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OptiKal_Elusion 11-16-2006 10:16 PM

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Originally Posted by starang21 (Post 1358632)
yea, i know that personally. i've done it enough times to know the stigma behind it.

F**ck a stigma, so in other words, you let other people tell u what to do? Interesting.

DSTCHAOS 11-16-2006 11:03 PM

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Originally Posted by OptiKal_Elusion (Post 1358687)
F**ck a stigma, so in other words, you let other people tell u what to do? Interesting.

Is that what his post said?

DSTCHAOS 11-16-2006 11:05 PM

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Originally Posted by starang21 (Post 1358632)
yea, i know that personally. i've done it enough times to know the stigma behind it.

Aren't 100% of your relationships interracial? LOL.

You definitely know the stigma. But the stigma doesn't stop you from finding a woman you're compatible with even if she's not Hispanic like you are, right? I wuv u 2.

PrettyBoy 11-16-2006 11:53 PM

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Originally Posted by OptiKal_Elusion (Post 1358276)
I'm not sure that I understand exactly what u are trying to say. If u are able to relate to her as a friend, why would it be hard to relate to her as a girlfriend? Her skin may be different from yours but she's still a person. :confused:

No, I was talking about our organizations, not us. I think the biggest issue would come from outside. The snares we get I would have to get used to. But right now I would like to remain friends. But you're absolutlely right she is a human being, so I wasn't saying I can't relate to her, it's just when she talks about her sorority I don't know what she's talking about, or when I talk about my fraternity she looks at me like :confused: that's all.

PrettyBoy 11-16-2006 11:56 PM

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Originally Posted by AKA_Monet (Post 1358593)
Dude, don't even take about you didn't see this coming... I saw it coming a mile away!! :eek:

Gwirlfriend wants to get down...

And you continue with your "kane twirlin' in the bedroom" ;)

I didn't see it coming because we had been friends for 8 months and like I said in the "Can men and women be friends" thread that I have a hard time having female friends because they always want something more. I thought in this case it would be different. I guess not. LOL at the kane in the bedroom. You're so bad.

teena 11-17-2006 12:17 AM

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Originally Posted by Rudey (Post 1358074)
Chuck Norris lives by only one rule: don't date Asian girls.

-Rudey

Crack kills

teena 11-17-2006 12:19 AM

[QUOTE=PrettyBoy;1358738] I have a hard time having female friends because they always want something more. [QUOTE]
Interesting

starang21 11-17-2006 01:21 AM

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Originally Posted by OptiKal_Elusion (Post 1358687)
F**ck a stigma, so in other words, you let other people tell u what to do? Interesting.

is that what you got from my statement?

uhhhhh

:wassat:

starang21 11-17-2006 01:22 AM

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Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS (Post 1358706)
Aren't 100% of your relationships interracial? LOL.

You definitely know the stigma. But the stigma doesn't stop you from finding a woman you're compatible with even if she's not Hispanic like you are, right? I wuv u 2.

naw, about 90 percent

LOL

PrettyBoy 11-17-2006 03:52 AM

[quote=teena;1358758][quote=PrettyBoy;1358738] I have a hard time having female friends because they always want something more.
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Interesting
Seriously. I think it must be my personality.

AKA_Monet 11-17-2006 04:14 AM

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Originally Posted by teena (Post 1358758)
I have a hard time having female friends because they always want something more.

Interesting

Naw, it's cuz he's twirlin' kanes in his bed...

;)

AKA_Monet 11-17-2006 04:25 AM

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Originally Posted by PrettyBoy (Post 1358738)
I didn't see it coming because we had been friends for 8 months and like I said in the "Can men and women be friends" thread that I have a hard time having female friends because they always want something more. I thought in this case it would be different. I guess not. LOL at the kane in the bedroom. You're so bad.

Dude, like you've been "friends" for 8 months... :mad: :confused:





Okey, lemme break it down fo ya. Some women, mostly young ones, (I know, been there done that), try to be friends with the guy they want to sport fcuk... That's why they wait so long... Homegirl was being civil and dignified and trying the respect herself. That's why she says she has feeling for you, now...

Like the comedian said: It's not your beauty, it's your bootay...

Some older women do it for pure adrenaline sport... And to do it right, it won't be spectator, less folks like it like dat...

How do I know?

Let's just say I'm an old married woman... And I have no reason to be bored... :rolleyes:

PrettyBoy 11-17-2006 04:53 AM

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Originally Posted by AKA_Monet (Post 1358815)
Dude, like you've been "friends" for 8 months... :mad: :confused:





Okey, lemme break it down fo ya. Some women, mostly young ones, (I know, been there done that), try to be friends with the guy they want to sport fcuk... That's why they wait so long... Homegirl was being civil and dignified and trying the respect herself. That's why she says she has feeling for you, now...

Like the comedian said: It's not your beauty, it's your bootay...

Some older women do it for pure adrenaline sport... And to do it right, it won't be spectator, less folks like it like dat...

How do I know?

Let's just say I'm an old married woman... And I have no reason to be bored... :rolleyes:

AKA_Monet what are you doing up??? LOL. Oh so that's what they're up to huh? LOL. Never would have caught it. Our friendship seemed so innocent. We really were friends for 8 months, and we have so much much fun together as friends. She never made any advances at me until a few days ago. I never made any at her. There are several reasons we would have issues, and I can name a couple. I remember one time we went to eat and after we were done I had to use the men's room, so she waited for me in the waiting room on the way out. When I came out there were two white guys talking to her, one was trying to get her phone number. As I was walking toward her, I saw her point at me, I guess telling them she was with me. They looked at me like :eek: . Then one of them said "You have a nice looking girl." I said we're just friends. The other incident came at the movies from 3 black women. They mumbled something under their breaths. That's the kind of stuff I don't like dealing with. Here goes that kane thing in the bedroom again. She's a GCer too and is going to wonder about the kane in the bedroom thing. It's totally innocent. You ladies should be ashamed of yourselves. LOL

AKA_Monet 11-17-2006 05:12 AM

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Originally Posted by PrettyBoy (Post 1358822)
AKA_Monet what are you doing up??? LOL. Oh so that's what they're up to huh? LOL. Never would have caught it. Our friendship seemed so innocent. We really were friends for 8 months, and we have so much much fun together as friends. She never made any advances at me until a few days ago. I never made any at her. There are several reasons we would have issues, and I can name a couple. I remember one time we went to eat and after we were done I had to use the men's room, so she waited for me in the waiting room on the way out. When I came out there were two white guys talking to her, one was trying to get her phone number. As I was walking toward her, I saw her point at me, I guess telling them she was with me. They looked at me like :eek: . Then one of them said "You have a nice looking girl." I said we're just friends. The other incident came at the movies from 3 black women. They mumbled something under their breaths. That's the kind of stuff I don't like dealing with. Here goes that kane thing in the bedroom again. She's a GCer too and is going to wonder about the kane in the bedroom thing. It's totally innocent. You ladies should be ashamed of yourselves. LOL

So you've got to ask yourself are you skeeriousssssssly interested...

Otherwise, unfortunately, you are going to havta let this girl go. You are gonna havta tell her either slow your roll or it's out...

You said yourself that you ain't ready for something intense... Not saying you don't enjoy sports :rolleyes:, just saying right now, at this time in your life, you ain't ready for something skeeriousssss...

And believe it not, women have "investment strategies" too...

Homegirl put the ball in your court. Are you gonna put your "nutz" on the table? Then what are you gonna say?

Basically, you need to know yourself even more...

And as far as sistagirls losing it. Well, that is gonna happen. It ain't kool, but that is the way it is... Sistagirls will ALWAYS say somethin' 'bout dat dere... Good luck with tryin' to keep a sistah's mouth closed... Good luck with that...

PrettyBoy 11-17-2006 05:23 AM

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Originally Posted by AKA_Monet (Post 1358826)
So you've got to ask yourself are you skeeriousssssssly interested...

Otherwise, unfortunately, you are going to havta let this girl go. You are gonna havta tell her either slow your roll or it's out...

You said yourself that you ain't ready for something intense... Not saying you don't enjoy sports :rolleyes:, just saying right now, at this time in your life, you ain't ready for something skeeriousssss...

And believe it not, women have "investment strategies" too...

Homegirl put the ball in your court. Are you gonna put your "nutz" on the table? Then what are you gonna say?

Basically, you need to know yourself even more...

And as far as sistagirls losing it. Well, that is gonna happen. It ain't kool, but that is the way it is... Sistagirls will ALWAYS say somethin' 'bout dat dere... Good luck with tryin' to keep a sistah's mouth closed... Good luck with that...

Well, I can't really say it on GC like this, but I can tell you this, you have me over here laughing so hard:p . LOL. She and I will have to talk in person about the whole thing.


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