taking you farther and farther away from succeeding.
Wow, catty.

So Valkyrie and I already laid this to rest. So you're really just stirring the pot. Everyone embarasses themselves occasionally on message boards.
It's not the big of a deal. :rolleyes:

But you're just.. well being catty would be the best description imo

Marie 07-19-2006 09:44 AM
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Originally Posted by Drolefille
Wow, catty.

So Valkyrie and I already laid this to rest. So you're really just stirring the pot. Everyone embarasses themselves occasionally on message boards.
It's not the big of a deal. :rolleyes:

But you're just.. well being catty would be the best description imo
I think I'm ok with that. Anywho, you're right...it has been laid to rest, so Have A Great Day!:)

KSig RC 07-19-2006 10:46 AM
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Originally Posted by AKΨ_BRO@DSU
But, I don't want to break out of my preferance...they go hand in hand with my beliefs plus as I stated above I don't totally let them dictate who i chose to date.


Yeah . . . if that's what you got out of my post, then I can better understand where the problems in this thread are born. I clearly meant the exact opposite.

GeekyPenguin 07-19-2006 10:59 AM
Dude who is 21 and a virgin? Probably fine UNLESS he is one of the True Love Waits people who looks with disdain on people who didn't wait. When you talked about your "Christian values" by waiting, that seems to be implying that people who don't wait don't have Christian values. I'm not cool with that.

No drugs? That's fine and I'd say most girls prefer it.

No drinking? Fine ONLY IF you are okay with still going to bars, me drinking, keeping beer in the house, etc. I have a great friend at school who is a Mormon and he comes to bars with us all the time and doesn't drink. That's cool. What's not cool is people who don't drink and harp on others for going to bars or imbibing.

valkyrie 07-19-2006 11:20 AM
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Originally Posted by AKΨ_BRO@DSU
For example, I may not drink, but I would date a girl that drinks socially because I respect the fact that we are different however, I would tell her occasionally out of compassion that I don't like it because the overall negative affects it can have on her and its just a really unattractive look for her when she does it. Sure I would be happy if she found the rational to stop but if she didn't the only thing that I would do is pray that it doesn't affect her too bad in the future.
I take this to mean that he is *not* okay with dating a woman who drinks. I mean, he might try to appear to be okay with it at first, but after a while, the "compassionate nagging" will start: Drinking has negative effects on you. It's unattractive when you drink. You should stop. If you don't, I'll pray for you. I'll pray that you don't mess up your life too much by drinking.

AlphaFrog 07-19-2006 11:21 AM
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Originally Posted by valkyrie
I take this to mean that he is *not* okay with dating a woman who drinks. I mean, he might try to appear to be okay with it at first, but after a while, the "compassionate nagging" will start: Drinking has negative effects on you. It's unattractive when you drink. You should stop. If you don't, I'll pray for you. I'll pray that you don't mess up your life too much by drinking.
I have to agree on this one.

GeekyPenguin 07-19-2006 11:24 AM
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Originally Posted by AKΨ_BRO@DSU
Excellent point. I can't really debate that other than by saying a lot of the things that you listed are physical features that can rarely be done anything about. This differs because I'm talking about positive choices a person has decided to make. That's like someone saying..."I'm going to stop cursing" and another person being turned off because they curse and believe that they are now incompatible. That doesn't make since to me. We are all different and there for do different things. For example, I may not drink, but I would date a girl that drinks socially because I respect the fact that we are different however, I would tell her occasionally out of compassion that I don't like it because the overall negative affects it can have on her and its just a really unattractive look for her when she does it. Sure I would be happy if she found the rational to stop but if she didn't the only thing that I would do is pray that it doesn't affect her too bad in the future.
Homeboy, did you know you can drink without getting drunk? Unless you are a Mormon or a member of another religion that frowns on drinking, there is nothing wrong with a glass of wine with dinner, or knocking back a few during the Hometown Team game.

RU OX Alum 07-19-2006 11:30 AM
I don't get it dude, if you don't want to have sex with them, then why do you care if they think you are lame?

OtterXO 07-19-2006 11:31 AM
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Originally Posted by valkyrie
I take this to mean that he is *not* okay with dating a woman who drinks. I mean, he might try to appear to be okay with it at first, but after a while, the "compassionate nagging" will start: Drinking has negative effects on you. It's unattractive when you drink. You should stop. If you don't, I'll pray for you. I'll pray that you don't mess up your life too much by drinking.
Based on his statements, I have to agree as well.

valkyrie 07-19-2006 11:32 AM
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Originally Posted by GeekyPenguin
Homeboy, did you know you can drink without getting drunk? Unless you are a Mormon or a member of another religion that frowns on drinking, there is nothing wrong with a glass of wine with dinner, or knocking back a few during the Hometown Team game.
Maybe he's Baha'i.

I can't even imagine how someone could claim that drinking is "just a really unattractive look for her when she does it." I mean, sitting at a bar drinking a pint of beer looks MUCH worse than sitting at a bar drinking a coke. Right?

Drolefille 07-19-2006 12:12 PM
I wonder if he's only experience the people who drink to get trashed. If so, he's clearly hanging out with the wrong crowd.

Dionysus 07-19-2006 12:15 PM
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Originally Posted by Drolefille
I wonder if he's only experience the people who drink to get trashed. If so, he's clearly hanging out with the wrong crowd.
Hmmmm...what's wrong with getting trashed every now and then? Just because it isn't your cup of tea, doesn't mean it's wrong.

Marie 07-19-2006 12:17 PM
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Originally Posted by Dionysus
Hmmmm...what's wrong with getting trashed every now and then? Just because it isn't your cup of tea, doesn't mean it's wrong.
True, but maybe he's around people who only get trashed everytime that they drink. I mean, otherwise he should know that its possible to drink and stay sober or only get drunk from time to time. Ya know?


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