I can't believe people do that on purpose.
Maybe I am skewed but I think all my friends are gorgous. I think I will just go back to not looking again. life is easy when there is no one of the opposite sex involved:rolleyes:

I, unfortunately am guilty of surrounding myself with girlfriends who aren't necessarily "ugly"- but not like me. I wouldn't introduce my bf (now fiance) to any girls who looked better than me. I was so scared when I went off to college that he would meet some bombshell when he came to visit me on campus and would run off with her. It never happened and I got the guy, but I know too many people who had their significant other just find someone else and leave.

Now that I know I have him for good, I'm a total attention whore and flash the ring and want other women to stare at him, so I can be like "Ha! Back off biatch, he's MINE!":D

Sorry - hope I wasn't stealing your thunder!

You know what would be totally fun - we should start a column or a show or something... A "He Said/She Said" - men and women's perspective on the same subjects. (I am always looking for a way to make a quick buck!) :)

You know, I do have connections in the entertainment industry. You might be on to something. It'd be like Jerry Springer but not as trashy.

Funny you say this, becuase I am completely different. If he wants to be with me, he will. If he does not want me, then there is nothing I can do to stop him. And if a pretty face will make him run off with her, then he did not like/love me for me. Beauty fades over time (unless you have lots of Botox) all that matters is what is on the inside..... this why I dont get jealous.

rainbow,
that is my kinda attitude.

Okay... went on a date with a guy. We totally had nothing in common and I totally wouldn't want to pursue anything serious, but I think he could be fun for a little while. I worry that maybe he won't think the same since I am a bit more reserved. If he doesn't call, should I? When and how? What should I say? "Hey, I know we wouldn't work out, but..." Just kidding, but really I don't know. Or should I just forget about it - like if he doesn't call, I probably weirded him out and don't want to do so anymore. There are other potential boys, so it won't ruin my night if you tell me to cut my losses.

HELP! :)

In college, harkening back to basketball, Mr. Silver's friends called this the "Time of Possession Rule."

Silver

Thats pretty clever :)

If you don't like him that much it gives you a lot of power, so definitely call him. you have almost nothing to lose, no emotional risk.

Call him, soon, if already havent. Ask if he'd like to do something some time and take him some place that shows you're not so reserved. Take the lead in it all. Give it another shot, if it sucks the second time....bail.;)

As life always sets it up, it is feast or famine for me...

I have not met anyone new in months, then recently I started seeing someone new. We hung out Saturday afternoon, and I asked him if he wanted to come with me to meet up with my friends that night. He declined, so I went to my friend's place, and met someone else, who lives about two blocks from the first guy. I am a free agent until I am told otherwise, right?

He called. I've seen him twice since then actually - and I'm pretty sure he knows I'm not so reserved now!!! ;)

Absoluely.

When I was younger and stupider, I sometimes turned down offers from guys after I'd gone out some other random guy ONCE. Until you're officially a couple--keep those options open.

Good thread cashmoney.

On point advice.