Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS (Post 1670004)

You ain't neva effed love. Stop trynna ruin love's spiritual reputation.

Originally Posted by PrettyBoy (Post 1669650)

When it comes to relationships, I think a lot of times people too often become consumed with the emotion of "romance", and very quickly after marriage, we find that the romance evaporates to reveal two very flawed jokers in a difficult world

I think what happens from the beginning in these relationships today, is people are quick to fall into romance, and then later, quick to bail out of commitment.

You have to ask yourself, is the man (I'm assuming you're a woman.:D) to whom you are attracted quick to give to others, or quick to go the 2nd mile in serving others? Or does this joker seem to live only for himself, withdraw the needs of others, or pretty much seek to satisfy himself only? A selfish, "do for me and don't ask me to do for you" joker is not someone you'll be happy with long term.

I hope you find the right man, if you haven't already.:)

Originally Posted by starang21 (Post 1670012)

love is a slore.

Originally Posted by Little32 (Post 1670019)

love is...knowing that love is not a slore.
You know you're the slore. That's why love won't eff with you.

Originally Posted by starang21 (Post 1670023)

Originally Posted by smc112 (Post 1670018)

In your first comment, that is exactly what happens when people are "lusting" after each other. When the spirit of lust leaves, people then start to realize that they don't have anything in common with the other individual. That is why I feel people should at least date two years before they marry. That way people will know if it is lust or actually love. Two years is a long enough time to see all sides of an individual. You also mentioned that a woman should seek after a man who has a servant's heart. It is funny that you mentioned that, because I dated a guy who was selfish and not a giver (or you could say cheap!) Two bad combinations! I didn't talk to him no longer than a couple of weeks. That really irritated me. Yeah, I would run for the hills if I sensed that a guy was selfish and cheap. Even Proverbs mentions not to eat the food of a cheap man because he is always thinking about the cost. LOL Anyway, a selfish person always takes and doesn't deposit anything back. You are right. I wasn't happy with that guy who was selfish, and I know from now on to watch those signs in men.

Originally Posted by PrettyBoy (Post 1670084)

Also, when you get a chance, check out Matthew 7:12. That's a good one.:)

Happy dating.:D

Originally Posted by smc112 (Post 1670499)

Actually, the verse 11 was confirmation for me today. Thanks for the advice and Happy Dating to you also! Or are you married? :)

Originally Posted by PrettySqueaky (Post 31308)

This is the worst pick-up line I heard of the year 2000.

I was at a club when I met this guy. Come to find out we know the same people. Get this he was my bestfriend's Line Brother. I didn't want to come out and say I'm seeing your LB on the DL(down low.) So I said we were real good friends. So his reply: "Ya know LB's share everything." I was like "Ummmmmkay I'll make sure I tell him that tonight." Thinking that comment was lewd enough. He said something alone the lines, "Well it'll be your word against mine. So you might as well let me cut. And if he already hit, like I said LB's share everything." (replace hit and cut with F!@*.)


Second story. We were at this Step Show. Before I had a baby I was like 105-110 after I had him I was like 130. I was talking to this guy and he was like blah blah...kicking a little game. So I whispered to him don't you know me...I'm blah blah friend. He said oh well he's over here. And I was like, "Hi you doing?" gave him hug and what not. And his boy was just going on and on. And I was like "you're cute and all, but you don't remember me?" He's like "nah." Now blah blah getting hot. Like I know she ain't flirting were my bruh!!! I was like "oh I'm the mother of your Godson." His response, "Oh shyt 'bout time you started eating."

Just wanted to post something kind of funny. Question have ya'll ran into any situations with LB's concerning girls? Or do you have a set rule? I mean do LB's really share everything? What do you feel about frat-hoes?

This is off-key but related. I have a child by an Alpha and I told him out of respect for him I wouldn't date another one (that's going to be hard to do. Hello, are you an Alpha? just kidding.) He doesn't really have a comment on that, but he thinks it's strange and besides he knows I'm not trying to date anyone else right now.
But it's like I know of too many Alpha hoes and I don't want to be classified as one.

(My bestfriend thinks it's b-s and I shouldn't classify people based on that. I say b-s because he's an Alpha. And he knows I adore him to death, but he's still an Alpha.)

Originally Posted by 1 BX Spring 87 (Post 1670806)

Forget the fellas, the ladies are just as bad. My ex-wife (we were college sweethearts the whole 9..I gave her the money to pledge AKA) has this line sister. Even after we were married she was still trying to throw some my way. She provide examples and "attempted" to offer samples of what she believed to be her far superior skills. I know the fellas look bad on this point and get caught more often, but the ladies do it in such a way that you feel bad if you tell. Even at 40, I still don't want it to be public knowledge of my turning down (even though I did), as she liked to call it, "the best thing since they came up with 20 pearls." NO JOKE!